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Anon·10/22/26 13:12·No.35025244

What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by anons, for anons, about the modern dating landscape. So bring all of your questions about dating here. Some anons on this site actually get partners and laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date people, then this is t...

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Anon·10/24/26 23:17·No.35032010

Why keep trying?

Genuinely might end it soon. I'm turning 20 soon, i can't get a fucking job (look up Finland unemployment stats) after 1.5 years of trying, that's a 1.5 year gap in my CV of sitting on my ass after graduation. I have no skills, practically no experience, useless IT-degree, i'm socially awkward and d...

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Anon·10/24/26 09:49·No.35030623

Just got a Tesla so I could goon on the 2-hour commutes. The cabin camera watches the whole time, and a blanket doesn’t work because it still needs to see that I’m looking at the road and that my hands are free. How are people actually doing this without it constantly warning or disengaging??

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Anon·10/25/26 05:32·No.35032875

Extreme post-nut shame

I'm into a few weird/taboo fetishes, some of them degrading but nothing too insane (like bnwo ew). I jerk off a few times a week, and that's all it ever is, jerking off. I don't have any sex toys, no goon station setup. The most I've done is tried sounding with my finger and I ordered a chastity cag...

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Anon·10/24/26 04:35·No.35030216

Friends suck ass

Fucking greedy ass frienf who keeps using me for my money and envies everyone who lives somewhat a better life than them While having shit ton of good stuff That fucking friend is a parasite idk wtf is wrong with people Why am i so perfect /jk It’s tiring idk how to seal with them or anyone anymore ...

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Anon·10/25/26 10:36·No.35033350

After decades isolated from everyone, I sent a letter to my extended family giving them my contact info and inviting them to coffee because I was feeling lonely Now I'm regretting it, and dying of anxiety waiting for a phone call. The letter should be arriving about now. Should I pretend I made a mi...

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Anon·10/25/26 09:11·No.35033270

Dating with erectile dysfunction

I was a porn addict and it all started when I was really young and got addicted to incest porn. I tried to have sex with three different girls in different points in my life and I couldn't get hard enough to penetrate them I did ejaculate from oral sex but it was because I was thinking about my fan...

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Anon·10/24/26 21:05·No.35031693

>be community college student >taking four classes this term >failing the shit out of calculus 2 with a 24% >passing the rest with As what should i do? i fucking hate calculus. it's the only thing that's screwing up my degree plan. i've already failed calc 1 once and retook it for a C need to earn a...

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Anon·10/25/26 01:48·No.35032311

I want a daughter

I really want a daughter to raise and teach her everything about the world, mold her into a good and decent human being, it would give me the greatest joy in life. The only problems are: >I'm single and already 30 with no relationship experience and no prospects either >I'm a NEET, never had a job i...

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Anon·10/25/26 10:06·No.35033330

How do I completely eliminate emotion?

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Anon·10/24/26 11:22·No.35030731

Mongering and Marriage

I am sort of beginning to understand why people give up in long term marriages. >30s >wife always gets her way >happy wife, happy life BS >around the clock micro managing, telling you what to do >corrects every attempt to do something cause its not done her way >keeps saying wish you had more money...

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Anon·10/24/26 18:27·No.35031388

I can't cope or conform myself with the fact that my IQ is 113. Any advice?

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Anon·10/23/26 23:13·No.35029173

Rockstardom

I already have hair past my ass, so - how do I become a rockstar?

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Anon·10/25/26 02:33·No.35032390

When I discovered porn, I was 7 years old(26 now). I am deeply unsatisfied with the dick size my genetics and environment have given me. I don't see myself as much of a man at all. Still haven't had a gf or sex with women outside of strippers that coerced me. I don't know how to view women. I wish t...

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Anon·10/25/26 03:57·No.35032655

Should I change job

I rarely get to practice my career skill at work (I'm a newb) and pretty much always do prep work and other shit. I have bad consistency at the skill so I'm afraid if I get a new job doing it full time I'll fucking flop. The pay and benefits are good (idk how id get this much anywhere else) but I f...

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Anon·10/24/26 22:50·No.35031953

what the fuck are you supposed to do if a female is working out basically half naked infront of you

dont know if this type of post is allowed. dont intend for this to be a vent post, looking for solutions. so obviously younger women dress provocatively at the gym. not a problem, im all for personal freedom. i make a hard point though to NEVER stare at a womans body in general, I also only look t...

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Anon·10/25/26 03:03·No.35032464

How do I deal with the fact that everyone is judging me for having an Asian (Chinese) gf? I feel self conscious every time I'm in public with her I know people are judging me because even I judge other white guys when I see them with Asian gfs

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Anon·10/24/26 21:52·No.35031769

Is dating a single mom EVER worth it? Does anyone have any personal stories of their success or failures? I keep getting matches with single moms but i dont want to be a step dad, ever.

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Anon·10/14/26 13:53·No.35007752

HELP

I've a "virgin only wife or nothing" sort of a brother. He is reasonably good looking, about 6'1-6'2(I'm 5'9 and he is more than half a skull taller than me), makes 6 figures, is planning to become a "startup bro" and is appaled by the modern dating scene and the women involved in it. I want to conv...

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Anon·10/22/26 01:01·No.35023981

Extreme aggression

Hello anons, I’ve recently started experiencing extremely aggressive thoughts and impulses. I started noticing this tendencies a couple of weeks ago at the gym; whenever I saw a hot girl I felt extremely enraged and I wanted to fuck her but at the same time crush her with the dumbbells or whatever m...

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Anon·10/22/26 11:24·No.35025121

Is it normal to laugh during sex?

I have a boyfriend, I love him very much but he's quite insecure and has been working on it. He's usually very closed off about his insecurities; he's not the type to joke about them and let others laugh at those things to help him cope (that's my way of coping). Normally, when he's insecure about s...

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Anon·10/25/26 08:05·No.35033157

i dont wanna attend my classes because i have failed behind my classmates

this is so embarrassing and humiliating please help me also idk if im still eligible to take the usmle exams atp

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Anon·10/25/26 07:06·No.35033026

How do I get over the fact that I'm not a cute whimsical anime girl but instead a deranged Chinese man?

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Anon·10/22/26 04:26·No.35024622

being shaped to be a people pleaser

Growing up, my parents systematically molded me to be subservient. They constantly compared me to everyone i knew a damaging habit they still refuse to drop today. iam currently stuck living with them because i am in college and cannot afford to move out, a situation made even harder because my grad...

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Anon·10/24/26 17:59·No.35031334

how to stop being a needy pathetic guy

as you can tell i loathe myself, always feel comfy humiliating myself to attention whore for people who might be empathetic grew up in weird family dynamics and got abused too i cant stop being shy, anxious and a mega simp i realise this is a turn off but i only feel comfy being pathetic i want to g...

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Anon·10/24/26 20:04·No.35031595

What are the signs of a whore?

What are the signs that makes you say "this is a whore"? I'm tired of being a virgin, and I'm just looking for easy sex.. Maybe try with a mature woman? Heard that they're kind of easy, but, idk it seems that true love nowadays it's more a fairy tale than a reality.

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Anon·10/24/26 06:21·No.35030430

Do most women cheat?

I was talking to my Chad cousin and told me most women cheat and the tips he gave me with women involve manipulation tactics I do believe in true love though, it doesn't happen often but I believe it's real, am I being naive? I would rather be single that indulge in hook ups or manipulate people s...

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Anon·10/23/26 13:36·No.35028215

/htdg/ - How To Date General

Previous thread >>>34973462 [/adv/thread/34973462#p34973462] What is /htdg/? How to Date General is by anons, for anons, about the modern dating landscape. So bring all of your questions about dating here. Some anons on this site actually get partners and laid, and some of them even want to help. ...

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Anon·10/23/26 08:25·No.35027786

I don't wanna go...:(

Unfortunate enough to be a bong and our government is retarded enough to demand every website age ID users. 4chan appropriately told them to fuck off and UK regulator OFCOM has been unable to collect any fines. But we're now realistically looking at 4chan getting blocked here. I frequent the video...

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Anon·10/25/26 04:22·No.35032719

Existential dread of aging

Anon in his mid 30s, feeling very much at the halfway point between being a "young guy" and a middle age man at this point. I feel like I'm almost having an identity crisis over this since, almost naively, I've identified strongly as a "young man full of potential" for a good chunk of my life. A few...

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Anon·10/24/26 23:35·No.35032045

LISTEN TO ME ALL OF YOU

I know He is the one and only true God, because even the world testifies about Him. Let anyone with ears to hear come to me and listen: What do you think? The sun and the moon, are they up there for no reason at all? By no means. They have been there since the beginning as to testify to the truth. ...

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Anon·10/20/26 22:35·No.35023259

Ugly female

What to do? I feel like any hopes I had have been crushed by simply being ugly and that tainting most of my life. Vain as it may be, my biggest aspiration genuinely was just to be pretty and feel pretty. Not saying that men don't suffer with this too but women are judged way more for looks and men a...

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Anon·10/25/26 04:28·No.35032740

what keeps you going when things get bad

>be me >be 24 >tired, depressed working at warehouse >struggle with binge eating over the last week >today was first time back in gym since Aug 24 >got cs degree >fell for the "learn to code" meme >scheduled for 50hr week starting Monday >still recovering from bad ankle sprain from boxing >thinking ...

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Anon·10/25/26 05:27·No.35032868

So the people my company uses for my 401k lets you set how much you want to put into it from your paycheck and how much you want to put into a Roth 401k option. The default is 6% pre-tax 401k and 0% Roth. Is there any reason why I shouldn't set the pre-tax 401k to 0% and start sending everything to ...

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Anon·10/24/26 20:19·No.35031618

I hate to take my vyvanse even though it works

I got diagnosed with ADHD (predominantly inattentive) this past winter. Spare the discussion on whether it's real or not or whatever, don't care. All my life I've been called lazy, undisciplined, and impulsive. I've had 7 jobs in 4 years (couldn't save a dime). I am on my 3rd gap year since I gradua...

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Anon·10/25/26 05:22·No.35032860

Bitch i hate

>Very close to this one self loathing girl >love her more than anything you ever loved >She claims to not love you back yet you kiss,hold hands have sex and are spirtually intimate >Keep hoping that she will love me one day mfw i have no clue what to do with my shitty fucking life (which is pretty a...

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Anon·10/24/26 16:33·No.35031142

>at work >can't stop thinking about getting home to relax >not a work >can't stop thinking about how long i have until work How do i stop this?

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Anon·10/16/26 10:59·No.35012634

How is a deep or meaningful relationship supposed to be? How is it to be "seen" and feel like the other person is interested in the surface and deeper 'you' in a relationship?

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Anon·10/24/26 17:57·No.35031330

At what point in a relationship do you reveal your true self?

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Anon·10/17/26 17:31·No.35015599

Is it true that doctors hate patients that are on Medicaid? That they're basically working for free or at a loss? Cause I'm on Medicaid and my doctors treat me like shit. Pharmacist too.

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Anon·10/22/26 04:49·No.35024667

i got sick just as became a teenager. really sick. dropped out of school, spent years bedridden. my entire career as a teenage girl i spent online in bed. i feel like to become an adult woman i need to hit some benchmark experiences of being a teenager but it's too late and i'm forever going to be t...

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Anon·10/24/26 20:28·No.35031632

Got outed as a perv today at the gym, am I really wrong? >at the gym and see two girls on a mat bending over and doing other sexually enticing workouts >I pick a spot with a view of them to do exercises around since I’m pretty much done with my own workout >While on my end of workout watch this g...

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Anon·10/25/26 00:10·No.35032120

Think I was roofied

Went out and had like four mixed drinks and a shot and a beer. I am a heavyweight drinker, I went basically instantly blacked out, barely able to stand, walked 3 miles home and was falling faceforward and backward smacking my head. Came to laying in a ditch and on the side of the road, started havin...

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Anon·10/24/26 22:44·No.35031938

I'm not sure what to do about my living situation. Currently I live with roommates in a house in a nice neighborhood. Rent is cheap and I like the location, and for the most part the other tenants have been pretty cool...until recently. I've had problems the past few months with my stuff (food and k...

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Anon·10/22/26 23:36·No.35026444

I just got approved for Section 8 housing assistance. I feel like such a loser. Any advice?

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Anon·10/24/26 02:29·No.35029789

I Don't See Myself Alive in a Few Years

Just got into a car crash that I've caused. The damage is minimal, but as a person going to college soon, I just don't want to live anymore. I've thought about committing suicide, but all I have is a bat (no rope or gun that my parents own). I've thought about death enough to the point that I wouldn...

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Anon·10/24/26 11:55·No.35030756

Should I tell recruiters that I am autistic? If I join a company and no one knows, should I inform my superiors that I am autistic on my very first day of work? Or should I let them find out over time?

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Anon·10/24/26 05:24·No.35030367

I want to fucking die.

My friends and family ignored me, lied and deceived me, beaten me up, and disregarded me. I am sleep deprived and I have depression. I almost never go outside anymore. I may have slowly killed one of my family people. I have 15 suicide attempts, I have threatened my family to kill them, and I have h...

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Anon·10/24/26 15:12·No.35030972

Am I balding? If so what do I do? Don't tell me to go bald cuz le black dudes look good bald, I have a pointy ahh head. Also inb4 hair doesn't matter for black dudes stfu homo 30 yo

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Anon·10/23/26 06:43·No.35027608

Instagram

What should I post on Instagram if I'm ugly and boring? I want to follow one girl, and I don't want my profile to be empty.

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Anon·10/23/26 02:50·No.35026953

As a single male with my own place how do get a gf when I have no social media or friends?

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Anon·10/25/26 01:16·No.35032241

>35 >zero social life and haven't had any friends or acquaintances since school, even through university, where I had zero social experiences >never had girlfriend or been on a date and no woman has ever shown any interest in me >ugly nerdy shitskin living in Britain >boring work from home job >no s...

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Anon·10/24/26 02:08·No.35029717

yellow fever

how does one obtain an asian GF being non white? (I'm kashmiri - light skin middle eastern/spanish looking AF ) , not muslim /religious , typical western weeb/asian content enjoyer, not fat / high metabolism skinny build but some muscle from working out , also short (5 7) I have no preference for a...

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Anon·10/23/26 23:25·No.35029223

How do you meet women after college without using apps?

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Anon·10/17/26 04:17·No.35014293

Modernity kills my soul and my mental capabilities.

>All social interactions are fake, nobody desires to form genuine connections >Applies doubly to women where they will fake interest if you're attractive/charismatic but will coil the second an actual personal subject is brought up >Nobody expresses desires to create anything and just wants ai to do...

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Anon·10/23/26 16:08·No.35028428

GIOYC-Get it off your chest.

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Anon·10/20/26 17:30·No.35022609

I hate being so dependent on people. Always clinging to people who don't add anything to me and brainwashing me. I am tired of being like this. Tired of having to continue living something that does me so much harm, I disgust myself... and I really would like to have the life I see other girls havi...

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Anon·10/21/26 23:42·No.35023728

How do i tolerate uncertainty? I care barely tolerate any at all, its horrible

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Anon·10/23/26 00:59·No.35026654

My mother got fired. What can I do to support her? I'm a college student and don't work.

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Anon·10/23/26 07:56·No.35027742

How do I replace human connection?

I read it's unhealthy to be alone all the time and not talk to anyone. Can I replace this with AI and get the same benefits?

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Anon·10/24/26 08:00·No.35030533

How bad is it really to snoop thru your partners stuff? Do you ever do this

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Anon·10/22/26 05:49·No.35024787

How do I stop worrying about my height? I'm between 5'10 - 5'11.5 (Results were between these depending) I haven't measured myself properly since I was like 19 almost 4 years ago because Im afraid of it being a number I don't like. I am constantly upset when I see men taller then me, it creates an d...

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Anon·10/24/26 22:38·No.35031915

friend keeps e-dating

I have a good friend I've known for a very long time. He has dated irl before, he's not an incel or anything. But his last 5 or 6 girlfriends have been online through video games. My problem is yes, it's none of my business but I'm worried about why he continues to do this. They never last long, 5 m...

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Anon·10/24/26 18:31·No.35031395

How do I get rid of my sugar addiction? I'm eating a tub of chocolate ice cream right now...

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Anon·10/24/26 23:41·No.35032055

how do i be a cute male without going gay or trooning out?

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Anon·10/22/26 20:29·No.35026075

I'm tired boss

I'm tired of life. How to I get into video games to kill the time until I'm dead? I'm not sure where to start. Any recommendations? Most games seem like ass.

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Anon·10/24/26 00:07·No.35029342

I have a phone appointment with unemployment benefits in a few days but I have no digital proof of my job hunting activities because I get no responses, are my handwritten logs going to be enough evidence I have actually been looking for work or will they deny my claims? I am worried because despite...

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Anon·10/19/26 08:31·No.35019690

Loneliness negatively influencing life trajectory

I'm a newly turned 22 y/o guy and last year I moved out of a dysfunctional environment that stunted my development. I estimate that I'm ~5 years behind others my age (people disagree with me on this but I'm confident in it). I'm finally in a position to resume proper development but I have unaddress...

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Anon·10/18/26 00:47·No.35016671

life after 30

how true is this image? I'm really holding out hope that this is true. I'm 28 and feel so fucking far behind, I'm barely even a person at all. I don't know who I am. I don't have the accomplishments or experience that most people my age have and I can't see any of that magically changing when I hit ...

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Anon·10/24/26 10:26·No.35030651

How can I attract a good woman?

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Anon·10/24/26 22:44·No.35031934

Can I be my autistic self and still bag a gigastacy?

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Anon·10/24/26 22:11·No.35031827

I am an addict. I have been 4 years without weed. I quit that because it just made me stupid and lazy. But I replaced it with alcohol and while I don’t do it 24/7 like weed, it is so much more destructive. It has been 10 days since my last drink. I am fucking thinking about it 24/7. It is the only t...

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Anon·10/24/26 17:53·No.35031327

Fear of losing

been in a relationship for 4 years. things are genuinely good, i love them and i think they love me too. no obvious problems, no real reason to think anything is wrong. yet i keep thinking about them cheating on me or finding someone better. every time i say “i love you” it feels like i’m making my...

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Anon·10/23/26 23:56·No.35029312

Can you have a satisfying life and find happiness if you can't form or keep relationships? How?

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Anon·10/06/26 20:07·No.34986858

Good job/career for someone who's an aspie/autist?

Been seriously considering going back to school for a different job/career but I am wondering what would be the best one for me as I have aspergers/mild autism. At first I was thinking of accounting or something finance related but apparently it's not really aspie friendly as you have to deal with ...

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Anon·10/24/26 19:57·No.35031576

Why even try to be social when everyone's a dickhead?

>actually try to make friends with people >invite them to hang out >they cancel last minute >plan a Halloween party and get decorations, prep a bunch of food and drinks, get activities ready, get excited >half the people who said they would come cancel last minute >other people who did show up leave...

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Anon·09/08/26 09:32·No.34903010

Looking for advice from people who have gotten out of "toxic relationships".

This is a long post but i feel there is much to unpack. I'm (male) atm. making exit plans dated for the 25th of this month. A week after my gf's niece's birthday. Short story of what has been going on. We are both in our late 30s, the relationship has gone on for 9 years. We have had a lot of issue...

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Anon·10/22/26 14:50·No.35025377

I have a crush on an older co worker

I’m 19 and have a crush on a ~32 year old co-worker. At first I thought it was more of a “he’s in the same vicinity of me and he looks nice” casual crush but about a few months ago he just randomly started talking to me out of the blue. He’s very charming, funny and a bit of a goof-ball, he would t...

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Anon·10/24/26 16:17·No.35031097

/ATOGA/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

fuck German idealism edition Previously on /atoga/: >>35027926 [/adv/thread/35027926#p35027926]

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Anon·10/23/26 03:39·No.35027096

How do women wash their coochies when youre not supposed to put anything inside it? which leads to my next question, if a coochie smells, is it a problem on the outside (vulva) or is it something deeper (inside)

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Anon·10/22/26 18:07·No.35025777

I have what’s known as non-reciprocal hatred, several people hate me but I don’t hate them in return. It’s quite exhausting I just live with them hating me but I don’t hate them in return. Anyone else got the same thing?

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Anon·10/24/26 15:53·No.35031030

It feels like whenever I complain about people being too protective of me everyone acts like it's not a "real" problem. Its more than just one person, and I can't just cut these people out of my life so I'm trying to be graceful about this. I asked my bf, my brother, my dad, my sister, my mom and m...

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Anon·10/24/26 19:12·No.35031496

How do I come to terms that God didn't give me the tool to live the life that I would end up wanting as an adult?

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Anon·10/22/26 20:37·No.35026087

How do I move on

We broke up weeks ago and I still can't stop thinking about her all the time. I literally can't focus or concentrate on anything else and feel completely empty inside like there's now a massive void in my life. All the time we spent together, the memories, the places we went all for nothing. I feel...

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Anon·10/20/26 22:47·No.35023298

I've been attending a church group my dad set me up with just so I can say I socialize, but I'm not enjoying it at all. All it does is remind me of how much I really don't care to get to know people and how much I love having my time all to myself. I want to stop showing up but people keep telling m...

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Anon·10/24/26 08:46·No.35030587

> be me > 22yo 5 f**t tall 35kg > eating 1 meal takes me forever to finish > eating feels like a chore, id rather work all day how does one genuinely find joy in eating and gain weight?

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Anon·10/22/26 15:06·No.35025410

Met a thicc ass trans woman and she wanted ne to fuck her and wanna know if it's worth it?

Yo bros. I've met this thicc and freaky trans women at a party. I was at a party and this super thicc trans girl approached me and we started talking and having a great conversation. She told me she was trans and i was shocked because hiw thicc and womanly she is abd looks almost like a busty trabs ...

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Anon·10/24/26 14:12·No.35030898

Why is X always suspending chinese adult content

The X platform keeps on suspending Chinese adult content accounts and everytime they do, I would say their post would become lost media. Any website like sowte won’t work because it’s post is linked directly to X. I tried recording but my storage is getting full. How do I view adult content of suspe...

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Anon·10/22/26 01:35·No.35024102

im deeply attracted to my boyfriend’s bestfriend

THIS HAS HAPPENED BEFORE where i had a boyfriend and i met his bestfriend and he seemed like a better fit for me than my current partner att my solution for now is to goon in silence looking at his pics until all of it fades away and i lose interest (hopefully or until i see him again). My question...

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Anon·10/22/26 20:13·No.35026048

How can I make myself focus on things that require my attention "now"? I need to look for a job but I also need to study and learn new things to be able to look for a job. Instead, I spend all of my time playing video games and sometimes doing other stuff. Don't get me wrong, I love doing what I'm ...

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Anon·10/23/26 23:09·No.35029158

The most defining thing about humans is their intelligence. So why is physicality so sought after by the opposite sex instead of intelligence?

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Anon·10/24/26 16:15·No.35031094

probably a bit of a weird request for help

I don't have feelings the same way normal people do, I'm a diagnosed sociopath, but I still care about others, it's a profound selfishness that if the people that are my friends are hurting they can't serve their purpose as my friends. I know that isn't right, but that isn't something I can change n...

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Anon·10/20/26 19:16·No.35022807

Where do you post a request for something you wouldn't necessarily deem "workspace safe", now that / r / no longer exists? All the other boards rule threads point to / r / tho

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Anon·10/22/26 11:46·No.35025145

>pull women >sometimes they even ask me for my number >still get ghosted What do modern woman mean by this?

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Anon·10/23/26 14:02·No.35028261

how do i reduce the activity of my amygdala?

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Anon·10/22/26 05:51·No.35024791

Are you dateable?

Everyone always approaches the dating scene with the idea of putting their best foot forward but that’s not how relationships survive. What people should do is say the WORST thing themselves. The absolute worst. If the other person can stomach you for even ONE SECOND, then maybe, MAYBE, you just mig...

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Anon·10/22/26 19:46·No.35025994

Is no one made to receive intense love anymore??

I'm a girl, and since I was a kid, I've experienced love as an obsession. I want to know everything about the person, look at them constantly, tell them ten times a day how much I love them, spend as much time with them as possible, have sex as much as they can stand to, and generally worship them. ...

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Anon·10/24/26 08:12·No.35030550

how do i convince the doctor there's something wrong with me

long post sorry anyway i had a doctors appointment yesterday (i'm in the UK not the USA) and and i'm really worried about my skull and my doctor checked it and said "oh i think it's just the joint in the back of your head and all of the stress you've been having" i have been under a lot of stress (...

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Anon·10/22/26 13:56·No.35025299

When can we clone 100% of a person?

Ever since I was growing up and seen Miranda Cosgrove on TV. I always wanted to meet her I honestly truly don't feel happy about anything. The only thing that will make me happy in this life is meeting her Everyday I wake up and just feel absolutely miserable because of not having her by my side ...

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Anon·10/23/26 10:28·No.35027961

is revenge ever worth it?

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Anon·10/24/26 13:13·No.35030825

how to become "better"

how can i become a dom male unironically

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Anon·10/23/26 22:55·No.35029109

If I wear a chain like picrel will it be seen as a wigger? I wouldn’t wear it out of the shirt like that, I prefer it tucked. I feel like it doesn’t have to if you can pull it off, it first got popular in America with Italian-Americans, which I am. Everything else about my appearance and haircut is ...

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Anon·10/24/26 05:40·No.35030386

Best time to text after getting number?

Yo, I (23M) just came back from a night out with my boys, managed to pull this cute asian girl (21-22F) during a dj set. we hit it off and she seemed really into me and gave me her number and we danced together. this all happened tonight and im just now getting home, when would be a good time to hit...

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Anon·10/24/26 05:17·No.35030354

SLOPPY SECONDS CUCKOLDRY

Are the vast majority of men out there just sloppy seconds cuckolds? What is the exact number?

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Anon·10/24/26 13:55·No.35030874

I cannot deal with avoidants

I tried, I gave her all the love, I solved our problems, I would listen to her with whatever problem she had, I brought her food when she would be in uni and I'd have free time, hardly a week into a relationship and we'd start having argument fights every 2nd or 3rd day, it drove me nuts, she couldn...

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Anon·10/23/26 21:14·No.35028873

**Was** I spiritually lesbian for falling for a girl who was the girl crush of many other girls who are nevertheless straight? Maybe this was just mere thrill of the chase amplified by the fact that I did already know that some girls already considered her their girl crush?

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Anon·10/23/26 06:23·No.35027571

Why are autistic traits perceived as dangerous by women?

Yeah yeah I get it, men are dangerous to women and women have to be careful. Sure. But why do autistic and socially awkward men bear the brunt of women’s neurosis about men? I’m confused about this because when you look at the statistics most sexual crimes are committed either by family, loved ones ...

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Anon·10/20/26 11:56·No.35022156

Why do black women intimidate me? I always feel like they're gonna beat me up.

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Anon·10/22/26 16:00·No.35025507

Violence risk

I just had a meeting with a psychiatrist who said I am at risk of being violent. A year ago I was suffering from delusions of persecution and I made threats against my father but I have never in my life laid my hands on anyone before. What can I say to clear things up I said I had never acted on m...

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Anon·10/22/26 03:30·No.35024491

Why would an ex message me after months if he’s seeing someone else?

I just don’t understand. We had, for all accounts and purposes, a bad relationship. He broke up with me. I eventually started dating again. He found out. He’s seeing someone else too. So then why would he still reach out after several months?

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Anon·10/24/26 00:47·No.35029424

hyperfocusing

so dumbasses, get this I am hyper focusing on a project rn and I am so deep in that I have lost all sleep and desire to eat. For the last 3 weeks I have been working on a generator - Shall not be named(Basically an obvious mathematic tool but has been capitalized on since its very less understood) w...

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Anon·10/24/26 01:30·No.35029563

I’m 23 years old, and I’ve never had any work experience in my whole life. Deep down, this is something that makes me feel a bit discouraged, and I’m really keen to turn the situation around and try to find a job that will help me build a financial foundation. I want to be more independent and be ab...

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Anon·10/24/26 01:36·No.35029585

Love struggles

How do you meet women who are ACTUALLY interested in forming a real relationship?... I'm new to dating, despite my age. It feels every woman I meet treats me like some kinda dildo then tosses me away. If I don't escalate quickly I get ghosted. But by doing that it probably makes me seem like a cas...

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Anon·10/24/26 05:31·No.35030374

Looking for advice on what I should do.

I'm 19, and currently in my second year of college right now with a job. And I want to drop out, but I can't because I don't want to get kicked out of my parents house. I have no motivation to keep continuing college as I only attend it to avoid being kicked out. I'm just really lost on what to do i...

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Anon·10/23/26 21:40·No.35028911

I invited a collegue newfriend over for coffee. He immediately "flavors it up" from a flask he pulls from his jacket. A nontrivial amount. He drove. The invite was just for 45 mins or so. What should I do? At the very least, defriend?

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Anon·10/22/26 23:34·No.35026439

International status and romance

>immigrant parents >wealthy and high class >mostly spend time with other immigrants in a new country >constantly complain that their local peers are low IQ uneducated retards because there aren't a lot of immigrants of the same national background in the upper echelon (duh) It's a shame, I really d...

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Anon·10/19/26 07:16·No.35019612

>b me >19f >work at this dumb ass job >everyone is so horny and flirts all the time >ive already had 2 weird experiences with co workers >close friend whom i work with is kinda into one of the bartenders >me and him lowk flirt all the time but we are friends >we hungout the other night and he ended ...

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Anon·10/20/26 01:31·No.35021167

is solipsism really true? am i all alone?

i really dont want to be all alone but i fr believe this shit Metaphysical solipsism is the idea that, because the mind can not conclude the existence of anything external, nothing external exists, only the appearance of it.

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Anon·10/23/26 00:14·No.35026555

How much should you spend on your hobbies? My hobby is gamedev and the game I'm working on now has cost me, I dunno, maybe $10k USD so far (over the course of about 2.5 years). I'll probably have spent around $50k on it by the time it's finished. My job pays very well and I don't have any kids or an...

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Anon·10/23/26 22:02·No.35028949

So I don't have anything against black guys, but I know my parents would never accept it if I brought a black guy home so I never tried dating them. This guy from my humanities course has been telling me how that is still racist because it's enabling my parent's racism and I should be open to datin...

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Anon·10/23/26 09:03·No.35027839

amphetamine problem

I think I have an amphetamine problem. I am prescribed amphetamine for ADHD and it helps, but when I take it I become quite manic and euphoric and it makes me want to take more so I end up taking more than I'm supposed to or doses too close together and then I stay up all night or don't get any slee...

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Anon·10/22/26 05:10·No.35024709

need advice

ate a girl's ass and legit got diarrhea. Do i need antiobiotics for this? im embarassed to go to the doctor incase i shit myself in the waiting room

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Anon·10/23/26 15:03·No.35028323

Should I go back to the psych ward. Ever since I got home nothing seems familiar and all everyone does is ask how I’m feeling. The answer is I’m not feeling good and reality doesn’t seem real. At least in the psyche ward I had a break from reality. I can’t do anything because my body is all stiff an...

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Anon·10/22/26 03:03·No.35024386

how would you describe masculinity

different elements of it in life, the absolute core. the good, the bad, the ugly. the healthy, the toxic, the misogynist, the extreme feminism, how you experience it, live it, feel it. Call it a thought experiment

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Anon·10/20/26 01:25·No.35021151

an unjustified sense of doom

frankly, i kind of feel like i'm losing my shit these days, increasingly. i'm 30, and by every metric i've lived a fairly successful life so far. through hard work and luck, i have saved lots (lots) of money and i do not want anything. i live at home with my parents because i am frozen in place and...

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Anon·10/22/26 20:50·No.35026110

A dream

Everyone has one right? To make it big in a sport or become a musician/doctor. Something that would take huge amounts of effort and dedication, as well as decent luck to achieve. That is a dream, is it not? My dream, since I first watched pornography at 7, was to be able to fuck all the sexy women I...

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Anon·10/23/26 14:36·No.35028290

Weird sadistic thrill?

What do you do with a sadistic disposition? To preface, I never actively seek out others to harm or torture. I don't ever like inflicting pain on others for the sake of it. But sometimes, a weird mix of angst, neurosis, etc. well up inside me and I can't help but feel relieved when I find others in ...

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Anon·10/23/26 01:13·No.35026697

Trouble having doing things.

I feel like i have goals and i want to achieve them, I know what I would have to do for them yet even on the most simplest tasks i procrasinate, then I feel shit about myself and just shut myself off even more and play some game or watch porn. (And that makes me feel even more shit.) Even if lock my...

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Anon·10/23/26 20:57·No.35028846

alex hormonzi are you here

how do you sell a hentai game i'm about 2 months from publishing and i don't know what to do, but i know enough that i'm supposed to be promoting it so i was going to start promotion once i finished this next update in anticipation of releasing it on the final update do i buy ads? i've spent money...

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Anon·10/22/26 19:45·No.35025990

should i snitch on my sister and tell my dad n mom shes smoking meth? Also another relative as well.

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Anon·10/20/26 17:36·No.35022621

How do I (gently) tell a woman I don't want to sleep with her anymore? Long story short. The sex is bad. And I think I'm just not all that attracted to her.

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Anon·10/20/26 17:00·No.35022532

Are vibrators and sex toys ruining relationships?

My girlfriend has a huge vibrating wand, a dildo, and just purchased some shit that mimics being eaten out. NGL, I am pretty insecure about it. I have fucked around 20 other women and have been able to make all but a few of them orgasm. Apparently, I have never made my girlfriend orgasm and the vibr...

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Anon·10/19/26 16:25·No.35020174

Working at a cinema

People who worked in a cinema, what was it like? Did it suck? What did you like and what did you hate?

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Anon·10/23/26 17:29·No.35028546

I will turn 30 in 4 months. Should I try to get a gf before then? Will my chances drop significantly after I'm not in my 20s anymore?

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Anon·10/23/26 15:18·No.35028352

How do people cut off their parents/old friends and move on with their life? I'm not trying to act like a spoiled kid here. My parents genuinely never try to protect me, trust me, or listen to what I say, even now. They don't even remember what I say, but they expect me to fully understand their si...

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Anon·10/23/26 00:53·No.35026640

How do I quit pot if every day that I don’t smoke my head fills up with unbearable cringe memories and time freezes to a standstill…I genuinely hate sobriety so much because of how painful life is…

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Anon·10/23/26 16:14·No.35028441

Im not long out of a relationship after being broken up with, since then ive built up my confidence and am receiving a lot more attention from people, but it makes me wonder if im a bad person, because, i know im not ready for another commitment, but im absolutely adoring the attention so i feed int...

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Anon·10/22/26 07:32·No.35024892

My dream was to get into a game company, make game dev friends and create an indie studio full time making videogames. I've been on this path for 5 years now. Learned game engines, animation, code, design. I've added more projects to my portfolio over the years. I've had NO success in game dev inter...

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Anon·10/20/26 09:32·No.35021960

I want to get into guns but am afraid I will kill myself. What do I do?

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Anon·10/23/26 22:02·No.35028950

I want to have sex with my married coworker

Femanon living abroad here. My visa doesn't rely on my job right now but I have plans to get a working visa at my current company I do part time for. Just exited a half a decade relationship 4ish months ago, which has left me decently pent because how does one fuck without a partner anyway? So my o...

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Anon·10/10/26 19:56·No.34996944

How long do you guys typically have to wait after round one before you can go for round two? Cause fucking hell man. I usually have to wait for ten minutes. And I'm fucking forty.

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Anon·10/22/26 15:12·No.35025417

Moving on from sexual assault

Hello /adv/ , first time visiting. fun ms paint doodle attached by me I've been in a crappy situation past few days but requires context for yall to understand. My Bestfriend, a girl i like, has an abusive husband. He often causes her to self harm and be very impulsive. He's extremely aware of how ...

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Anon·10/22/26 19:35·No.35025974

Ecstasy

I got some ecstasy from a friend and my older sister found it and we split a pill to do together we have never done ecstasy before. And a hour in we are listening to music and cuddling and I kiss her and she kisses back and we have sex and our younger sister comes home and my older sister wants her ...

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Anon·10/23/26 10:06·No.35027926

/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

Last Time >>35025076 [/adv/thread/35025076#p35025076]

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Anon·10/22/26 09:21·No.35024992

If you are healing from DP/DR or major depression don't ever give up striving to become better, cuz when you hear those thoughts telling you to "take a break cuz this is too hard" thats the depression trying to trick you into giving up and sinking back into feeling like shit. AND to get better you d...

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Anon·10/19/26 15:41·No.35020128

How does one escape from this country?

How do I immigrate out of this country to a developed (first world) country? Please do not suggest developing countries or shitholes. I don't see the point of living if I have to live in this country.

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Anon·10/23/26 09:31·No.35027880

Help me spy on my ex

I got full access to her laptop tonight. I wanna steal her future nudes lol No moralfagging, I know I'm wrong

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Anon·10/23/26 13:39·No.35028223

how do I improve my articulation and quick thinking and stop being an autistic retard with no memory?

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Anon·10/20/26 12:41·No.35022179

itchy scalp

my head gets extremely itchy at night it's driving me insane trying not to scratch it idk what to do