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Anon·01/29/26 04:16·No.34207751

My crush rejected me. It's over. I'm 22 and still single.

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Anon·01/28/26 10:14·No.34205289

How does one find motivation/ambition in my situation

>20 >just quit my 2nd ever job because I was on the verge of being fired >every job I go it appears that people plot on me and make up lies about me to get me fired >nobody is hiring, jobs pay like shit and the economy is bullshit >only 17k in my savings from working shitty warehouse jobs for the pa...

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Anon·01/29/26 00:56·No.34206865

How do I convince myself that there’s a point to life?

I don’t see a point in doing anything anymore. In my career > I used to get up early for my job and looked forward to working, but after some drama and wages being cut, me and my friends all quit in protest. >Then I found out my supervisors were faking being nice, so my whole reason for working hard...

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Anon·01/29/26 04:53·No.34207896

Hot girl ugly guy pairings

>don’t give the ugly guy a chance >medium ugly bf What’s up with this trend of women gloating about how gracious they are to date ugly guys? Why are they dating guys they think are ugly or beneath them? It’s such an odd trend. A lot of it is cope after break ups but man, imagine being in love with s...

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Anon·01/29/26 05:44·No.34208072

How hard is it for a white person to land a job

I've been hunting for months. Is dei a problem? How do I get around dei if it is? How the fuck am I supposed to get a job in general?

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Anon·01/28/26 19:26·No.34206034

25F, friend 25F got her heart broken and rebounded on this chubby awkward guy He's 5'9 26, mediocre job (accountant but not like rich accountant) smells of virgin, know from mutual friend has never had luck with women. At first I thought, okay its not hurting anyone, let her get some ego boost and ...

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Anon·01/28/26 14:26·No.34205691

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #336

>What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask ...

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Anon·01/29/26 00:23·No.34206768

>be me starting new job >meet new coworker >hit it off and get 2 of her ig accounts following me and me following back >next day she removed my follow off of one of her accounts >just says she doesn't know me well enough and then sends me a burst of texts and then just shuts down the convo WTF

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Anon·01/29/26 01:42·No.34207035

Help me think straight. I've been in depression for 3 years straight. The choices I made during those years went nowhere. I burnt out all my tires now I don't see any way things get better in any way. >Childhood up to young adulthood: Parents control my life because they're emotionally dependent, ...

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Anon·01/28/26 02:00·No.34204203

how do I keep hope when it looks like the world is going to shit?

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Anon·01/28/26 18:32·No.34205961

Doing porn?

>45hrs a week working 2 jobs >+art commissions in my free time >want to spend more time on my art but can't afford to drop any shifts It's frustrating. I was complaining about this to my ex and she just said it's an issue because I lack initiative... She's also an artist, but makes most her money d...

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Anon·01/28/26 19:30·No.34206041

Any tips for getting girls 18-25 years old when you are in your mid 30s and under 6 feet tall? No prostitution

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Anon·01/29/26 04:53·No.34207898

How can I cope with being undersirable?

I went to the supermarket today and I saw a girl with boobs like picrel and a wave of depression hit me. I will never be with a woman like this and I can't cope How can I live knowing I will never be happy?

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Anon·01/29/26 02:53·No.34207324

>going back to college at 25 How do I maximize my chances of meeting women? First time around I was a loser shut-in who spent the whole year rotting in my dorm, didn't make friends or socialize other than my roommates. In the time since I've improved my looks and hygiene, gotten a job and a car, and...

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Anon·01/27/26 23:23·No.34203772

Used to have a massive crush on this girl. She rejected me and then started making fun of me. Now I wanna kill her. What to do? If I need to state the obvious I don't mean actually murder her just that she's been pissing me off beyond belief. So I'm in college and I'm a part of this friend group. ...

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Anon·01/28/26 16:55·No.34205866

advice or chat available

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Anon·01/25/26 13:54·No.34195185

Okay, so I know 18 year olds are definitely not women. But like, at what point do you start calling them women? At 21? 25?

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Anon·01/29/26 04:29·No.34207806

need advice

>schizoprenic mother >i send her $3000 a month to keep her alive >she wants to move in with me >will save me a but ton of money >but i dont want to live with her what do her schizoprenia is BAD BAD. like lashing out in public, thinks people are breaking into her residence, people tracking her, neig...

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Anon·01/29/26 03:51·No.34207639

Dogs vs cats

Are women who like dogs a red flag? My theory is that it takes more testosterone and leadership to run a "pack" and be an alpha. Hence, women that have dogs will also bust your balls. On the other hand, cats boss women around and they love it. They even bite them and women think it's normal. Clea...

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Anon·01/28/26 04:22·No.34204553

What do I do when I find out that the person that cared about me actually doesn't care about me at all and was only pretending to care?

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Anon·01/29/26 02:27·No.34207204

Should I sell all my VOO (I have 2100 dollars worth) and use the money to buy one more sleeve of silver? I’m at 9 now (and 5 ounces of gold) and I just want one more sleeve. Then I can just put money back into VOO (that’s how it’s going down in my head)

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Anon·01/29/26 03:03·No.34207371

Question for the serial fornicators: What % of people that you sleep with would you say you're actually attracted to? I've had people be surprised that my body count isn't higher, but I really don't find most girls that attractive. The only people I wasn't that attracted to when I slept with them wa...

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Anon·01/29/26 04:03·No.34207696

Hardstuck on Silver II

I'm in the army reserves and I'm hardstuck as a corporal. How do I get promoted to a sergeant when refresher exercises only happen once every few years? I didn't make the cut during conscription.

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Anon·01/29/26 00:34·No.34206808

I am unable to find joy in anything I studied hard and changed my jobs recently thinking that was the main issue. But that didnt work out either. It is not because of lack of romance either since I will just make the poor girl miserable like myself I am unable to find joy in doing little things li...

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Anon·01/26/26 21:11·No.34200206

I'm not racist but I'm a race realist. I've never had a girlfriend and I haven't been laid in probably 7 years. There is this cute black girl at work and it couldn't be more obvious that she really likes me. Always tries coming near me to talk, touching me, and smiling like a schoolgirl but I stay d...

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Anon·01/29/26 03:20·No.34207460

Babies make me rly happy so I like making faces at them and smiling at them to make them laugh. But I'm wondering if I look like a creep doing that to random kids considering im a shlubby incel dude. My mom can get away with doing all that and more but that's because she's a mother

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Anon·01/27/26 03:20·No.34201355

When you're in a depressive episode and it hits the peak what do you do There must be some fast strategies to lessen the pain

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Anon·01/29/26 00:59·No.34206878

>get asked to thurghouly clean the basement by my family once >practically shut down and stay in my bedroom all day why am i so fucking pathetic and lazy holy shit i feel lucky that i even have a job despite them giving me only 1-2 shifts a week how does one "gain discipline"?

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Anon·01/28/26 22:01·No.34206332

Diagnosed with autism, what happens now?

31 Male in Arizona, diagnosed from a neuropsychiatrist, I got a full report and everything as proof. How can I take advantage of this? Is it even worth it to try and get government benefits or go full NEET for a while? How the hell does disability work? I'm an average looking normal white guy, not f...

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Anon·01/29/26 00:16·No.34206750

Where can I find NEET partners?

Born into extreme poverty out in the middle of an isolated town in the rural south, and am autistic. Spent pretty much my entire life as a shut-in having basically had no life outside of my house at 27 years old. And because of where I live there's nothing out there anyways. OBVIOUSLY this is not c...

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Anon·01/28/26 08:09·No.34205085

What is something women do that is comparable to a man that watches porn?

Is there anything women do that can make them feel the way most of us do about porn? Something that makes them hurt, jealous, grossed out, etc. But is it so normalized that they can’t ask us to stop? I’ve been in a relationship for about 6 months now and my boyfriend was showing me something on his...

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Anon·01/28/26 04:00·No.34204509

>try to search for escort services >99% are scams >phone numbers are often outside the united states >craigslist and backpage are dead >us government are being fags about consenting adults Why is this so hard? Does anyone know if there are any places to hire an escort that isnt an obvious scam? I ...

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Anon·01/29/26 03:09·No.34207396

What is the right path?

Ya know, I've been trying nofap + noporn on and off the last few years. I can see the point in doing it if you already have access to sex with women, but I don't really see the point in doing it if you don't have access to women. As an incel that's more indifferent to women than hateful, it kind of ...

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Anon·01/29/26 01:25·No.34206982

Where does one go to make online friends?

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Anon·01/28/26 23:35·No.34206588

I want to go back to college so badly after a year of NEETing around but I have no idea what to study. Any suggestions? >t. formerly secondary ed major, got overstressed and practically flunked myself out after realizing how much i hated teaching

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Anon·01/29/26 01:59·No.34207095

>> Be me; be a retard from a developing country. >> Be a teen, get leather crafting business going, start making money. >> Mother starts drinking and gambling >> Invest in crypto >> Mother fucks up and gets arrested. >> Bail her. >> Loses her job due to the arrest, doesnt tell us, goes into debt to ...

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Anon·01/29/26 02:58·No.34207346

Imagine you are somebody who has the optionally to do just about anything with their life. Obviously I need to figure out how to get some sort of income going. But I have a massive amount of cash and free plane tickets to basically anywhere in the world. I can get a job, travel, start some creative ...

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Anon·01/29/26 02:05·No.34207120

I have a severe fap/porn addiction that has only gotten worse over time. It has gotten to the point where I can't go without getting off for more than two hours before feeling anxious, dizzy and sometimes nauseous. It's not pleasure, it's a bodily need, a chore that I get over with by watching porn ...

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Anon·01/28/26 03:47·No.34204477

How do i cope with everyone being horrible? I just want to be a wholesome guy with a wholesome crowd like you might've had in the old sitcoms. The book how to make friends and influence people and similar advice assumes that the world is based on everyone having a common need of wanting to get along...

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Anon·01/29/26 02:13·No.34207155

>be me >start dating a girl way too out of your league at 17 years old >finish high school and stay with her for more two years >everything seems fine, you see each other on weekends and text each other every day >your girl who wasnt a 4chan whore or bpdemon committed suicide >didnt leave any letter...

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Anon·01/29/26 02:43·No.34207277

> Be me > Have two female friends I haven’t caught up with in a while > Make a group chat to plan to hang out > One of them messages me saying they’re no longer on speaking terms > They were best friends a month ago > Why are (some) women like this? I don’t think it was even over a guy or anything

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Anon·01/27/26 08:28·No.34202018

How come I see all these stories of guys killing their kids and beating up their gf? How are they able to get to that point with women while I can't get a second date? What are they doing right that I'm not?

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Anon·01/25/26 08:02·No.34194722

Where in America should I move to if I want to be as safe as possible from crime and potential civil conflict in my country? Obviously away from cities but I don't want to live in a deep red area filled with militias either.

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Anon·01/29/26 01:49·No.34207061

If God gave you advice and said

The topic is about the human condition and the only words I get are “they are just people” what does that mean? I feel like no matter what I do I just can’t accept some people because reasons you and I know very well. It’s frustrating because it’s not that I don’t trust my maker but it’s the naivety...

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Anon·01/29/26 02:05·No.34207117

How do I satisfy loneliness and need for attention if I unhealthily obsess over everyone I've been "best friends" with, can't keep casual friendships, and hate social media?

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Anon·01/28/26 00:53·No.34204042

Time to move on?

>35 >NEET for basically entire life >no high school or college education >dropped out of school in 9th grade >never worked >have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years >0 social skills >obese >never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s >ginger >never h...

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Anon·01/28/26 07:19·No.34204978

Is bartending a good career choice?

Title. I’ve been working a server for a few years and I’m thinking of looking into becoming a bartender. I was originally in school for EMT/fire fighting but I realized I’m too stupid and too much of a pussy to pass the NREMT (government issued EMT final exam) so I’m looking into other career paths....

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Anon·01/28/26 20:37·No.34206180

How to heal from my chronic anxiety and PTSD?

I have a lot of anxiety because I pretty much lived on edge as a kid and as a teenager. Regardless of how peaceful my current enviorment is I feel really anxious as if I were expecting something to go wrong. I also don't want to let my guard down just in case. It's affecting my health, I'm losing my...

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Anon·01/25/26 22:06·No.34196688

GIOYC – Get It Off Your Chest

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Anon·01/29/26 00:39·No.34206825

Losing hair fast. Finasteride isn't working.

Guess I am in the small percentile for who this shit doesn't work. Ok bald anons. Lay it on me. What's it like to be frickin' bald.

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Anon·01/28/26 23:45·No.34206631

/atoga/-Ask The Opposite Gender Anything thread

Previous: >>34203868 [/adv/thread/34203868#p34203868]

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Anon·01/29/26 01:49·No.34207059

I was talking to this guy online and we met irl, we were both underage at the time so I had to keep it from my parents. They were onto me and they checked my phone so I removed him as a friend so he would show up in my DMs I fucked up because I basically ghosted him and it’s been over a year Obviou...

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Anon·01/26/26 02:58·No.34197709

Death sentence

Last interaction I had with my ex. I literally can’t live without her. How do I fix this? Being without her isn’t an option.

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Anon·01/28/26 08:44·No.34205161

Did I do all I could?

Should I reach out to a woman who I was good friends with for years but secretely had a crush on? I realised early on that even though we got on like a house on fire she would never be interested in me romantically. So i kept quiet and stayed friends with her for maybe 6 years? I met her family and ...

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Anon·01/28/26 23:32·No.34206580

How do I learn self control so that I can stop being so unhealthy? I have no problem with not eating for hours after waking up and during the day. But starting around late afternoon I just stuff my face constantly. It's night and I can't just relax while watching anime. Instead I eat chocolate, chip...

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Anon·01/29/26 01:23·No.34206973

so /adv/ is basically blue /r9k/, from 15 years ago, without the porn?

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Anon·01/29/26 00:37·No.34206820

broke up with my gf and i'm worried she turned into a whore

we're both 25, we broke up over some stupid argument, her friends are all medicated BPD whores and told her she should dump me so she did, i can't stop thinking about what she's doing, stalking her social media, looking at her follower and following count go up, probably ALL dudes she wants to fuck ...

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Anon·01/29/26 01:10·No.34206918

how do you get over the success of people who hurt you? more specifically: i like to think those who harm others generally do it from a place of harm. but i just don't see why it's a pattern in my life that i'm constantly getting into trouble with wealthy, happy types. is it just the bug principle?...

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Anon·01/25/26 21:30·No.34196558

Does anyone else fear forgetting things and lettting them fade into obscurity? Old classmates that you don't talk to or that have dropped out, failed talking stages, one night stands, old friends from college, childhood friends, all the school teachers even assistant teachers you had? Even the groce...

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Anon·01/29/26 01:19·No.34206951

What should I do

Qrd I'll try to make this short >shitty childhood mom and dad divorced >lived with mom and new step dad traumatized by domestic issues/incidents >left, lived with real dad through teen years >went off on my own to WA at like 20, lived in my car homeless for a bit, and wage slaved solo, got my own ap...

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Anon·01/27/26 18:00·No.34203016

I don't like it when people treat me friendly in one setting, and then in another setting they treat me like a complete stranger. They don't even greet me when I greet them and they avoid all attempts at me engaging with them like as if they don't know me, even though I've known them for a while. W...

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Anon·01/28/26 22:56·No.34206482

Does anyone have experience with the Boo dating app?

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Anon·01/27/26 08:13·No.34201999

I don't like my home country due to how getting a job just doesn't work here anymore, and I mean the high increase in the unemployment rate, not just the whole "le boomer doesn't hire little zoomies anymore". And how I should always bother with my family's bullshit even I'm far away from their home....

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Anon·01/27/26 11:25·No.34202203

Is it okay to quit your job because your boss is an asshole I feel like a failure if I do

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Anon·01/28/26 11:15·No.34205437

When a guy friendzones you is it over forever?

Basically I asked a friend to be my bf and got rejected. We're still friends which I'm really glad for, but for some reason I'm just failing to move on. I'm basically stalking him at this point and he tells me to stop simping for my own good but doesn't seem too peturbed about it. I feel like I'm th...

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Anon·01/28/26 22:13·No.34206367

I'm about to walk around the country. Stick to cities and interact with shady people, or stick to nature and interact with dangerous animals? I need to squeeze something out of this life before I die. What are your suggestions?

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Anon·01/25/26 07:25·No.34194687

Can I invite women over if my apartment is basically pic related?

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Anon·01/29/26 00:04·No.34206705

my heart beat causes my whole body to shake and it keeps me up at night. i can feel the pulse from my ears, down my stomach and even my butt. what should i do?

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Anon·01/28/26 23:20·No.34206548

How do I stop hating myself due to the actions of others?

>be X race >see people of race X do and say tons of retarded shit online lately >tons of second hand embarassment >constantly reminded of it because hating X race is in fashion all of a sudden (yes you can probably guess the race now) My actual irl social life is fine and i'm relatively well liked b...

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Anon·01/27/26 22:14·No.34203663

I started playing chess, and although it's fun, I can't get out of the 400 Elo, and even those games I win show low accuracy. How can I improve? Which openings should I learn? I heard Karo Kahn is very good, and London System too, but it seems most people on the internet only teach you how to play w...

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Anon·01/28/26 02:04·No.34204216

should I be more argumentative and is it worth it? I'm trying to learn to respect myself and stand by my actions instead of backing down but I quickly found out that other people aren't really swayed when I start to push back. It pretty much just goes >"anon what are you doing? You should do it this...

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Anon·01/27/26 17:41·No.34202962

You know that thing people do when they pretend they're on their cellphone so they can avoid talking to you? How do you respond to that behavior?

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Anon·01/27/26 21:14·No.34203490

where do i go after college?

live in central asia. graduated college almost 3 years ago as an interpreter (and by my english grammar you can tell that as a bad one). i want to go to uni but abroad since education here sucks big time. what would you do in my situation? i'd like to continue study linguistics and especially get my...

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Anon·01/28/26 01:01·No.34204059

How do i get the fuck off /pol/? I feel like I'm just addicted to interacting with the worst of humanity at this point.

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Anon·01/28/26 07:44·No.34205023

At what age is it over for you if you don't have a romantic partner? I'm 22 but I'm worried.

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Anon·01/28/26 20:57·No.34206212

i'm in love with my sister's 18yo friend and i'm 24, am i a pedo?

she's really nice, we get along well and always teases me over stupid shit, lately i can't stop dreaming about her and it happened before, i've dated girls my age and older and i don't really care about age though i just want someone who makes me feel loved. is it wrong? i know women will see me as ...

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Anon·01/28/26 18:20·No.34205947

Is being in Clinical Trials A Good Idea

I recently got laid off for my job, I worked in finance. Luckily, I was very prudent and saved a lot of money, so I have a huge savings, I got major severance, and I got EI for the next year. However, I know that money will run out eventually, and I am already freaking out about it. I have a kid, a ...

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Anon·01/24/26 02:32·No.34190607

What is dating damaged BPD girls really like?

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Anon·01/28/26 04:13·No.34204538

Should I go on a date with a customer?

I'm a woman in a customer-facing job. For the past 5 months, I've had a male regular who I see 1 to 3 times a week who I can tell is interested in me, but he has never made his interest explicit. He's very timid and somewhat awkward. He mostly asks me about my plans for that week, and tells me his o...

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Anon·01/28/26 10:29·No.34205319

How am I supposed to be confident when I have major flaws ?

I had genital warts once and had them removed so now I have to tell everyone in dating cause there is a small chance of them getting it. How am I supposed to be confident when I am so deeply flawed that I can't change?

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Anon·01/28/26 21:16·No.34206241

i am going to try get help

This sounds so fucked up, i have autism and ocd/intrusive thoughts, i suffer from compulsive searching, i came across a site with illegal content, I reported it numerous times and i just give up. I can’t keep reporting, it’s not good for my mental health and well being. I am just going to forget it...

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Anon·01/27/26 14:25·No.34202447

Bugged pc

I am a victim of gangstalking, I don't feel like my life is in danger or anything. Just give me the benefit of the doubt, my monitor kept flickering randomly for some time and I don't know if it's bugged on the inside of the pc or if there's some virus in the form of a program, cause I had no passw...

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Anon·01/25/26 15:40·No.34195424

which opiate is the best you can get over the counter and which opiate is the easiest to convince my doctor to give me (prescription)

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Anon·01/28/26 20:20·No.34206164

Should I seek a therapist or a psychiatrist first? Or what should I even seek? I have been depressed and resentful of my own life for the past 17 years. using various approaches to cope. To be clear, my own life is factually pretty great, and I can rationally deduce I'm at least an okay person, it'...

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Anon·01/28/26 00:30·No.34203956

Can I still lead a rich, fulfilling life as a guy with epilepsy? I’m 29

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Anon·01/26/26 01:07·No.34197368

There's this thing that people do. It happens sometimes when you're in their presence and they sense things might get awkward. So they shout something out loud as if they're trying to say something to a person or group of people that is not you but and off to the side of you. Like for example, teac...

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Anon·01/26/26 16:28·No.34199459

Match with woman. On dating app. First thing she asks me is how big my dick is. How to respond? It's a trick question right?

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Anon·01/28/26 05:44·No.34204794

*NOT A JOKE POST* Live with purpose. It does not matter how small or insignifcant it is. Purpose is what will guide you through life. I have found my purpose in faith in feeling blessed in having to be gifted life from God. It is retarded to a lot of people, and I know some atheists here are going ...

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Anon·01/27/26 18:43·No.34203121

How do I get out of the post covid deppresion?

I've got the apartment, car and gf but everything post covid feels like purgatory! Anyone know how to fix this?

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Anon·01/27/26 09:49·No.34202117

Perversion in men and women

"the vast majority of perpetrators of rape and sexual assault are male." Every times I hear people doing sick and depraved shit (beside rape), it's often coming from men, but why is that? aren't women and men equal? desperation leads so many men into doing twisted shit (rape included), for example,...

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Anon·01/28/26 20:55·No.34206208

I'm a retard. I'm interested in gambling my spare $5K on calls on mining company stocks I've never done anything beyond buying index funds. my questions are: 1. how do I do this 2. what's the best way of doing this 3. where do I buy and keep track of calls 4. can you share some good tips/resources o...

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Anon·01/28/26 11:08·No.34205426

I intentionally sabotaged having sex with my best friend so that she would never consider it again with me. There was always a weird thing between us where about it, and recently the opportunity presented itself. The problem is that i didnt want to her, I love her, but im not in love with her, shes ...

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Anon·01/27/26 18:01·No.34203019

What are Yalls thoughts?

So my boyfriend of ten years has this philosophy and I wanted to ask Other guys how they felt about this way he thinks. My boyfriend says it is Not His Responsibility to Ensure someone else's Fidelity. That means if a married lady or some girl with a boyfriend comes hitting on him--- if he can get t...

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Anon·01/28/26 14:35·No.34205700

Family Social Dynamics

>be me >strained relationship with family and cousins, I don't get along with them, Im just too autistic or something >cousin is inviting us to her party, sends us invitation cards a few months ago >they put me back into the cousins groupchat that I left 11 years ago because they were talking about ...

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Anon·01/28/26 20:14·No.34206145

Would this be considered white in Europe? >pale (skintype 2) >dark caramel hair >stereotypically french surname >high cheekbones BUT >35% african blood >dark eyes >short (5'9") >born and raised in Africa

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Anon·01/28/26 16:38·No.34205842

I feel amazing but I can't cope with my age, I finished my MsC at 33 instead of 22 because of poor health, now that I passed my full physical I'm having trouble to inject myself back into society. I want a gf to go to the graduation ceremony and opera with. I have 2 weeks, e-dating doesn't work bec...

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Anon·01/26/26 22:52·No.34200460

As a very skinny guy, what are my chances of finding a chubby woman with a body like this?

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Anon·01/28/26 19:32·No.34206046

I'm sad, everyone in this story should die

God fucking damn it, I'm so depressed I can't go to the gym today. I can't function, I can't study, and I won't do anything but just stay down in my hole of shame and pitilessness. Yeah, this is about a girl, so brace yourselves because this one is gonna be so fucking boring you'll be amazed. I co...

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Anon·01/27/26 15:24·No.34202570

is it possible that being a troon could ever be worth it?

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Anon·01/27/26 20:15·No.34203317

Should I move to Ireland or Scandinavia?

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Anon·01/28/26 11:07·No.34205423

Are there any downsides to shaving your genitalia as a man? At least the area at the base of the penis?

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Anon·01/12/26 08:03·No.34151388

I realized around two years ago that one of the only ways to achieve success in life is through having connections. Success largely depends on running into certain people. I unfortunately realized this too late. Since then, I am now only befriending people in the hopes that they would give me someth...

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Anon·01/27/26 12:08·No.34202273

Dating a guy I stalked for years

f20, met this boy when I was 11 in school and from then on did absolutely everything possible to get him. He didn’t really have friends, so it was easy getting in with his one close friend and working my way in from there. found his address, used to walk past his house whenever possible or get his b...

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Anon·01/26/26 21:32·No.34200245

How do YOU not give a shit about what people think of YOU?

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Anon·01/28/26 06:54·No.34204928

Why is the honeymoon phase more fun than afterwards? It’s natural to initially talk nonstop about everything and anything but over time, you can only repeat the same things so many times.

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Anon·01/23/26 09:53·No.34188507

Not looking for a gf rn

Why do all the girls I hook up with want to start a relationship with me? Like, bitch, I'm not that type of guy. Not now, at least.

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Anon·01/27/26 01:26·No.34200969

This is probably gonna be a little boring, but I wanted to be anonymous to talk about this. I grew up in a Christian household, I stayed pure for marriage, I got married and I have a husband now. I kind of thought we would be doing the sex stuff I always imagined after we got married, but it all ju...

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Anon·01/27/26 13:27·No.34202373

Thinking about converting from Christianity to Islam. Know anyone who has done this?

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Anon·01/28/26 14:17·No.34205681

I’m in law school right now and considering being an Army/Navy JAG (basically an army lawyer) after I graduate since the pay is really good and they’ll forgive my loans after a while, but would doing so basically forever preclude me from getting SJW or MENA pussy? Will they consider me a fascist bab...

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Anon·01/28/26 03:34·No.34204445

27 year old KHHV, how can I REDEEM myself before it's too late? I'm 5'10 and Scottish if that matters

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Anon·01/26/26 11:49·No.34198960

How fucked is the marriage/long term dating space?

How many women in between the ages of 25-30 are virgins without a past? How do I also find out about the past of their mothers, given the fact that it is highly likely for slutty women to give birth to slutty daughters who won't hesistate cheating or dumping under the guise of serial monogamy, a fan...

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Anon·01/12/26 21:41·No.34153231

Women have become extremely fucking picky over the years searching for their fucking chads. How do I find a woman that actually wants a real relationship?

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Anon·01/28/26 06:26·No.34204880

How do you guys decide when it's time to buy a new TV? I currently have an LG CX, it came out in 2020, and it was what all the reviews were saying was the best TV you could get at the time. It still works great, but there's been enough advancement that I'm considering getting a new TV and selling my...

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Anon·01/28/26 01:46·No.34204161

Why did I end up a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 28 years old, when every single other man I've ever known in my life didn't?

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Anon·01/27/26 19:22·No.34203204

Landlord is Mad I adopted another Border Collie

I have a Micro Condo which is the biggest space but I have two border collie. People are mad that I never walk them but I really never have the time. I just adopted another one and now I have three. My landlord says no but I’m just a border collie lover and it’s not fair how rich people get to own t...

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Anon·01/28/26 04:46·No.34204628

what does Isaiah 6:8 mean? pic unrel

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Anon·01/27/26 23:10·No.34203752

I'm 40 years old. Am I too old to be saying things like shredded and lit?

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Anon·01/28/26 13:23·No.34205610

Seriously how the fuck do I not lose and forget things anymore? God knows how many times I've left my phone at the gym, how many times I've forgot something important. I've had this issue my whole life, I swear now is the last fucking time and then boom next week I forget something again. I genuenly...

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Anon·01/27/26 11:54·No.34202254

Managing chronic fatigue with Crohn’s disease?

I have Crohn’s disease and it also comes with chronic fatigue. I went to my gastroenterologist because of the fatigue, and he gave me various vitamin injections, but honestly, they didn’t help. The people around me are also completely ununderstanding and don’t allow me to take naps. So… how do I dea...

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Anon·01/28/26 15:30·No.34205757

Take the meds?

Should I take my meds? I feel like they're gonna make me more retarded than I already am. I also don't want to lose the furry wife in my head and I see how zombified people on SSRIs really act.

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Anon·01/27/26 09:35·No.34202107

Never go out. Never have friends. 30. I play video games and they added a feature where you can just hangout and chat. I just tried it today. Some people recognized me from the video game. I feel like I'm being social. I know it's not a good replacement but it's a step right? I feel somewhat happ...

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Anon·01/28/26 07:04·No.34204947

Any advice? I am an incel because I am ugly, native american, and have a bad bitter personality. Im a virgin, never had a single relationship and mid 20s. I have posted before. I am ugly as rated by soc and even incel rates.

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Anon·01/28/26 11:14·No.34205434

How to properly open myself up to Christ

I have had a very rough year, pushing me to my breaking point, in fact. At the same time, I have been feeling a pull towards Christ. The sense of forgiveness, peace, and love have been present whenever I think about Jesus or Christianity. But I don't know where to begin to become "properly" religi...

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Anon·01/26/26 14:49·No.34199224

Every time a woman rejects me, I'm tempted to say something back like "alright well fuck you bitch". But if I do that, then I would just be proving her point in rejecting me What to do?

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Anon·01/28/26 06:37·No.34204891

Be my online friend

Is there a board here for neets? And do you want to be friends? I only like neets or 4chan users. I used to use r/neet but i got redditbanned.

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Anon·01/28/26 04:05·No.34204518

Need Help With Suing For Inappropriate Music Exposure

When I was six years old, a friend of my uncle gave me an iPod nano 3rd generation with music pre-loaded on it. There were 1497 songs, some were family friendly but others had sexually explicit lyrics that bordered on pornographic. This negatively affected me growing up. I need to sue the person wh...

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Anon·01/28/26 07:15·No.34204971

The beginning of my Incel journey

A few months ago I found out that the girl I loved so much in high school has been dating some cool guy at uni and they had sex multiple times and she was also physically involved with some other guys as well when we were in high school From that point of my life I:- >Started hating woman >Say abus...

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Anon·01/28/26 07:22·No.34204988

How can I beat women?

Should I sign up for some karate class? Can you fight them there or is it segregated into genders? Maybe I should go out at night and look for lonely women walking the streets. I want them to be sober though not drunk in order to give them the full truecel experience. Sometimes I see women at the fr...

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Anon·01/27/26 08:43·No.34202048

How do I find myself?

23F with one last year of grad school. I was engaged to my partner of 4 years but he and I decided to separate because I have been extremely unstable for the last several months and he finally couldn't take it anymore. We are going to go our separate ways until I can get the help I need and be a bet...

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Anon·01/27/26 00:57·No.34200855

>Dick width is less than my index and middle finger measured across Any fix for this mistake from God?

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Anon·01/28/26 04:07·No.34204524

Trying to accept that my life will never amount to anything meaningful

Here I am basically on borrowed time, got no money, no job, no relationships and no real incentive to live. I mean I do nothing all day apart from my hobbies that I am only semi good at and am not good looking enough or competent enough to make a career out of. So whats the point? I am nearing 30 an...

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Anon·01/27/26 20:08·No.34203300

Scared of letting go of my vices

Gaming has been such a large part of my life for so long, and I've made so many good memories in video games. In spite of this, I want to stop gaming now. It's not benefitting my life in any way any longer. I'm just reliving my memories from 4-10 years ago by gaming. I already know how I can greatly...

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Anon·01/28/26 00:44·No.34204016

How the fuck do I respond when a job interviewer asks "do you have any questions for me?" No, I don't, I want the job, retard. What am I actually supposed to say? Should I ask them how their fucking day went?

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Anon·01/27/26 00:53·No.34200841

what career paths best suit autists?

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Anon·01/27/26 23:57·No.34203849

I got STD tested even though I haven't had sex in years and the day my test results came back negative (I do not have any STDs at this time) I went to buy a beer. I put the beer on the counter and the clerk muttered to me that he was HIV positive. I looked up and he did in fact look like he had HIV...

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Anon·01/27/26 22:03·No.34203629

am i worthy of a gf?

to clear the air, i am an 18 year old girl whos bisexual (female pref) lol. all my relationships were during middle school and ever since, i havent had no motion. at my 12th year of hs and still no one. i gave up at the people at my small school, every girl is basically straight. i try to find someo...

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Anon·01/27/26 14:58·No.34202507

parents constantly berate me for being a fuckup, infantilize me, give me shit for every wrong step I take in life, and hold stuff I did as a teenager against me. Recently I got in some trouble with the law which resulted in massive fines and no car for the foreseeable future. As soon as I told them ...

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Anon·01/27/26 18:07·No.34203043

Can I get some actual advice on what to invest in? /biz/ is too retarded/disingenuous I have 10K available and need to dump it in something. is there even anything the average goy can do to get slightly ahead besides gambling on random meme coins/stocks?

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Anon·01/27/26 20:05·No.34203296

[Blogpost] I missed out on youth

I'm 22, this is my 4th year of university and I feel pretty bad. When I was 18, I went to university with high hopes. I hoped to finally experience the young student life: friends, parties, bars, girlfriends, clubs, alcohol, travelling, summer, hanging out... Just being young, enjoying youth, havin...

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Anon·01/27/26 19:55·No.34203271

You know that thing people do when they're talking to you and they seem super friendly to you on the surface, but something in your gut tells you they would rather eat shit than be talking to you at that moment? How do they do that?

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Anon·01/27/26 22:13·No.34203660

Any people over 30 that went back to school? Night classes I mean. How did it go?

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Anon·01/28/26 01:22·No.34204110

how do i cope with being broke for my entire life? i'm american and the knowledge that i'll never own a house, live in a major city / upscale area, attend a state university, or have anything decent in my life is kinda raping me. everything costs so much fucking money and jobs pay so little. i'm al...

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Anon·01/28/26 06:08·No.34204861

Being drunk around others and myself

When i drink i get much more social and talkative and emotive. I think often to an obnoxious degree. Ill often tell people things that are maybe a bit too personal for little reason and be way over enthusiastic about stuff and often just say some stuff that while true, is kinda insensitive, im inten...

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Anon·01/27/26 23:24·No.34203778

I don't know what to do with social life

>be me, 22 >bad experiences with people around me since early childhood, eventually developed the mindset of "me vs the world" >one friend >sometimes I call him without talking just to feel some company and awkwardly tell him how I have to "do stuff" because it feels weird the longer we go silent, w...

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Anon·01/28/26 07:36·No.34205010

When my boyfriend says he finds me perfect, does he mean? Or is it just a figure of speech for guys

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Anon·01/28/26 06:27·No.34204881

Hi /adv/, please help a 35yo virgin (male) decide whether to give up on myself or keep trying. I still live with my parents with no way to get out and a net worth of 0 living paycheck to paycheck. I would rate myself a solid 5/10 in looks, nothing stands out about me, just your regular chubby guy wi...

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Anon·01/28/26 07:08·No.34204951

Menage a trois

Feeling weird about desire for sexual exploration gf and I were on a strict monogamous relationship until she started to develop interest in having sex with women, she feels that this is a unfinished business in her life. she proposes me to have ffm threesomes, I supported her even though I was unc...

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Anon·01/26/26 18:37·No.34199822

My life is dull and boring. I'm dull and boring. How do I change this? How do I change my personality, get rid of depression and anxiety?

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Anon·01/28/26 08:08·No.34205082

My childhood friend has opened up a pizzeria near my home. We're not particularly close friends these days, but we're on good terms. I feel morally obligated to get a pizza at this place at least once a week, in order to support his budding business. But while his pizzas are not terrible, they're no...

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Anon·01/28/26 09:54·No.34205239

Shitstorm incoming

Part 1... Well I have a doozy of a tale to tell and I don't really know how to handle this situation. Hence my desire to tell some randoms on the internet about it. A lot of this information I did not know about until today so yeah. I am the eldest son of a large family, 7 kids in total. One of m...

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