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Anon·12/02/25 16:07·No.34004430

Trying to find an attractive virgin wife at 30?

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Anon·12/01/25 20:02·No.34000836

Is having only like 25 followers an ick to women? Especially to women with like 800 followers or something... Should I increase my follower count? Humans are all superficialy, so this should work, right? Is it a bad idea to buy bots who will follow me? I feel like it's only an ick to women because a...

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Anon·12/03/25 15:44·No.34008279

pushing 40 years of age my libido has tanked and completely abysmal, I have no motivation (for life btw, probably combined with severe life time undiagnosed adhd), no energy improoving my life one step at a time do I really need to hop on test to solve this situation? along with daily intake of adhd...

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Anon·12/03/25 12:44·No.34007971

I have a 9" penis but it has a 5.2" girth. Is the girth too skinny?

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Anon·12/03/25 07:43·No.34007391

How do you get over your neurosis and anxiety without drugs?

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Anon·12/03/25 11:53·No.34007903

Am I immoral for throwing my clothes instead of donating

I am really scared of going outside so throwing away is easier for me and I need to declutter. Am I a bad person

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Anon·11/30/25 18:17·No.33995854

whats the difference between fwbs and a normal relationship?

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Anon·12/03/25 03:03·No.34006562

How do you find a woman you can bee yourself with, like a cringe queen. I keep hearing that anons on this board are returning to dating apps...is that the only way to fish for weird women now?

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Anon·12/03/25 17:19·No.34008645

How do I prepare?

>tl;dr gf is preggers, doesn't want to abort, I don't know how to prepare >be me, yours truly, 24 >gf is 28 >been living together for a year and something now >I don't want children right now (I started college 1 year ago) >She wants some children >to be fair halfway through the year we came as clea...

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Anon·12/03/25 03:40·No.34006662

Acted like a complete asshole and weirdo

Alright so I’m a college student and I had a mutual falling out with this girl I was in a “situationship” with for about a month. She said I was being too clingy, and after reflecting on it for about two months, I’m pretty sure she was right. I don’t think I was in the right. Anyways, we had a fall...

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Anon·12/03/25 15:35·No.34008257

>went to my gf's place after work >we played a board game, had sex and watched netflix >anon we should do something >you want to go for a walk? >no >what would you like to do? >I don't know What does she want? We have out weekends already full because we are meeting friends and having few Christmas ...

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Anon·11/28/25 23:11·No.33989835

I am attracted to bullies/cruelty

Watching men be incredibly mean spirited/rude for the sake of being rude turns me on in a way I can't describe. It's poisoned my taste in guys and I think I'm fucked in the head now.

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Anon·12/03/25 00:16·No.34005953

How do I get BPD girl to put out?

I wish she could be my gf that I've always wanted but she's too much of a slut so I just want to fuck her at least. We've been friends for 5 weeks and we get along pretty well and she consistently chooses to hang out with me over anyone else, one on one after college we walk to the bus stop together...

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Anon·12/03/25 16:30·No.34008459

looking for advice from you guys theres this trans woman who has been in my autistic interest community for 3+ years and got into innumerable drama and left and said theyd commit suicide and they want moderator and are taking psychology and do therapy or whatever they used to be gay so what i want a...

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Anon·12/03/25 13:57·No.34008042

things to do before dying

I'm currently sick and am going to die in less than a year, I've never truly lived outside of staring at my computer, what are some things I should do/experience before I die

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Anon·12/02/25 06:25·No.34003346

I'm 28 and I'm thinking of losing my virginity to a hooker soon. Now my question is, should I pay more for a GFE or is it not worth it?

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Anon·12/02/25 23:35·No.34005737

>two years ago, am invited to an online lady friends wedding. we were close when i was a teenager but drifted apart as time went on. she left our group and found a husband. i have always enjoyed talking with her and hanging out with her playing games and watching films. >in the flesh she is a stunne...

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Anon·12/03/25 02:54·No.34006534

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #330

>What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask ...

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Anon·12/03/25 05:01·No.34006972

If I’m 5’11.5 feet tall what’s the shortest woman I can marry that will birth me non-manlet sons (at least 5’10) My dad was 6 feet and my mum was 5’7

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Anon·12/03/25 14:46·No.34008144

Has anybody here quit porn yet? If so, did it happen naturally where you just didn't feel like watching it anymore or did it take a lot of work and discipline?

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Anon·12/01/25 18:57·No.34000483

why do moids tell women to be chill and communicate clearly? they refuse to follow their own advice, they do the opposite. all moids do is act like women so they can destroy us from the inside... moids admit that they just want to get laid (which they will lie and cheat and rape to do) and hurt wom...

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Anon·12/03/25 14:15·No.34008073

how to prevent drugs from being planted in your suitcase? Lately there are many cases that when you check in the suitcase and lose control over it the airport operators put drugs for the operator of the other country to catch it but sometimes the process fails. You can easily end up in Japanese pr...

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Anon·12/03/25 12:51·No.34007976

Why Is toying with people lives seen as le bad by normies?

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Anon·12/02/25 23:48·No.34005825

I need help tackling my resentment of women, I know they can sense it and its toxic to them. The moment I realized it happened when outside a grocery store there were some chairty workers slinging "Support victims of domestic violence?" and my first thought was "If they don't want to get beat, they...

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Anon·12/03/25 16:04·No.34008369

>be me >32 >manlet and balding >ex royally cucked me >am in a year long slump >go out by myself >group of girls enter >one clocks me, approaches >clinks my glass, dances around me >I stand there like a mushroom and say nothing >she starts grinding on me and bumping her ass into mine >I angle towards...

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Anon·12/03/25 12:16·No.34007941

Help me solve the argument I have with some friends, the woman in this picture is a perfectly average plain Jane looking girl, not attracive not un-attractive, correct?

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Anon·12/03/25 14:26·No.34008094

Life Rate/Advice Thread

>25yo Fire Alarm Technician >Living with my mother >Make $28/hr >$10,500 in savings >Car Note is $357/Insurance is $300 a month >Give $300 to mommy for bills. >Incline Bench 225lbs × 5 >Squat 285lb × 3 >Weighted Pullup 25lb × 5(215lb Bodyweight) And a pic of my room. Get in here fellow life players...

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Anon·11/30/25 20:37·No.33996365

How do you abandon the want to be highly sexually desirable? I am in my mid 20s now and its hitting harder than I have ever felt it. I am a 5'10 man with a mediocre face and a thin bone structure. I will never be what women covet, and that just kills me. I want to flirt kiss and fuck every pretty gi...

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Anon·12/02/25 23:04·No.34005614

subject

does anyone else struggles with having apparently niche opinions and worldview and not being relatable at all in general. on some days im quite frustrated because there is no one i can relate to. i dont know anyone who thinks remotely the way i do and it makes me feel unrelatable and isolated. i can...

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Anon·12/03/25 00:33·No.34006016

Passed over for internal position.

Last month I applied for an internal promotion within my department. I found out today that I got passed over. Feels bad. I can't help but feel resentment. How can I get past this? I'm in a great place financially and the position was almost lateral, so I'm not concerned about that. It just feels l...

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Anon·12/02/25 21:40·No.34005289

The "Be Yourself" Dilemma

It's perhaps the most cliche and most commonly given piece of advice ever: just be yourself. But it's hard to deny the fact that some people are just naturally unlikeable. If being yourself does not work, what else can you do? Is it possible to fundamentally change who you are as a person? Or do som...

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Anon·12/03/25 04:09·No.34006745

How do I cope with failure?

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Anon·12/02/25 22:05·No.34005354

>Scrolling reddit out of boredom >Age gap advice thread pops up about a 19f wanting to date a 27m >”Ewww 19 year olds are children to me I’m 30 and it’s gross” >”I’m a grown man and a 19 year old is a kid” >”Why are you even looking at 19 year old kids?” >”Men who date young can’t get women their ow...

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Anon·12/02/25 06:16·No.34003310

How can I deal with being a bad person?

I genuinely dislike people, I think of them as foreign species but I don't like feeling this way to I try to be kind to them but then they end up betraying my trust or displaying behavious that I consider them to be morally wrong without an ounce of remorse. I try my best to be a good person but I t...

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Anon·12/03/25 11:57·No.34007910

Should I become a game dev?

> be me, age 24 >Eurofag >get paid 1.3k € as a receptionist > no gf or love for anyone besides my family > Most of the money gets spent on apartment, car and living expenses > lifestyle shit and unhealthy > realise my life is going nowhere in 4 months im gonna be 25. I have done nothing noteworthy ...

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Anon·12/03/25 13:56·No.34008040

When I was a kid, I really wanted to be a pornstar when I got older. But God gave me a 5 inch dick that's not very girthy. What should I do with my life now that I am 19yo?

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Anon·12/01/25 12:46·No.33999630

I used ChatGPT to gaslight myself into believing that a female coworker is romantically interested in me. Now, I'm seeking real-world expertise on pursuing her. I haven't talked to a dateable female in 4.5 years. Give me your best tips and tricks. >inb4 don't date your coworker Your mother will die ...

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Anon·12/02/25 18:43·No.34004811

What do you do when you no longer desire sex?

My sex drive has been in the red for years. I dated a girl and never felt like having sex. When I look at porn I do it as quickly as I can to get off then block it out of my mind. Since I don’t desire sex where can I focus my energies now? pursuing a relationship doesn’t make sense anymore. Volunte...

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Anon·12/01/25 12:20·No.33999608

What have you done with your life?

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Anon·11/29/25 19:45·No.33992257

Why does women actually caring about personality trigger incels so much? Is it because you can work on it?

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Anon·12/03/25 01:57·No.34006341

There's this girl who works at the coffee shop I go to every morning. She always writes something extra on my cup, like "have a good day :)" or draws little hearts. Today she wrote her shift schedule on it. Pretty sure that's an invitation to come see her but I don't want to be that guy who misread...

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Anon·12/02/25 18:47·No.34004827

Balancing free time better

In order to live the life that you ultimately desire, and not merely be in the state of “not incontent” is it better to focus on banning certain habits / distractions or focus on pursuing certain habits / activities? As far as I can tell from my own experiences it is 99% about removing distractions ...

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Anon·12/03/25 00:27·No.34005998

sometimes he toches be but i dont rlly mind

genuinely im so depressed.ive got into a school i really worked for and got in but now i fant even go there.i feel like im hanging on everyone’s shoulders.i still have things i wanna do like a youtube channel nobody knows but i still wanna make one and other stuff…but if im done..i dont see another ...

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Anon·12/03/25 12:00·No.34007915

Ain't no rule says a dog can't play basketball

What are some loopholes, tricks, practices, methods, "hey, you can't do that...(can he do that..?") rule-bending examples that have made your life easier and more carefree? Things that go against the norm, you simply don't have to do or go along with that separate you from the herd who tells you you...

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Anon·12/01/25 23:12·No.34001561

My standards are just way too high

I'm a 34yo KHHV by choice because I don't find 99.999% of women attractive. Seriously, out of the thousands of women I've seen, I've only found 3 women attractive in my life. Every other woman is about as attractive to me as a chair. I think a major part of it is I'm just not attracted to the human ...

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Anon·12/03/25 14:29·No.34008099

What's a good place on the internet to find women that want to date BUT at the same time allows people to be anonymous?

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Anon·12/03/25 07:12·No.34007331

I'm a senior college student. Math and CS double major. I feel I've been losing my interest in software; most job postings are uninteresting to me. What should I do?

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Anon·12/02/25 21:53·No.34005332

Imagine that you’re actually a child and everything happening now is just a dream; in fact, when you die you’ll wake up and be able to do everything right again

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Anon·12/02/25 10:18·No.34003906

Is it a bad idea to marry someone you're not super attracted to?

I'm very conflicted on this. If you get along really well, have lots in common, both want a family, and genuinely do love each other but the sexual attraction isn't very strong (example, "cute" vs "hot") is that a recipe for disaster? I want to say not necessarily because it's natural for attraction...

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Anon·12/03/25 14:30·No.34008102

Friends

I didn’t make any friends in highschool because my parents made me scared of other people with their constant yelling and now I work at Walmart for minimum wage and everyone is either way older than me or younger than me with not in between. Is it too late for me to get a social life? I would really...

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Anon·12/03/25 14:37·No.34008127

How bad is it that I've been in and out of school for 10+ years now? Why do I feel so depressed, unmotivated, and burned out still?

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Anon·12/02/25 21:54·No.34005334

I think my gf might be cheating on me, should I confront her now or wait until I'm certain

>My 24f gf moved in with me a couple weeks ago >On sunday I came home a little early and went to check on her >she seemed fine in the morning but now she was coughing so she asked me to give her a mask, but she wouldn't open the bedroom door more than a crack "I'm really sick and I don't want to ge...

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Anon·12/03/25 02:56·No.34006542

I'm considering abandoning programming to go back to university for nursing at age 31. I live in Ontario, Canada, and there's a provincial program that would pay most of my tuition. Tell me if I'm a fucking idiot. Pic unrelated but an excellent book you should read.

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Anon·11/16/25 13:43·No.33943999

For the past 5 days I have been experiencing extreme weakness whenever I do stuff like walk up a simple flight of stairs. It feels like I just ran a 10K marathon. Heavy breathing and sweating and heart racing. It's like I suddenly became a 95 year old man that needs a walker. But I'm 40. Would it ...

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Anon·12/02/25 23:45·No.34005803

>grandfather is depressed because my grandmother told him that out of the four grandparents, he's our least favorite >that's not true at all (he might be my favorite actually), she's just bored and causing drama How do I get Grandpa to feel better? I'm awkward with emotional stuff.

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Anon·12/02/25 08:02·No.34003592

So there’s two bisexual chicks in a lesbian relationship that offered to have a threesome with me but the problem is that both are kinda unattractive to me, they’re both fat and brown. One is mulatto and the other is some kind of southeast asian. But on the other hand it’s always been my dream to ha...

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Anon·11/29/25 00:10·No.33990004

Will She Come Back?

I was friends with this woman for two years before becoming a couple. We had been sort of soft-dating for a few months this year, going to dinner and movies often. In August, we made it official. We had a really good two months of being an official couple, both hitting it off with each other's sibli...

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Anon·11/30/25 21:18·No.33996552

Is it a waste of time to chat with women who's response to the question of whether or not they're looking for a boyfriend is "if the right guy comes along?"

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Anon·12/03/25 09:13·No.34007531

Critique any point you believe is wrong/inaccurate

1: What you see in a person that you meet at first is what you're going to expect of that person as long as they're a part of your life. People can change, but never in a way that will benefit you. 2: The internet is for fags. People that use it to socialize are losers. 3: Nobody really cares abou...

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Anon·12/03/25 01:56·No.34006329

Is buying a milk foamer enough for making decent capuccino? Or do I have to buy one of those fancy machine?

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Anon·12/03/25 11:33·No.34007872

> have a girlfriend that is doing a > have a girl that seems to be intrested in me > gf that is doing a training to be a fitness clerk > the girl is doing studies > gf works in a fitnessstudio (obviously) > girl is going to takeover the companie of her family (small one) > both have looks on the sim...

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Anon·11/29/25 22:27·No.33992792

How do I gain the ability to mentally block external sound from entering my consciousness? Basically turn off my ears with just my mind whenever I want? I used to be able to do this for a second or two when I was a little kid but since lost that ability as an adult. I need to be able to do this so...

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Anon·12/01/25 16:43·No.34000022

I'm black with a 9 inch cock. Where can I find a nerdy looking asian femcel like picrel?

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Anon·12/02/25 21:36·No.34005274

How can I cope with the fact that girls like picrel are simply beyond my possibilities? How can I deal with the frustation?

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Anon·12/03/25 05:08·No.34007004

College Anxiety

I'm feeling hella anxious about school tomorrow. I've totally skipped the last few weeks to basically jerk off and play video games and now I gotta give my research presentations this week. This should be the last time I gotta show up this semester, after that I can safely bail for winter break. How...

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Anon·12/03/25 07:45·No.34007393

I was feeling down on myself and my place in life. I've grown to hate the city I live in. I hate my job and my coworkers, and most of all, I hate my family. I've been moved out and living on my own for over two years now, but I still go and visit them every week just because I'm scared to have that ...

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Anon·12/03/25 11:34·No.34007876

Found a reason

Never give up anon, life surprises you whenever you least expect it. I was going to commit suicide yesterday. And I didn't, I asked for help. > told family > was given meds and support Now I honestly think I will pull through, I just have to keep it up. To keep going no matter what. I'm very ment...

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Anon·12/03/25 11:34·No.34007877

How do I get a good job in UK

>apply for a office job >2 years experience desired, but not required (rejected) >apply for apprenticeship >you are over qualified (rejected) So what do I do if I am a bachelor in business and just two months experience working an office job? I've been trying to apply to entry level jobs in administ...

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Anon·12/03/25 01:32·No.34006226

You know those signs that say "do not feed the birds?" Would it be okay to just feed the birds anyway? What's going to happen if I do?

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Anon·12/03/25 07:10·No.34007328

23 virgin ; can't talk to women

I'm a 23-year-old virgin. I'm male, 6 feet tall, and decent looking (have had women crush on me, been told I'm decently attractive, etc.), yet have never even held a girl's hand. I really struggle communicating with women and approaching women I find cute; I couldn't even approach a woman that I kn...

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Anon·12/02/25 05:17·No.34003031

how do depressed people take care of themselves?

I'm severely depressed. I'm not gonna kill myself but I genuinely cannot keep up with a full days work. I used to have a job and it's like my brain would just shut off. I spent most my time staring into space and ripping the skin off my fingers. Somehow they never complained, so I did it for a few y...

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Anon·12/02/25 10:54·No.34003950

When I'm out of copes, what else is there to life? Simply eat, drink, sleep and work? >just [vaguely sports thing] bro >just [latest cope fad] bro >just [more expensive vacation] bro

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Anon·12/02/25 23:04·No.34005618

I'm unable to form a relationship. What's wrong with me?

I'm unable to form a relationship. I flirt and date date but I've realized I only care about sex and can't form any connection. My longest relationship was my first in 2018, lasted three months. Since then, I had only short lived flings, self sabotaged potential relationships and wished a girl who c...

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Anon·12/03/25 08:06·No.34007433

cat followed me home

cat followed me home, its to cold to make it stay outside tonight. ill need to let it out before I go to bed though so it might not even come back to me. if it comes back ill have to take it over to the neighbors tomorrow, I am 99% that's where its from. what do I do in this situation? I feel bad fo...

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Anon·12/03/25 08:39·No.34007475

How do I get over the uncomfortable feeling of narcissistic injury? Someone slighted me by talking about money, telling me I didn't have any and insulting me while they called me broke. And I got very pissed off. I want to stop being so weak. I only ever feel insecure around other people, pisses me ...

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Anon·12/02/25 19:08·No.34004907

Classmate wants to set me up

So this female classmate of mine said this girl is a good fit for me (a girl who dropped out last year and became TikTok famous by singing beautifully), and another male classmate asked me if I wanted her number, he could give it to me. She's pretty but it feels like a thirst trap. I admitted to the...

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Anon·12/02/25 00:27·No.34001928

Do all men watch porn?

Do all men watch porn? If they do, how can i cope when my boyfriend is watching other women when masturbating, and looking at instagram models? If it is normal i dont want to be toxic and make him stop, just wondering if there is any way i can make myself feel better about it?

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Anon·12/03/25 04:42·No.34006878

You’re a good person, anon. 4chan is full of shitty people in shitty boards, but not you. By being here you’re different you’re the sun in the winter

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Anon·12/03/25 02:42·No.34006499

How do women manage to get the money and attention for simply selling nudes? I want you to help me understand how it's possible to male a living of this. There are millions of girls who look exactly the same. How exactly this a random nobody gain such popularity to gain success?

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Anon·12/03/25 10:11·No.34007664

>29 >neet since 2016 >agoraphobic >5’3 >4K to my name >live with mum >no degree >leave house maybe 6x a year >no irl friends >sister makes low 6 figs a year and refuses to give me a cent >exzema >live in shitty small town >sperg Is it even possible to have a great life with these stats? Where do I ...

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Anon·12/03/25 10:53·No.34007747

uwa...

> 18 year old > afraid of leaving the house > supposedly studying but not going to class at all > no job > no money > sad and depressed > mentally ill > has a girlfriend How do I proceed in this situation.. uwa... I don't want to kms.. but I don't know how to fix life either... > retaking last hi...

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Anon·11/30/25 18:34·No.33995900

Is it worth it to date insecure women that think you'll cheat on them?

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Anon·12/02/25 23:37·No.34005749

Is having your cock rated by strangers on the internet a good idea?

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Anon·12/03/25 08:40·No.34007476

Advice

I won't make it for school today and today will be my last day being in this earth, and I just wanted to say it was great to have ups and downs in my life and I will never forget the one's who were with me. I am currently listening to The Less I Know The Better - Tame Impala. You guys matter and acc...

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Anon·12/02/25 22:29·No.34005432

How to defend yourself against the psych industry/trafficking circles?

Long story short I'm being targeted by a trafficking ring, who some time ago would break into my place and drug me and do bad stuff to me at night. I live with family and don't have a good enough job to move out. I'd get scared and try to sneak out and go to another town in secret so I could escape ...

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Anon·12/02/25 23:05·No.34005620

How did you break your chatbot addiction?

I decided to see what's the fuss about chatbots around midway through 2023. I started out with a simple Zelda roleplay on character.AI and I soon found myself addicted to the technology. Fastforward to now. I am using the tech almost every other day, spending around 1-2 hours before I either get bo...

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Anon·12/01/25 04:19·No.33998483

Advice on how to acquire a hobby?

My life sucks. I rely too much on work for sustenance

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Anon·12/02/25 10:43·No.34003934

Repeated use of psychedelics, yes or no?

Had a shroom trip 4 years ago. It opened my eyes to many things and increased my self-awareness, and kick started some thinking processes which has led me to realize what's important in life, understand how humans work, understand what I want and overall become more confident in myself. The problem...

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Anon·12/01/25 22:44·No.34001444

I started antidepressants and now I don’t feel sexual desire

I still get horny under the right circumstances but I’m not actively looking for sex anymore. I could live without it. This helped me heal from my last breakup too. You guys should try them

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Anon·12/03/25 09:18·No.34007538

How do I stop farting?

I'm farting non-stop, and it's getting embarrassing to be around people because of it

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Anon·12/02/25 20:38·No.34005127

Dating advice

I met this girl on a dating app and we texted for about a month. We have a lot in common and the chemistry felt pretty good, so I asked her out for coffee. She seemed really excited — dressed nicely, put on makeup, all that. But I got super nervous on the date and couldn’t really hold a proper conv...

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Anon·12/03/25 01:38·No.34006250

ChatGPT has doxxed me

Pretty contemptuous of AI and I’m fucking fatigued of hearing about it but admittedly I’ve been using chatgpt to help me make a case study for a job. I’m not naive about data farming and surveillance but I never thought ChatGPT would farm so much info without my consent. I strategically tried to st...

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Anon·11/28/25 01:14·No.33986517

is it cheating

I'm watching porn sometimes to masturbate. I know though my boyfriend doesn't at all, and I never told him whether I do or not, we just didnt talk about it. But I wonder if me masturbating to other people in the video is considered cheating? I do kinda feel guilty. Should I try to stop?

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Anon·12/02/25 18:28·No.34004746

I'm 28 and my father paid off a house's mortgage and signed it over to me. If I were to get married to a woman and we divorced, would the house get taken and given to her? Is it too risky? I live in Ireland.

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Anon·12/03/25 05:09·No.34007008

If you lived in a house with a pair of parents who were abusive, sexually, although it never got "that bad," with your younger sibling, and there was a constant threat that they will do it again if you disobey or don't grovel before them, and you're worried about letting the gubmint know about it, f...

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Anon·12/02/25 22:31·No.34005440

My backwater southern state has no job opportunities and all the junior jobs require you to be there in person. Has anyone left home for opportunity with little cash, any tips?

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Anon·11/30/25 17:50·No.33995764

Afraid of going down on women

Apparently oral sex is a big thing for a lot of women. I personally have no desire to ever go down on a woman. But mostly because I am scared. I remember seeing one of those early morning informercials when I was younger about throat cancer and one guy on there said he got it from giving women oral ...

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Anon·12/02/25 10:11·No.34003889

i hate my body hair dude. i feel like a fucking boar with all this hair, i used to shave often because of my shitty genetics, but i got tired of it. i made huge efforts just for it to grow back in two days. i don't want to just reduce it, i want to exterminate it. how can i do that?

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Anon·12/02/25 08:04·No.34003601

How do you break this cycle?

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Anon·11/30/25 15:12·No.33995257

GIOYC-Get it off your chest.

Hunk of burning love.

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Anon·12/03/25 04:19·No.34006774

I thought these depressive and suicidal thoughts were caused by adolescence, but now at 22 it's impossible to ignore them. I hate the passage of time. I'm seeing suicide as an escape. Life is truly exhausting, it's simply that, exhausting. I am completely alone, and I will never achieve my goals

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Anon·12/01/25 22:16·No.34001327

I made the classic mistake of getting involved with a coworker. We've known each other 10 years, been together for the last 2. In 2022 her brother died under tragic circumstances, and I stepped into her life to console her. She and I also spearheaded a movement to unionize our workplace at that time...

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Anon·12/02/25 05:54·No.34003186

how do I learn to make my intentions clear when people hate being corrected or having their assumptions challenged? Even when I exceed their expectations, they get annoyed sometimes as if they put stock into me failing and me actually doing something right somehow inconveniences them because they sp...

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Anon·11/12/25 22:39·No.33931267

No Nut November 2025 - 2

Condensed thread for all of your NNN thoughts and questions. Good news: If you're reading this, you're at least 40% done! >prev >>33884906

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Anon·12/03/25 04:17·No.34006772

she’s 20F I’m 34M. she’s very beautiful and kind. but she’s stripper and has the kind of life you expect from that: bad with finance, drugs, hoe life. she often come to my place and we fuck like rabbits, unprotected. We also do short trips and dates. The thing is I like the idea of having a kid wit...

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Anon·12/03/25 03:44·No.34006674

Will I regret not getting a GF?

I am mid twenties and don't feel lonely. I rather goon all day and I really don't want to give that up or share my living space. Once in a blue moon I get some pretty intense bouts of FOMO because nobody is "mine" though.

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Anon·12/02/25 13:39·No.34004153

Can psychedelics fix this?

Im extremely fearful, shameful and shy with people, I evit real genuine contact at all cost. But its all just mask made up to not confront the fact that I cant love or care about them, that im trapped in despair because I no longer have a good conscience, my consciense is ruined is in darkness. Wil...

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Anon·12/03/25 01:30·No.34006221

Quiero vengarme de un pedofilo que esta acosando a mi hermana menor por internet ¿Como lo hago?

Tengo una hermana menor que tiene internet pero un día mientras estaba en la escuela entre a sus chats de Instagram y estaba hablando con un hombre de otra parte del mundo y le estaba pidiendo fotos explicitas, asi que quiero vengarme del tipo y hacerlo llorar sangre para que aprenda la leccion

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Anon·12/01/25 18:26·No.34000344

Serious Post

Should I be drinking 3 cans of cherry dr pepper a day?

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Anon·12/02/25 11:09·No.34003982

Best way to deal with withdrawals?

Specifically THC withdrawals. I've been smoking every day for months now and decided that I want to stop acting like a retarded faggot, and tonight was the first night I haven't smoked in a long time. It was hell, slept for maybe an hour before waking up from this wacky dream, drenched in sweat, and...

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Anon·12/01/25 21:29·No.34001172

My friends are mostly guys, and I heard from them enough horror stories about women they dated that I decided to try avoiding doing the same things with my bf. My bf and I are having sex, and we're at the point we started talking about kinks. I told him I couldn't promise I'd do anything a second t...

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Anon·12/02/25 14:56·No.34004266

Cure for Depression and Malaise in general

Not asking for advice, giving advice. How 2 fix depression, from most important to least. >eat mostly unprocessed or minimally processed foods, that will be beans, plants and fruits, use vegetable oils for cooking >reduce animal foods, meat, animal fats, dairy >completely eliminate junk food, fast ...

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Anon·12/03/25 00:59·No.34006102

/atoga/ - Ask the opposite gender anything

Last Thread: >>34002508 [/adv/thread/34002508#p34002508] for real this time

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Anon·12/02/25 03:28·No.34002522

there's something wrong with me and nothing is working

I don't know if it's adhd or ocd or trauma or some unholy mashup of them and more, but whatever it is, it's ruind my life. A few years ago I finished the first draft of my second novel. It was poorly planned and ended up taking three years because the plot and cast changed multiple times as I was w...

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Anon·12/02/25 03:12·No.34002454

I give up trying to find love in this world.

I have convinced myself that is fucking impossible to find love in the society. You know i tried putting myself out there by joining a church , joining a cycling club , going to salsa classes , putting in the work and effort to get physically fit and making good decisions financially. I appreciate...

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Anon·12/03/25 01:11·No.34006149

Am I autistic?

I can't look at people while talking to them because their face movements are too distracting. If someone is playing music while talking to me I get really distracted and can't understand what they're saying. When walking around I look around after everything often focusing on things to the sides ...

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Anon·12/03/25 01:16·No.34006162

AI advise

Trying to design my own trading cards. Looking for free or regular free credits AI art generators the most unrestricted uncensored the better. Also AIs for watermark removal, image upscaling or any useful AI to help things look more proffessional. Finally anything of free public domain fonts. I am...

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Anon·12/02/25 06:00·No.34003225

A few nights ago I was biting my lip due to stress which suddenly progressed into me tearing off chunks of my bottom lip and now I have scabs that start hurt when I eat spicy/sour food etc. When I bite on the scab the pain becomes too much and I have to chew on an unbitten part which I will quickly ...

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Anon·12/03/25 01:10·No.34006146

it's all just so tiresome, i just want to kill myself. every year that passes I get worse and worse, i do nothing but destroy other people's lives. don't bother asking why. this nightmare will never end.

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Anon·12/03/25 01:58·No.34006342

How to start a writers room?

I just want to know where I should even bother advertising it. Which place would net me some interest from people my age range (20s)?

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Anon·12/02/25 00:11·No.34001855

What does it sound like when a girl flirts with you?

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Anon·12/01/25 20:04·No.34000842

How do I lower my standards

and accept fucking a whale off Tinder? I have one lined up for tomorrow. This is by far the most desperate I’ve ever been and I’m genuinely scared she’s gonna break my dick while riding it. My dick doesn’t get that hard anyway. How do I mindfuck myself into finding a one night stand indescribably er...

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Anon·12/02/25 12:42·No.34004086

My boyfriend is really stupid but I love him

we're literally the exact same except he's really fucking stupid. i guess this is kinda my fault for being in a wmaf relationship, lol. i did really well in school but he did not. he absolutely flunked school. i didn't care thaaaatt much when i found out because he must be good at other stuff, right...

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Anon·12/02/25 21:53·No.34005333

Is It normale you enjoy seeing beautiful women and men sad and crying?

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Anon·12/03/25 00:47·No.34006054

Retarded and stuck in toxic cycle chasing pussy

For the past four years, I have been engaging in an on and off relationship with this girl i met at my first job. we'll call her jess. I'm 22 now, I was 17 when we met. we're the same age. from the beginning it was weird, her senpai is super hispanic and never allowed me in the house (this was durin...

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Anon·12/01/25 17:43·No.34000210

How to unironically find a femdom GF?

I live in a lame conservatard country where everyone is obsessed with muh marriage and sex is treated as a secret procedure you're not supposed to even mention anywhere. How the hell do I find a milf or a mid-late 30s chick who's into femdom or chastity at least for a fling? Tinder and other shit li...

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Anon·12/02/25 18:25·No.34004738

Escort

Does it mean anything if an escort keeps giving me freebies? She's cute so I used to see her a lot, but money got a bit tight at one point. She told me to come over anyway. That was a month back. She called me over at least once a week since then and I've only paid her once, and I was insisting. L...

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Anon·12/02/25 02:26·No.34002270

All I’ve ever wanted out of a romantic relationship is a girl who compliments me often and is genuinely infatuated with me. I hate that I’ll never have this.

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Anon·12/02/25 05:56·No.34003196

Why is dating as an Indian in the west a nightmare in 2025

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Anon·12/02/25 12:01·No.34004052

Anyone here that works boots on the ground in the oil and gas industry? Trying to identify some cities and states to fly out to and try and land a roughneck job, basically the idea is to rent a cheap airbnb or motel room for a month or two in a busy oil and gas hub area, and try and show up first t...

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Anon·12/02/25 09:12·No.34003786

Shitty Parents

>be me >autistic 21 year old >moms a millenial, so you know where this goes >basically have a young stepbrother whose just there like my young sister >basically given the whole shitty parenting works >garbage diet of peanut butter sandwiches and mcdonalds, high amount of constant YouTube kids watchi...

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Anon·12/02/25 23:33·No.34005726

I need career advice

I am considering a career change. I am currently in Healthcare and have a pre health bachelor's but I have completely lost the desire to grind through applications and go to med school. I was thinking about doing accelerated nursing but i have 0 interest in that. I have been interested in tech and c...

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Anon·12/02/25 15:04·No.34004278

How do I fuck her?

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Anon·11/28/25 15:03·No.33988473

My girlfriend called me a faggot over an ice cream

I've always liked ice cream buffets. I’ve always grabbed the same flavors, three scoops, usually picking between strawberry, cherry, chocolate, or some tiny variation of those depending on the place. And at the end I just dump a bunch of M&Ms and rainbow sprinkles on top, it's good ’cause it gives t...

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Anon·12/02/25 04:32·No.34002832

Which makes a better wife, a normal girl who knows how to be quirky or a quirky girl who knows how to be normal?

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Anon·12/01/25 22:36·No.34001416

How to talk to people at parties or clubs?

>be me >mid 20s >always been shut in, barely ever partied or did crazy shit >have massive FOMO >start solo traveling >be staying in major city, decide to walk around in the evening to experience the nightlife >bounce around going in and out of different bars or clubs >just look around, see all the p...

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Anon·11/30/25 19:31·No.33996084

Rate my standards

>>appearance >Have hair >Blue eyes >No facial hair >Don't be overweight >Don't be too too weird looking in an extreme way (extremely chin recessed, nose extremely large, philtrum extremely long) i don't mind mild stuff >>Personality >Be not a normie >Don't be really low iq to the point that talking...

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Anon·12/02/25 22:44·No.34005510

Can I make easy money by just posting a fake game on Steam? >create amazing fake screenshots and trailers for a nonexistent game >upload the "game" to Steam for $60 >it's just a jpg that says "lol" but the person won't know that until they've already bought the game >if I sell 1000 copies I get $60...

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Anon·12/02/25 22:49·No.34005533

I live alone, work remotely and im lonely How can I speedrun getting friends?

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Anon·12/01/25 19:58·No.34000816

I want to hurt myself but if i cut myself i'm scared someone might see what should i do?

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Anon·12/02/25 05:51·No.34003167

I need all the help I can get

inb4 who I am I got 666 I believe Drake is BELPHEGOR I’m only telling the truth I got singular view I remember living this life And I believe I am Jesus Btw I got an selfie with an alien How fucked am I?

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Anon·12/01/25 19:38·No.34000730

NEVER GO TO THERAPY ANONS

Never go to therapy anons, the people shilling this shit are often "therapists" themselves, which are grifters. These parasites need to get a real job, starve them out. IGNORE THERAPY POSTERS AS THEY ARE MOSTLY THERAPISTS SHILLING THEIR GRIFT

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Anon·12/01/25 21:03·No.34001065

I really don't like how I look not face wise and not body wise. I've had gfs before but they all basically cucked me or left me. I'm 34 now. I'd like a family some day but doesn't seem like it's happening. But with how women are I can't imagine it would result in anything but a divorce or raising a ...

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Anon·12/02/25 13:30·No.34004141

Advice

For context,I am a 19 year old boy and I have a 17 year old younger brother .We both are from India.We both are preparing for JEE.I am a dropper.Our dad has been sexually harassing us since lockdown.Its like itching his private area and then touching our belongings.Or sometimes,he touches our belong...

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Anon·12/02/25 16:50·No.34004514

Whats a good book to freshen up on my english. I'm a brit but i want to freshen up on the literary skills the schools refuse to teach. Stuff like Synonyms/antonyms and that

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Anon·12/01/25 03:34·No.33998308

How can I make my friend and his gf split up?

What the title says. What can I do to make this happen?

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Anon·12/02/25 18:22·No.34004729

>Me at interview for new job >HRist had this feather brows or whatever that stupid trend is called >She is talking >Cant stop thinking how stupid it looks >I subconsciously slide finger on my left and right brow >Realized what I did AFTER I did it Im not hearing back right? pic just for reference

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Anon·12/01/25 19:47·No.34000778

Is it a trap?

>be me, 25 M >going to college and working part-time. >ignore any prospects of a love life, rely on usual cope of doing it later when I start working out and make myself more appealing. >girl at my job starts trying to talk to me, I keep an indifferent attitude to her since I assume by default I hav...

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Anon·12/02/25 20:30·No.34005111

Facialy how would this guy be rated 1 tò 10?

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Anon·12/02/25 20:45·No.34005141

How do I become the best liar

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