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Anon·05/14/26 00:29·No.34529662

Has anyone here cheated before?

What was it like? What was the aftermath?

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Anon·05/15/26 20:25·No.34535518

Girl here (yes, we exist) Do y'all have any advice on how to pick out a good swimsuit?

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Anon·05/14/26 06:09·No.34530558

Advice from oldfags

Can we get some unsolicited advice from oldfags? Or at least functioning guys who have past their more impulsive 20s. I ask because - apart from all the demoralization posts - I know you guys lurk here and actually give advice if given the chance. I don't expect you to fix my life, just say what yo...

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Anon·05/15/26 08:59·No.34534370

I think my porn addiction made me want to be a femboy

>been fapping for years, sometimes not even with high lust >100 gbs of rule34 artwork and videos of different fictional characters categorized by names in folders >Recently discover an artist with cute artstyle and a "femboy" character that gets fucked by women >at first fap to the drawings once and...

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Anon·05/15/26 16:21·No.34534984

I matched with a big girl, and now I don't want to talk to her. What would you do

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Anon·05/15/26 17:22·No.34535088

If you had 20k in the bank, what is the max you would let your friends borrow for emergencies?

My friend is asking for 2.5k and I'm cautious if that is too much to give

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Anon·05/14/26 15:29·No.34531451

is my mindset wrong?

im only attracted to women that reciprocate my effort. usually when i put in effort, the girl is extremely passive. im the one initiating convos all the time. it makes me feel like theyre not interested. they only show that theyre interested AFTER i start ignoring them. i think the pandemic really c...

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Anon·05/15/26 15:26·No.34534867

are there any painless suicide methods in the UK?

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Anon·05/14/26 15:16·No.34531432

GIOYC

Chanic Advice, 3rd Edition >Basic Safety >Basic Needs >Security of Basic Safety >Security of Basic Needs >Entertainments >Mindfulness >Secure Attachment Style >Atonement >Grace >Goals >Exploration

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Anon·05/07/26 11:51·No.34508840

I can have dry orgasms and wet orgasms without losing my erection. Are women impressed by this?

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Anon·05/14/26 20:06·No.34532293

Getting over a fear of talking on phones and mics.

Any tips?

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Anon·05/15/26 06:17·No.34534146

Incel Tendency

How to deal with Incel Tendencies? I am an Incel (being honest) and I hate girls of my age, it's not that I never approached a girl I tried my best to get a girlfriend and I have approached over 5 girls till now but every single one of them rejected me I am actually Ugly and short ( 5'7 ) and I gu...

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Anon·05/12/26 03:01·No.34523944

I can't bring myself to start tasks even when they are easy, are things I want to do, and are things I need to do with urgency How do I just start working on something

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Anon·05/15/26 03:01·No.34533576

How can I find peace in life as an autistic failure?

I'm a 25M diagnosed with AuDHD. I've tried my entire adult life to be an independent person, but every time I've tried, I crash and burn. At this point, I think I just need to accept that my worst fears are all true; that I will never live on my own without support. I'm certainly going to live with ...

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Anon·05/15/26 12:51·No.34534654

My ex's taking a huge scale of revenge on me 'cause I break up with him

I had almost 2 years of relationship. I am a woman btw. He couldn't get his thing in me, so we just had sex without penetration. I didn't want to. I know it now that i wasn't actually in live with him, he was just a good friend and the only one I could rely on after my dad died. So in august last ye...

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Anon·05/15/26 20:47·No.34535541

Brown hair ponytail gf.

How to get?

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Anon·05/12/26 03:39·No.34524089

Motivation / Scheduling with a Disregard Towards Output

I am currently trying to find a method of thinking that makes me do things, without the necessity of an output measure weighing me down. As in, not having a constant numerical goal pressure me into doing something (most likely just making me avoid it) Essentially I suffer through long periods of ina...

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Anon·05/13/26 15:53·No.34528316

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #346

>What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask ...

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Anon·05/13/26 11:37·No.34527666

Which EU country should I claim asylum at. Poland? Or France?

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Anon·05/15/26 17:29·No.34535102

How to know if she likes being with me or if she just is with me out of pity and feels trapped but can't leave because I'm too needy?

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Anon·05/15/26 02:37·No.34533494

Sex didn't solve all my problems

Finally lost my virginity a few months before my 26th bday, and a few months after I lost 40lbs and went back to college. Partly inspired to self improve by hoemath. Girl is five years older than me and wears XXXL shirts. I now understand why people would ruin their life to cum inside, but apart fro...

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Anon·05/15/26 19:58·No.34535474

question for women. when you post a pic of you that shows ass and tits, are you aware what you're doing? if so, why do you do that? is it to assert dominance??

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Anon·05/15/26 19:45·No.34535429

I feel really bad again. I just can't explain how I've been feeling lately. Now my boyfriend is trying to understand what's wrong with me and keeps asking me what's wrong. I can't say anything because I don't understand what I'm feeling. I just don't know what's wrong with me, I can't describe my fe...

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Anon·05/13/26 23:01·No.34529442

Going to cheat on my gf tomorrow

Any tips to avoid cold feet? I have been anxious for this date for a good week now. But tomorrow I will fuck another girls pussy and I have no clue how that’s gonna be. Me and my gf haven’t done anything in ages so I’m afraid I’m “out of it”. The problem is that I do dearly love her and it’s just up...

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Anon·05/15/26 16:50·No.34535030

Are pets worth getting? I live alone

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Anon·05/15/26 17:43·No.34535140

I'm too fucking shit at my work and I just started for like a week, What to do lol

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Anon·05/15/26 19:29·No.34535371

How do you develop the mental ability to block out sound from your consciousness? And no, I need to be able to do this without physically blocking my ears with earplugs or headphones. I used to be able to do this as a little kid for a few seconds, but now that I'm an adult, I can't do that anymore...

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Anon·05/15/26 07:53·No.34534276

How can I stop being tormented by my sexual fantasies towards my mom?

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Anon·05/14/26 12:32·No.34531067

my wife layed it all down on me cause I asked her to be 100% honest why she recently has no interest in me. she said the sex we have is always mid, she is never fully satisfied during sex cause I come too fast and that I cant fuck her well from behind and I take too long to get ready to have sex. A...

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Anon·05/15/26 02:43·No.34533511

A pantyboy's rant.

I'm a man and I like to wear panties and bras. However, I have to suppress these desires because I still live with my parents and I don't want them to know about it. It's been over a year since I last wore women's clothing. But recently I got a house to live in. And I won't be paying rent or a mortg...

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Anon·05/14/26 03:03·No.34530121

4 years until I turn 30

and I still havent had my first relationship. i mustve lucked out on having the worst circumstances to start a relationship. >live in car-centric LA >cant drive cuz grew up with no parents to teach me >go to commuter college, nobody in my class talks to each other >cant live on my own cuz landlords ...

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Anon·05/14/26 13:04·No.34531130

Let's say, I randomly go down on a girl. Am I going to catch some anal disease or infection cause there's like trace amounts of anal juice in or around the vagina? You know how the anus is like right fucking next to a pussy? How can I feel safe eating that if the girl hasn't showered down there?

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Anon·05/14/26 01:47·No.34529895

I just found out my girlfriend who I was planning on proposing to had sex with my brother years before we met. I feel so fucking disgusting she basically raped me. I loved this woman but she made me unknowingly commit second degree incest with my brother what the hell is wrong with her I thought she...

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Anon·05/15/26 17:03·No.34535055

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's disabled, and he was disabled when we got together, but he's only gotten worse. We used to be able to have more sex and go on trails every once in a while. We used to go to the game store. Now he needs help up the stairs more and more. Some days he doesn...

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Anon·05/14/26 23:49·No.34532885

PLEASE HELP! I AM HAVING TROUBLE POOPING!

I've been on the toilet for over 6 hours now trying to poop, but can't. I've tried pushing as hard as I can - but nothing will budge. What do I do at this point? I'm hopeless. I might as well die on this toilet. I don't see it getting any better.

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Anon·05/14/26 10:48·No.34531000

religious mom

my mom's crazy Cristian, im an atheist and she hates that and constantly wants to convert me. I tell her all the time that religion is only cope and now she actually wants to kick me out the house. Although I am 18 I finish school only next year and have no savings/job to go look for another living ...

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Anon·05/15/26 17:53·No.34535160

My boyfriend is in another country and we've been together for almost 3-4 months. I feel really good with him, the only thing is he sometimes calls me names or responds rudely. I tell him I don't like it, but he doesn't listen. Every time he says I just don't understand his sarcasm and his sarcasm. ...

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Anon·05/15/26 15:10·No.34534841

I'll be writing here again, like in my notes. My boyfriend is coming to visit me this summer, and we're thinking about having sex. It'll be my first time, and I'm a little scared, but I really want to. Can you give me any advice? And as funny as it sounds, I'm afraid my mom will find out.and I will ...

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Anon·05/14/26 05:47·No.34530509

Will woman ever stop making men have to approach them?

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Anon·05/12/26 18:24·No.34525662

Could someone please explain to me all signs of interest that women show, like to a 5-year old? For example, if I'm on public transport (I'm yuropoor so its a viable form of commuting), and I see a girl I've never seen before and when I look at her, she looks at me for a split second, then looks els...

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Anon·05/14/26 05:51·No.34530520

Where did everyone go?

I feel like the April 2025 hack was the final nail in the coffin for this site. Before the back, I thought this site was dead and gone. I still used it everyday, but I regularly lamented how much better the early 2010s used to be. After the site came back online, I almost immediately realized that...

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Anon·05/15/26 01:52·No.34533323

From my experience exercise increases energy, not mood. In the Fall/Winter I would run uphill every night for 40 minutes and still feel despair as I walked home, still cry half the days of the week, and still seriously consider suicide every day.

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Anon·05/15/26 00:01·No.34532923

Which one would you pick? -7on/7off -10am to 830pm -manager almost never there after 5pm -basically do my own thing as long as job is done -autistic white lady (Disney adult) that thinks she is random and weird and is basically a textbook nut job from facebook -monday-Friday -6am to 230pm -manager...

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Anon·05/14/26 03:50·No.34530258

Is it normal for girls to get mad at you for always insisting on using a condom? Do they like to gamble with get pregnant that much?

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Anon·05/13/26 02:24·No.34526758

Am I ugly?

Am I ugly? I don't seem to like how i look in any photo. My friends say I look good, but i don't want bias

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Anon·05/15/26 03:41·No.34533695

do women who are into twinks prefer them because of past trauma?

i’ve had friends who are into that kind of guy—they sometimes even jokingly call them “losers”—and they’re often scrawny, shy, and around the same height as them. a few days ago, i read a discussion on twitter suggesting that some women—especially those who’ve gone through difficult experiences—migh...

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Anon·05/14/26 15:06·No.34531415

Did I make the right choice?

There was this busty black girl wanting to go on a date with me but I'm 27 and she is 21 and we were at different chapters in our lives so I had to tell her we couldn't date She is really hot though, looks like picrel, I feel like I made the morally right choice but it was hard

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Anon·05/14/26 22:22·No.34532650

How much boob should I show to attract guys but not come off as a slut?

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Anon·05/13/26 23:07·No.34529459

Is it worth going back to Romania to find a young gf?

America seemed very cucked on age gaps. I don’t see anything wrong with 10+ year age gaps, but people here freak out over even a few year age differences now.

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Anon·05/05/26 00:33·No.34499217

Suicide

So I keep hearing killing yourself over a woman is among the dumbest reasons to do it, but after 3 years of incredible emotional pain because of one (which reopened a then 12yo wound from another woman I was trying to ''get over with'') I feel like it is the ONLY valid reason to do it. I only recall...

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Anon·05/15/26 14:39·No.34534793

Hi, I'll use translate before I write anything. I just want to vent because I feel really bad mentally.I've been thinking about suicide. The only thing stopping me is my mom. She's a wonderful person, she'll help with everything and be there for me, but my dad... he's a fucking asshole who ruins my ...

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Anon·05/14/26 23:21·No.34532785

How to get rid of my fever quickly I feel like shit

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Anon·05/15/26 15:47·No.34534901

I'm at the point where I'd do some shady shit to make some side cash, online or otherwise. Growing/selling weed, whatever shit online that could make money. I just need to make some consistent side cash. Fuck morals. What is there that I can do that'll actually work?

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Anon·05/14/26 23:47·No.34532878

How do I stop having feelings over someone?

I recently realized I developed feelings towards a friend of mine. I got attached due to her being naturally attentive, caring and being very open with praise/compliments; she has done things that some would see as unusually close for a friendship (and unusually close to me as it is hard for me to d...

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Anon·05/12/26 22:46·No.34526227

How do you meet women in your 30s? I’ve been going to board game nights, but I’ve only met autistic bros there. I had a similar experience when volunteering, it was only people over 50. I’ve also tried dating apps, but I couldn’t even get a date. What other options do I have?

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Anon·05/13/26 19:08·No.34528911

Work.Sleep.Repeat

That's been my days. I get home too tired to do anything except lay around in bed. I don't even fall asleep until like 11PM I've tried afternoon coffee but all that does is keep me awake further into the night (but I can't get out of bed) Even if I drag myself out of bed.. I'm just so tired. So ti...

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Anon·05/15/26 14:50·No.34534807

How do you trust people?

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Anon·05/15/26 08:00·No.34534288

Why the fuck is something as trivil as calling the bank so goddamn hard for me

Literally all I have to say (after the hour long que) is: >hi my name is anon and I have some money I'd like to invest can you tell me how that works But I can't even pick up the phone. Even the thought of calling someone makes me almost lose it. I'm not at the verge of tears, I'm actively crying ab...

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Anon·05/13/26 13:28·No.34527837

as a white man in Europe pushing 40, I'm literally unhireable, I'm planning to continue studying next year if I don't get a job in the meantime (but still also probably) I'm becoming a decrepit boomer and I need a comfy office tier job to last me until retirement if I don't make it before then, I a...

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Anon·05/14/26 20:04·No.34532284

Help my brother to not go crazy

Summer is starting and my younger brother has got a few hits on his youtube channel. It's nothing life changing but I do know that when people get a whiff of success on the internet they sometimes go trend hopping mad. He's not making a content mill or anything, and I think that the videos he is mak...

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Anon·05/15/26 12:45·No.34534645

Should I continue talking to my Dad after he lied to me?

So my Dad is not a happy guy. My parents are divorced, and ever since I was a child, the only interactions I've had with him were meeting at restaurants. Every 2 or 3 months, I'd sit down with him at a restaurant, and this has been going on since I was a child. I only ever see him at restaurants. ...

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Anon·05/15/26 00:47·No.34533081

Is my relationship doomed if I'm with a late 30's man with a low sex drive and zero dominant tendencies, and I like to fuck at least 4 times a week?

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Anon·05/14/26 22:51·No.34532725

How to be an incredibly boring person?

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Anon·05/14/26 17:01·No.34531702

How does a man find a woman. In no way am I going about women should do this and that. Times have changed, yes but that doesn't mean i compromise on what I want out of a relationship and the same Is true for the woman's perspective. Then you also have to consider the true pills, that aid one to make...

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Anon·05/15/26 07:18·No.34534226

I’ve met a random girl

>I went to dvd collection store >Yes there still one in my town >took a harry potter movie >Harry Potter and the prisoner of Askaban >A girl come up to me >"I love that movie" >I"Do you wanna watch it at my place" >FFW she’s at my place and we’re watching the movie >I ask if she wanna kiss >"No, I d...

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Anon·05/15/26 13:47·No.34534728

How do you cope with being friendless and alone?

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Anon·05/15/26 10:45·No.34534538

Women rejections

Situations with strangers not people I know. How do I take rejections gracefully, what faces or actions should I be doing. Also how do anticipate a potential rejection and stop before she has to say it. When should I continue and what signs do I look for. A customer girl smile at me on the store...

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Anon·05/12/26 22:20·No.34526122

How to die?

I’ve been dealing with ideation my whole life while being too much of a pussy to follow through. Now I’m almost 30… and I’m tired. I’m hoping 4chan will give me some honest answers instead of spamming me with a retarded hotline that doesn’t help anyone: how does one commit suicide painlessly? What o...

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Anon·05/06/26 03:34·No.34504243

New girlfriend is like a clumsy anime girl

...and when it comes to real life it's not as cute as it sounds. So basically what it boils down to is that she's an amazing person and gorgeous and funny but she's so fucking dumb. And she's not putting up an act she's actually this dumb. I think she may perhaps be autistic as well with how often c...

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Anon·05/15/26 10:55·No.34534548

i cant stop writing notes about my thoughts every minute of my life. It started on early 2021 and it gets worse till now. From evernote to word to note app on my phone. What can i do about this? Im losing basic capability to just sit down and do my job/project/hobbies. The notes itself are mostly ra...

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Anon·05/13/26 13:05·No.34527804

Thoughts on Therapy ?

A lot of people told me to go see a psy. Have you went to therapy, if yes why ? Does it help and would you recomend ? if no why ? do you think its useless ? or dangerous ? For me positive : -maybe it will help me a little -they will maybe give me pills so i feel better negative : -humiliation -prob...

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Anon·05/15/26 08:04·No.34534292

How can I dedicate my life to the paranormal?

Working a regular job sucks. All I care about are vampires, werewolves, angels, demons, ghosts etc. What kind of career would help me feel fulfilled?

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Anon·05/14/26 20:19·No.34532338

I went home with a guy who seemed nice from work, we had been flirting back and forth for a while, but when we got to his place it was a wreck. There was a bad smell in the air, he had thrown away boxes for food everywhere. A lot of them had old bits of food covered in mold. There were dirty napkins...

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Anon·05/15/26 04:55·No.34534005

/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

Previous: >>34530077 [/adv/thread/34530077#p34530077]

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Anon·05/13/26 12:23·No.34527717

How do I not blow my brains out after being unable to get a hard on and lose my virginity with the girl of my dreams? I made her cum a bunch in other ways but I could see the look of disappointment my limp dick gave her. And she sure tried to wake him up. And was very nice about it after. But I feel...

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Anon·05/15/26 05:30·No.34534083

Anyone knows why 4chanX have been removing webm titles and search links above the thumbnails? Been happening a little more than a week and it happens when I load the page, when someone post a new webm after the first loading it appears fine but reloading everything it disappears again like image rel...

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Anon·05/14/26 13:03·No.34531125

CRT Monitor from trash

Okay, anons. I was on a walk and walked by a dumpster. Next to it was an old (from what I found out, probably 90's B&W) CRT monitor (kind of picrel). It was on a table. Absolutely caked with dust, as if someone just cleaned their basement. It's got a VGA cable (I do have a port for it), but mot sure...

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Anon·05/14/26 20:14·No.34532328

How much is it frowned upon to postpone a job after they already contacted me bc they're interested, probably looking to schedule an interview? Am I going to lose the chance or are employers relatively flexible with this? The upcoming week or so is a VERY bad time for me (I will be going through so...

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Anon·05/12/26 08:46·No.34524660

question to kissers

how to you tongue-kiss? What's the tongue movement like? Do you trace circles with your tongue or something? Do you graze the lips? Do you graze the labial frenulum? Do you glide your tongue on the other person's teeth? And what's the lip movement like?

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Anon·05/15/26 02:22·No.34533442

I am only interested in women for the purposes of procreation. I realized this some time ago after dreaming that a doctor had told me that I was infertile. I remember initially feeling quite distressed, followed by the most intense sense of relief that I have ever felt. Like a massive weight tempora...

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Anon·05/14/26 22:22·No.34532648

What job do I try to get if there isn't a single job that interests me?

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Anon·05/13/26 20:59·No.34529152

whats the best 4chan board for the lulz?

I think its /int/ but that place has been kinda lame lately. i miss /qa/ and having retarded basedjak duels

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Anon·05/14/26 16:44·No.34531658

You know how when you live in an apartment, they have pest control and maintenance come inside your unit every month? Would I be weird if I didn't feel like interacting with those people and instead just hide in my bedroom or closet and pretend I'm not there? Cause you know, they have their own key ...

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Anon·05/07/26 05:07·No.34507994

Did I come on too strong and needy? How am I doing? This is after she sent me a selfie that very clearly showed off her boobs btw

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Anon·05/14/26 17:27·No.34531801

Can women tell when you’ve been broken in?

I lost my virginity recently and feel like I get stares and flirty comments from more women than i ever have in my life. At work I keep noticing two cute coworkers stare at me. And a cute girl at the convenience store asked for my name. I’ve never experienced this in my life.

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Anon·05/14/26 06:46·No.34530631

Irritated Asshole

As the title says. For the past few months my asshole has been irritated because I've been wiping too hard, but I've got to shit and clean up, so I have to keep irritating it. Literally how do I solve this.

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Anon·05/14/26 06:48·No.34530636

So, I was fixing myself a cup of hot chocolate and getting ready to drink it while watching 500 days of summer on my laptop. But then just ask I was about to take a sip, I accidentally spilled the chocolate onto my laptop. I don't think it's working. What do I do now? Typing this from my phone by t...

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Anon·05/15/26 05:21·No.34534070

I'm a 31 y/o virgin, loner/shutin from 18-27. My best friend is a 27 year old girl. She is attractive, cute, funny, and cool. I have told her about my traumatic upbringing, self-doubt, and deepest fears. I cried in front of her multiple times and she has always offered me comfort and reassures me th...

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Anon·05/15/26 02:58·No.34533567

37 year old virgin

Any tips on losing my virginity before Christmas without paying? I’m sick of being a khhv Facially sub5, but I’m pretty lean and dress well, not having much luck on the apps Does cold approaching even work for uncs in 2026?

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Anon·05/15/26 07:07·No.34534206

Long distance relationship and future

I've been in a long distance relationship for a while now, she lives 4 hours away from me. It works, because I don't have a full time job so I can see her 4 days per week. We recently started talking about the future, living together and getting children, I will work full time when we do. The proble...

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Anon·05/13/26 16:43·No.34528465

Amongst my myriad of fuck buddies, three of them are married women. This isn't too bad in and of itself, but all three have fallen in love with me and want me as their new husband. I think they're just desperate because they were already unhappy in their marriage. I'm not interested in being with th...

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Anon·05/14/26 15:51·No.34531515

How do you stay disciplined as adult living alone? Since I finished my degree and started living alone my discipline dropped dramatically. I wasn't really disciplined to begin with, I usually only did as much as I needed to, but still had good grades so it kinda worked out. But now that I dont nee...

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Anon·05/14/26 14:24·No.34531305

A few people including me got let go recently, until I find a new job what's a way to make some money on the side? Not expecting anything that would replace real employment, but would prefer ideas that let me make money from home like surveys or something.

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Anon·05/15/26 04:56·No.34534011

HOW DO I CONTROL MY SEXUAL THOUGHTS? 2 DAYS オナ琴 I CANT TAKE IT IM GOING CRASYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

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Anon·05/11/26 20:33·No.34522913

Wanted to wait until marriage, but she is not a virgin

I grew up in a family where wait until marriage is practiced, and I fully intended to wait until marriage, with the idea that I would be waiting for a virgin. I am dating my coworker, who is not a virgin, and she is okay with waiting until marriage, but I feel like there is no point in waiting for a...

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Anon·05/15/26 03:10·No.34533594

Is it normal to have to hold in your anger often?

Learning how to smile through anger is a skill I learned working in retail. There are a surprising number of pricks IRL. I was doing a very disorganized final project a professor gave us. I was confused by a line of criteria, so I asked a question. Instead of typing "yes" and saving time he decided ...

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Anon·05/14/26 19:36·No.34532220

They say you're the average of the 5 people you spend most time with

I don't spend time with anyone and am negative. Does that just mean I'm a negative person.

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Anon·05/15/26 00:05·No.34532941

How can I show a girl what I love about life? I'm self conscious because I only do loner things and have too many gripes about the world. I can't relax from the self doubt and the girls notice this. Besides it seems I forget everything I find fun because I'm thinking of the girl's tits or how anxiou...

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Anon·05/14/26 17:27·No.34531798

When and how did you stop feeling like a little boy in a man's body?

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Anon·05/15/26 03:48·No.34533730

Whenever I see homeless people I just think of dark souls hollows

Is that normal? >what do you mean? It’s like zombies or walkers from the walking dead. When I see homeless people I just see them as hollows because they refuse to die and have no purpose. They have gone insane. They push around carts full of items they would never need truly. They constantly tweak ...

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Anon·05/14/26 21:11·No.34532461

my glans are really sensitive after cumming, any idea how to limit that?

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Anon·05/14/26 23:35·No.34532835

question for intact men only with foreskins i was cut as a child and now when cum my dick becomes sore for the entire day, and sometimes the next day too is that normal? i think my circumcision might have played a part in it. and yes i use lube so i dont suffer with lubrication

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Anon·05/15/26 00:07·No.34532950

The Eternal Now

The present is all there truly is. The present repeats itself to become the future that you both dread and desire. The past is simply memories of what was once the present moment. Regrets and mistakes don't matter when you fully live in the present. So give everything to the present. All of your foc...

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Anon·05/15/26 00:20·No.34532993

Why do i keep thinking i'm gay when i don't fap to men or want to fuck them? I always get random intrusive thoughts of im gay out of nowhere all the time but i don't find men attractive. It's gotten tot the point where I try not to think just so i can clear my mind of it. Why is this happening a lot...

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Anon·05/14/26 23:39·No.34532842

Do I a) Go back to college and get my BS in EE b) Keep working for $33/hr I was going to go back to college in August because I was tired of my $20 job. But I received a job interview for $33/hr should I take the job if i get it? Also college is free thanks to my GI BILL if go in August I will be do...

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Anon·05/11/26 01:12·No.34520288

im so sick and tired of working for and with black migrant and jewish people and dealing with burgerland black and jewish clientele. i left my job because i was tired of their bullshit even after i sent a list of all the shit the black migrants were doing to the jewish supervisor who didnt care. don...

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Anon·05/12/26 21:44·No.34526025

Trying to stop a fetish and it's only getting worse

>Have early childhood sexual encounter >Get self-insertion fetish for shota >Woman on shota >Trap on shota >Futanari on shota >Male pokemon on shota >Decide that I need to get rid of this attraction out of the guilt it has on my mind and the disgust I have for myself >Stop visiting AO3 >Make it a go...

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Anon·05/14/26 03:38·No.34530209

Asking friend about art modelling (myself)

Hi all, My question today is about an idea I've had about myself posing nude for a portrait (I pay for it) from a female artist, I have a female friend that used to do art often for themselves, and without making them feel awkward or pressured, I would like to ask them if they would know anyone who...

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Anon·05/15/26 00:53·No.34533097

I lost my job in March due to restructuring, and I was notified today that my position opened back up. I talked to my old manager and she is encouraging me to apply. I dunno if I should since the job sucked but I have been off work 2 months, and my unemployment has been denied. I mean it's a job an...

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Anon·05/14/26 20:42·No.34532400

Brother was Taken to CECOT and Don't Know What to Do

We don't know for sure that my brother is in CECOT but according to all the evidence we have, he is. He was hanging around a lot of people who had tattoos (non-gang members) and was at a party where the police conducted a raid for "gang affiliated people". We never heard from him again and the gover...

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Anon·05/14/26 22:25·No.34532658

PAY US!

Cut a long story short this establishment doesn't pay their staff and everyone who worked there is still owed months worth wages, after it kept happening the owner stopped giving people shifts and keeps giving empty promises of giving the money. What can be done to make their lifes miserable. also w...

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Anon·05/14/26 23:32·No.34532820

Why do my posts advocating for eastern medicine practices keep getting taken down?

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Anon·05/14/26 23:12·No.34532764

Is saving up money from a pressure washer job to pay for code school good advice?

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Anon·05/14/26 21:38·No.34532529

How do I not fuck up with dating apps? For example I've got a match with a girl. She's into film making, she's got plenty on her profile. I'm trying to ask good questions, but I'm literally getting 1 message a day. I know really I just need to accept this girl isn't going to work out, but I mean wh...

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Anon·05/13/26 13:33·No.34527842

Where can I find knowledge?

Tips please. Autistic girl, 25. But there are probably others in a similar situation. I feel like deep down I know nothing about the world. I love science, technology, psychology, economics. Many things. I know more than the people around me, but at the same time, I feel I know nothing. I also don'...

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Anon·05/12/26 23:37·No.34526378

I just tracked the days since I trimmed my pubes. It's been 5 days and it's already uncomfortable to jerk off. I fap every day, so this is a problem. What could I do to help with this? The setup I have to shave is also cancer because I use a huge wired trimmer and move the cable all the way to the s...

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Anon·05/14/26 21:22·No.34532479

I may be leaving neetdom and be working as a full-time janitor at a warehouse. I have no college degree, but is there some skill I could learn on my days off while working to better my future opportunities or am I a lost cause? I can't afford college. I'm ancient, 31-years-old.

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Anon·05/14/26 20:56·No.34532431

I feel like I need new friends

I have a friendgroup of 4 people. I talk to a lot of them regularly, and a very good friend of mine that I've known for 10+ years. None of them are from school. I'm quite introverted, but I feel free talking around people that I know. The other 3 people I've known them for 1 year to 6 months. I don...

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Anon·05/14/26 20:39·No.34532392

might have cured my sexism

Talked with a girl and bonded over shared trauma on the internet, that alone made me realize that women are humans too. Where can I meet girls that aren't complete retards irl?

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Anon·05/14/26 20:15·No.34532329

How do I check for and remove trackers and/or loggers from my PC and mobile

I feel like I'm being stalked by someone on 4chan. I'll talk to my friends about something, ask ChatGPT something, or write something in my private notes and almost immediately after I'll see a thread so specific and relevant to what I said/wrote about on here or /r9k/ it CANNOT just be coincidence....

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Anon·05/14/26 17:28·No.34531806

At what point do I really try to find somebody?

23M here, will be 24 in less than a month. My life is going well, I graduated college, am making six figures now, am in the best shape of my life, and have started to dedicate more time to hobbies and start new ones. The thing is, I don't really know how to date, or when I should start seriously loo...

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Anon·05/14/26 14:25·No.34531306

fasting tips?

After being told countless times over the past days that I'm fat I'm going to do my best to change that. I'm trying to diet but will also do some fasts. I used to be able to pull this for ages but... it became extremely hard from the increased hunger from meds. Does anyone have any advice on how t...

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Anon·05/14/26 18:31·No.34532050

>virgin >have no idea how love or romance works >very cute girl that works at Target compliments my smell >I was very flattered and attracted to her >come to /adv/ to ask if I should take that as a sign to pursue her >all of you faggots call me weird and say she’s just being nice/doing her job >fast...

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Anon·05/14/26 12:35·No.34531071

should i get rid of all my friends because i feel like they hate me and aren't meeting my emotional needs. they constantly organise shit without me and leave me out and never listen to me when im sad even though i would always listen to people when they are sad. on the other hand though i think i am...

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Anon·05/14/26 16:59·No.34531692

>wake up one afternoon >find this inside vape pen >whatthehellisthatblood >fuck it 420 blaze it i’m a cutter but had NO idea this could happen. yes it’s inside the cart, not out. i’m confident this won’t only destroy my brain, this means i’m closer to becoming a cold stoned vampire bluh bluh

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Anon·05/14/26 09:57·No.34530955

Recently got a 4chan/r9k bf and we've been dating for a while(irl) On one of the days we were suppose to meet, i found their alt user in the archives and discovered they were still adding girls and attempting to 2 days before getting physical with me, along with attempts of adding people from the pa...

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Anon·05/13/26 08:59·No.34529573

have you experienced porn-induced erectile dysfunction? how did you treat it? i think i have it and cant' get it hard during sex half the time almost. i still have morning wood and can get it up when jorking it to porn but i've been cutting back quite a bit in the past month or two with some irregul...

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Anon·05/13/26 15:26·No.34528219

AI for workflow and mental health

Hi! I’m a college marketing student working on an assignment, and we need some feedback on a proposal for an AI workflow company. The idea is that their AI will optimize and manage workflows, but it will also monitor employees' mental health (specifically targeting rookie managers in Japan). It doe...

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Anon·05/09/26 16:07·No.34515759

Would it be gay if I masturbated to videos of women twerking to rap music with MALE vocals instead of FEMALE vocals?

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Anon·05/14/26 12:13·No.34531043

What's the best move if you need to break up with your gf but she lives in the apartment you rented by yourself? She has nowhere else to go. Won't go back to her parents, plus she's broke and unemployed. I could go back to my parent's house and let her stay here until she finds a different place, bu...

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Anon·05/14/26 16:02·No.34531536

Adv on keeping a conversation going with a girl

I'll start by saying that I have no social problems or anything else like that. When I'm with my friends, whether they are male or female, I have no hard time while talking. I'm even considered a fun guy to talk to by many of them. The problem arises when I have the chance to talk to a girl I like ...

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Anon·05/12/26 14:32·No.34525094

Legit can't go a day without unexplained unbearable physical pain and mental fatigue for the past 6 years. Basically terminally fatigued and weak and not feeling 100%, having weird pain and sensations that have sent me to hospital, and having no family left, whilst constantly psychologically abused ...

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Anon·05/14/26 06:05·No.34530554

Do THC-free CBD vapes work well? What is the best way to buy CBD in bulk?

>Have SEVERE OCD anxiety >Start using 200-400mg of CBD during the day >Mood feels way more relaxed >Not sure if placebo but it feels good >Wanna try CBD vapes so it works fast >Also wanna buy CBD with the most cost effective way so I don't have to pay a lot >inb4 "just use weed" weed gave me psycho...

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Anon·05/12/26 14:57·No.34525166

I know it looks disgusting, but is my burn wound ok? WTF is that brown/green spot? Is it infected? I asked AI but it gave me some bullshit

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Anon·05/07/26 19:33·No.34527992

Did getting jacked help you slay with online dating apps?

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Anon·05/14/26 08:49·No.34530875

Should I change my career path?

Programing is getting weird with all AI stuff and emerging of "volume over quality" trend and I start to dislike it, specifically the people that surround it. At the same time I know a boomer who could take me under his wing, teach me auto mechanics in all around, and give me a job at his garage. Sh...

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Anon·05/14/26 16:23·No.34531590

Repairing my marriage

>Be me >Likes cars >Has a wife >Open up a bar with my wife >Despite being near covid times, we pull through >Become the place locals around would visit >Overall do pretty well despite our rough beginnings >Begin to look into car sales thanks to this >Find a BMW on sale at what I thought was a good p...

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Anon·05/14/26 15:59·No.34531526

is a finance degree general enough where i can do a variety of different roles? is it a good degree to begin with if i'm not going to a target school? is worth?

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Anon·05/13/26 15:11·No.34528179

How do I get a Job at an oil Rig offshore being a

I'm an undocumented 18 year old immigrant in Tx and I would like to have a job at a oil rig.

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Anon·05/12/26 09:19·No.34524695

How do I cope with not having a harem? I see chads with 4-5 girls (sometimes more) dotinh on them...meanwhile, I've never even been on a date.

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Anon·05/11/26 20:05·No.34522839

Married too early. Problem is I never really got to explore with many girls, and I'm legit good at fucking. I have great stamina, I'm not shit, I picked girls and my wife up and toss them around because I'm muscular, I have a nicely shaped cock, I know how to work around a woman's body and make her ...

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Anon·05/10/26 21:59·No.34519641

I'm 25 and tired of being a useless chud living with my grandma. I don't have any useful skills or work experience, and I'm broke as a joke ($3k is all I have to my name). I can't support myself off my wagie retail / fast food jobs, which is all I can get around here anyways since I don't have a veh...

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Anon·05/14/26 07:28·No.34530752

how can you make friends?

ive been painfully socially starved for some time, my only day to day communication is watching youtube videos and sometimes 4chan and that SUCKS!!! i used to have social media accounts but they all got banned into oblivion so i lost my only online friends!!!!! i never had irl friends so that's defi...

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Anon·05/13/26 13:55·No.34527887

Putting down a dog

>Visit my parents >Old family dog greets me >Little Maltese, getting old at 11 years, we've had her since she was a pup >Notice she's a bit strange >Way, way skinnier than she was 2 months ago when I last visited home >Doesn't want to go for a walk >Moves sluggishly >Quick shallow breathing >Entire ...

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Anon·05/13/26 17:50·No.34528701

NOT A DRILL!!!!

JUST DISCOVERED THE BEGINNINGS OF A BALD SPOT WHAT THE >>>FUCK<<< DO I DO???!?!?!?!!!!

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Anon·05/14/26 14:31·No.34531324

Why does my stomach constantly feel like it's distended when I lie down? It feels like it's constantly pushing out under my ribcage and it's really fucking uncomfortable and stops me sleeping. I don't know if it's a liver issue or back scoliosis or what, because I seem to have back issues from jacki...

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Anon·05/14/26 12:14·No.34531044

should I just be alone? I have really bad shit in my past that I really can't tell anyone, but I don't think I could ever keep my secret if I want to be with someone. The guilt of letting anyone fall in love with me while they don't know who I really am would kill me but I know that if I tell anyone...

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Anon·05/14/26 13:22·No.34531167

I think I want to be single again

I've been seeing someone for almost a year now and I keep thinking about breaking up with them. It's not even because I don't like them, I do. I love them and care about them, and I'm attracted to them too, but I miss my freedom. We have to see each other at least once a week and text multiple time...

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Anon·05/13/26 23:27·No.34529497

Older brother is a broke drug using pretty boy that's been fucking women since he was in highschool. I'm a 25 year old incel that still hasn't had a gf and works full time making $28/hr. Do you have a similar story? How are you coping?

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