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Anon·07/20/26 13:49·No.34741348

GIOYC

Get it off your chest, anon, rest a while...

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Anon·07/20/26 09:22·No.34740940

Since I have children, K'ingMS would inevitably be reprehensible, right?

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Anon·07/19/26 20:41·No.34739193

>like a girl >we go to same faculty >we hang out for like 2 weeks >all of a sudden she tells me bluntly she's been in situationship with a dude and asks me for advice because he has toxic moments but that he's irresistible and she's trying to work around it >tell her I'm not interested in being ther...

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Anon·07/20/26 12:43·No.34741225

breaking up with my girlfriend

For a while my feelings for my girlfriend of 4 years have been fading away but I'm too afraid of breaking up. She is cute, intelligent and supportive. however I cant get the idea out of my head, that there is someone else out there who I might be happier with. She brought her dog into our relationsh...

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Anon·07/20/26 02:08·No.34740129

I want to run away from society and live in a house away from everybody at least 100 meters or more space between my house and everybody else.

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Anon·07/20/26 07:17·No.34740830

Review dating app profile

Is there some site where I can pay for real women to review my Hinge profile? Like some company which has a few actually attractive women who actually react to the profile and give their honest opinions? I have no female friends or female colleagues to show my profile to for feedback and I don't wa...

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Anon·07/20/26 08:13·No.34740876

GIOYC – Get It Off Your Chest

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Anon·07/19/26 20:26·No.34739166

Let's settle this

Do looks matter as much as the Black Pill makes it out to be? Can an incel get a girl like Sydney Sweeney through being interesting and relying on personality alone?

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Anon·07/20/26 14:09·No.34741395

How to get some hidden knowledge I can beat with? In other words, how can I change my perspective?

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Anon·07/20/26 13:45·No.34741336

How to stop being an inmature ignorant?

I want to become a cultured person. I am really depressed and lack any kind of interest. What motivates me is that my partner is a very wise and interesting man. I am not at his level and he will eventually get bored of me. I don't even know where to start, how to study or which areas to study. I t...

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Anon·07/18/26 10:36·No.34735365

Anybody here use ChatGPT but the free version? How hard do they limit you? Do they limit you differently if you signup for an account?

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Anon·07/20/26 12:42·No.34741223

Waiting

>ran out of adderall >can’t get it for at least another 7 hours according to the pharmacy’s website >have my final exam in 2 days >have a ton of late assignments I have to turn in and beg to have graded >mfw I’m gonna go eat a bowl of ice cream and try to get my mind off of it. Any anime suggestions...

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Anon·07/20/26 10:07·No.34741025

I need advice, I got framed for having a knife and I dont have anyone to talk to

~17-18 year old, typical bullies targeted a couple people at school (4 people + me), school trip came, they ruined it for the people who they hate by throwing us out of the better rooms (we all payed the same price, and prior to going there, they said that they dont mind being in those rooms, as the...

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Anon·07/19/26 18:01·No.34738815

Can I turn things around or is it too late

26 years old, 0 friends, 0 romantic relationships, nothing. I feel anxious and going outside I don't feel confident and I just feel overwhelmed all the time. I am thinking that I've reached a point of no return so I should just resign myself to masturbating, then maybe accepting that I will stay lik...

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Anon·07/17/26 23:29·No.34733668

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #357

What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask q...

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Anon·07/20/26 02:06·No.34740122

My best friend is trooning out. Now what? It doesn't help that they were already a know-it-all who'd dismiss my advice often. I'm not even fully chud. I'm open minded about gender dysmorphia. I know people who have trooned out and I'm not an asshole about it. In this instance though, I don't belie...

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Anon·07/20/26 11:39·No.34741111

Is this bad enough to report? What should I do?

I saw this manchild faggot twisting this girls arm and punching the wall next to her so I started recording him. I was thinking, he's alone with this kid in a country that clearly isn't his, like what the fuck is he doing here... where is her mother? Does she know about his behavior? I don't know ...

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Anon·07/20/26 02:24·No.34740168

if friends suddenly leave r we justified to hate them

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Anon·07/19/26 03:10·No.34737705

I'm an autistic girl who doesn't know how to date

I'm a 22 years old autistic girl. I've technically had two boyfriends, but both relationships lasted about two weeks. They both left after realizing how autistic I actually am. Looking back, I also realized I was manipulated in ways that, if I described them in detail, most people would probably tel...

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Anon·07/20/26 06:50·No.34740776

Does being delusionally optimistic work?

I was in a really bad place for several months. I’d cry at night, I didn’t work out, and I masturbated a lot. And then suddenly, I just started forcing myself to be happy “just because.” I tidied up my room, started playing soccer again, began talking more with my professors at college, went out wit...

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Anon·07/19/26 08:55·No.34738189

Went to a psrty with my crush tonight. Planning to confess soon

Tonight I went out with the girl I like and a mutual friend. We grabbed some food, walked around and somehow ended up at a party. It was alright, just the usual normie stuff (drinking, dancing, smoking, etc) Fast forward to when we were leaving, some random guy approaches her and says "Hey can I ge...

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Anon·07/05/26 23:41·No.34692908

What are reasons life is worth living? What to look forward to?

For context: I'm a birthright US citizen who just graduated a really good university and am about to start a really well-paying corpo job. Yet I'm still absolutely depressed about the state of the world, and am seeing it harder and harder to continue. Here are some specific things I feel UNHAPPY ab...

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Anon·07/18/26 10:20·No.34735320

I wish my bf would do coke again, he was nicer are more patient and empathetic

Legitimately. I feel like everyone wishes their bf wouldn’t do drugs and I just wish he’d start again. He’s been clean for 3 months and he’s just more frustrated and angry. He was empathetic and patient as fuck ripping bag, now he’s got a wild temper and tons of anxiety about dumb shit he would not ...

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Anon·07/17/26 23:51·No.34733709

Am I pathetic if I've asked hundreds of girls out over many many years and have suffered through all of them rejecting me until I found one that actually said yes?

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Anon·07/20/26 13:29·No.34741299

A few of my friends seem to try pathologizing me at times when we hang out. The topic is typically related to my lack of romantic relationships. They are typically the ones starting the discussions. I personally feel generally content and don't think about it that much, I do find new people and make...

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Anon·07/20/26 12:10·No.34741178

>be friends with single mom about my age >we grow friendlier >meet her daughter one day who is pretty smart but has no guidance >start helping her daughter get her shit together >her daughter now apparently has a serious crush on me even though I just acted as a father figure for her >mother hates m...

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Anon·07/11/26 01:41·No.34710500

How fast is it over?

When it comes to sex, how fast is it over? or soon rather? I am terrified to have sex and I am a guy. I have really bad performance anxiety and I haven't even done anything. My biggest fear is ejaculating very quickly OR taking too long or even being unable. I believe I'd actually be unable to finis...

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Anon·07/18/26 15:03·No.34735913

How do you stop hating women for being a bunch soulless, vile, shallow cunts? I have missed out on all of my youth experiences because i was an average looking guy at an average height for most of the west I will never have youth love I will never experience a being a womans first time She will neve...

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Anon·07/20/26 08:09·No.34740873

Does the smooch emoji mean she's interested in me more than just a friend or what? I don't understand womanese and am starting to think I read too much out of this. Context: Friend I haven't seen since middle school messaged me on Facebook and gave her info but I was experimenting with some amino a...

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Anon·07/20/26 12:55·No.34741246

How do women see their male wageslave counterparts? Don't they see us as bitches being forced to take orders from other people? Can they be attracted to such types of men?

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Anon·07/19/26 23:51·No.34739762

My wife asked me to stop dressing our daughter as a "trad wife".

First of all, I don't dress her like some stereotype. I dress her modestly. Second, she looks beautiful in the clothes I buy for her. And third, if my wife doesn't like it, she can always get a job and buy our daughter's clothes herself. She claims to hate "trad wives," but she lives like one, I'm t...

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Anon·07/20/26 09:04·No.34740918

Help

I hope this even goes through because I think I'm banned- but I need help because I'm clearly too retarded to know what to do right now. Pretty much me and a long term partner broke up like a month ago, and me and my friend hooked up yesterday in the morning before my family got home, issue is...he ...

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Anon·07/20/26 10:44·No.34741063

im trippin big time

nagging feeling that's been bothering me for a while but I need advice for this. I'm with this relationship with a boy and he's courting me for four years but I moved out because I hate the people, place, everything in there so it became like long distance. since I moved out, the distance really af...

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Anon·07/15/26 22:28·No.34727191

Why The Fuck Am I A Retarded Slave Monkey

Every single time I full stop cease using social media that I tend to doomscroll on I feel my mental clarity, focus, immersion in tasks, and anticipation for doing things all see tangible benefits I feel better and am happier But I always find myself coming back eventually be it in a week or a month...

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Anon·07/20/26 11:37·No.34741108

Wat do

Today marks the second and consequentially third year of my academic failure although realistically my whole life can be considered a failure. Obviously the next step is to look for a job but I've no prior experience and no real interests and I'm not particularly knowledgeable about anything that wo...

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Anon·07/18/26 11:53·No.34735517

>not tall not short >lost nearly 40lbs. Lean, abs and jawline, nice hair etc >gym 5x week >asked out nearly 65 girls since 2024(don’t like apps, never much luck) >have 4 hobbies that are quite social >surgery to fix my teeth >outside almost every weekend >not ugly. Don’t like rating myself, but I’d ...

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Anon·07/19/26 19:49·No.34739064

im 24 and might inherit a farm and house soon, what do i do with it? it used to have horses, cows, chickens, etc, they grew crops in a greenhouse, huge storage barn for machines, several garages for cars, a cabin to rent out for tourists (we get a lot of tourists here in the summer) my grandparents...

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Anon·07/20/26 09:45·No.34740987

how can i date a guy like this

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Anon·07/19/26 19:27·No.34739019

How can I be happy despite being an absolute dumbass and knowing i’ll never be noteworthy or successful in the world?

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Anon·07/20/26 11:54·No.34741146

Nobody's coming to save you, big dog. Don't you get that? Your whole life has led to this point because of you. Your shitty decisions, your messed up habits, your poor choices have caused you to end up at this point. The only person, that's going to get you out of this spot is you. No more excuses....

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Anon·07/20/26 09:35·No.34740968

>dating an OF girl in current year Is there any way to navigate this without it going south? I’m 26 she’s 20

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Anon·07/18/26 08:45·No.34735087

What’s the feeling after you fuck your first trans girl like? Total regret? Satisfaction? I’ve been considering smashing a tranny, but I’m worried I’ll regret it. Also, I’m a virgin, and I’d rather my first time be with a biological woman.

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Anon·07/20/26 07:14·No.34740826

I accidentally left bittorrent running without the VPN enabled. Does anyone know if Starlink will give a shit?

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Anon·07/18/26 10:14·No.34735303

Do you need to quit all videogames to get a gf?

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Anon·07/20/26 03:19·No.34740315

At the gym I take machine next to girl Girl and I keep making eye contact once twice thrice As she leaves the area I ask her what race she is She says mixed and what she's mixed with then walks away She looks at me from afar Then again from the treadmills Are there green flags

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Anon·07/20/26 10:14·No.34741033

Quit my job today

Quit my job today, a nice well paying job in the private sector to go into a not so nicely paid cushy job in the public sector. Meaning, the job is for life but certainly less rewarding than the previous one. I have been in my trade for 23 years, exactly half of my life now, and I expect to end my ...

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Anon·07/17/26 17:36·No.34732638

How do I get people to hate me? I keep posting this chart of my favorite shows, but I'm not getting the negative attention I want.

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Anon·07/20/26 04:22·No.34740457

should i get into RCs and peptides to cope

alcohol tastes bad and i feel like shit the next day if i drink enough(''enough'' for me is not being stand up properly and maybe blacking out. i dont like being just tipsy) bc i get bad hangovers. ive thought about trying RCs a few times before but i never actually did much looking and i dont think...

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Anon·07/20/26 03:32·No.34740348

Regrettable hookup

Long story short, a couple months back I met a gay dude in a club at uni. We got along super well, really well, and that led to us making out. I know its a silly thing to worry about, but I cant stop thinking about it. We havent even really talked since then. I cant stop fucking thinking about it, ...

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Anon·07/13/26 01:56·No.34717841

I got pressured into taking the Pfizer Covid vaccine in 2021 and I want to kill myself every day because of it. Let's just say I believed I had to get it or else an important relationship would be destroyed. I'm lower than cattle. I knew it was unsafe and untested but I did it anyway. I'm gonna be d...

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Anon·07/20/26 04:22·No.34740454

How do you find below average/ugly women to hook up with? looking for 3 and 4 out of ten women. hookup sites in america. i want the easiest lowest bar to entry to fuck women in the 3-4 range.

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Anon·07/20/26 10:02·No.34741019

Why can't i just ask girls out?

The past week i was on a trip with a hobby group. There were lots of cute girls there and a lot of them are obviously into me. At any given time i would be surrounded by 2-4 girls who invited themselves to go with me wherever I'm going or who entered the conversation i was having. E.g., the second e...

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Anon·07/20/26 09:59·No.34741013

I'm so fucking angry

My life's been going downhill since the day my parents met, but that's not the point right now. I (M20) absolutely despise my stepfather, the same way he despises me. I wont go into details but I know that this fucker hates me. I've been forced to live with him since I was six. All my family member...

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Anon·07/20/26 00:48·No.34739900

is there an actual good point at engaging with this site whatsoever?

>embed is it true?

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Anon·07/19/26 22:53·No.34739584

How do I cope with my life

>wake up at 2am >go to gym or run if it’s closed >drive an hour to work >get yelled at by a foreman for 8 hours >drive an hour back >fill out ten applications for a higher end career actually related to my degree and interest. >eat >wonder if I’ll ever start writing chapter 3 of that book I started....

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Anon·07/20/26 01:29·No.34740018

Desespero

Me siento humante HORRIBLE, por alguna razón no puedo parar de decir mentiras en todo sentido hacia casi la personas cercanas e que me criaron , tuve vida relativamente bella, no me falto nada pero por algún razón me gustaría saber PORQUE tengo la manía de mentir en todo, será porque onions mala per...

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Anon·07/20/26 05:03·No.34740539

I’m 23 years old and have been unemployed my whole life. My only source of income has been helping out now and then in my father’s business, in exchange for a meager, negotiable wage. This has had a constant impact on my self-respect, since I am neither working nor studying at university, as I had e...

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Anon·07/20/26 05:42·No.34740609

Fucked my life and got a rando pregnant

I cheated on my fiance with this bipolar girl I met her online and she was using be to get over her ex I didn't give a shit cause I am engaged but was having relationship issues (she cheated but we decided to work things out) I want to end things with this girl since I'm about to get married but I f...

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Anon·07/20/26 04:16·No.34740441

hand stuff

Last few days my right thumb has been shaky when I use a mouse for too long or use a controller and my right hand hurts occasionally when I do so too. I was using a homemade handbrace out of some fabric that I wrapped up and it seemed to help but after a few days the problem is still there. Is this ...

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Anon·07/19/26 21:33·No.34739366

>The stripper doesnt actually like/love you, she just wants your money >Know this as a universal truth >go to the strip club for the first time >get a private lap dance from a hot stripper thats simultaneously talking about anime, D&D, and other nerd shit. Fuck dude, convince me not to go back and ...

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Anon·07/20/26 09:16·No.34740935

Is my being impatient about not having yet moved on preventing me from moving on in the first place?

It'll be nearly two weeks since I've chosen to stop regularly stalking the socials of this girl who rejected me and those of her GF, because I know that whatever I could find on them would only make me feel terrible in the end. It'll also be nearly four years since the day she rejected me. I thought...

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Anon·07/20/26 03:39·No.34740362

finally taking self improvement seriously

>39 >NEET for basically entire life >no high school or college education >dropped out of school in 8th grade >never worked >have left house maybe 5 times in past 15 years >0 social skills >morbidly obese >never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s >5'2 >...

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Anon·07/19/26 19:51·No.34739068

How to Restructure Life, Willing to Dive Into School

After graduating in 2022, I fell out of curiosity and reading. Wasted years of my life working for a garbage Fintech start-up that went bankrupt and had no real resume experience because no one wants to hire someone who worked for a meme company. I have the CFA which is about the only useful thing g...

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Anon·07/14/26 16:30·No.34723188

ADHD and your experience with it. i got diagnosed with adhd. i have suspected it for years and now that i got the diagnosis, it feels kinda weird, a bit like i am an imposter. on the other hand, i am also glad that my suspicions have been proven correct, i just dont trust it entirely somehow. how ...

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Anon·07/18/26 05:58·No.34734691

This AA shit is just making me even more depressed hearing how fucked up everyone is. Just a few meetings in and I just want to drink more. What good is it just sitting in a room talking with a bunch of losers? Is there another option?

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Anon·07/18/26 02:23·No.34734141

I've started messaging fat girls on dating sites I'm a 37 year old virgin, I'm so sick of this. The thing I've noticed is that...the big girls... Not covered in tattoos Love Jesus (Our lord and savior) Don't have an ugly piece of fucking scrap metal in their nose is being with a big girl worth no...

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Anon·07/17/26 17:19·No.34732601

How do you socialize with people? The only times I've made friends or talked to people was because of proximity, like school, work, or parties I've been invited to due to my connections I've made in the former two, but now that I've been living by myself, all of that has disappeared completely. No m...

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Anon·07/18/26 14:42·No.34735866

Friend's dating life dominates every conversation

I have a friend I've known for years and he's probably the person I keep in touch with the most. Lately I've realized that like 90% of the time he messages me, it's about either a current relationship or one of his exes. It really hit me today. At 11 AM he sent me "funny screenshots" of old convers...

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Anon·07/20/26 01:38·No.34740043

How do I find an irl friend who will only be friends with me?

All I want in life is a high-functioning autistic boy who is completely unable to leave me. How and where can I find a pet clingy, friendless, high-IQ, autistic, NEET boy who will only be friends with me and not be friends with other people?

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Anon·07/20/26 04:57·No.34740528

sadness after hangouts

I have a friend group I play games with every week and every single time without fail I feel like I total annoying loser and I get super depressed after everyone leaves for the night. I've had this feeling for years and I cant shake it. I know my friends enjoy my company for the most part, I was alw...

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Anon·07/20/26 02:58·No.34740261

Why do males say "You seemed like you needed someone to talk to" and then complain about women seeking attention? You literally hit me up because you knew I wanted to talk to someone who's nice to me >>34709551 [/adv/thread/34707738#p34709551] I didn't feel empty, he made me happy. You're male so yo...

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Anon·07/19/26 18:17·No.34738846

I just took 20mg of oxycodone

What am I in for? Am I going to die?

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Anon·07/18/26 18:10·No.34736411

I get sexually turned on by other peoples noise. I've read that it is "Misophonia". I think that fits well so I'm asking for advice to treat or get rid of this condition. It's affecting me everyday with me being functional. The only time I feel good is at night when everythings quiet. If I get rid o...

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Anon·07/20/26 03:05·No.34740277

Where to make friends in a new town? Preferably as quickly as possible.

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Anon·07/19/26 05:22·No.34737978

Dakimakura Advice

Good evening/morning (or afternoon or whatever) /adv/, I have issues with my sleeping position and my doctor suggested me to get a body pillow. Being the otaku that I am, I thought that getting a custom printed anime pattern would be good, but my skin is sensitive to artificial stuff. What materia...

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Anon·07/20/26 02:19·No.34740160

How to stay up for the next 9 hours? I am just past my bed time rn, what do?. Pic unrelated

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Anon·07/20/26 02:58·No.34740256

how to remove boredom everything sucks

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Anon·07/19/26 14:38·No.34738461

I'm a mess in a handful of ways and need some help. It's definitely not the worst and somethings could honestly be fixed just by giving it time, but I keep spiraling about stuff >I have an ex that's dating my sister and he's visiting the family soon, but I still feel backstabbed about it months late...

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Anon·07/18/26 19:32·No.34736640

What should be my priorities and immediate goals in my position as a 25 year old

>25 halfway to 26 >Still live with my parents >Younger brother is heavily autistic to the point where he likely be dependent on them so they are comfortable with me living with them >Been fully enrolled in community and uni since fall of 2019 up until last december. Only had to pay for 1 semester th...

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Anon·07/19/26 08:57·No.34738191

Heels fetish

I’m a married woman and my husband has a specific thing: he struggles to perform well during sex unless I’m wearing high heels. It can be at home or even when we go out. I don’t mind it at all — I actually enjoy wearing heels and sometimes put them on around the house, even while cooking or doing no...

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Anon·07/15/26 05:44·No.34725190

Guys with big dicks, do you actually manage to put your entire thing inside the vagina? Because I bottomed out two girls with my 5 incher. LARPers need to to reply

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Anon·07/17/26 18:30·No.34732752

How do I lie on my CV convincingly? Also, would sending a bullshit CV to a big company that already rejected a previous application get flagged?

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Anon·07/20/26 01:13·No.34739968

Ask me anything about women. I'll lead the way.

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Anon·07/19/26 22:14·No.34739474

Settling for a wife

How to cope?

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Anon·07/19/26 18:06·No.34738823

My Son is going to Prison and we don't know how to Cope

We have one son and we never thought of him as a criminal, he went to a good school, got a good degree, always followed the rules. He ended up working for a financial firm on Wallstreet. He was earning good money after a few years. Turned out the firm was a Boiler Room. The employees were calling u...

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Anon·07/19/26 08:58·No.34738194

How do I stop hating all old people?

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Anon·07/18/26 12:10·No.34735567

> 22F, BF 22M. Together 5 years, met at 16 in HS anime club. > College seniors, living together 1 semester. Both massive weebs. > Have crippling anxiety because I fear he's completely discontent with me. Discussions end in arguments, don't want to pressure him. > Thought I understood what guys liked...

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Anon·07/19/26 19:13·No.34738976

exhausted from a person

I am mentally exhausted from my female friend, how do I get rid of her considering we share university. She's a narc bpd that just exhausts me immensely.

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Anon·07/19/26 11:15·No.34738297

Is there any point to that "digital detox" stuff and if so is it something you can do in your own space without needing to go somewhere for days to cut yourself off?

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Anon·07/14/26 23:00·No.34724230

I'm obsessed with Miquella

For like the past week I've been thinking about him constantly. He's so beautiful and his story is so sad. I hate that you have to kill him in the game, I wish there was a way to save him. What's wrong with me? He's not even a real person, I feel like I'm Chris Chan maxxing. How do I fix this?

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Anon·07/20/26 00:56·No.34739923

The great majority of people spend their whole lives making excuses rather than making progress. The habit of making excuses is fatal to your success. So, the question you have to ask yourself is: What excuses do you use not to move ahead? What is it that you think of? What is the excuse that looms ...

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Anon·07/20/26 00:04·No.34739790

i cant get a job

Im a mentally disabled girl who can't get a job but also bored enough and wants the money, i don't want to do only fans but i can't also work like others do. what even are my options?

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Anon·07/20/26 00:07·No.34739801

How did you come to terms with the fact that you had to take a pill every day for the rest of your life?

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Anon·07/18/26 00:45·No.34733859

How do I cure my phone addiction? I do such meaningless doomscroll bullshit on my phone. It's gotten so much worse since 2020 but I have pretty much no social interaction since I live in a shitty area and most of my socialization is through text groups. There must be an easier way right?

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Anon·07/19/26 22:37·No.34739540

what do you do when nothing excites you anymore? even accomplishing my goals doesn't give me excitement. the things I used to do no longer bring me much joy.

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Anon·07/19/26 20:02·No.34739105

How am I supposed to go on when my brother has schizophrenia?

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 16:31·No.34736167

Is there a way to make your dick bigger?

Maybe working out all the muscles around your hips and doing tons of cardio will make it bigger? Any specific gym routine for increasing size? Seeing how girls lust over hung guys makes me genuinely want to kill myself. Like mine is only 5 inches in length and also really thin. My biggest nightmare...

/adv/

Anon·07/20/26 00:05·No.34739794

I have zero self-esteem and anytime anyone shows the faintest interest in me as a person it makes me incredibly ashamed, and I'll often cry afterwards because of how bad I feel. Can someone explain this?

/adv/

Anon·07/16/26 02:57·No.34727992

Magic Mushroom Advice

I'm going to be trying shrooms for the first time. There are lots of sources online that give dosage charts and give importance to having a good environment and the like, but I feel they're incomplete because it's not easy to predict what the experience is going to contain. There's also suggestions...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 23:20·No.34739659

How to cure brainrot and chud anxiety?

I've succumbed to the internet. It made me go through an incel phase (where I gave up trying and slept all day because "it's over") to black pill anxiety (thinking my looks are fundamentally flawed while everyone says I look like a 5) as well as anxiety over crimes since my social media feed is full...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 22:57·No.34739594

Back to be a teenage again but time keeps moving forward

>be me >live in a different city from where I grew up >finally felt like a functional adult: decent job, dating, my own place, etc. >felt like I had life figured out and everything was going well >lost my job due to layoffs >at first, I didn't think much of it and kept looking for a new job >after m...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 22:12·No.34739463

Stressed and Angry After Recovering From Depression

I recently managed to have a major bit of improvement in terms of depression after I switched off of my asthma medication (I had been taking it since childhood, and it is now believed to be connected to severe depression). My depression is in the best state is has been in at least six years. Howeve...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 21:18·No.34739303

Texted something racist to my cousin

Was texting back and forth with my male cousin (we are both white and we both live in America). I texted him something along the lines of “we should go for a night out in (black neighborhood in our town). They would rename 123 street afterwards.” Obviously, this was meant as a joke. Also, I’m not r...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 18:19·No.34738853

I've somehow reverted to incel status over the last few years

To summarize I've hooked up with a few girls but the girl I lost my viriginity to (at 21) was the longest "relationship" I had, around 2 months, which really was just us smoking weed and fucking like twice a week. Now I'm 31; I think the last time I got laid was like 4 or 5 years ago, and everyone i...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 20:47·No.34739206

How do I start living life?

I know this might sound like a strange question, but hear me out. For my entire life I've always been kind of a loner, I moved to a new school in high school, and just never really made friends the entire time I was there. When I went off to college, I made a few friends right at the end, but I have...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 15:19·No.34735954

my crush is gone

from my job, my country, and my life (no, i didn't murder her) how do i make sure i don't fall for another woman ever again?

/adv/

Anon·07/16/26 22:40·No.34730470

how do i make someone stop ghosting me for hours during arguments. my , i assume now ex, boyfriend wont talk to me. he keeps leaving me mid conversation and goes on with his life while i panic. ive told him this hurts me but he calls it getting space. i tried to confront him about his behaviour late...

/adv/

Anon·07/16/26 21:23·No.34730228

Am I a bad person if I still find 18-20 year olds attractive even though I'm 30?

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 17:26·No.34738757

/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

>>34735297 [/adv/thread/34735297#p34735297]

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Anon·07/19/26 20:13·No.34739135

The guy I'm seeing wants to experiment with being a top instead of a bottom. Problem is I have a small hemorrhoid and he has a big dick. Any tips for naturally getting rid of hemorrhoids/preparing to take BBC in the ass?

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 05:24·No.34734573

Why do people get into drugs? Are they really worth the hype?

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 16:01·No.34738588

How difficult is to prove childhood psychological abuse in court without witnesses but with a lot of stories and with a lot of medical reports of depression going back a decade? I also have some texts and letters, but only the small minority of them are relevant Is it even worth it to report? Is the...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 11:58·No.34735534

what's a dumbbell exercise that works only your upper chest?

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 15:28·No.34738513

Blowjob

I was visiting my cousin for the weekend and was hanging out with him and his friends at a party last night. We were playing a game of Fishbowl: https://fishbowl-game.com. This website kinda explains how the game works. Anyways, it got to my turn and the card said “blowjob”. I told everyone I wasn’t...

/adv/

Anon·07/17/26 09:38·No.34731750

How can I make myself like working out?

I absolutely hate any kind of exercise or a work out. I have had some health problems including weight issues and everyone tells me to start exercising. I have tried to do it several times in my life but I always give up after a few months. I hate it with my whole soul, it makes my body exhausted, I...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 16:32·No.34738655

Sister in psychosis, how to get her out of it by any means necessary

I have a sister who’s been in over a year long psychosis. She moved away from home 6-7 months ago to a different state. She’s able to present fully normal and most people think “she’s just really religious now” Pretty sure it came from her abuse of drugs (addy, antidepressants,ecstasy) But have an...

/adv/

Anon·07/14/26 21:13·No.34723925

>My best friend has liked the same girl for years but never asked her out. She started flirting with me instead, so I hooked up with her. He's acting like I betrayed him, but I don't think people can "claim" someone they never dated. Am I actually in the wrong?

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 10:34·No.34735357

What does it mean when a dove shits on you?

I have OCD and I bought a book some time ago but I saw some imperfections in the cover, and me being a maniac I bought another one and this time the cover looked perfect On my way back a dove shat on me and a little bit of poop hit the cover of the book, nothing major but it made me think What doe...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 17:29·No.34736278

>have no hobbies >have no friends >cant get a job despite having a law degree from a really good university >too depressed to find anything interesting anymore >too anxious to leave the house most days >feel tired and lethargic all the time its over for me, isn't it? ive been spiralling more and mo...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 07:25·No.34734932

Whevever I get to this message on youtube, there is no button to let me click through. Where is the box that says click okay or I understand, Already have an age-verified google account I'm using and disabled adblock. On Chromebook and that's my only computer.

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 19:18·No.34736580

How Do I Make Myself Want To Do Something

Self explanatory, I do not understand how to make doings things seem desirable or attractive. I never want to do things that I know I enjoy, actively view them as bad, and end up doing nothing or doomscrolling and jerking off for 16 hours a day every single weekend as a result I know it's as simple ...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 17:40·No.34736310

If hobbies are the best way to meet girls

then why haven't I met any girls in the past 3 months I have been going bouldering at a climbing gym despite there always being girls around?

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 17:25·No.34738752

Male Paralegal - Next 5 Years

Hi guys. I’m a 36 year old male paralegal. I’m tall and good looking and don’t fit the demographic. After college I got into law school but couldn’t go because I’ve had a long history of personal and psychological problems and spent years drinking it all away while working at law firms. I feel that ...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 16:46·No.34738688

I dont get it. How are you supposed to relate to women? I didn't get to start fucking as a teenager. I didn't get treated special for having a vagina. Sexual relationships have not been a dime a dozen for me. What is there to relate to?

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 16:35·No.34738662

Dealing with Step-Dad

My stepfather helped me a lot in life but I don't love him. He is mean and overly old-fashioned. All my nieces and nephews hate him, my sisters just use him. I tried to tell him about a physical issue I have that's making it hard for me to breathe and making me miserable and he thinks I'm lying desp...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 11:54·No.34735520

5.25 inch girth. Is that a lot? That's the girth of my penis. I just made a 5.25 inch circle out of a tape measure and tried to fit it in my mouth and I couldn't fucking do it, I was practically breaking my jaw This is what women feel when they give blowjobs? What the fuck?

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 09:31·No.34738223

>went to school >no girls ever attracted to me >made fun of by women as a loser beta >went to university >no girls ever attracted to me >girls didn't acknowledge my existence >got part time jobs in summers >no girls ever attracted to me >got a full time job >no women ever attracted to me >moved to a...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 09:15·No.34738211

someone called me ugly and i said i know. they replied with “Then why do you act like you’re not? You’re hella bold to keep posting yourself as your pfp”. do u think ugly people can’t have themselves set as their pfp? should i remove it

/adv/

Anon·07/17/26 12:33·No.34731986

I reveal in chaos and I realized it's been missing in my life for several years.

I'm depressed without it. I need it but I'm not in high school anymore where I could just fuck with the bad kids and get away with it. I didn't have any chaos for like 5 years and now it's back and I need more. Like Saul Goodman. Does anyone else feel like this?

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 19:32·No.34736638

I need to die

I want so badly to die. I tried so many times and nothing after the first attempt, not a single day, has been worth it. Theres nothing good left in my life or in me. I just want to die. Please, someone, anyone, just tell me what I need to do. Im begging and I just want an out or a purpose please

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 22:42·No.34737213

I feel like I’m starting to develop a habit of sending girls money in exchange for nudes

It isn’t that bad yet. It only started this year because I have a job now, and so far I’ve done this with only three women. I hate it because it makes me wonder why I’m paying for nudes when I can jerk off to other women for free. I feel guilty because it feels like I’m making a fool of myself, as i...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 13:07·No.34738381

Should I kill myself

>be me >25 >gay >failed out of engineering school >broke and have nothing >restarting another career means ill still be broke till im 30

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 14:11·No.34738424

>date gf for a year >she puts in minimal effort most of the time but I chalk it up to stress >her responses were abysmal this week >say fuck it and stop texting >no word from her in 4 days So does this need an official breakup or can I just start dating now?

/adv/

Anon·07/17/26 18:41·No.34732781

Retarded college question

Doing two years at a community college before transferring to a uni because I'm broke. I finished my first year for CS and had mostly A's, but my CS courses were such shit and I don't know if I care about it anymore. (No joke, we did scratch for our entire first term. We did C++ after and didn't do ...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 05:19·No.34737971

Whats the best strategy for building a community?

I have two goals: >to have a group of friends I come home to after work where I just share a voice call with people while playing video games or other activities >to have people i can hangout with on weekends exploring my city I have friends but they all live in different countries. I want friends i...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 00:48·No.34737502

18F way too dependant on weed. need help to fix my life

Im an 18 year old girl in my last year of high school and despite having the most important tests of my entire schooling career coming up I can’t study for them at all cause I have a crippling marijuana dependency. Im not from the US so no I haven’t graduated yet, I finish school later this year. I ...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 13:14·No.34738388

Feeling awful

I dont really understand why i feel this way because i'pve lived a good life, a bit of trauma here and there, but not too bad to scar me forever. I have a partner, friends, good family, but still i kind of wanna end it all. Im still young tho. I have already relapsed horribly. I dont wanna worry any...

/adv/

Anon·07/15/26 17:53·No.34726257

How do I cope with the fact that my girlfriend's ex was a bodybuilder whose biceps are bigger than my thighs? I sometimes get intrusive thoughts of him proneboning the fuck out of her making her squirt like crazy. Not only his big body, but also his stamina, he must've been able to drill her for hou...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 16:52·No.34736164

I've been getting messy shits for awhile now, the internet says I need more fibre but I attribute it to my two cups of coffee a day, the problem is I don't want to give up my two cups but I also don't want to be left with a disgusting feeling/endless wiping after using the loo

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 02:36·No.34734181

>be me >24, semi-functional third-worlder >fatso, depressed >get really sad this year >start writing things down to clear my head >start getting psychology appointments >one of the tasks is to write down my "biography" with several questions >great.gif >start writing the answers down in my journal >...

/adv/

Anon·07/15/26 07:26·No.34725344

How can I stop feeling nervous around big tiddy girls?

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Anon·07/15/26 22:52·No.34727262

How to connect with my sister during sex?

My sister and I have been together for many years. We were each other's firsts, and we've never been with anyone else. I'm now 34 and she's 36. It took me quite a while to realize that our sex life isn't "normal" in the sense that she's completely passive and doesn't look at me during sex. She's NOT...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 23:43·No.34737354

I won my NEETbux court case and got $90K of back pay deposited into my bank account. I now get 1700 per month, no taxes. What should I do with my money? Someone told me I should movie to flyover country like Ohio and buy a fourplex with an FHA mortgage, so I can live in one unit and collect rent fr...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 04:29·No.34737894

Lip filler

My girlfriend got lip filler and she looks nothing like herself now. She'd always been about changing her style, her hair, aesthetic. That's fine, that's just dress up. This body mod shit just freaks me out. It's objectively subtle lip filler, they're just a bit fuller now, but I'm not recognizing ...

/adv/

Anon·07/19/26 08:50·No.34738184

I'm 22 and feel old as fuck

>on 5th year of college >most peers are 20 or younger so there's a huge disconnect >never been in a relationship >no friends How do I fix this in my last year of uni?

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 19:13·No.34736557

My gf says sex with me is "cringe" but she still loves me and once a month is enough. Wtf do you even do in this situation?

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 20:36·No.34736846

Is she legit?

So I went to a subreddit where people look for others to chat with (laugh at it all you want but I'm tired of the fags from /soc/ so I wanted to try something else), sorted by new and the newest post was by some girl who said she's looking for someone to be "obsessed with". It was pretty lengthy but...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 22:28·No.34737180

How do I get my father to stop asking me when I will be getting a girlfriend?

>28 year old virgin >on social welfare getting 254 euro per week >was doing college courses up until 26 >when i turned 25, my parents started nagging me to get a girlfriend >finished courses >mother recommended me to sign up to go on housing list and get a job >I said okay and started sending job ap...

/adv/

Anon·07/18/26 22:06·No.34737120

A few weeks ago I got a text message from some random number, a person that I didn't know, who knew my name and mentioned it in the message. They asked if I remember them. About a week or so later, I got a call from a sandwich shop asking if I was going to pick up an order that I didn't make. Anothe...