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Anon·10/19/25 05:12·No.33825784

How to actually get rid of blackheads/scars?

Ever since I hit puberty and started getting acne I've had these deep, thick blackheads on the surface all around my nose. Pic rel isnt me but is a pretty accurate visual of how it looks most days. It absolutely ruins my face and makes me look disgusting to the point where I avoid directly at people...

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Anon·10/19/25 03:59·No.33825623

I'm autistic so please don't tear me apart too hard on this. My boyfriend asked me to let him take me places if I need to go anywhere bc he thinks I'm not socially aware enough to deal with weird guys if I run into them. He's probably not wrong, but when I do ask him to take me places he's always to...

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Anon·10/16/25 17:22·No.33814442

Can a man ever truly be himself in a relationship? >Open up >Dont keep your guard up >they leave Is the game always pretending you're the most swag nigga alive? >NOOOO NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS Why wouldn't they be? They want us to be a fantasy version and when we fall short, they hate it Look, y...

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Anon·10/18/25 23:54·No.33824290

I'm autistic and met my female clone

I'm autistic as fuck and very very specific and weird I basically met a female twin (Doppelganger) who both looks like me and thinks a lot like me online I'm meeting her IRL and want to make a good impression so we can get married someday Any advice?

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Anon·10/19/25 03:24·No.33825413

Fumbled a 10/10 want to kms

>match with girl on bumble >she agrees to a date within 4 messages >we text all day very day before the date >pick her up >starts off good but as the night goes on she starts to seem disinterested and things get a little awkward >lots of awkward pauses >she was twirling her hair a lot though and loo...

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Anon·10/16/25 03:33·No.33812485

How can I stop being attracted to my mom?

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Anon·10/18/25 03:11·No.33822176

[Real talk] how to address foid not wearing bra in bjj

Today a female came to practice with just a thin T-shirt and no bra. I would feel her breasts hanging freely every time I pummeled an underhook or framed. I could also feel her nipples from under the shirt. They were semi hard. Of course, me being a very skilled jewjitsu practitioner and benching 3...

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Anon·10/19/25 00:06·No.33824362

How to stop being a directionless man whore? I want a wife and kids but i live like someone who just doesn't care about anything but a good fuck. Il go between the two all the time. I've tied my self worth to being able to get sex with girls. I don't feel validated unless i do. But it doesn't ever ...

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Anon·10/18/25 16:20·No.33822392

/GIOYC/ - Get It Off Your Chest

Haven't seen a thread in a while. Say what you need to say lads.

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Anon·10/18/25 10:17·No.33821559

I'm black, and I look pretty much like the black dude in this pic. How do I win the heart of a white girl like the one whose ass he's staring at?

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Anon·10/16/25 23:50·No.33815655

>Had a crush on this girl from my university for over a year >She's very attractive and pretty goofy and funny >She's a popular cheerleader type. She liked athletic guys >Even though I was nerdy I gradually changed myself to become more athletic and confident >I was talking to her, flirting without ...

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Anon·10/19/25 05:10·No.33825779

Should I do a small dose of LSD? I did one 5 days ago, but I am bored and it's 1am. If i do, I hope it'll keep me entertained, last time i had people to talk to, but this time I do not.

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Anon·10/17/25 23:21·No.33819967

Terrified of moving to Canada because of Racoons

My family is moving to Canada from Europe because my dad was offered a much higher paying job and we can’t afford rent here but peoblem is I’m fucking terrified of racoons you know how Americans are scared of going to Australia because of spiders??? Well that’s Europeans but with racoons. Racoons ar...

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Anon·10/19/25 04:32·No.33825709

Am I a life failure?

Hello everyone, I rarely use 4chan so apologize in advance for any mistakes in proper etiquette. But I am gonna cut the chase. I need a an outside perspective of things because I am at a low point in my life. I am 26 year old man who is diagnosed with schizophrenia. I haven't had a job since 2021. ...

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Anon·10/18/25 05:49·No.33821122

Blood

"The social concept of me feels mistaken and oddly misplaced, I can't feel without the longing familiarity of Death. My corpse rots inside a forbidden meat like suit, it craves that belonging. My life is gone, yet my body speaks for itself. I'll go silent like they tell me too, my soul leaving the ...

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Anon·10/18/25 20:32·No.33823419

I have to move from the south to california. How easy is it to meet women over there? or people in general? I'll be going completely alone for work and none of my og group would be coming til they graduate. I'll be 26 next year when I leave if that helps.

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Anon·10/19/25 00:41·No.33824509

How to fight back against incel mindset?

The incel mindset I'd say has a pretty nasty grip on me. I don't consider myself a full blown incel but I consider myself a guy that definitely notices the weirdness of relationship things I guess. I also get really freaked out when people say certain things aren't true when I know they are true. Pr...

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Anon·10/16/25 11:42·No.33813629

Terrified of Forced Nudity and Food in Army

I just turned 18 and my country has military conscription. I’m terrified of being in the military where I’ll have to shower seen where people can see my dick and eating mixed foods (I can’t eat food that touched otther food. I need all my food seeptate, like I don’t eat a burger I’ll eat the patty a...

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Anon·10/19/25 03:50·No.33825578

Because when someone treats me well, I always feel like they're after something. Aside from my father and brother, most of the people I've known in adulthood have always wanted something in return, whether it's money, favors, or, in the worst case scenario, scamming you. Is it common in adulthood to...

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Anon·10/18/25 07:31·No.33821299

>can't get a wife whilst in the military >Contract is until 27 Would I still be able to pull in a wife at 27 or would that be ogre?

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Anon·10/19/25 04:48·No.33825729

Is there anything over the counter I can take to pass out completely, something like melatonin but I can't be woken up

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Anon·10/18/25 13:22·No.33821898

My girlfriend: >has a PhD >speaks four languages >has lived abroad and traveled a lot of the world >plays music >is published (musically and scientifically) >knows how to do 5000 things I can’t >makes far more money than me >gets hit on constantly >is all of this, 7 years younger than me Me: >4/10,...

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Anon·10/19/25 03:40·No.33825511

Suddently life's been feeling heavy

>Girl I treated like a queen dumped me for her ex >Got a new job and work environment is kinda toxic, always on edge >Having a hard time keeping up with school, grades really taking a hit >Dog I had since I was a kid just died >Friendship ended bc his girl thought I was trying to flirt with her >See...

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Anon·10/19/25 04:30·No.33825706

I would like to make a "follow up" from my thread from 2022 https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/27847379/#27847692 TL;DR Back in 2022, my now wife basically threw a tantrum and tried to force me to take her surname, threatening to call off our engagement if I didn’t. We eventually reached an '...

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Anon·10/19/25 01:17·No.33824678

Break up or stay

My girlfriend is obsessed with me, loyal, and will do absolutely anything for me. Problem is I don't really like her. She's boring and into retard zoomer shit i don't care about at all. She's pretty retarded and can't follow simple directions. I'm totally checked out and tell her I don't want to dat...

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Anon·10/18/25 05:10·No.33821045

I’m a Jewish woman who’s 18 and I’m getting married off next week

And it’s to a total stranger and I’m freaking scared. Idk what to do

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Anon·10/18/25 23:21·No.33824122

This, with a gid fearing woman is my ideal relationship. What moves do I need to make in life to have it?

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Anon·10/18/25 02:30·No.33820599

How do I stop sexually harassing women while working? Unironically. I've had plenty of sexual experience, and a little romance which was fun for a little while. I don't feel entitled, maybe a bit deprived. It's just that reactions tend to be neutral to positive until suddenly its not okay and I get ...

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Anon·10/18/25 13:23·No.33821900

Unironically how do I restore my faith in romance in 2025? I don't intend to stop watching porn, I would go insane. All the pill stuff has a grain of truth in it. Women say they want devotion, companionship but financial security is more important to them. In my experience women have put their foot ...

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Anon·10/18/25 23:40·No.33824215

Sweat too much. Solutions?

I take very good care of my personal hygeine as well as shower in the morning and before bed. However, I start to stink again as soon as I go outside because I sweat buckets. This only stops in the winter, so it's probably my response to the sun or heat. Spitball me a few solutions to try. Won't sho...

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Anon·10/17/25 20:59·No.33819377

advice for women

just a few tips for the ladies. don't engage in this behavior TOXIC FEMININITY: -expecting people to read their mind -delusions about people (men) they haven't fully met yet -delusions about their ideal man -low testosterone and lack of decision making skills -screaming during an emergency -worryin...

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Anon·10/19/25 02:31·No.33825125

Why do I get no matches on my dating app profiles across several apps despite including my jawline as one of the photos? I'm 20.

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Anon·10/19/25 02:40·No.33825178

Princess Leonor and Sofia

how woulf one go about courting princesses? how would i get their attention? I have a crush, and I love spain

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Anon·10/18/25 20:11·No.33823318

I'm 30M and I hear voices all day, I'm schizophrenic. I twitch violently and I live at home with my mother. Sometimes I start screaming for no reason and I'm not sure what I can do. My mother is 72 and she's telling me I'm too good for a job at McDonald's or as a janitor. She knows my situation but ...

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Anon·10/18/25 19:29·No.33823110

Why do girls hate guys with low self-esteem yet guys love girls with low self-esteem?

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Anon·10/19/25 02:28·No.33825108

I fear I don't have the same natural drives that other men do. I mean, I lift weights and am into boxing and UFC and stuff. But I'm mainly talking about women. It's not that I'm not attracted to women. But through a combination of sociological, biological, and psychological circumstances; I have com...

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Anon·10/16/25 00:05·No.33811573

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #322

>What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask ...

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Anon·10/19/25 00:31·No.33824465

Don't know what to do with my degree

I have a degree in bioinformatics but I don't know what job I am supposed to do with this degree. Am I supposed to code the frontend and backend of apps? I used to do low level IT work but that dried up recently so I got fired. Whenever I search for bioinformatics jobs so I can leverage my backgrou...

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Anon·10/19/25 03:33·No.33825475

How can I get a job in Bermuda ?

any anons have experience on how to get a job as a medical doctor from europe in bermuda ?

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Anon·10/19/25 02:07·No.33824964

/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

In this thread, we ask the opposite gender anything! This thread doesn't have any thread-specific rules. That said, while you *can* ask anything, there are some topics that have entire boards dedicated to them, so you might be better off posting there. For example: >>>/pol/ [//boards.4chan.org/pol/...

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Anon·10/18/25 05:53·No.33821130

OCD Handwashing

Has anyone dealt with this? Red hands, compulsive hand washing. Contamination OCD. Is medication the answer? ERP, therapy?

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Anon·10/19/25 02:50·No.33825220

How can someone like me genuinely minimize the negative aspects of Autism?

This might come across as vague, but that's only because from a good chunk of the threads I have seen on this board it seems that it stems from being too autistic to a great detriment. Mostly referring to social interactions with other people, or lack thereof, profound loneliness (not exclusive, bu...

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Anon·10/18/25 22:44·No.33823984

Should I do it?

>Be me >Starts a social media agency with a friend in which we basically takes money from clients in exchange of Unbanning their banned Instagram accounts >1st week of business and we are making a heck load of money >Earned over 6 grand in just 1 month >3 months passed and life is goated i am earnin...

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Anon·10/18/25 22:21·No.33823881

How do I stop wanting a gf sometimes when I don't even like talking to people?

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Anon·10/15/25 22:45·No.33811251

I know you're not supposed to take it personally when somebody doesn't like you. But how exactly are you supposed to behave when that person acknowledges everyone around you and then continuously ignores you like you don't exist?

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Anon·10/18/25 18:07·No.33822771

Sexual harassment

Alright so I’m in law school right now and was sitting next to this gal in a class. I felt like we were hitting it off and started hanging out outside of class but with mutual friends. She said she wasn’t looking to date anyone so I didn’t officially ask her out. To be honest, yeah I did have feelin...

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Anon·10/19/25 02:57·No.33825266

Advice on how to stand up for myself and not let people walk all over me? I was at my cousin's wedding, I got up to the dance floor (a bunch of randos already up there), and mostly women from my family walked up after I walked up. My grandma, who is closer to all the other male cousins btw, keeps o...

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Anon·10/18/25 22:17·No.33823860

How do I stop suicidal thoughts based off of being behind in life and wasted potential?

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Anon·10/19/25 00:53·No.33824567

I fucked up

I made a very offensive doodle and work and left it laying around. I got told it was found. I am beyond cooked. Thinking of doing pic related.

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Anon·10/18/25 21:04·No.33823573

How do you deal with anger when everything is going wrong? When you've having one of those fucking days that never stops getting worse? >gf was being a bitch all morning >fat retard rear ended my car at a red light >obnoxious neighbors having end of the relationship fight for hours >internet keeps c...

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Anon·10/18/25 22:31·No.33823930

How to puke out the apathy black pill instantly

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Anon·10/14/25 20:53·No.33806874

Why do people say hi to you, even saying your name, and then when you look at them, they immediately avoid eye contact and pretend they didn't say anything? I know it's not because I'm ugly. I'm at least a 5/10. And NO... this does NOT happen all the time. Just once in a while I encounter someone ...

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Anon·10/19/25 02:04·No.33824946

Fiance having emotional and mental crises

My fiance is struggling. She's in her final year of her master's program. It's taking a massive toll on her. She does well enough to keep her scholarships and placement and is very established within her department, but she's actually going through a massive ordeal internally. She calls herself lazy...

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Anon·10/17/25 20:39·No.33819324

I was outside today. Just walking. And when I opened my mouth to breathe, out of no fucking where, a fly flew straight into my mouth and I accidentally swallowed it. I coughed like a motherfucker as that thing went down my throat. Question... is this thing safe inside my body?

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Anon·10/19/25 00:06·No.33824357

How to love more?

I know this guy, and we like each other, but I want to feel more, -like butterflies in my stomach. It’s been a while since I’ve felt that, so how can I cultivate that feeling more?

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Anon·10/19/25 01:41·No.33824785

There is a non-zero chance I may end up on the sex offender registry soon (nothing is set in stone yet, haven't even been arrested or charged). My main concern if the worst happens is finding employment. if I do end up on the registry it would be for a non-child offense. I am interested in the follo...

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Anon·10/18/25 18:32·No.33822883

How do I get a girl to just talk to and maybe hangout with?

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Anon·10/18/25 21:50·No.33823759

Age gaps

Bros, is it weird for a 25yo dude like me to date an 18yo I matched with on Tinder? Yes she's working and not in school.

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Anon·10/18/25 18:25·No.33822853

I just purchased a gaming laptop. Will this likely result in me remaining a virgin for the rest of my life? I'm 18.

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Anon·10/18/25 22:38·No.33823962

What can I do to ensure I'm not annoying to people?

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Anon·10/18/25 02:29·No.33820598

How do i stop listening to black people music as a White nationalist

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Anon·10/18/25 12:38·No.33821817

Why don’t guys like me? (Gay, m25m)

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Anon·10/18/25 13:10·No.33821869

dating in 2025

I (27M) came out of a six year relationship and realized that dating has completely changed. It honestly makes me uncomfortable how ghosting or outright blocking someone has become the norm. It feels like I’m expected to put in all the effort, only to get ghosted, and then get a “?” when I ask why s...

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Anon·10/17/25 10:14·No.33817429

Light at the end of the tunnel

I've basically been a NEET and fucked up my high school life for a while. I'm supposed to be at university like those I knew, but I'm a shameful bastard without a GED. I don't get why I can't study like others can, my parents get into loud arguments, and I sit inside rotting away. I hate everything....

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Anon·10/18/25 16:40·No.33822514

Was I in the wrong here?

I was walking on my way to work, when a foreign woman, who was sitting down by the street, pointed at me from the crowds and requested that I come over. She explained to me that she has two children and if I could do anything to help her feed them. I offered to buy her a sandwich from the store righ...

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Anon·10/18/25 06:42·No.33821207

As a a woman, are we ever really safe? What are we supposed to do when men do shit like this?

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Anon·10/18/25 02:03·No.33820541

How do I get my 8 year old nephew to stop bullying me for never having a gf?

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Anon·10/16/25 16:47·No.33814366

Why do men act interested but aren’t

Maybe I’m just fucking autistic but I swear men have said some crazy shit to me just to ghost me the next week. It just keeps happening and I don’t know what’s fucking wrong with me and why I can’t land a boyfriend just once. I’ve been single for like four years now and couldn’t even count the amoun...

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Anon·10/16/25 22:44·No.33815480

How do I deal with shortness

>be me >22 >5'2 >good studies, will end with a decent job NGL >however, still khv Not saying that i'm unlovable but despite my ridiculous height, how can I become attractive ? I mean I know its a sort of handicap but as a lot of people, I suppose I have some qualities I think I don't want to die w...

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Anon·10/19/25 01:35·No.33824747

How do I stop being horny at work? I can't always manage to jack off n the middle of my shift and I get really really pissed off

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Anon·10/19/25 00:39·No.33824501

For Business Majors:

Has anyone else majored in Business? I'm about to complete my Business Administration degree (Associate's), and the credits would transfer over to a four year college so I can either continue Business Administration or a related business field. My goal is to gain my Master's and hopefully a six figu...

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Anon·10/18/25 19:55·No.33823238

What exercises and training can I do now to make it so I’m good at sex? Is cardio important too? Virgin btw

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Anon·10/18/25 13:56·No.33821977

I don't know what to do

I'm average chrisitan teenager. I used to have "decent" (comparing to now) faith. But samehow I lost it some time ago. I stopped going to church, praying, etc. I sin more often and generaly I don't act like christian anymore. This makes me helpless. But I still feel this *soemething* that connects m...

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Anon·10/18/25 15:23·No.33822229

I think I like a friend as more than a friend and it's fucking awkward. >be me >play football on the weekends >this guy comes and plays every saturday >we get along very well from the beginning >he is very sweet towards me even though I'm a fuck up at football >he's patient as they come and picks me...

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Anon·10/17/25 15:20·No.33818259

Have lost something; but what?

>Go through horrendous break up >Lose my mind and give up on everything >Experience failure after crushing failure in my career due to random chance/things completely out of my control >Become an alcoholic >Get high every single day, all day >Take benzos to fall asleep, abuse them >Abuse painkillers...

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Anon·10/19/25 00:13·No.33824387

How do I cope with being a 5'8 zoomer in America when basically every zoomer here is at least 6 foot? I've already accepted the fact that I'm dying alone

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Anon·10/14/25 22:03·No.33807115

Best place to meet girls ?

Dating apps are a cancer on society. No self-respecting high value woman uses them. Everyone's out looking for sex, never forming something real. It seems the only way to find high value women is through friends & family, only problem is that I have neither friends nor family. I've never once create...

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Anon·10/18/25 21:58·No.33823786

how to get the girl i like to stop looking for other submissive boys?

i am obsessed with her. i love her more then anything. she is perfect and i only love her. i need her. i cant live without her. but she wont look only at me. ive sent 70 messages while she slept, drew her many times, and text her every few minutes im awake. im currently getting her a gift as well. i...

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Anon·10/18/25 17:30·No.33822675

how do I stop hating myself

Foid autist. I'm so fucking sick of living like this I just want to be normal. It doesn't matter if people are nice to me because I feel like they're just doing it out of pity or to make themselves feel charitable. I have friends but I can't understand why people would go so far out of their way and...

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Anon·10/18/25 02:28·No.33820593

I got hard looking at a shirtless dude wtf do I do? I don’t want to be gay.

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Anon·10/18/25 05:12·No.33821050

Retail hell

Share your stories of retail hell to help others get through it.(Food workers welcome) I'll start to day we had to deal with aggressive scammer. All pressure techniques knowing we could not prove there obvious scam was anymore than a mistake. We could do no more than say "yes" and "this isn't a val...

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Anon·10/19/25 00:34·No.33824483

Is Paris a good place to move too these days

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Anon·10/18/25 19:15·No.33823038

i’m a woman. how do i get a boy like this?

I know there are straight femboy communities out there, but most femboys aren’t serious about subcultures they’re in and they are attention whores. where can I find a cute boy who will cut himself if I’m not giving him attention?

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Anon·10/18/25 08:47·No.33821418

Why do women get bored in a relationship and marriage and start thinking of their past loves who were actually interesting and exciting to them?

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Anon·10/18/25 17:49·No.33822728

How can I find a suicidal girl to kill myself with?

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Anon·10/18/25 21:07·No.33823591

how do i get over her

i fucking loved her so much she still loves me but it just isnt working im too mentally fucked and she keeps trying to fix me and not being able to handle when it doesnt work we’ve been dating 8 months and even tho we’ve both been getting better mentally especially her our relationship has been gett...

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Anon·10/18/25 03:32·No.33820767

KONTROL

I desire to reach a weight of ~45 kilograms because it would be aesthetic but I keep eating. I deliberately keep my fridge empty but I still go the store to buy food. I weigh ~53 or ~54 kilograms. The furthest down I got was 51 kilograms when I was in the army and I also dropped down to 51 kg after ...

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Anon·10/17/25 16:03·No.33818432

Christianity on 4chan

Is there a christian general on 4chan? I'd be interested in getting to know more about this religion, and to hear anons share their experiences. In case there isn't one here, what online community would you recommend for someone unfamiliar?

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Anon·10/18/25 19:13·No.33823024

I fucked up big time

Long story short, I hooked up with my best friend's gf and now im dead to her. My best friend/friend with benefits of 26 years was recently struggling with alcohol, and it got to the point where her life was in danger and she wouldn't get help. It was so bad she couldn't leave the bathroom floor fo...

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Anon·10/18/25 20:46·No.33823498

What could be the reason no one adds me on /soc/ anymore? Before a lot of people would add me and nowadays no one does. This is true even though I'm not even on the same account(my last one got nuked because I was in a server got deleted and discord bans everyone in the server even if they didnt bre...

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Anon·10/18/25 23:11·No.33824088

Catfished on first daye

>went on date with guy >catfished; had alcohol bloat and acne, was 80 lb heavier than his pfp >still went with it because i was desperate (no human touch in 10 years) >still had fun, messed around, was good >met up for second date because i just wanted to ruck >still upset he catfished me Should I w...

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Anon·10/18/25 22:28·No.33823918

Girlfriend or fag?

Went on a date with this girl today - we've known each other from highschool. She's pretty and she's the artsy + witchy type. Question is, I could make her my girlfriend, do I? Am I gay if I don't? Pros: >very pretty >not much taller than me >we can keep a conversation >our date went alright >my f...

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Anon·10/18/25 00:27·No.33820257

do these drug test kits work for residue? i found a bag of some white powder and i wanted to check what it was but this test is for urine, i was wondering if i just put some of the powder in water and test it will it tell me what it is? or does it have to be another type of test kit?

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Anon·10/18/25 19:35·No.33823139

went to have dinner with a girl from uni. it lasted about 4 hours and we had wonderful conversations at all times. she laughed hysterically at my jokes and started playing with her hair. is this one of the signs women give? i havent seen her play with hair anywhere else so i dont think its a thing s...

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Anon·10/16/25 05:08·No.33812781

G.I.O.Y C

trick or treat edition

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Anon·10/18/25 03:09·No.33820712

How do I stop being disgusted at men liking me? Too many friendships went south, too many men I trusted confessed they were homos I can't function in the world without allies, women are not reliable. What do I do?

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Anon·10/16/25 21:04·No.33815168

feds are following me

hello so today i was going to the store and on my way there some dude just took a photo of me ? i was passing him by so i started to walk faster because i thought hes taking a photo of something else but he was just moving his phone along as i was walking past him and during the summer i had the sam...

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Anon·10/18/25 22:07·No.33823817

If a site were to redirect to an "illegal" google search, would i be held liable for it or would it be clear that i didn't make the search of my volition? for context I live in the UK and I know internet laws are getting tighter these days around here

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Anon·10/18/25 01:25·No.33820441

How do I make my brain shut up? It’s 24/7 negativity, music, random noise, and flashbacks. None of it is useful. I’m just boiling into a rage every day from this shit for no reason. Ssris did the trick but my dick went limp and I engaged in a bunch of risky stupid behaviour, I don’t want to repeat...

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Anon·10/17/25 23:11·No.33819924

Whats the best way to fake my own death? Can i bribe ukrainian military persons to forge documents that i volunteered in the war and got blown into microscopic pieces in the front and have my parents file a court petition to be declared dead? is there any telegrams or tor network sites for these ser...

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Anon·10/17/25 02:22·No.33816168

I don't think I will ever have a genuine relationship with a woman, and I want to be okay with that mentally/psychologically. Can you advise me on how to do that?

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Anon·10/18/25 16:38·No.33822505

Am I destined to be a virgin forever if I'm only 6'0?

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Anon·10/18/25 18:54·No.33822979

What does it feel like to fuck an old lady?

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Anon·10/18/25 19:13·No.33823027

Sex in a Relationship

I find my girlfriend attractive, but her sex face is not attractive to me and actually is a distraction for me. She's far from being my first GF or sexual partner. It's actually impacting our relationship because to be honest I don't really want to have sex with her over it. What would you do? Dogg...

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Anon·10/18/25 12:27·No.33821799

How to make them stop

My parents keep wanting to take my stuff out, checking my social media and texts. I'm 22. This all started because I started dating an older man and they think the worst of him, like, he's abusing me or something. Last night I could barely sleep because I forgot to delete my texts with him, like I ...

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Anon·10/18/25 01:23·No.33820435

How do I get my brother interested in women?

My brother is completely disinterested in women. He's attractive and has had plenty of opportunities to get a girlfriend or even just casual sex but he always blows women off. He's 30 years old and still a virgin and he doesn't even care. He's such a catch too. He runs his own business, owns a home ...

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Anon·10/18/25 04:13·No.33820923

Getting over misanthropy

Life events in the past years have gradually made me distrust women and people in general. I seek love, but I am demoralized by unfaithfulness of women. I know there are good women out there, but how would I never know? Seeing so many of them so openly cheat on their partners makes me want to give u...

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Anon·10/16/25 19:31·No.33814888

My dad and I used to be close. He was in the military, and when I was little he'd take me out camping to teach me survival skills and how to navigate by stars and stuff like that. My mom didn't like how rough I was getting hanging out with my dad all the time and he ignored her until I said I wante...

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Anon·10/18/25 17:52·No.33822734

I'm 26 years old and I still have no idea what to do as a career. I have basically zero life experience whatsoever, no social skills, never dated or had sex before, don't know how to fix a car, don't know how to pay taxes, don't know math, the list goes on. Literally the only things I have is my GED...

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Anon·10/18/25 19:36·No.33823144

I'm jealous of my wife's ex

My wife and I haven’t had sex in over 6 months. This year we only did it 3 times, and none of those times she had the patience to wait for me to orgasm, we stopped after 10 mins because she "was tired". I have a very high sex drive and dream of doing kinky things with my wife, but she has zero inter...

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Anon·10/18/25 01:31·No.33820455

I made a thread within the last 3 weeks about how I met someone online and we lived together for a while. She has BPD. I was finally able to get back in contact with her by lying. I created a Discord account with the name "IBoughtYouASteamDeck" and she added me and replied. She is obsessed with tha...

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Anon·10/17/25 19:16·No.33819071

How do you prevent your partner from cheating?

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Anon·10/18/25 07:18·No.33821283

Chance to be with a hot girl.

Bros I need advice. I'm a guy early 40's, married with a couple of kids. Life is so so. But Ive had this feeling that I havent done what I've wanted and the years are flying by real fast. So I decided I still want to fuck a young hot girl. Started checking out social media for about two years now an...

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Anon·10/18/25 08:35·No.33821398

How to I permanently give up gambling

I fell for it again after 6 months just because I saw an ad. How do I stop myself permanently from being lured into such a waste of money.

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Anon·10/18/25 08:06·No.33821339

For Halloween, I need to attach this crow stuffed animal to myself so that it stays upright; it’s about the weight of a can of soda. Any tips? Glue certainly won’t work

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Anon·10/16/25 21:28·No.33815235

My mom keeps her dog in a cage for 16hrs a day

She says shes crate training it, but so far its been 5 months and its still just in the cage. Its my sisters dog, technically, but she makes the dog, Jack, sit in the cage while my sister is at school from 9am to 3pm. Then Jack goes to the bathroom, and back into the cage until 5 or 6 until 8pm. It...

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Anon·10/18/25 18:09·No.33822779

strip clubs

never been to one. what's the vibe in most? what i'm looking for is just going and chilling there, having my drink and watching the bare chested ladies get it on. i've read online though that in many clubs the ladies approach you and chat you up, to upsell you (like lap dances, oral, sex). i don't w...

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Anon·10/18/25 02:53·No.33820668

My wife picrel is annoying me

She’s obsessed with history and she spends hours reading books not giving me attention. I love how educated she is but it’s annoying me. I love that she’s trad and does trad duties but it seems like she focused on 70% history and 30% trad duties including our child

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Anon·10/14/25 19:18·No.33806581

Are there any reasons, why am I still an incel?

I am a 25 yo male. I have a job, I have some sort of a social circle, even people outside of my family have called me attractive. And yet I have nevet felt a touch of a femoid. Why? What the fuck am I doing wrong?

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Anon·10/17/25 04:03·No.33816522

How do people actually do things?

I'm about to turn 19, moved across the country for college two years ago to get away from my folks. Was an ok student my entire life, and then everything went to shit. I'm doing really bad. I've managed to fail multiple classes every semester. Just this month, I failed to do my part in three differe...

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Anon·10/18/25 15:47·No.33822261

a red flag

Met an alt girl the other day that got dumped by her ex and lives with him as a roommate. I feel like she's using me to get her ex jealous or something because she's all over me, sometimes she follows me step by step when we walk in groups and the only thing we have in common is music taste which is...

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Anon·10/18/25 16:32·No.33822460

Questions about becoming a bartender

Should I do it? >Prefer physical jobs where I'm on my feet constantly doing things. >Worked at a restaurant for over 2 years and really enjoyed it. >People always say it's stressful but I guess I thrive at it. >I now work at a bank where I sit for 8 hours and don't like it. >I can't do a desk job lo...

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Anon·10/18/25 04:01·No.33820885

I’m looking for good username ideas that include the word “gera”. It doesn’t matter where in the name it appears, whether does the beginning, middle or end. I also don’t care about capitalisation. It’s for a gaming related identity but I want it to sound good enough to work as a general brand name t...

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Anon·10/17/25 06:49·No.33816960

How can I become more attractive to busty girls?

Do they like muscular guys or scrawny nerdy guys?

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Anon·10/18/25 15:35·No.33822240

/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

Previous: >>33818824 [/adv/thread/33818824#p33818824]

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Anon·10/18/25 08:56·No.33821434

>be me >depression to the max >parents are aggressively anti-psychiatry >obey their wishes, fuck up life >fast forward, dropout with no prospects >bite the bullet >get caught once, swear off of it, then get it later >things progress slowly with this and therapy >work a job that pays nothing, litera...

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Anon·10/18/25 16:16·No.33822370

i went on a 2 HOUR walk and still did NOT lose my VIRGINITY

i havent been out of my room in years, they say "just go outside bro" so i did exactly that i walked, but it got hot. worse, i didnt see any FOIDS except some old woman. i saw some homeless beggars. i will go on another walk another day, ill lose my virginity one day.

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Anon·10/17/25 17:14·No.33818745

Disillusioned by people

I seem to have the habit of being disillusioned by people. I used to be quite antisocial and kept to myself, but in the last 3 years I decided to improve my social skills and get more active in engaging with people. I also lost a lot of fat and truthfully people were more inclined to talk to me sinc...

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Anon·10/17/25 23:15·No.33819942

How do I overcome loneliness and my obsessions with women I can never have?

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Anon·10/18/25 16:27·No.33822424

where to buy christmas labubu?

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Anon·10/17/25 22:34·No.33819753

I've wanted to be a man since adolescence, at least. I'm well aware that I don't think like a man nor would it be fair to make others play along with my LARP, and I'm certainly not going to become a hormone riddled freak when I'm petite and 157cm and I'd never be a real man anyway. Regardless of the...

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Anon·10/17/25 07:41·No.33817047

I don't understand how hooking up at a bar/club works. I've had dates where it went well and the girl wanted to go back to my place, but this was after already establishing strong rapport over text. I can't comprehend going out to a bar or club and convincing another person to agree to fuck you rig...

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Anon·10/15/25 20:32·No.33810745

failed code monkey turn almost decade of NEET

the fuck am I supposed to do? Been leeching parents the entire time. Still have some money saved up because I'm insanely frugal but I just can't imagine getting back into the job market or what job. Fired from code monkey job because CRUD apps are too hard for me apparently. also have a bsc in biolo...

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Anon·10/17/25 20:00·No.33819206

Should i cause a Total cloudflare shortout that lasts for days? dont ask how

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Anon·10/18/25 00:44·No.33820308

How to cheat in secret?

Moralfags out please. I can’t ask this anywhere else. -What apps are safe to use -What tools might help in keeping browser history and log-in keys safe -How to opsec in general -How to hide being away for an evening -What mindset should I have when I go into cheating? >inb5 why do you want to chea...

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Anon·10/18/25 15:41·No.33822250

I don't enjoy things anymore. Everything is a drag. I know I shouldn't complain, people are way worse off than me, yet I feel this way. >I have my own apartment, it's small and noisy but I own the place and its low cost >Got a good job, long and shit hours but do I part time so I'm free on a lot of...

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Anon·10/18/25 08:28·No.33821384

Is it worth it

Is death what i deserve, after being intrapped inside my life for so long, is it worth trying. I feel my body rotting from the fility hands people pressed fourth onto me. Should i die or should i live to see the future, that i must ask. Weither gender people see me as, ill always be seen as some lo...

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Anon·10/18/25 02:15·No.33820566

How to cope with the fact that your boyfriend has been loving an idealized version of you andhe's been passively manipulating you into and waiting for it to happen? And that your real self is truly unseen and unloved and will probably be dumped unless you give into his demands or expectations. I fee...

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Anon·10/18/25 10:26·No.33821576

Becoming a Chad is weird

I used to be obese for my entire life but 2 years ago I lost all the weight and now I receive female attention all the time. What is so weird about it is once you become attractive to one woman, you become attractive to pretty much all other women at the same exact time. Women all have a shared i...

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Anon·10/18/25 03:42·No.33820807

I’m divorcing my wife

It’s been only 1 year of marriage and I’m changing career, I got a job as an engineer. I used to be a pilot but I hate it so I became an engineer, it’s much more based. My wife who is blonde and has a very nice face but she’s super libtard and I can’t take her anymore. We use to go to the same frat

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Anon·10/17/25 15:25·No.33818287

She's giving me every green light and I'm too autistic to make a move

My master's program is tiny, so the 10 of us in my class are basically one big friend group now and we all hang out constantly. I'm catching feelings for one of the girls, and I think she's dropping hints (flirty jokes, telling me to text her when I'm home, calling me cute etc.), but I'm awful at r...

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Anon·10/18/25 05:10·No.33821043

I saw a busty asian today and I want to kill myself

I saw her while I was doing groceries and I was hit with a wave of depression. I'm pathetic, I will never have a girl like that be interested in me. I'm not only hideous but I'm also low IQ Is there any reason to live?

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Anon·10/18/25 08:03·No.33821335

Tips on how to not die

I've brought a new home 3 months ago and I immediately began renovating and replacing everything in it. To save cash I've mostly worked alone on it, only hiring the necessary tradesmen for the things I don't know (electricity wiring, etc) Thing is I'm getting tired and feel like dying. My day job is...

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Anon·10/18/25 09:01·No.33821445

How many mistakes can I get away with at retail before I start getting in trouble?

So I've made a bunch of stupid mistakes like forgetting a bag or some shit but I'm kept on because I think it's due to NO ONE being a cashier. Me and some other older lady are the only cashiers, at a Super store, with only 2 registers open at a time. How bad is it that you can't get someone to be a ...

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Anon·10/16/25 06:09·No.33812951

im a bottom and i hate myself for it a lot. i hate having homosexual thoughts and urges and it feels very emasculating in my mind. i feel like the way i desire men is feminine and disgusting because it's not always really about physical traits like being tall or jacked (although i like that too and ...

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Anon·10/18/25 10:59·No.33821629

How do you deal with a rejection that will probably affect the course of your life? So, long story short I'm under a scholarship and needed to pass an entrance exam to continue the scholarship and consequently my visa. I'm from a shithole 3rd world country living in the 1st world through a scholarsh...

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Anon·10/18/25 06:28·No.33821187

Should I go into Accounting with the aim of getting a CPA? The program is 16 months. I have a MS in Comp Eng but couldn't get a job for a year. I am afraid I will never get a job again because of the gap. My 2 years of experience might as well counted as 0 since I can't even get fresher job. On the ...

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Anon·10/17/25 22:10·No.33819650

I recently lost a harddrive (+backup) to a flood that contained what was all of my irl photos and internet adventures since I was 14. I am emotionally devasted and am thinking of suicide. How do I cope. I have nothing left

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Anon·10/18/25 03:57·No.33820872

How can I be happy? I can never feel happy. How can I stop life from passing me by?

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Anon·10/17/25 17:48·No.33818830

The Machine

I take melatonin to sleep and caffeine pills to stay awake. I have no natural sleep left. How soon will I die?