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Anon·09/08/26 19:15·No.34904385

I'm 30 years old. An oldfag. I work a side job at a fast food place with dudes 16-25. None of them are interested in dating and just seem kind of dejected about life. How do I help them? Advice I could give?

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Anon·09/09/26 09:57·No.34906101

Help i want to lose weight: how? Help me

I weigh 100kg, but I want to get down to 70 or 75kg What do I need to know to achieve this? I see that they say a low-carb diet is the best, even better than a low-calorie diet. But my diet has a lot of carbohydrates: oatmeal, corn tortillas, bananas, apples, tangerines. Also: What do I have to do t...

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Anon·09/09/26 08:37·No.34905989

Everything feels pointless

I feel like there's really no reason for me to live anymore. Not even in the sense that I'm actively sad, but more like I see my life as already failed and without any meaningful opportunities to change it. Basically, I spent a year without going outside after graduation, primarily just working on ...

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Anon·09/09/26 04:36·No.34905646

You guys ever been in a situation where you thought opening your mouth would actually make the situation better but it did the exact opposite? Why did you think that?

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Anon·09/09/26 00:58·No.34905180

How do I meet girls online? I've tried dating sites and they suck ass. I know there is discord and stuff but how do you know if somebody's a girl?

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Anon·09/07/26 21:21·No.34901671

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #365

What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask q...

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Anon·09/07/26 20:26·No.34901465

GIOYC – Get It Off Your Chest

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Anon·09/07/26 17:27·No.34900876

Help me manipulate my girlfriend out of getting tattoos

She's been wanting to get them since she was 14 and we're both 19 now, together for 10 months. She's made contact with tattoo artists, is trying to find "good" ones, and is mapping out the designs she wants on her body Lets run through the scenarios of how she'd react to different approaches I coul...

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Anon·09/06/26 11:53·No.34897289

If my penis reaches my belly button does that mean it's big?

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Anon·09/09/26 05:04·No.34905710

Why do I feel like some people treat me poorly because of my age (20y, but I look 15y)?

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Anon·09/09/26 08:24·No.34905977

Top 10 reasons why I should not kill myself

Thank you for watching!

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Anon·09/09/26 05:40·No.34905767

is it normal to want to creampie and tongue fuck pretty much every human female that you see outside? Its getting hard to control the urges even if I creampie a fleshlight daily

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Anon·09/07/26 17:19·No.34900852

Why won't it go in???

So I thought I was finally gonna get laid right. I've been chasing this bitch for weeks and she actually seems to like me. She was over at my place again last night and we started taking off our clothes in my bedroom. We were kissing under the sheets for a while and I started licking her pussy when ...

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Anon·09/09/26 07:29·No.34905931

Can't move on / panic attacks

I got turned down over the summer. Claimed she was asexual has never felt that way for anyone else. She mentioned it before but thought she was sending me mixed signals. Panic attack every time I remeber her turning me down. She went on an exchange program this semester so think about her constantly...

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Anon·09/09/26 01:48·No.34905265

where do i start... well i guess as far as i can remember would be a good idea. parents borderline neglected me, father worked a job that he says he loved, but he was gone for 12+ hours a day, and mentally absent the few hours he was home. mother just yelled at me to do my schoolwork, never helped. ...

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Anon·09/09/26 08:13·No.34905965

I want a bitch that can make me nut and moan like the male character from Dark Souls 1. How can I achieve this? For more context, I am an elderly male living alone in a foreign country, I had an LTR end rather badly a couple years ago and have been single since. I've no family here and don't speak ...

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Anon·09/07/26 18:22·No.34901023

Do neighbors play loud music as a display of dominance? If so, would I be a coward if I moved?

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Anon·09/05/26 21:21·No.34895915

How do I approach a girl?

There's this girl in my class that I find really attractive, after some light e-stalking I found out she's also really smart and a devout Christian like me. She also stares at me sometimes during class and even outside of it when we bump into each other on the corridors of the university (but maybe ...

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Anon·09/08/26 21:37·No.34904770

Tortured to death in US

I am being nearly nonstop surveilled in the United States. The government is putting bed bugs in my bed and I have a bunch of videos of them doing truly heinous stuff to me. The horror is unimaginable. I live in literally a constant state of agony from an eternal headache caused by their actions dir...

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Anon·09/08/26 08:58·No.34902962

Skincare Advice

I need some advice on skincare. I have a bit of acne and just generally bad skin on my face. I know there are some psycho looksmaxxers on here, any tips or routines? What kind of products should I use? I should probably mention that I have sensitive skin.

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Anon·09/08/26 13:36·No.34903350

Is Ketamine a safe drug?

I'm not the type of person that would drink alc. or smoke, etc. However if there was an exception I would make that would be Ketamine: It is like LSD without the spiritual aesthetics. Besides potential bladder damage, what do I have to worry about? Risk of Psychosis?

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Anon·09/06/26 09:57·No.34897174

What are your problems? I won't be able to solve them, but I am willing to listen.

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Anon·09/07/26 21:24·No.34901693

Communicating with women?

I honestly feel like dog shit when communicating with women. I am definitely more of a texter and one of the women that I would like to go out on dates with doesn't text me first ever. I am trying to build that sort of rapport with her but its nearly impossible because it feels like I am bothering h...

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Anon·09/08/26 20:01·No.34904559

Hello. I'm on Xeplion 0.75 therapy for ~ 6 years. I have paranoid schizophrenia. RecentlyI got ill with pneumonia. What's interesting, when I got 37 C temperature (98,6 F) paranoidal thinking disappeared, only sometimes old patterns triggered, but brain is clear(from 7/10 to 2/10). When I have no te...

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Anon·09/09/26 06:52·No.34905895

How to protect myself living in the ghetto?

I live in a college town that is known for debauchery, while its mostly nice, I live in a shitty part full of thieves and demons and fuckery. WTF can I do to best protect myself and my home on a budget? So far I just reputationmaxx so I have backup.

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Anon·09/08/26 09:32·No.34903010

Looking for advice from people who have gotten out of "toxic relationships".

This is a long post but i feel there is much to unpack. I'm (male) atm. making exit plans dated for the 25th of this month. A week after my gf's niece's birthday. Short story of what has been going on. We are both in our late 30s, the relationship has gone on for 9 years. We have had a lot of issue...

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Anon·09/05/26 23:31·No.34896288

Do women now call you a pedo if you ask them out? Specifically, I tried to ask out this 20 year old and she called me a pedo. Asked another, 19. Same thing. I'm 40

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Anon·09/08/26 17:07·No.34903954

I need to move out of my parents house as soon as possible, but I don't make enough to live on my own. How do you find roommates when you have no friends?

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Anon·09/07/26 20:01·No.34901370

My crush is sleeping with a guy who is a total piece of shit. It's been going for months and she says it's a "situationship" but supposedly she has feelings for him. The guy is literally just using her for sex and will ditch her after a while. He has done it with several girls already. Everyone in o...

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Anon·09/04/26 21:20·No.34892569

celibacy?

I've completed fairly successful PhD in molecular biology in 3 years. I've published in a top tier journal from a shitty institution where publication are rare. I've been offered a post doc in a top 50 world wide university, and I'm 26 years old. Things seems fine with my life on paper, but I am not...

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Anon·09/07/26 21:52·No.34901770

I have these emotional highs where I just feel incredible and motivated and I have tons of energy to do everything. I feel super productive and great. Then I have these lows that kind of come out of nowhere, and it feels like nothing matters. I barely want to get out of bed, I skip meals because ea...

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Anon·09/09/26 04:57·No.34905692

What do you think?

Throwing this here in hopes i can find a better prespective. I have decided to never date/marry or interact with any woman unless there is a necessity, i can not find a single logical reason to be with a woman, i have been falsely accused twice, i survived but i am still traumatized by these experi...

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Anon·09/08/26 00:45·No.34902179

I am seeking general advice on how to stop dopamine spamming and develop discipline.

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Anon·09/09/26 05:06·No.34905717

Silly or worth doing?

I went through bad times in 2016 that got me severely depressed. I self-isolated since, and only recently since I started taking psychiatric medications that my mental health has stabilized a bit. I haven't played video games, read books, had friends, or did anything worthwhile in those 10 years. I ...

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Anon·09/09/26 06:04·No.34905810

I have a crush on a girl. I don't know her, she doesn't know me. She's a receptionist. She works very hard and is very cheerful. When I met her, I showed interest, but didn't interact ever after, since I'm autistic and don't know how to be fun, just to say fact. Of course she noticed I liked her and...

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Anon·09/08/26 16:20·No.34903747

how do you help your partner lose weight? it's my bf and he does intermittedly go to gym, but it doesn't seem to affect or change anything. he's quite aware of his weight and insecure about it, and talks about losing weight. but to be honest in several years now his weight is still very overweight ...

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Anon·09/07/26 13:33·No.34900334

How to be a volcel and self improve? Specifically what are steps that can help become more independent and be more confident in myself. I am back in the gym.

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Anon·09/08/26 01:51·No.34902334

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I didn’t want to post this in /b/ I would love /adv/ to help us out! I think we all want bigger dicks. What I do is stretch and microtear which makes it grow. But I was wondering if anyone had further advice for me. I can buy devices and pills. Pile it on me.

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Anon·09/09/26 02:40·No.34905344

/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

Empathy Edition Previous >>34901672 [/adv/thread/34901672#p34901672]

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Anon·09/05/26 14:40·No.34894708

How do I become asexual

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Anon·09/08/26 16:08·No.34903711

How can I attract girls my age?

I'm 27 years old so I'm not a teen anymore, what kind of man do girls my age like?

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Anon·09/06/26 22:53·No.34898454

Married for 1 year now. How do you married men cope with seeing girls that are hotter and fitter than your wife in public?

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Anon·09/06/26 20:11·No.34898101

How to cope with 'Twink Death'?

I used to be a cute emo twink but now I am a balding 27 year old who can't be emo as a result How can I become attractive to girls my own age?

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Anon·09/08/26 19:59·No.34904551

I got a black eye, and everybody is trying to make it their business. My bf got me, he's clumsy so it wasn't the first time we had an accident that hurt me, I'd rather just brush it under the rug and forget about it but he's big and scary to a lot of people so everybody's just jumping on the "she's ...

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Anon·09/05/26 10:14·No.34894091

Little sister going away to college

She's very naive and I'm kind of scared what's going to happen to her there

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Anon·09/07/26 21:53·No.34901773

hi autistic woman here, im going to my first halloween party this year with friends and im very excited. im very socially awkward, hence the autism, and i need tips on how to act n stuff. people usually dont seem to like me since im so awkward and im trying to change that, especially since im trying...

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Anon·09/09/26 01:12·No.34905197

My avoidant personality disorder is ruining my life. Does anyone with AVPD have tips for forming relationships and just living a normal life? >23yo shut-in incel virgin >since high-school ended I isolated and just read books at home >haven’t been outside in months >demoralized to do the same stuff ...

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Anon·09/07/26 00:20·No.34898645

How do autists get girlfriends?

Im starting to think that it's impossible for me to have a long term relationship as an autist. Sometimes a girl will express interest in me, perhaps because of looks(that seems to be the only possibility that makes sense for pre-talking IOIs), but the moment we start talking it quickly fades away. ...

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Anon·09/08/26 21:16·No.34904730

I need some help

So.. im a patriot. I love my country but I don't want to get called fascist by degenerated people. How can I do that?

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Anon·09/08/26 17:03·No.34903934

How do I accept my sexuality?

I'm 20m and I have a sexual preference for women with small breasts and preteen girls. Before I was 16 it was pretty much the opposite, i had a sexual preference for women with big breasts and butts, but when I was 16 I started to masturbate to women with small breasts and butts and I slowly develop...

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Anon·09/08/26 01:39·No.34902308

I've always felt slight shame towards being sexually attracted to women. Partly due to my genetics(short/brown/small dick), and also because I haven't gotten into any fights. I'm starting to realize most guys feel exactly how I feel about women. They want to fuck them in the ass and have them suck t...

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Anon·09/09/26 03:04·No.34905391

Probably destroyed the next 4 years of my life

My parents emotionally pressured me into accepting a university position and i caved. I don't care about educating people i just want to do my research in piece. I also have a job in a startup , and i don't think i can keep both without snapping. I don't know what to do. I'm a pushover when it comes...

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Anon·09/08/26 22:53·No.34904963

If you miss an opportunity with a girl is there every any coming back from that? She liked me. We still talk a lot but she's got a bf.

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Anon·09/09/26 02:31·No.34905326

Help me "lock in"

A few days ago was my 20th birthday, and I can't help but realize how much time I've wasted. I don't have any concrete plans or real desires in life, and have been simply floating by for god knows how long. It feels like every time I'm given an opportunity to turn my life around I refuse it, but may...

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Anon·09/08/26 04:37·No.34902648

MISSING:

I want to help solve or solve this case that was brought to my attention by my fiance. I live in ND and can do the necessary footwork and interviews. https://charleyproject.org/case/michele-mae-julson While I was researching, I found a similar case. I'll post that next. The similar case is a miss...

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Anon·09/09/26 02:37·No.34905336

New coworker I’m training is giving physical contact — misreading signals or flirting?

>I (30M) am currently training a new female coworker at my job in a factory environment. Over the past few days, I’ve noticed her standing unusually close to me and making a lot of physical contact. Whenever I show her how to fill out paperwork, she leans in extremely close—to the point where our a...

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Anon·09/09/26 00:57·No.34905176

I have a net worth of $100 What should I do with my life?

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Anon·09/08/26 19:14·No.34904382

What should I do if I'm a 34 year old loser who has no friends, never had a gf, no job, education and has health issues and barely leaves my bedroom I tried to go to therapy but it didn't help I really can't see any other option other than killing myself

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Anon·09/07/26 05:29·No.34899508

I think I'm going to kill myself

The only people in my life who are willing to talk to me about my problems are people who get paid for it. I am a successful person. I have a life that your average person would envy. I'm not rich, I'm not famous, I don't have love, but I have a good life. Structure, money, health, decent looks, liv...

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Anon·09/09/26 00:22·No.34905126

Do women view texting the same way I do? Am I a freak in the way I see texting? Like I'm texting a girl, and we text literally every single day, she rekindles the conversations. Does that inherently mean she's into me? I have 0 other people in my life that I text every day. Do most people text the s...

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Anon·09/08/26 12:28·No.34903214

I have treatment resistant depression, therapy does nothing, neither does medication. My insurance doesn't exist until I get hit by a bus. Do I just "it is what it is" until I swallow a bullet? I get that life is supposed to be shit for the majority of us so that it's good for everyone else, but sho...

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Anon·09/09/26 01:44·No.34905258

Solo Vagabon Traveling

To make a long story short, I am a complete failure in life, I cannot hold a job and dropped out of post secondary school multiple times. I'm suicidally depressed and don't know wtf I am gonna do with my life except for the fact that I've wanted to travel since I was about 16 or so I have 10 000 CA...

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Anon·09/09/26 01:22·No.34905216

Fixing my life

>46 >NEET for basically entire life >haven't left house in 15+ years >no high school or college education >dropped out of school in 9th grade >never had a job >never worked >can't drive >never had friends >0 social skills >morbidly obese >5'2" >parents are broke so I won't inherit anything >no skill...

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Anon·09/08/26 01:30·No.34902281

How to stop worrying about an electrical fire

How can I stop being paranoid my house will burn down due to an electrical fire? I live with my parents and mainly 2 outlets worry me, One needs a small cardboard piece to hold up an outlet because it's slightly loose on the top, and the second one which really worries me is when we got a new washer...

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Anon·08/09/26 20:35·No.34810434

What are some red flags that the neighborhood you're interested in is actually a ghetto?

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Anon·09/08/26 15:06·No.34903593

How do I stop my homosexual thoughts?

I'm bisexual and don't want anything to do with other males anymore, but sometimes I catch myself miring/fantasizing a cute boy, that's quite bothersome and sometimes it hurts me, so I need to stop. And please I don't want anyone telling me that I 'don't need/should try that" or "it's impossible", I...

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Anon·09/07/26 18:47·No.34901122

How to stop being a loser?

Since childhood I spent most of my time at home or alone. My parents were too busy to look after me and I couldn't make friends. Most children avoided me, even though I didn't do anything wrong so I spent most of my childhood on the computer or drawing. This problem started to get worse as I started...

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Anon·09/08/26 21:47·No.34904795

anal tips

I attempted anal for a second time with an escort, but I wasn't successful because the condom would make me lose my boner, plus I was using a delay cream, which didn't help. She was awesome and really tried to help me. I'm considering taking a viagra and trying it again. It's been on my bucket list,...

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Anon·09/07/26 20:54·No.34901577

Is fencing a lame hobby to get into? I thought it sounded fun but idk if it would be the equivalent of the fat Star Wars kid flipping around with the stick

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Anon·09/08/26 22:06·No.34904854

I need to stop using this site. Is there a way to get banned from browsing?

Where can I send this request at? BTW i'm not using the IP i wanna get banned, tho

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Anon·09/08/26 10:52·No.34903087

so there's a weeabo kinda thing going on about anime and cosplay and kpop and lightsaber fights in my town. my town usually organizes activities, but they usually are for the elderly and for children, so this is the first time in a long time I'll have of meeting people my age the issue is that I hat...

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Anon·09/09/26 00:21·No.34905125

Are you supposed to use a face towel/scrub brush/loofah in the shower or just lather your hands with soap and rub all over. This is a seeious question as I've been told using an object is only something blacks and poors do.

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Anon·09/08/26 23:37·No.34905073

Any anhedonia anons? CPTSD is a bitch. How do you find joy when your hardware doesnt allow for it? How do you not feel like a worthless machine forced to wander an endless desert alone while the sand grains carried by the winds slowly cut away at your skin?

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Anon·09/08/26 15:24·No.34903614

Anyone know of any good sites to go for hookups that AREN'T hookup apps like Tinder or Hinge or whatever? Ended a multi-year relationship where we had zero sex the entire time a couple weeks ago and I need some dick. But I don't wanna use hookup apps 'cause I think they're annoying. And there's no ...

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Anon·09/07/26 00:10·No.34898622

how do i become more courageous? i am cripplingly afraid of pushing the bounds of my comfort zone when i force myself to, it does seem to drastically improve my life, but it feels like the "gains" from this vanish in like a week or two of not using them and then i turn into a sweaty stuttering cowar...

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Anon·09/08/26 00:27·No.34902147

Am I Legally Allowed to Remove Toilet Stalls at My Office?

My dad is putting me in charge of running his company. He's going to be overseeing me but I'm basically going to be in the cockpit since he wants to retire soon. I'm 26 years old and worked as an assistant manager for 4 years after graduating. One thing I noticed was people take long bathroom break...

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Anon·09/08/26 23:34·No.34905064

My ex asked to see me.

I broke up with my ex a while ago, and recently he came to see me because he wanted to apologize for some things and talk about life. We spent two days talking in person, and during those days he spent a lot of money buying junk food for me and even sushi (which is one of my favorite foods), even th...

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Anon·09/07/26 17:03·No.34900806

Told myself I would only look at my phone, PC or any other devices if it's only absolutely necessary. Ended up staying on my phone for 4 hours throughout the night. How tf do you break this addiction? Also I have ADHD by I'm the silent type so in reality ADD even though the term isn't used anymore. ...

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Anon·09/08/26 03:52·No.34902576

how do i harness the energy i create as a demented pervert to improve my life and be healthier? i have a massive creative force and my greatest joy in life so far has been writing smut and ERPing with friends. i never get tired of it, i'm told i'm really good at it, and i feel genuine full-bodied h...

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Anon·09/08/26 22:47·No.34904945

Do I look like a minor? Sometimes people assume I am one. How can I change that?

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Anon·09/08/26 22:07·No.34904858

how do i improve my looks

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Anon·09/05/26 15:53·No.34894909

>no gf ever at the age of 37 >never even flirted with a girl >went to college and multiple holidays abroad and had many jobs and never had female attention >lifted weights for over 10 years, below 25 BMI >finally make Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble accounts >buy paid versions >swipe >wait >wait more >zer...

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Anon·09/08/26 07:13·No.34902786

Should I get a fleshlight or tenga to fix my deathgrip? I've already given up on porn.

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Anon·09/07/26 19:59·No.34901362

I have many videogames to play, books to read, projects to do, things that I want to learn and other stuff I want to do. I have the time to do them but I don't and spend my days lurking 4chan, watching YT videos that I do not care about and other meaningless stuff. It's like I spend the day waiting...

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Anon·09/08/26 16:21·No.34903749

I cannot focus on work

Be me, 26M, graduate in CS, PhD candidate at a good uni, but I fn can't work during the day, my mind just stops processing info when I'm doing anything, I just stay in a blank state for the whole day and then get a shot of stress when my advisors ask for progress. I spent all my phd working during t...

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Anon·09/07/26 23:31·No.34902004

I've had a VERY stiff neck for the past 2? months now, to the point I can barely turn to the sides or look behind my shoulders, even sleeping is extremely painful to the point I won't get any sleep or even wake up from it What the fuck do I do? Heat pads and pray for the best? 30yo male for what it'...

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Anon·09/08/26 20:02·No.34904563

Feeling pathetic

I’ve had a lot of issues in my life, and it’s gotten to the point where it all feels inescapable. A few of my friends died young in high school, and I had a hard time relating to people in college as a result because I was so traumatized. When I graduated I broke my foot and developed complex region...

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Anon·09/08/26 03:33·No.34902526

https://youtube.com/@girlfriendguide4guys if i pay this lady to coach me can i get a gf as a sub5 incel neet or will she just yeet my neetbucks for nothing like a fraud grifter full of shit if paying for a coach actually helps id prefer for them to be a nice looking and sounding girl to make it more...

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Anon·09/08/26 03:59·No.34902593

Buying Property

My friend and I are thinking of splitting a space 50/50 as we wish to be propertychads over rentcucks at all costs. We live in a HCOL area where prices are pretty fucked (500k gets you something decent), but we would each be making around ~100k a year in this scenario. Is this a smart/retarded idea?...

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Anon·09/07/26 02:58·No.34899086

Being an Outcast Freak

Had a situation over the weekend which I've been dwelling on and gotta get off my chest, maybe someone can gimme some insight. >be 29m loner with no friends >working at new job for a little bit, start getting along with coworkers >friendly with each other but not sure if they'd call me a 'friend' >...

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Anon·09/06/26 21:33·No.34898269

Genuinely wtf do I do

So there's a guy in my college who I really like. I never confessed to him because of my social anxiety and I don't have much experience in dating in general but he def knows I have feelings for him and he never gave anyone a solid answer about his own feelings for me. We started actively talking ab...

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Anon·09/07/26 00:14·No.34898630

How can I meet females if Im a 29 year old wageslave with no friends? Im running out of time.

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Anon·09/08/26 08:07·No.34902846

How do i stop being picky when choosing a job

unemployed for over a year now ever since i resigned because the jobsite decided to move 3 cities away, family pressure and anxiety just kept building over the months, and now im starting to doubt my own capabilities. >remote work >what if the company ghosts me, what if i dont meet the requirements ...

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Anon·09/08/26 11:54·No.34903168

confused tranny seeks life advice

i think lately i feel dissatisfied with my life. i think this comes from not having a high paying career and not being a woman. i think because of how i was raised, i struggle to relax if there is still work to be done. so i struggle to relax because i don't have a high paying career and i'm not a w...

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Anon·09/08/26 18:09·No.34904166

how do I cope with the fear of being abandoned by the ones that are closest to me. I've been talking to this person for like almost 4 years now online and we met up a few times IRL too, last time was in summer. The thing is that I am super dependent on her because she has pretty much been the only ...

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Anon·09/08/26 04:01·No.34902599

Actually gonna post this in general. As somewhat of a gymcel (my social skills are ok in professional settings but I may have some form of tism) how to go about finding a qt shy gf? I feel very paternal and protective towards quiet insecure girls, but I live in a very extroverted party area so to sp...

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Anon·09/08/26 14:15·No.34903452

this is a book (writing on 4chan, not a book right now) for helping people in their 30s who have a problem with scriptlessness. lack of support from conventional narratives can debilitate people, preventing them from finding work and subsequently other important things like friendship, fulfilment, h...

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Anon·09/06/26 02:43·No.34896677

gf giving mixed signals about sex

my gf of 4 years is giving me mixed signals about sex >teases me several times throughout the day >compliments me and flirts with me all the time >says she wants to suck and ride my hog >nothing happens >when I try to make a move, she tells me that we'll have some fun later >when "later" (aka around...

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Anon·09/08/26 17:19·No.34903988

Am I delusional?

Was at a bar with my friends, and a the topic of standards for women came around. When they asked me I said: > 18 - 23 yo > Catholic > Virgin > White > Shorter than me (I'm 5'7") > At least a 6/10 > Does not drink nor smoke nor is a party whore > No Tatoos My friends said that I'm completely delusi...

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Anon·09/07/26 02:22·No.34898982

Am I Healing?

I am a 38 man. I am still going through a breakup that has hit me hard, but not in the way I expected. I am a textbook case of anxious attachment due to old childhood wounds of feeling love, friendship, and care were conditional. I suffer the deep rooted belief that I am no one's first choice if I a...

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Anon·09/05/26 22:12·No.34896091

still in love unconditionally with big fat stinky loser

i am 29, never been married, i was born with rare genetic mutations. i am a christian. no man has ever showed me love, not even my biollogical father or grandfather (they both sexually abused me at least by the age i was 5) a 30 year old still living with his parents coerced me into getting at least...

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Anon·09/08/26 12:47·No.34903244

What are some socially acceptable places to go out and try to make friends (and maybe a girlfriend too)? There aren't any hobby places in my city, and the ones that we have are sport stuff (which i can't afford), and the only park in here is only used by runners. I've also considered going to a pub...

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Anon·09/08/26 03:54·No.34902580

False sexual allegations

How do you deal with sexual allegations that get spread around about you sneakily with no way for you to address this cause no one tells you who said it and what they are? Like I'm being quietly being told I'm this type of person with no way to defend my case in any matter. Not even legal can fix th...

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Anon·09/04/26 19:43·No.34892355

I consider myself a person of African descent. I am not a black person. I do not consider myself a member of the "black community" because they do not represent who I am, I do not care for them, and I find the whole idea of a racial "community" to be extremely stupid. It's like my friend. He was b...

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Anon·09/06/26 17:36·No.34897829

How to afford an iPhone?

I demand that you tell me how do I afford a brand new latest generation (at the time of purchase) iPhone as a Russian who earns 500-600 USD per month after taxes, most of which goes to rent and food. Regarding storage, 256 GB is enough. Regarding the tier, honestly I think buying such an expensive p...

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Anon·09/05/26 19:03·No.34895534

what carreer path should i follow: >welder(subaquatic or industrial welding or industrial engineer in the future) >construction management (civil engineer in future) >or computer science (cybersecurity ahead) consider that im in europe and i actually receive money to make these courses, and they a...

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Anon·09/07/26 15:04·No.34900490

How do I start talking to my classmates?

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Anon·09/07/26 14:49·No.34900470

How do I stop being a monger? It's hurting my pockets and causing financial problems. Getting a GF would solve this problem but women's standards are too high and I cannot meet their expectations.

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Anon·09/06/26 18:25·No.34897910

whore gf

what should I do bros? I got into a relationship with my supervisor from work, shes 3 years older then me and we were friends before we started dating. I always had a crush on her but I kept it lowkey. Evntually we hooked up and she asked me if I wanted to start dating, I said yes becuase I've neve...

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Anon·09/08/26 11:50·No.34903161

How to make the best out of my situation?

I got a really spiteful, selfish, and egotistical brother. He has anger issues, lashes out violently, and he turns 180 and drops you if you piss him off. However, due to how my life has panned out, he's my only way out of the rut I am in. He has the means to get me a job, help me find a place to liv...

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Anon·09/07/26 18:50·No.34901133

Needing a chillout spot

So all my frens and I are in our late twenties. Most of us are broke and we're still in our hometown still after high school. Anyways while some of us have an apartment or house to rent. A few of us live at home due to lack of roommate opportunities and early stages of dating. We don't go to clubs o...

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Anon·09/06/26 16:51·No.34897788

boredom

I'm bored. What games should I play?

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Anon·09/04/26 06:57·No.34891403

I dont understand why girls are not attracted to me. I know I am not a talk 6 foot chad stud with a six pack but I know I am not ugly. I am pretty good at conversation with girls but they just never seem interested. A typical conversation at the gym goes some shit like >hey! Hows it going >w-w-WHAT?...

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Anon·09/08/26 08:08·No.34902849

>converting to Islam as a 28 KHHV to cope with being incel Thoughts on this idea? Will they accept a white Truecel in the ranks?

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Anon·09/08/26 00:41·No.34902169

Meet women Dublin?

Where can i meet cute girls in Dublin? Generally...and also, where is the alternative type scene?

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Anon·09/08/26 02:31·No.34902418

What advice would you give to a 34 year old virgin getting his first girlfriend?

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Anon·09/08/26 02:03·No.34902359

I have a 30 minute screener interview with a "Senior Talent Acquisition Manager" tomorrow, which I'm pretty sure just means HR. How do I not fuck this up?

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Anon·09/07/26 13:22·No.34900315

Im back again lol, Am i to ugly to use dateing apps?

This time ill keep it simple instead of whining about why im using them. Im 6'3 with a big cawk and lots of mone are these photos of me dogshit and am I to ugly to use tinder? I have been swiping on really FAT women (no hate at all) and single mums with 3 kids no hate for the queens, I got zero mat...

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Anon·09/07/26 16:46·No.34900748

are my standards too high?

never had any romantic contact with a boy. because i want the right one and i dont want to settle for someone who doesnt reach them and i wont be even half as attracted to. now my standards arent "rich chad" as you might expect but they are linear: >some kind of people hating autist loser >nerd with...

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Anon·09/07/26 22:15·No.34901833

What kind of girl should be a good fit for me?

I'm severly traumatized and I'm in a limbo between wanting to improve my life and killing myself. Other than that I really like philosophy & religion in general as a result of all these existencial questions I ask myself to cope with reality I am also into metal but I look more like a Chud than a m...

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Anon·09/08/26 01:13·No.34902234

My nigger of a neighbor keeps causing problems. I live in an apartment complex, he has a problem with my motorcycle because he can't park - stupid baboon. Thing is, I don't even park near him, he's a senile old fuck that mistakes motorcycles that park near him for mine, then gets back at me for some...

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Anon·09/08/26 03:05·No.34902488

Feeling very down

Hello anons. I hate my life, I hate life in general. Everything is so shitty nowadays. I live in a big city and it’s the absolutely worst. There’s no sense of community and everybody avoids each other. I rarely talk to anyone on any given day. I don’t even really want to desu. Like I’m so lonely, b...

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Anon·09/08/26 07:22·No.34902791

How do I find livestreams from the 2010s?

Does anyone know of any websites?

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Anon·09/07/26 14:46·No.34900464

Having to work full time makes me suicidal

Working 40+ hours a week doesn’t feel sustainable to me. There are some things in life I enjoy like music and nature but I can’t enjoy them when my whole life is working or recovering from work so that I can work the following day. Like life just kinda sucks when it’s 90% slaving away and you have t...

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Anon·09/07/26 11:13·No.34900076

any tips for getting a remote/wfh job? i already know about ratracerebellion but im wondering if i should be lying in my job applications to get my foot in the door, and to what degree. or if you have any other advice, that would be greatly appreciated. thanks

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Anon·09/08/26 03:24·No.34902513

Should I hate myself if I'm in my late 30s and have never dated and am somebody who wasn't made for love? It feels like people like me are side characters who shouldn't have been born. Yeah I know people will tell you that your relationship status isn't everything but those are empty words in the so...

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Anon·09/07/26 11:50·No.34900133

arguing with people on internet

why is it so tiresome? even if you arent trying to argue but just posing a genuine question where you want to learn something, a lot of people just want to shit on you for no reason, oftentimes they wont even bother to read your question properly? example: brought up an issue I have with some old a...

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Anon·09/08/26 03:05·No.34902489

Can't bounce back after trauma

>pic unrel, couldn't find something else. >trying to be as brief and clear as possible in my writing I am a neurodivergent 26 year old. I got ADHD, probably autism, and I don't have friends. I had an online gaming group that I used to game with daily but I left them and self-isolated after a traumat...

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Anon·09/08/26 02:50·No.34902456

explain this behavior to me

girl with no connection to me follows me on IG. i follow her back. she likes all my posts and stories. i like one post and highlight a few hours later. i also message her saying i want to get to know her and to let me know when shes free to chat. she leaves me on seen. a few hours later likes one of...

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Anon·09/04/26 04:53·No.34891254

How to make friends as a long-time married couple

We are "weirdos" in today's society. conservative, self-sufficient, frugal, non-consoooomerist, farm/ranch lifestyle. our interests are our home, land, livestock, infrastructure and things that pertain to or can be done at home. we raise and butcher our meat. we grow our gardens, preserve, prepare a...

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Anon·09/07/26 19:41·No.34901314

Where can I find women like this?

She lives in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Are there a lot of beautiful women there?

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Anon·09/07/26 17:41·No.34900907

How do I get rid of all my fetishes? I feel like I got dealt a god awful hand with my fetishes, even the one I was born with (and I don't know how I got that one, too, because it's a body part and I hear all the time that there's a sort of cross-wiring or whatever because there's that strip of the ...

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Anon·09/08/26 01:17·No.34902247

Where can I find/how to talk to Mid looking women that can bear me children approaching 30? Context: I’m 28, virgin, have lived alone my whole adult life and never approached a woman. I’m in good shape, still have good hair, good hygiene, etc. I have friends and hobbies but they’re not woman adjace...

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Anon·09/07/26 23:55·No.34902066

Females of /adv/, how can I convince my gf to let me keep my dick buried in her after I coom? She always wants me to get off because she feels dirty and goes to clean herself out in the bathroom.

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Anon·09/08/26 00:52·No.34902186

Persecution

My friend is being stalked, manipulated, and harassed by some crazy person online. They met in a game; at first, everything was fine, but then this person stopped pretending. My friend didn’t like their interactions, so she decided to cut ties with him. The person didn’t accept the word “NO” and sta...

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Anon·09/07/26 21:21·No.34901672

/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

Race Swap Edition Thread Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zud9LhR8Ytk Previous: >>34898332 [/adv/thread/34898332#p34898332]

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Anon·09/07/26 19:13·No.34901210

Situationship has left me heartbroken and confused

Part #1: First time poster here. This is going to be a long one so skip to TL;DR at the bottom if you want to skip. About a year ago I (29 M) landed a new job that I enjoy very much. A few weeks in, qnd most of my coworkers in my department are now my close friends and we go out for drinks and movi...

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Anon·09/08/26 00:10·No.34902106

Family Arranged Relationship

so I come from a wealthy backround and my relatives set up a single woman for me to date not but a few weeks ago. She is from a neighboring nation, so initially we were only talking via Instagram DMs because of the distance of locations. It seemed innocuous at first- she showed interest to me and ha...

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Anon·09/07/26 23:03·No.34901949

You've spent years isolated, you're grieving your twenties and terrified about your future; ave you considered going outside?

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Anon·09/06/26 08:15·No.34897094

I want a motorcycle but my girl hates the idea, what do I do?

Ever since 2022, I've wanted to get a motorcycle. I used to think about riding on the road, feeling the wind hitting my face, and looking at the mountains while riding. It felt like freedom, and I wanted to experience that. I don't have a car yet, and I've only recently finished my studies and star...

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Anon·09/06/26 18:26·No.34897912

Should I try psychedelics?

I've never done drugs before, but the other day a guy randomly added me on Snapchat and is offering to sell me mushrooms. At first I was skeptical, specially because of how sketchy it is to buy random drugs from strangers, and for all I know that whatever he's selling me is just gonna make me shit m...

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Anon·09/07/26 19:21·No.34901250

I’m 32 and the last time I had sex was at 16. This is something I should lie to women about, right? This is probably a weird and bad thing?

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Anon·09/07/26 09:22·No.34899825

activity clubs improov by meeting people IRL work on your looks dare to ask a girl you like on a date keep slaving wagie do the wagie waggle >it doesn't work for 30 whole years I'm absolutely spent bros. I'm close to the end.

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Anon·09/06/26 09:25·No.34897151

is there a site with videos of people doing normal stuff like asking women out, ordering in a coffee shop, talking with strangers, first time at a new hobby, or stuff like that? I feel I would be more at ease if I could see how the interaction goes, I knew what to expect so I was prepared. I feel li...

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Anon·09/07/26 12:54·No.34900264

Interacting with people has become routine and boring. I find no joy in people. How do I change this?

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Anon·09/06/26 23:05·No.34898479

I think i'll give up on having friends and socializing, is this the right step?

Been trying ever since i got into therapy for the schizophrenia, they always pushed me into making more friends and socializing but after 8 years i just feel sad and alone, got no one that cares about me, the only two members that are left alive in my family are my brother and sister and they couldn...

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Anon·09/07/26 05:38·No.34899522

My favorite deodorant has blue 1# in it. Should I keep using it?

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Anon·09/07/26 15:05·No.34900491

need to learn more about 4chan

I am working on a personal project which would require me to learn more about 4chan and this general internet culture that is seen on here/reddit. basically im a poser from tiktok and want to be involved in this community, any advice on where to start?

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Anon·09/07/26 19:54·No.34901354

what should i do?

Resently i was hanging out with my really good friend at his place. We were watching a russian film about dead people in boxes. We were drinking beer. Some time later my friend moved closer to me AND STARTED JORKING MY DICK AND AT THAT MOMENT I FELT THAT IT IS OK AND DIDNT SAY ANITHING AGAINST IT. I...

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Anon·09/07/26 18:01·No.34900968

How to fake a suicide attempt?

How can I (18) make it seem like I tried to kill myself? Don't get me wrong I want to but I also really wanna see how people react to some gruesome gashes on my face or burn marks around my throat. Willing to do some crazy stuff too, just need to know how to botch it whilst keeping my healthy mind. ...