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Anon·06/24/25 03:54·No.33266117

Is getting older just feeling more depressed and lifeless?

Just turned 30 and feel as though the spark is gone. How do I feel alive again and enjoy things like I used to? Is this normal?

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Anon·06/21/25 17:19·No.33254845

GIOYC - Get It Off Your Chest

Proper edition

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Anon·06/24/25 04:23·No.33266213

To people who lost a large amount of weight in a relatively short period (60lbs+) how did you do it? Did people treat you different?

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Anon·06/22/25 02:28·No.33256867

real girl giving out real advice. i've made it in life and i know it all. let me know any of your problems and i can make them wash away. i know everything. you can test me on this knowledge if you'd like. i won't post tits... yet! just joking around guys

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Anon·06/24/25 04:49·No.33266275

How do I get out more often? I lack social skills and don't have many friends, those I have are not close and I cannot ask them out. I am seeking a job but what else can I do to get out more often. I do go out for a walk several times a day but for short periods of time.

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Anon·06/24/25 04:48·No.33266274

how do i stop my gf from bringing up an instance from the past she didnt like? how and when will she resolve it?

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Anon·06/24/25 03:25·No.33266011

my boyfriend and i have been dating since september 2022, and were unofficially an item for a year before. its been almost four years that we've been together. he's 21, i'm 22. should i start thinking about marriage? if he doesn't propose in x months/years, i should leave? or due to our age, does t...

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Anon·06/24/25 04:28·No.33266229

Life is absurdly good, force yourself to have this mindset and outlook for everything you do and things will start going really well. Live life not caring about anything. Trust in your innate unconscious self to always do right, morally and everything, even if you think you did wrong. You are a go...

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Anon·06/24/25 03:29·No.33266025

How do I find a woman IRL who I can love as much as Emi Ibarazaki?

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Anon·06/24/25 04:17·No.33266198

really gross health problem here: most of my shits lately have been really tiny (like, extremely tiny, compared to the amount of food that i've been eating), and it's taking more effort than normal to get them out. what's wrong with me?

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Anon·06/24/25 03:06·No.33265944

I miss my ex and kinda wanna rekindle things but she broke up with me for being too distant and not meeting up/taking her out enough plus I didn't want to eat her pussy and I never complimented her. However I also strongly believe in Christianity, and the divinity of Jesus Christ, so fornicating wit...

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Anon·06/23/25 23:25·No.33265286

Why shouldn't I look down on girls who aren't virgins, and consider them just used goods that I can enjoy and toss away since they are apparently okay with that.

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Anon·06/23/25 11:47·No.33262949

/goals/ Thread

It's almost the 3rd Quarter of the year anons. Have you hit any of your new years resolutions? It's important to break your goals into tiers such as yearly, monthly, and weekly. I've achieved most of my quarterly goals, but some have had to roll over into the next quarter. Right now I'm planning my ...

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Anon·06/23/25 17:02·No.33264204

Should I kms?

>18 >Kissless virgin >Autistic >Socially retarded because I wasn't made aware of my retardation as a kid ("Autism is a superpower n shiet!!!") >Nerdy hobbies like history and plastic modelling >Doing an apprenticeship as an industrial engineer because I'm too dumb for six-figure jobs like programmin...

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Anon·06/24/25 03:20·No.33265989

What is it like to meet someone, looking into each other's eyes, having instant connection, instant vibes, having fun, smiling, joking and laughing all day, and having a man / woman that is sweet to you unconditionally? Do they only truly exist in anime, manga and LNs?

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Anon·06/24/25 03:07·No.33265945

How can I get 4chan to filter out "I won't read" anon of the /adv/ board?

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Anon·06/24/25 02:28·No.33265858

>boyfriend fucked my ass until it prolapsed >dumps me after a month, unfriends me off league for good measure How the fuck do I get over this? He destroyed my body and left, essentially. I had to get a new job after I leaked on my office chair in the last one.

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Anon·06/24/25 01:41·No.33265759

...---...

So, a few months ago, I started talking to a femboy. Nothing much, but he asked me out

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Anon·06/24/25 01:12·No.33265705

Do many men avoid their girls during their periods?

Is that normal? And should I avoid mine? Mine is very mean and says bad stuff during hers. And she has managed to avoid me for the past few days (new strategy on her part) so she can stop herself from saying bad things to me.

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Anon·06/23/25 23:08·No.33265225

How can i make serious money

I'm 29. Finished my bachelors of computer science at around 24. Im not stupid just lack motivation, a LOT Since then, I could never get a software engineering job. I just wasnt lucky. I was close a few times. Ive always had to settle for help desk type roles, some better than others. I need some...

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Anon·06/23/25 10:49·No.33262792

is there any way to recover from 5 hours sleep for 5 years?

I've been a wagie for 5-1/2 years now and I'm losing my job soon. I've slept 5 to 6, now a hard 5, hours a night on weeknights for that time. I cope with coffee after I fell asleep standing up at the factory and almost got fired. Tried to go to bed earlier but the wagie rage I just couldn't stand it...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:47·No.33263697

Did I genuinely fumble this, or did she just lose interest somehow? Context is we met at a gig, she was very receptive and keen in person. She wanted to meet after the gig, and we exchanged insta handles to arrange a date over pints in the future. In the DMs we had two rounds of messages back and fo...

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Anon·06/23/25 08:45·No.33262501

Neighbours making fun of you

My neighbours gather around to make fun of me at late hours of the night and there's nothing I can do to stop it. How can I develop thicker skin? I feel deep sense of dread when I overhear these people talking about me, I even put my ear against the wall to spy on their conversations, it's always so...

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Anon·06/24/25 03:22·No.33265996

Do I have to give up videogames?

I've been playing videogames almost daily since I was young. I'm going to be 29 soon, but I've noticed that balancing games and responsibilities is difficult. Sometimes I waste weekends on just gaming or forget payments because I've been looking forward to a new release. I've also been feeling so re...

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Anon·06/24/25 24:49·No.33265605

How do I escape the friend zone?

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Anon·06/22/25 09:21·No.33257952

i wanna ask out a guy but im scared, what do i do

real life girl here. i really wanna ask out this guy but im scared, is it true guys are attracted to girls who are confident and straight forward with what they want? some context, im 18 and hes 18 or 19? i know cause we were in the same year of school. i dont know him super well, but we have a to...

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Anon·06/22/25 11:35·No.33258221

Thought I was ready to date

For context, I am a Pakistani ex-muslim. I'm not open about my apostasy except to my friends. This is mainly for survival as I currently live with my parents and don't want to rock the boat and ruin my relationship with them. About 2 months ago I met this Indian girl on Bumble and we clicked. Howev...

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Anon·06/23/25 18:54·No.33264560

Evading bans on Reddit

How the fuck do these faggots know it's me? Am I just going to be banned forever now? All I want to do is make innocuous posts in my film club subreddit. I made an account a month ago and subscribed to a bunch of random subs to throw them off my trail. It worked until I re-subscribed to the places ...

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Anon·06/23/25 22:43·No.33265155

creativity advice

what's the point in doing anything if you aren't going to be the best? i started thinking about this at 14 years old and almost 10 years later i cannot answer it. maybe back then i was more delusional so i could put off contending with it all, because i knew less people and in my smaller world i se...

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Anon·06/20/25 11:59·No.33248500

how the FUCK are you supposed to meet women in your mid 20s without a social circle, having graduated university, no club/bars, no dating apps. Should men in such situations just go back to uni and roll the dice again?

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Anon·06/24/25 03:10·No.33265961

How do I stop Rizzing XII - XV females on online chats. I am addicted to their attention. I compliment them a lot and like them better than 19-33 women which many of them act like toddlers. They know my age so I am not prettending to be their age or lie to them. I don't get sexual with them but some...

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Anon·06/23/25 15:52·No.33264004

Will pregnancy ruin my life?

25 m here. Fucked around and got a chick off of tinder pregnant. She claimed she was on the pill and I didn’t pull out because I’m a sex addicted retard. She’s adamant about not getting an abortion 6 weeks into the pregnancy. What do? Is it over for me? Should I just end it? Taking any sort of legit...

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Anon·06/22/25 03:33·No.33257118

How to explain that I never had sex

I'm 35 and still a virgin due to growing up with a family exlusively consisting of BPD women, which gave me a heavy aversion towards all sorts of realtionships with women. S A few years of therapy later I got that sortted out. A while back I met a hot girl at the bus station after going back from a ...

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Anon·06/23/25 22:46·No.33265163

Work Woes

After ~3 months of looking for literally anything I finally had an orientation scheduled that I totally ignored until the last minute, arrived ~12 minutes late and got turned away. It's becoming clear to me that I am not able to give a fuck about being employed by some shitty company that doesn't a...

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Anon·06/24/25 03:04·No.33265937

Too stupid

Am i too stupid? > Have sex only relationships with one slut money involved > Almost 3 years now > Have catch gonorea/clampdia/hpv maybe herpes from her 2 or 3 times > Develop feeling for her but one sided. She just want money from me > The last time i catch STD from her cannot take it anymore and c...

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Anon·06/23/25 05:35·No.33262058

As a woman, you often see good men chased by dozens of women tripping over themselves for him, he's the prize and not her, and you are left settling for the ugly men that no other women want. Any advice on how to get him to become interested in you and stay loyal?

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Anon·06/22/25 11:52·No.33258271

How worried should I be about eating little fish and vegetables?

Currently living by myself in an apartment without a kitchen and I'm largely living off of protein (pork, chicken, eggs, snacking on peanuts), and sugars (rice) from cheap eateries and occasionally fastfood places. It's not that I can't buy meals with fish and vegetables — I just find that cheaper ...

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Anon·06/23/25 18:47·No.33264529

Doing hard things has unironically pulled me out of the worst times of my life. I'm not gonna claim it'll work for everyone but it did 100% for me. I used to basically only pursue comfort, ease, and pleasure but over the years that all just stopped feeling good and put me in a hole, but working out ...

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Anon·06/23/25 18:01·No.33264384

Should I bring back my minecraft server?

So about a year ago I handed my minecraft server over to a russian player who promised to keep running it, however he ended up neglecting it. He recently informed me that the world save and the plugins I "wrote" are still there though. I have spent the last half or so year trying to figure out life...

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Anon·06/23/25 22:57·No.33265188

How do I bring my suicidal thoughts to my therapist without her telling my parents??

>been suicidal most of my life >/gen though it was the autism >still unsure if it is or not >started to see a therapist since May >been thinking of opening up >I can’t, freeze every single time So… man what do I do??? I really want to open up since I can’t seem to get better and it’s kinda ruining ...

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Anon·06/23/25 20:58·No.33264904

Yesterday I met some dudes at a town party and they were pretty nice (got added to their Whatsapp GC and shit) Today's party is even better and I REALLY wanna go, but none of my friends want to. These guys said in the GC are thinking about coming but they ain't sure, if I tell them that I can join ...

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Anon·06/24/25 24:45·No.33265592

how fat can you be and date

assume I'm six feet tall and not looking to give up with absolute landwhales. regular girls are fine not Stacie what is the maximum weight where dating is "hard but doable" and where does it pass into "zero effort should be spent on dating and everything should go to reducing mass"

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Anon·06/20/25 07:35·No.33247859

How do I get a boyfriend who will love me before and after I looksmax?

How do I tell potential partners that I am planning to do some plastic surgery for my nose/eyes/labia so if you are slightly annoyed with them if you stay with me they will change . I want a boyfriend right now before I start saving since it will take long and I am too lonely and depressed to wait ...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:49·No.33263705

Breaking women's hearts

So I'm a former incel (terminally online loner and pimple-faced video game and porn addict in my teens, didn't get laid until I was 20) who's slowly chadded out over the past few years by completely cutting all that out except for 1 hour of vidya a day, self-improving - working on appearance, life g...

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Anon·06/23/25 23:39·No.33265358

The person you are dealing with could be in serious overwhelming pain not be hateful towards you. Try to understand that. There are some people who are so worn out they lash out vocally and behaviorally towards others, some keep it in, and others forgive. While you should stick to those that forgive...

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Anon·06/23/25 23:05·No.33265213

is it normal and healthy to think about a person you're friends with every waking second and look forward to nothing else but the next time you'll see them? i honestly feel like i'm going insane.

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Anon·06/22/25 14:10·No.33258520

Explanation For My Wildly Changing Moods

I am curious if there is any sort of diagnosis (not necessarily medical just cannot think of a better word at the moment) suited for the way my mind has been working both for and against me the last half year or so When my mind is working normally, as it is right now, I feel a strong desire to do t...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:44·No.33263676

I tried but I CAN'T date overweight women!

Am I a volcel if I can't get a woman that I want - 5/10 and slim? Fat/overweight women are easy for me to get online, I went out with a few of them, tried to give them chances, but I can't... I couldn't physically bring myself to even touching them, let alone kissing or having sex. They are so repul...

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Anon·06/23/25 21:59·No.33265066

What does it feel like to have or take pleasure in the small joys in life?

Honest question. Much of my life is spent searching for things to distract myself from my various mental illnesses but I very rarely enjoy anything for any substantial amount of time. I see things like picrel and I get extremely jealous, I can fleetingly imagine for a second or two at a time what it...

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Anon·06/23/25 21:29·No.33264992

People don't respect me

I'm always the butt of jokes in friends groups and I can sense people pick on me often. It happens with many people already and they make fun of things they don't with other guys. I don't know if it's because I join people that don't respect me or people sense they can treat me more harshly. Any wa...

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Anon·06/23/25 19:46·No.33264717

Learn to rate women. If you're being brutally honest, most of the women you simp for are probably not even above a 5 on the looks scale, and they know it. They've known it since they were little girls. But you treat them like they're untouchable goddesses because you're so used to having unresolved ...

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Anon·06/22/25 02:25·No.33256854

I need some advice/opinions I just dug up my brand new PSP Go, with the intention to pop it open and remove the battery. To my dismay, a brand new system is sealed, I didn't remember that... So, do I unseal the system to remove the battery, or do I simply leave the system sealed. If I unseal it, I m...

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Anon·06/24/25 24:03·No.33265457

I left a piece of trash on the table and forgot to pick it up. My younger sister then yells at me saying how i'm so disgusting and i'm so childish for my age and how i'm incapable yadda yadda I then finally reach my limit and call her a crazy bitch and tell her to shut the hell up. I'm not saying...

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Anon·06/23/25 20:38·No.33264854

People treat me like a celebrity then leave

So imma be real and get this out the way, I'm good looking and have been told this by numerous people and get complimented by strangers daily. People genuinely give me celebrity treatment, constantly coming up and wanting to talk to me, doing nice guy/girl shit, when I'm at the gym they want to load...

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Anon·06/23/25 21:55·No.33265053

ATOGA - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

yesterthread: >>33261723 [/adv/thread/33261723#p33261723]

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Anon·06/22/25 14:48·No.33258590

where do i am the gun

killing myself soon, where should i am the gun to ensure the quickest least painful death? temple, under chin, inside of mouth, etc?

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Anon·06/23/25 10:39·No.33262775

How do I hook up with this chick IRL? I'm obsessed with her on IG.

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Anon·06/23/25 18:41·No.33264494

How do I get rid of a raging hard erection after I see some hot girl in public wearing skimpy shorts?

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Anon·06/23/25 19:35·No.33264690

It does not matter if your reason's practicality is as much of a joke as to why a car needs an engine to run, believe in yourself no matter what. Your effort is what will make you. True you didn't get what you want, but you did live by following your heart unlike a lot of people who just live by exc...

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Anon·06/23/25 24:05·No.33260923

Unlawful, Unethical and Unfair

Has anyone here been on the receiving end of extremely unlawful behavior that severely negatively impacted your life (and the trajectory thereof) with no hope for justice or reimbursement? If so, how did you cope and get over it? Bonus points if it the actor or actors causing harm did so intentiona...

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Anon·06/23/25 19:09·No.33264618

Sneaking beef jerky past a dog specifically meant to smell beef jerky

Hi everyone, I saw this video where this guy gives advice on sneaking things past dogs. I might be going to a music festival and want to bring some beef jerky in but I don’t want the dogs at the gate to eat my beef jerky. This guy proposes putting the beef jerky inside of a waterproof flashlight, a...

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Anon·06/23/25 23:28·No.33265299

How to be a more empathetic person?

I'm starting to realize that I am a bit of a narcissist (I think most people are to some extent) and I want to try to get better. In particular, I have difficulty empathizing with other people. My coldness has caused me to hurt people around me, people I love, and I feel ashamed. I'm not totally dev...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:25·No.33263602

>delete all social media >friends forget about me and think I don't exist It's all so tiresome

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Anon·06/23/25 12:29·No.33263128

whats a fun new skill i can learn at home while recovering from shoulder stabilizing surgery? something that doesnt require a lot of movement, im still in a sling and leaning over or running for example hurts like hell, and obviusly i can do it with my left hand only (MUST NOT BE MASTURBATION)

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Anon·06/23/25 14:01·No.33263513

How do I stop boring women when I approach in public?

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Anon·06/23/25 23:52·No.33265401

Hello i am actual high functioning autistic male that needs advice in life

>i want to get off my medication, i also just recently moved to another town and have no frens and no life. >inb4 yes i had friends were i grew up at. I also need advice on a career change suggestion or study field. Sorry for being so needy thank you!

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Anon·06/23/25 13:29·No.33263378

So I started dating this girl a while ago. Everything has been running smoothly, except the fact that every time we're intimate, she's told me she wants me to take away her "power" from the dynamic for her to get aroused. I assumed it wouldn't be a problem, and at first it was fun, but it's become a...

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Anon·06/23/25 11:30·No.33262881

How do I gain the confidence to live authentically and by my own terms rather than others'? I'm tired of putting up with people's bullshit and dealing with stupid people who insist I play by their rules and refuse anything that contradicts their worldview and then bitch at me when reality inevitably...

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Anon·06/23/25 23:40·No.33265360

How to stop feeling guilty for disappointing my parents?

In short, my life is a failure but it doesn't really bother me as much as the fact that I disappointed my parents, they were good to me and I'm sad that I failed them, my only cope is reminding myself that my older brother is highly successful so maybe they don't care as much as I think. Anyway how ...

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Anon·06/23/25 07:27·No.33262302

how do u learn to be alone

i'm 24 male, f i'm not talking to a woman or in some type of situationship i can't work properly, i feel unmotivated to do anything. should i delete all social media that exposes me to women and give in to compulsive masturbation?

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Anon·06/23/25 05:31·No.33262049

at a crossroads

tried to write out the whole complex backstory with nuance but instead just answer this. should i: a. go to college despite having no idea what i want to study or even if i could handle a normal job (autism). cross my fingers that i have better luck socially than i did in high school. b. opt out of ...

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Anon·06/23/25 04:52·No.33261935

I MISS COVID

My life peaked at 18-20 years old during the COVID pandemic. I became an EMT at 16, and the second I graduated HS I was thrusted into the frontlines of the pandemic. I was doing EMS calls, I was collecting COVID samples, I was working at different medical clinics, I was doing the actual testing, I w...

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Anon·06/23/25 07:35·No.33262316

I've only been married for eight months. We didn't live together before the wedding, since we both came from religious homes. My husband has been distant the past two months, focusing on stuff with his computer whenever he's off work. I wanted to spend more time with him, so I tried joining him but...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:23·No.33263596

I’ve been a neet for 8 years (37 now) What are the steps I take for 6fig jobs and will I be unhirable because of my gap? My mum is tired of my freeloading ass

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Anon·06/23/25 23:30·No.33265308

How difficult is it to make your Ex an FWB after they just came out of a failed marriage? I warned her this would turn out badly when she first start seeing her loser Ex-husband. Not just me, but many of her friends told her the same thing. He was ex-military, had PTSD and some other fucked up ment...

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Anon·06/23/25 10:12·No.33262735

autist trying to assess friendship

>socially retarded and don't have many friends >thanks to being terminally online I do have chances to meet people though >meet a guy playing vidya that somehow turns into a friendship over time thanks to our common interest >he even introduces and invites me to hang out with his gf and other friend...

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Anon·06/23/25 21:24·No.33264979

back to /adv/ I went through the archives before making this thread. Every so often I get locked up in doing this >negative feelings come >I do something negative that ends up annoying others or go out of my way to be annoying (thankfully this is only online) >people I don’t know hate me, I get b&,...

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Anon·06/23/25 23:33·No.33265329

I'm so tired of hating myself and being myself bros. I honestly want to kill myself because I hate the person I was born as. How do I stop?

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Anon·06/23/25 07:41·No.33262329

>be me

>check out of society and the small friend group I had (2 friends) >as soon as I left they stopped talking to each other tldr; it was me keeping it all together and it all fell apart after I left

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Anon·06/23/25 11:17·No.33262843

How to make peace with loneliness

I was often discouraged and/or prohibited to interact with the outside world while growing up and as a result I turned out to be a very lonely and depressed adult, on top of that, I had to move 15 times in a span of ten years so I never managed to make any kind of connection wherever I've been. Alth...

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Anon·06/22/25 05:53·No.33257550

If we concede that porn and masturbation are more pleasurable than sex by design, why exactly should I be giving them up in order to make sex better? I have never had sex that I've enjoyed more than porn and masturbation. I don't really want to be in a relationship with anyone or have kids. I don't...

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Anon·06/23/25 17:16·No.33264243

Staying pure and innocent

I have recently realized that I hate the idea of having sex with someone who I don’t have strong feelings for. I’m waiting for marriage and want to find a girl who also is or just happens to still be a virgin and would adopt my values. What I’m trying to get at is I’m not sure what steps to take ne...

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Anon·06/22/25 17:57·No.33259236

How can someone become a better human being?

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Anon·06/22/25 20:40·No.33260052

Did anal for the first time

Did anal, and I'm experiencing a lot of side effects since August of last year We both tested negative for HIV, and I tested negative for the primary STD's Yet ever since then, starting the very next morning after anal, I'm having excessive anal discharge with my bowel movements. I can't consume a...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:14·No.33263554

Gambling with love

I'm not gonna explain it all unless someone asks but basically I have a very good girlfriend who treats me well and seems to be good wife material, but we just don't click, and she really doesn't have much else going for her. I don't feel like I've found "the one" and I'm worried if I'm settling. W...

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Anon·06/23/25 20:25·No.33264819

Fucked up my life - what now?

> Be me > Make more money than you've ever made in your life > Save most of it > Get laid off > Instead of looking for work, dick around for nearly a year burning money and time on savings, guitar lessons and gear, hookers, some "girlfriend", lending people money, projects that are not lucrative in ...

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Anon·06/23/25 21:38·No.33265016

Really bored, confused and lost in life. Any ideas?

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Anon·06/23/25 21:26·No.33264985

a bad idea

So, wondering if anyone here might be able to tell me what to expect if I tell my doctor I have been deeply depressed and thinking about suicide. I have had 3 others exit (2 guns, 1 drugs) and I tried a lot (consciously or unconsciously) with alcohol a few times years back but somehow always made it...

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Anon·06/21/25 21:05·No.33255682

Boyfriend does "nothing" for hours a day

I've been spending more time with my boyfriend at a shared place and I noticed something. For a big portion of a day he just sits/lies and stares into space. I asked him about it and he said that he's "thinking". Sometimes he gets up and goes from room to room, just mindlessly walking, supposedly th...

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Anon·06/23/25 04:32·No.33261848

How to love someone more?

There's this friend I have, they're (imma be honest/blunt here*) harder to love than any of my other friends. They're ace, emotionally reserved, and when I usually show my way of affection, that being, gifts, touch, acts of service, they don't like it. They told me that talking and spending time tog...

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Anon·06/23/25 19:46·No.33264716

My partner always insists on showering with me and cleaning my penis and butthole, the latter feels really invasive since it's probably just fingering. She doesn't do anything wrong and I don't want to shoot down the only thing she seemingly gets excited for day to day. What do I do?

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Anon·06/23/25 13:55·No.33263492

How to settle

Dudes I need some serious setting straight. I have a girl that's great and treats me like a king. I trust her, and I know she will be a fantastic wife and mother. I've never been more certain of an easy life with a loving wife. But I'm just kinda, meh about it. She isn't particularly interesting or...

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Anon·06/23/25 24:27·No.33260998

Gf never asks for sex or seems interested in it

We've had sex maybe 3-4 times. I was living somewhere that she could come and stay the night. Now I live with my mom, and she lives with hers, and we haven't had sex in like 8 months. And she never brings it up or expresses desire to have sex again we just don't really talk about it. Does it mean sh...

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Anon·06/18/25 12:11·No.33238405

I just met a girl a week ago and she already wants to be my girlfriend and move in with me. This is awesome.... Right? It's good, yes?

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Anon·06/22/25 12:08·No.33258302

I like to think I make good decisions. But sometimes, when I'm put on the spot and have to make a decision in a literal split second, I end up making the wrong one and look foolish in front of others. They're usually situations, I've never exactly encountered before in my life. Is this a normal o...

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Anon·06/22/25 14:16·No.33258533

How can I not be afraid of intimidating people?

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Anon·06/23/25 04:34·No.33261858

What is it like to be a brothel girl or prostitute? Do they just disassociate? Do they get PTSD?

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Anon·06/23/25 04:19·No.33261794

what job should a lazy faggot like myself go for? ideally not people facing

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Anon·06/23/25 20:08·No.33264781

>GF has seemed a bit distant for the past couple weeks >Not wildly so but enough to notice >Except when horny, we still have good sex often What's going on? I asked her if all is good and she says yeah, but I dunno. If it wasnt for the frequent good sex Id be certain a break up was coming, it feel...

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Anon·06/23/25 20:37·No.33264852

How do I professionally explain to a doctor that the reason I have a septal perforation is because I did Coke for a couple months once? I see an ENT tomorrow and I hate seeming ‘casual’ around doctors. I hate it when professionals do that thing where when they think you’re trashy they either treat y...

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Anon·06/23/25 17:50·No.33264357

How do I into women?

>I have a nice face >I have good hair >Good physique because I exercise regularly >White >170cm >I can be social and fun >Women have given me looks >Some women get nervous when they talk with me >Some women have given me signals to hit on them But how the hell do I even get a woman in the first plac...

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Anon·06/23/25 18:12·No.33264417

I don't do this. A neighbor caught me peeing in my backyard, her face was aghast when i saw her, she had her phone, i don't know if she recorded or not. I am now trying to process the fact that i could be charged and get a record for life. I don't know what to do.

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Anon·06/22/25 20:08·No.33259869

How do I actually love a woman?

I remember a year ago I tried make a tinder because I felt curious on what a relationship feels like. I got about 90 matches or something and tried the dating thing, the problem is: I don't feel any feelings toward any women, I just feel urge to sex but most of the time I prefer to be left in solitu...

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Anon·06/23/25 18:14·No.33264421

Do you have to screw this in?I can only get one drillhole aligned because the window is jank however, i'm hearing that really the window is what holds it in. I don't have a drill to make a new drill hole.Because I'm a rentoid

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Anon·06/23/25 01:59·No.33261357

I'm autistic and artistic. Im considering doing a trade in either carpentry, landscaping, cooking, or public works. Should I do a trade (and which one), or pursue more creative endeavors?

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Anon·06/23/25 15:51·No.33264000

How do you get taller? Assuming you are still in the age where that can happen? As long as you aren't malnourished is there anything to do other than just cross your fingers and let your genes do the work?

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Anon·06/23/25 15:15·No.33263842

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #305

>What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of those even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:39·No.33263655

What matters?

For all my LTR and happily married anons, What actually matters in a woman? What things in the relationship and in her looks, personality, lifestyle actually matter for the relationship to work, remain working, and you to be happy? Her looks? Her career? Education? Mutual interests? Same values? Her...

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Anon·06/22/25 23:29·No.33260773

Does anyone have good advice for improving self-control? I'm tired of being fat. I see pictures of myself from a decade ago and they make me sad because I'm gained so much weight since then. But in the evenings, I get hungry, and I say to myself "Well, if I indulge myself one night, it won't hurt an...

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Anon·06/23/25 03:10·No.33261561

I'm 6'3" and I'm talking to a 4'11" girl on bumble and we're about to meet up. How does physical stuff work with such a height difference? The one other girl I've been with was on the taller side, like 5'8"

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Anon·06/23/25 19:13·No.33264634

To sell or not to sell

Basically a colleague of my fried was about to throw away away a server but my fried suggested i get it instead. I did not know what exactly it was until i got it. Now im realizing that its a big, heavy, and old piece of shit that while very impressive for its time is basically obsolete nowadays. No...

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Anon·06/23/25 02:03·No.33261378

>Be male, gay, 26 >Realize I still want to be a self-hating closetfag who gets a wife, takes viagra, and thinks about men while doing it Am I fucked up for considering it? Any advice if I do want to live a straight life? It seems way more appealing, but idk if anyone here understands.

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Anon·06/22/25 10:56·No.33258117

Dumb wife = dumb children

I have gf who loves me beyond this world. I want to marry her and have like 7 children and have means to do so, but im hesitant. I'm attractive well above average in inteligence (mechanical engineer currently in areospace industry). On the other hand she's pretty dumb, average maybe bellow, works in...

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Anon·06/23/25 03:19·No.33261591

Showed these texts to her rebound bf. And asking him when he started dating her. What ended up happening is she ended up deleting him and all her friends. And when I tried talking to her after that. She told me to never reach out to her again. I don't understand. What did I do wrong? Is it really th...

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Anon·06/22/25 02:17·No.33256824

Can I find mutual love?

So you are telling me that I will never find a man that will genuinely see me as a 10/10 ? I literally loved worshiped and saw my ex some qt nerdy soft looking guy (my type like the op pic) as a 10/10 and he was like you aint a 10/10. Like why can't I get the love I give back? I am literally thin,...

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Anon·06/22/25 21:47·No.33260417

Am I incapable of reciprocating love

When a woman is smitten with me, I am pushed away and put off. I want an out. I’ve read this is an attachment style issue. Can such a thing even be fixed?

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Anon·06/22/25 19:40·No.33259716

How to lose weight!!

I was skinny all my life but the past year I been eating a lot!!! And I’m slowly becoming fat and I try to exercise and eat less but I can’t I need something that can stop me from eating even if it’s not healthy I don’t care as long as am skinny I’m a men btw

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Anon·06/22/25 23:58·No.33260898

Going on a date with a doppelgänger of my ex

I got this girl’s number on the street. She looks exactly like my ex when did when I first met her. She even has similar mannerisms. I am still not over my ex. Is it therefore a bad idea to go on this date next weekend?

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Anon·06/20/25 05:45·No.33247470

3 weeks to my date

I have a date in 3 weeks. that is a long ass time and only risks losing the energy. I don't want to leap frog the date with other activates but I also dont want to wait. we see each other once a week and text every few days. what is the play here?

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Anon·06/22/25 19:06·No.33259524

I am too dumb for this

>Be me, the average guy with glasses and 105% on introversion, nothing special. My mom used to tell me (and still does) how handsome I am. When I was 16, not a big deal. When I was 18, well, not a big deal, but I could start feeling some kind of weird feeling i my chest. Like if I was in need of th...

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Anon·06/22/25 13:18·No.33258445

33, I have no job because already have money so no work friends, no social media in the last 15 years so lost all the ex-friends from school-uni, tried dating apps but after years of using them i realized pretty and mentally stable girls don't use dating apps, only ugly ones with filters and mentall...

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Anon·06/21/25 02:47·No.33252329

Get if off your chest

June 20th 2025...

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Anon·06/22/25 16:16·No.33258916

What are women like when they mire men or simp for men?

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Anon·06/22/25 18:51·No.33259472

What are you even supposed to do as a lonely man? I am so lonely and touch-starved that i am incapable of not thinking about a woman romantically. Being around women always end in disaster because I just can't hide it and they get creeped out. I don't know what to do.

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Anon·06/23/25 14:53·No.33263742

idk anymore

met this guy online a while ago. we talk a lot. we live in the same city but he says he won’t hang out because of the age thing. i can’t stop thinking about him. it’s been months. i thought it would pass but it hasn’t. i’m honestly in love with him. like, really in love. sometimes he says i’m spec...

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Anon·06/23/25 14:31·No.33263623

>be me >in college, friend tells me about a girl >she's his friend and she likes to bake >listens to him explaining what she's like >strikes me as an interesting person >2years go by and one day suddenly remembers about that conversation >sends her a request on instagram >she accepts >remembers she ...

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Anon·06/22/25 20:40·No.33260051

What does it mean if a girl; seems to glance at me occasionally; recently approached me unprompted to talk to me, HOWEVER; we were in a group convo recently and she basically had her backed turned to me the whole time and was sort of blocking me? Is she interested or not?

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Anon·06/23/25 11:48·No.33262956

>Interested in female >Discovered that they were previously in a poly relationship How does your opinion change /adv/?

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Anon·06/23/25 14:58·No.33263764

How do I stop being a terrible person? I was just walking home with a coffee and a donut (you know, a healthy breakfast) and some old bitch got out of her van and asked for help with … something. I don’t know. Unloading shit from her van? I ignored her and kept on. As I did, she kept yelling for my ...

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Anon·06/23/25 03:12·No.33261567

I know most of you don't know much about this

Neither do I but I wish there was a way to fix how my eyes usually look (the night pic) upper eyelid exposure etc like i took the morning pic right now but they are going to deteriorate soon. I wish there was a surgery to make me look like the top pic 24/7?

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Anon·06/22/25 14:49·No.33258593

I screwed my life up

I am in college, and shouldve already graduated, but I'm so stupid and very lazy most of the time. My physical health is deteriorating rapidly (bunch of random stomach problems, whenever I get a cold I get tremendously ill... just all around bad luck/weak immunity), and this semester my illnesses ma...

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Anon·06/22/25 11:07·No.33258144

Why can’t I bring myself to message people anymore? I’ve always been nonverbal irl but have always been somewhat excessive with talking to people online or texting. It used to be regular for me to have at least 2 close online friends. But now, I unintentionally ghost people all the time and it just ...

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Anon·06/22/25 21:01·No.33260148

holy shit I miss her

I am NEVER going to befriend any girl online anymore. Met one that was perfect in every single way (great ass, great looks, great music taste, always questioned everything in terms of politics, we thought alike) and we had mutual feelings for each other. We had also never had a single argument becau...

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Anon·06/23/25 13:44·No.33263445

is it normal to take concerta and be exhausted the day after? like it helps my adhd but i always take a couple days off because i am just so tired and that fucks with my productivity. i find i am really sensitive to stimulants in general so idk. any help would be appreciated

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Anon·06/22/25 22:10·No.33260523

gf mad at me for doing nothing

i bought a wedge of asiago from the store to grate over chicken and pasta and it was super pungent! as soon as i opened it i was knee deep in the stink zone, it was like the elephants at the zoo bad! as a bit a prank i told my gf i had the best smell in the world and she needed to close her eyes an...

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Anon·06/23/25 03:45·No.33261690

how am i supposed to NOT KMS

23 yo professional student musician and I'm going to be ALONE FOREVER. 1/4 American men die every year having never been married. I will be amongst them. How am I not supposed to fail into despair? This is brutal, no matter how great my career is, no matter how much money I make, I will be alone, ne...

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Anon·06/22/25 10:41·No.33258068

Is it a good idea to put deodorant on your crotch? I've noticed that my pants have always been stinky, and people have complained. But I recently started putting deodorant on my balls, and it has made a huge impact on the smell. It's practically gone. My pants don't stink anymore. This is what I w...

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Anon·06/23/25 05:55·No.33262107

Scared to spend money. I have a fair chunk saved yet I'm scared to spend 400€ on a flight. Or anything luxury that isn't needed. How do I overcome this save save save habit

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Anon·06/22/25 22:39·No.33260633

For the first time in my life, at age 32, a woman is interested in me. We went out on a date, have flirty conversations, it's pretty nice, I don't want to fuck this up. Do I tell her I'm a virgin? If I don't, my lack of experience will be completely obvious either way when we finally get there. I d...

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Anon·06/22/25 16:56·No.33259057

How do I get an English speaking girlfriend as a europoor?

I got brain damage from being a terminally online shut-in for many years and now I feel it easier to communicate in English than in my mother tongue. My rizz capabilities specifically are all English language based.

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Anon·06/22/25 02:17·No.33256823

Paranoia issues

I feel like a family member would try to poison me in a subtle way but i'm fairly sure i'm just imagining it. One of my parents has schizophrenia. I've done weird things in the off chance someone was trying to poison me (such as not drinking water that has been left out unsupervised, not eating some...

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Anon·06/23/25 09:04·No.33262579

AMA

Found out my Jahovas Witness GF had an affair with her swinger boss before she met me while we all worked at the same job AMA

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Anon·06/23/25 02:03·No.33261376

Is there a type of therapist I could talk to about crimes without them contacting the police? Besides Priests.

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Anon·06/22/25 21:10·No.33260175

I'm not talking about the students who are working retail part time. I'm talking about the ones stuck working there for thirty years and that's their only career option. Are they retarded?

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Anon·06/22/25 21:26·No.33260264

Is my Dad gay?

I think my dad is a faggot, and I think I was treated like the scapegoat in my family/abused to hide that he's the dysfunctional one. I know that he was abused by his dad growing up and he had it rough but he seems like such a faggot now that I'm an Adult and can see that he is not a normal dad. I'...

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Anon·06/23/25 11:47·No.33262948

Should I be happy with my state? Dating on spectrum.

I'm neurodivergent (AuDHD). My dating life is better than this of majority of diagnosed autists, I'm probably in like top 3%. But it's still noticibly worse than dating and sex life or average normie. Should I be content in this situation or not? I'm basically incel now for half a year and getting a...

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Anon·06/22/25 17:25·No.33259131

define the relationship

how do i approach this conversation? i’ve been exclusively dating this girl for almost 2 months now. i am ready and quite confident she is waiting for me to make the move. never made it official before though

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Anon·06/23/25 09:39·No.33262701

Overcoming Masculinity Shame

If you had the chance to talk to something — anonymously — about things like rejection, fear of failure, or the lack of emotional connection in your life… would you? I’m currently developing a chatbot that’s designed to help you explore feelings of shame — especially the kind linked to masculinity, ...

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Anon·06/23/25 07:00·No.33262232

I’m engaged for half a year and in relationship for 5 years. I recently met my friend that is a dentist now and does my teeth, she’s also in long relationship and engaged. In the past we shared info that we used to fantasize about each other, but it’s been like 3 years ago (we’ve known for 7 years)...

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Anon·06/22/25 16:11·No.33258901

What kind of facial surgery I need to have this jawline?