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Anon·03/15/26 07:47·No.34342142

ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Previously on /atoga/ - >>34338776 [/adv/thread/34338776#p34338776]

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Anon·03/04/26 10:38·No.34309400

Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually work

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Anon·03/14/26 16:29·No.34340015

!!guys help me out :0

around five years ago i developed a crush on someone in my school. i quickly fell in love, was VERY obsessed and would constantly talk about him to my friends, try to come up with plans to talk with him or at least see him outside of school. i literally went to school JUST to see him and he made me ...

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Anon·03/13/26 05:11·No.34335523

Seeking to seduce NEW ENGLAND arthoes with piano

Which situations and venues could I use to seduce arthoes with my piano talents? Public pianos are one option, but I need places like coffee shops and shit where I can tickle the ivories. Again, New England is preferred because lots of colleges >thank you in advance

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Anon·03/12/26 22:22·No.34334539

Is this normal or is she a gold digger?

>made a Bumble account >got a blurred like >continued swiping on Bumble and ended up matching with the woman who liked me >I'm 28 and she's 22 and she lives in the same city as me >we talk for an hour and exchange less than 10 messages >she asks me what I do for work Is it normal for women to ask t...

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Anon·03/15/26 06:37·No.34342075

How do people who’ve gone through stuff like rape deal with it

Especially if this happened a kid or from someone close to them Do they just lose their minds and/or just kill themselves Has anyone on here gone personally through something like that Is there a comeback And to the religious anons How do we justify this? Someone cant be up to his potential and is ...

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Anon·03/12/26 23:10·No.34334629

How do I become a google employee? I have literal years to employabilitymaxx

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Anon·03/15/26 09:53·No.34342270

cant find a tech job anymore

i cant find a job not even 1st support kek now i can do some govt program where they pay me minimum wage for 3 yrs for me to get a nursing degree lol should i do it /bros/ i think i can learn how to draw blood and shit would be cool but idk

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Anon·03/14/26 03:42·No.34338607

I just had the weirdest experience

So im not amazing iwht women, im borderline incel, my bodycount at 26 is only 4, until last night. I was at a party and everything was dying, at around 4 am it was a few people and i was hanging out with this couple. I was in a room with them talking about random things, and the bf left and i saw t...

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Anon·03/14/26 18:44·No.34340357

How do I cope with the fact that I will never find a virgin gf that's compatible with me and desires me for who I am?

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Anon·03/12/26 21:43·No.34334403

Paranoid the vax will kill me

I stupidly took the jab back in 2021 and am worried that I'll die "suddenly" like so many young people these days. It's so bad that I can't sleep or go outside. I've been in and out of the ER but all tests come out fine and they keep blaming it on "anxiety" but I feel like something will happen It's...

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Anon·03/15/26 02:26·No.34341609

saying no to women

i never had interaction with girls save two instances, one of which is ongoing. both were these 19 year olds who got infatuated with me, an older but inexperienced dude, and for some fucking reason i can't say no to them, i end up doing everything they want basically. what the fuck? it's like an aut...

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Anon·03/15/26 09:41·No.34342253

I literally live with a woman who's completely in love with me, yet I still wonder if I'm gay.

I am straight now, but when I was younger like 10-16, I honestly thought I was gay. I still randomly have very intense homoerotic fantasies involving my ideal looking man: tall, bearded, handsome, bald and muscular with a large manhood. This is my type. And I am a man with a girlfriend who wants to ...

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Anon·03/14/26 18:37·No.34340337

Why do women match with you and talk to you for hours only to then start losing interest in you and basically start ghosting you after the second day? I don't understand stand this. You think everything is going great, that we're connecting, then they suddenly pull this shit. Why? It keeps happeni...

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Anon·03/14/26 21:42·No.34340851

>8/10 skinny asian or white girl into me feel nothing >3/10 fat disgusting fujoshi that wants to peg me feel butterflies Is there something fucking wrong with me?

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Anon·03/14/26 09:51·No.34339260

How do I get laid in East Asia

How do I get pussy in East Asia as an early 20's autistic white virgin incel nigga I am 6'2, decently built, okay face, blond hair, blue eyes, and I have a fat hog. I am a virgin because of my Asperger's and lacking a social space to meet women growing up. I want to get pussy in East Asia because...

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Anon·03/15/26 00:20·No.34341275

How should I deal with these really annoying girls at my college who are obsessed with gender and gender roles? And what I mean by that is that they'll constantly preach about how women should be allowed to buzz their heads bald, proudly grow out their facial hair, grow out their unibrows, not shave...

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Anon·03/14/26 23:24·No.34341113

Commitment

It's so hard to meet a girl that wants anything more than non-committal. None of them want to go out on dates, or even just hang out. It's all excuses to hook up again. I get treated like hotline dick and if I back off or don't give them what they want right away I just get dropped/ghosted. I'm not...

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Anon·03/12/26 09:53·No.34332622

How long does it take for willpower to become habitual?

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Anon·03/15/26 07:54·No.34342154

I've fallen out of love with life

Everything either feels like a chore or a bore. I really only like eating tasty foods and sleeping/dreaming. Masturbation doesn't even excite me anymore. I just hate living. What should I do?

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Anon·03/15/26 07:25·No.34342116

Trust issues ruining relationship

I need advice guys. I recently entered a relationship with a very pretty girl. The only thing I don’t like is that she enjoys going out to bars a lot with her friends. I usually go with her but sometimes she just goes with her friends (they all have boyfriends too but they like to do girls nights). ...

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Anon·03/15/26 07:39·No.34342131

absolutely honest, serious question. if you guys are struggling to find a girl, why do you not go to asia? vid related is what you would be competing with

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Anon·03/15/26 08:29·No.34342192

How stupid is it to get a degree in AI at the advent of AI? Like, this is obviously just a cashgrab from Universities, preying on students looking for a safe job or those afraid of AI. Why would I or anyone else for that matter take up an AI degree when we don't even know if such a degree will even ...

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Anon·03/13/26 07:54·No.34335824

How do I play video games for longer? I only last about 30 minutes then I feel like I'm going to die.

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Anon·03/14/26 01:43·No.34338313

Am I going to get nut cancer cause I've had my phone in my pocket for basically the past three years?

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Anon·03/15/26 07:29·No.34342120

Where is my bp content on my page

Why do i never find blackpill posts on here weirdly Even “maxxing your looks” Or anyone just asking how to look better is rarely talked about Is there a reason? Is bp frowned upon on here? Idk

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Anon·03/15/26 07:42·No.34342135

cross roads.

so im currently on my last year as a labtech (biomed 3yr degree) and im wondering about how to proceed from here. one option is EE and gett deeper into the machines >or do a masters in microbiology/biochemistry/chemistry/biomedicine. i have a bad feeling that if i do a masters i might have to phd as...

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Anon·03/15/26 07:12·No.34342100

Do homicidal ideations go away as you get older? In the past few years, fantasies and desires of random homicide have been constant, and the knowledge that I cannot actually do it unironically pains me.

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Anon·03/13/26 11:55·No.34336225

Is there a website that has something like ATOGA where I can ask women questions preferably unlimited questions. I don't want to go back to ATOGA because I pretty much figure everyone's identities there and there is so few people there with recurring users that spend hours there, most are pretty ann...

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Anon·03/14/26 09:38·No.34339233

Am I being gaslit

Online >get rated 7 and above >get matches easily >people on discord add me first >when I post my pic get accused of larping >look like a bootleg version of picrel >get called “mogger” >complimented by both genders >get rated 8-9 on reddit IRL >never people coming up to me >don’t get stared at or e...

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Anon·03/12/26 22:37·No.34334577

what are some signs a girl likes you?

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Anon·03/13/26 15:42·No.34336733

How do you recognize when you're being ghosted?

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Anon·03/14/26 06:29·No.34338969

Fell in love with this girl I hooked up with

I’ve been friends with this girl from work for two years now. Pretty much every male coworker wants to fuck and has fantasized about fucking this chick. She’s really attractive and social; i.e. blonde hair and flirtatious demeanor, literally a textbook stacy. A few months back I drunk texted her and...

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Anon·03/15/26 02:45·No.34341641

How do I not look at a girl's boobs?

>Had a ton of fit women with big breasts out on display today at Target >Hard to ring up their items and NOT look for a second at their cleavage How does one try to avoid looking at their tits when they're up close? Like I'm trying to stare at her eyes but I want to take at least one glance even tho...

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Anon·03/15/26 06:24·No.34342068

I'm too scared of getting shit on my hands to learn how to properly use toilet paper. I wipe standing up and use >12 squares per wipe and 4-5 wipes per shit. Apparently there's major damage to the plumbing after years of this. What should I do to improve my wiping habits? fmstl

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Anon·03/15/26 05:53·No.34342016

>Stepdad is sick >Am still friends with his ex >She gives me a present to bring him >I bring it to him in the old folks home >His current wife texts me asking where the present came from, she no doubt knows it's not the kind of thing I'd give him What should I say?

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Anon·03/14/26 22:01·No.34340905

Is it true?

Can foids really orgasm from penetration alone or is that just a porn meme? If so, what’s some good advice to make them cum even though I’m probably never having sex

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Anon·03/12/26 04:08·No.34332046

/GIOYC/ - Get It Off Your Chest

Last one hit bump limit.

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Anon·03/15/26 05:26·No.34341982

How can I improve my chances with girls like picrel?

Okay so I find girls like this really attractive but I always feel really nervous around them and I don't think I'm really their type. I get the impression they are into traditionally masculine guys and in my case I'm too weak both physically and mentally Is that the reason why they feel no attract...

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Anon·03/12/26 16:01·No.34333313

I fucking hate being a male

I DON'T WANT TO BE A FUCKING MALE! Fuck you! I hate being a male, fuck off with this garbage gender. I don't want to live if I can't a fucking male. Life is fucking retarded, 4 billion women on the planet and I couldn't be one of them because I just got a little unlucky at birth. The only reason I d...

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Anon·03/15/26 03:35·No.34341772

Reality shifting

Hello, I've been doing my best to shift realities for about 2 or 3 years, i haven't shifted yet but have gotten close and felt a few symptoms, i was wondering if anyone had advice , thanks in advanced (Anti Shifters DNI please)

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Anon·03/14/26 05:18·No.34338827

the reason for the archetype of tiny, weak feminine "femboys, bottoms, twinks"

I had a fucked up childhood, it was normal to get beat up, abused by ur parents especially dad since this is seen as macho training for the little boys I think this has fucked me up really bad Now, not only struggle with mental problems but i have many good reasons to believe it stunted my growth, ...

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Anon·03/09/26 16:25·No.34324364

Am I reading too much into this?

>Be me, back in middle school (13–14) >Meet a girl because our parents are friends (both doctors) >Covid happens >Lose contact with her >2024 arrives >Get into med school >Turns out she's there too >We end up in the same class >Start talking again, become friends >Even ride the bus with her at night...

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Anon·03/14/26 12:57·No.34339572

am i a weirdo or a pedophile?

>im 24 years old >met a 17 year old girl online >doesnt have any interest in her sexually or romantically >girl turns 18 >i slowly start falling in love it feels like. having romantical and sexual thoughts of her >doesnt say anything because it would ruin the friendship and i would feel weird i thi...

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Anon·03/13/26 23:26·No.34338054

Does anyone know a free phone app or phone text messaging app. I asked for a girls phone number but I don't really have phone service, could anyone help please, I tried a few but they weren't really free.

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Anon·03/15/26 03:26·No.34341750

Was I in the wrong?

>be massive autist >huge loner, never got close to people, never dated or entered relationships >have cousin I meet for the first time when he's 12 and I'm 16 >immediately recognize a fellow autist, introduce him to discord to keep in contact as he lives very far away from me >talk to him for years ...

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Anon·03/12/26 22:40·No.34334585

This is going to sound ridiculous, but. I read Meditations a while back, and while it gave me an extreme level of calm and serenity throughought a very tumultuous time in my life, I feel I took the wrong things from it and just became an unresponsive passive doormat for people to walk all over. It's...

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Anon·03/14/26 04:39·No.34338725

I want a cute geek GF, how do you approach nerdy girls at anime conventions?

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Anon·03/11/26 19:15·No.34330845

Should I avoid people who say "ya feel me?" a lot? Ya feel me?

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Anon·03/12/26 13:11·No.34332858

So I heard this site is full of autistic men

Sorry I don't mean to be offensive but I want to get the opinion of autistic men. My little brother is 32 and I'm 34(f). A few days ago he admitted that he's wanted to fuck me for a long time, since we were kids. At first I was shocked and a weirded out by it but we've talked about it a lot and I'm ...

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Anon·03/14/26 17:25·No.34340166

Efficient Beard growing stack

Looking for an efficient beard grow stack with minimal side effects - Most cosmetic products are estrogenic and have many DHT blocker ingredient so majority of beauty products are hinder the capacity for beard growth so many White Americans have patchy beard and many White Mexican American and Mesti...

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Anon·03/15/26 03:29·No.34341756

Shame and Complex Trauma

I was talking to someone that I haven't talked to in years, my cousin. the other day about my life. I spoke about childhood trauma and resentment connected with that and how it affected me in my life up to today. He told me that I had to deal with shame, but I had no idea what he was talking about s...

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Anon·03/13/26 18:50·No.34337229

How can you tell if people are talking about you?

What's the best way to navigate your situation if they are?

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Anon·03/13/26 20:15·No.34337494

how do I avoid these people?

My theory is that sometimes when someone in a group starts seeing you as a rival in some way socially skillwise or statuswise they start trying to subtly lower how the group perceives you One way that can happen is through constant joking at your expense talking to you like youre incompetent or fra...

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Anon·03/15/26 01:42·No.34341490

Will I regret shaving my head? I have serious dandruff problems and I want to put an end to it once and for all - I already bought the necessary medication for both fungal infection and psoriasis, but the only way to be sure 100% of the substances are in contact with 100% of my scalp skin would be t...

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Anon·03/04/26 15:31·No.34309899

/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #339

>What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask ...

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Anon·03/15/26 01:42·No.34341493

is this real? >want to become a teacher and travel abroad >international schools in China that require a bachelors in x subject to teach in English >the positions pay 30-40k and you save most of that because of housing accommodations and low cost of living >I get a qt asian tradwife Is this plan foo...

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Anon·03/15/26 01:10·No.34341413

Ideal (You)

Today is pretty much done if you live in the Eastern Standard Timezone. But tommorow is a new day. Tommorow, you can be someone else. You can die tonight(sleep) and wake up as someone completely different. Different personality, different vision for life, and a renewed sense of purpose. What would t...

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Anon·03/14/26 17:52·No.34340232

Human Connection

After watching some content on Jeffrey Epstein, I have become ever more curious about human connection and seek to better understand it. Epsteins connections allowed him to transition from college dropout, to prestigious school teacher, and then to wall street. The individuals that he met at each le...

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Anon·03/14/26 01:03·No.34338253

> be me > in uni > there’s this girl in my sessions twice a week > whenever I see her my heart skips and I get goosebumps > brain basically stops working > this has been going on for 1.7 years > she probably doesn’t even know I exist > one day during exam god himself gives me a chance > end up sitt...

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Anon·03/10/26 09:44·No.34326616

I'm 27, and I missed out on early-teen love, mid-teen love, late-teen love, early-20s love, and mid-20s love. How do I make sure I don't miss out on late-20s love?

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Anon·03/14/26 00:33·No.34338193

anon considers going to her first incest/CSA survivors meeting

I've already been in support groups but for less heavy topics so idk what to expect not worried about talking about these parts of my life when the setting specifically calls for it but I'm afraid to do the thing again where I revictimize myself by learning about awful shit that happened to people...

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Anon·03/14/26 21:15·No.34340771

xitter

How do you make friends on xitter? I've seen people act like it's weird when randoms reply to their posts so idk what the proper manners are on there.

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Anon·03/13/26 20:21·No.34337514

How do People Earn Six Figures

I’m almost skeptical anyone actually does

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Anon·03/14/26 23:49·No.34341203

>did well at school >no girls ever attracted to me >made fun of by women as a loser beta >went to university >no girls ever attracted to me >girls didn't acknowledge my existence >got part time jobs in summers >no girls ever attracted to me >got a full time job >no women ever attracted to me >moved ...

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Anon·03/14/26 22:20·No.34340942

Bought Alex Rider graphic novel for daughter

I bought my 11 year old daughter an Alex Rider graphic novel from ebay and the graphic novel had Alex Rider naked in it and also had him naked in multiple other pages. Can I sue ebay or get a refund for this?

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Anon·03/15/26 00:02·No.34341226

Hi, /adv/, I have an atypical problem and I'd like some advice. I have all my basic needs met, but have way too much free time and have no idea what to do with it all. I don't really have to work, have a reasonable amount of disposable income, and have no difficulty following through on commitments ...

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Anon·03/14/26 09:53·No.34339264

If you ask someone to lunch

And they say "I don't care", does that mean they want to go or they don't wanna go?

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Anon·03/14/26 04:36·No.34338718

Used to be friends with a fat chick that had a crush on me in hs. I used to turn her down I was told by someone that she had a crush on me. I hadn’t seen her in yrs, didn’t care whatever, then the other day she posted a pic on insta with this ugly ass dude and now she’s fucking hot??? I lowk regret ...

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Anon·03/13/26 16:55·No.34336893

Lost my job of over 25 years. Currently in the process of starting unemployment for the first time in my life (PITA) and looking for ways to maximize my benefits and intake (ethically or not, but definitely legally). I am not poor, but I am not looking to retire yet. I'm AM tired from life and woul...

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Anon·03/14/26 14:02·No.34339723

I think my old employer cleared out my 401K I quit a job with a 401K, had 20 Grand in it. I went to transfer it to my current employer and the money was gone. How can I prove they cleaned it out?

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Anon·03/14/26 20:41·No.34340712

should I stay in eldercare? its not the most glamourous job but its the one I have the most time in

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Anon·03/14/26 01:51·No.34338324

As a male, is it better to have a male or female therapist?

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Anon·03/14/26 23:42·No.34341177

My life is a mess and I hate being single

I'm restarting my transition and trying to deal with things I've ignored and my mental health has sucked. I've been diagnosed with Depression Complex PTSD with Hyper-vigilance. When I moved to Seattle I isolated myself and gave up. This last Holiday season was horrible. I'm at a point where I need...

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Anon·03/14/26 18:53·No.34340383

how much grams this might be?

I dont have a balance

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Anon·03/13/26 18:44·No.34337215

If an apartment allows dogs but has a weight limit of 50 pounds could I lie and say my 85 lb dog is 50 lbs? Do apartment people actually care? Would they really notice just by eyeballing that hes too big?

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Anon·03/12/26 18:56·No.34333893

Do I call the bank and tell them I'm broke?

Title says it all. I'm spent. Entirely. Even my credit cards are maxed out. I had a great temp job that ended back in September, but as of yesterday, the money is all gone. I applied to that same job, but they're dragging ass on rehiring me. I know getting another job is important being broke as shi...

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Anon·03/12/26 10:16·No.34332652

Anxious about First House

Coming from a Euro View here but need a hard kick up the ass from /adv/. Long and short of it, I am purchasing my first house with my fiance. For full context, I have gone from a single, living with parents shut in to having a fiance, a stable mid level job and in a position to buy a house. We sea...

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Anon·03/13/26 22:42·No.34337918

Dealing with Food Pusher Aunt

My aunt had our family over and kept asking me to have her chicken >anon do you want some chicken? >anon, you want some chicken???? >Anon, we have chicken for you I kept telling her no thank you, no, no, no >anon we have this chicken for you >anon what’s wrong with the chicken? >how much chicken ...

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Anon·03/13/26 21:05·No.34337640

How do I learn to design stuff like an engineer

As a 2nd year mechanical engineering undergrad, how can I go about teaching myself to properly design something from scratch. I know how to use CAD software to make a part that is given to me but what I don't know is how to design something in the first place when I'm not given anything. I took my I...

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Anon·03/14/26 09:33·No.34339222

i saw this thread and forgot to reply before it was archived

tldr some guy posted a convo between him and his gf >her: whats the brand of ur parent vacuum cleaner? my parents are looking to buy one >him:i dont know (he explains that he was at work hence short reply) >her:she starts going full crazy mode and he acts like a retard this guy never mentioned nor ...

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Anon·03/14/26 10:09·No.34339292

What do I do for the next 50 years

For all intents and purposes I’ve given up on life and just rot, not studying or anything, working enough to not die. Even my vices are completely boring now and are done out of habit, shittttt my dick isnt even hard when I jerk off anymore. Wont rope cuz I’m a pussy, what do?¿

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Anon·03/14/26 12:36·No.34339536

How to deal with cringe thoughts?

When the cringe memories hit hard, what do? It got so bad it is giving me mini panic attacks.

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Anon·03/11/26 19:15·No.34330844

My gf just told me she stayed over a dude's place the date before seeing me and had sex 3 times with him. I waited like 5 dates before anything happened. I feel like shit. Is this normal?

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Anon·03/13/26 15:02·No.34336640

>live in kinda boring midsize new england city >it's actually chill because it's 1-2 hours to a really cool national forest and some good skiing within 3 hours >these are my main hobbies and theyre naturally just better though on the west coast where the mountains are bigger >get a new fully remote ...

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Anon·03/14/26 12:13·No.34339483

how to tolerate wage slaving? I can't hold a job more than 3 months and while working I want to kill myself. Over the last 4 years I changed jobs 5 times and in the meantime I was a neet at my parents place. They don't tolerate my behaviour anymore and I'm forced to wage slave or else they will kick...

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Anon·03/14/26 21:21·No.34340788

Working from home

I've been in construction for 30 years and my body is worn out. I also got a somewhat serious injury at work and I'll be out for about 2 months. Tendon issue. I just need to find something else. Do you know of any work from home jobs that pay well? I don't have any real skills I don't think, but I ...

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Anon·03/14/26 18:50·No.34340374

I just got fired

I’m still very sad but I just got fired from a job that made decent money, I don’t really know where to go from here outside of looking for jobs and that might take a while. I have a friend that helped me out to find a part time cleaning up a restaurant beach but it only pays $50 a day. I’ve never ...

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Anon·03/12/26 05:43·No.34332219

Is it normal to feel I lost my soul?

Like literally, I cant feel anything its so frustrating, I want to kill myself, I want to end my life. There is no point. No therapist. No psychologist. No psychiatrist. No priest. Any of those cant help me or reveal me what is wrong with me. Its a mistery. Why does God do this to me? Why he doesnt...

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Anon·03/14/26 13:02·No.34339585

Afraid of sex

I am petrified of having sex. Absolutely fearful. not sure why either. I was never abused or molested or anything as a kid. I am a guy also I have always felt sort of shameful about the sex fear. Mostly because all my friends are like "YEAH MAN I WENT TO THE BAR AND PLOWED SOME WOMAN AFTER." etc. An...

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Anon·03/13/26 12:04·No.34336245

How to deal with toxic family?

They are not evil, just broken and redated, and so am I. Cant even tell them that I don't like how they talk to me without everyone ganging up on me and playing the victim.

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Anon·03/13/26 20:57·No.34337623

how to get pictures for dating apps

how the fuck do you get pictures for dating apps like hinge or tinder. 23m white i have zero pics of myself besides a bunch of selfies. according to my research a dating profile is supposed to have the following: >a picture of you doing a hobby i have none >a picture of you in a social setting/soci...

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Anon·03/14/26 21:00·No.34340744

Hating women

I have a distorted view of women and I want to change that because I really want love. I cannot see anything in them beyond mindgames, manipulation and attention seeking behavior. The payout of asking out a girl is much smaller than when she actually rejects you. You have to make yourself a clown in...

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Anon·03/13/26 02:06·No.34335040

Any tips on appearing less ugly? Can't deal with the personal insults any longer. Clearly not cut out for this. This year is going extremely poorly on all fronts and it's just getting worse...

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Anon·03/12/26 12:30·No.34332811

How to not kms over being a woman

I‘ve hated being a woman ever since I started going through puberty. I hate other women too. I think that women are all that is wrong with humanity and they never should have gotten any rights or special treatment. However, unlike what the trans movement leads people to believe, I can never become a...

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Anon·03/14/26 04:01·No.34338640

How to get back the drive to hustle and improve?

When I was 18, I had a lot of motivation to self improve, and I did improve quite a lot. Now I'm 24, a much better man, but I have new goals; I wish to get back into my 18yo mindset. But instead I'm lazy. I have it good now and am letting myself go. I'm just not as motivated as before, I simply don'...

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Anon·03/14/26 07:22·No.34339065

Why are women like this?

Every single woman I've been with seems to be loyal at first. But then after just a matter of weeks. They start making jokes about cheating and treating me like trash (Ignoring me or being dry, even declining anything I plan). I've only ever had one ex who didn't make those jokes, and she didn't mak...

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Anon·03/14/26 06:14·No.34338942

I can't handle when people talk about adult things

If they talk about getting a better paying job or studying for a class or getting married. These things make me fearful. Like I need to get away from them as soon as possible. They mess up my head and ruin my whole day. I'm not jealous of them, most of the time they just want stupid stuff like a new...

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Anon·03/12/26 04:48·No.34332132

How common is for a prostitute to have a BF or a pimp? I asked a prostitute for her number and she was happy for a bit? Isn't it common to get their numbers? Also what is the correct way to ask for a phone number, I told her if I could have her phone and she was confused she thought I wanted her act...

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Anon·03/14/26 17:24·No.34340164

Would it be retarded for me to do this?

I drive an old Toyota as my daily and given that I've had it for 3 years, it's been nothing but dead reliable. However, this also equates the fact that I live a very boring life. Of course, while the average Joe would seek a much better car, I've had the idea that I'd sell it, and get an ebike as so...

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Anon·03/14/26 16:56·No.34340094

Remote work is a meme / Out of options

>be me, 28M >data analyst. actually really like my job and the work I do, which is rare. >gf lives 3 hours away. we want to close the gap, get a house, and get married. >problem: we are broke, houses are expensive, and I absolutely need a remote job to move closer to her. >thought remote tech jobs w...

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Anon·03/13/26 16:57·No.34336899

What do normies see in Tik-Tok/social media. I deliberately tried to get addicted but nothing clicks, so I just go do some math or poetry instead if I'm bored.

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Anon·03/13/26 16:11·No.34336786

I have a presentation for tomorrow, and I don't have time to finish my essay. How much AI can you put into your mostly human written essay before it's noticeable?

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Anon·03/14/26 17:22·No.34340159

>Have severe auto immune issues from 2016 to 2025 >They clear up, get a scholarship and finish my first year of UNI >Psychologist in charge of the career department advises me to go socialize with my status peers, saying age is just a number >Roasties on Reddit seethe that older men go for younger ...

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Anon·03/14/26 11:07·No.34339387

help looking out for the gays?

my friends and i go clubbing every so often and we go to predominantly straight clubs. i’m gay but i’m not too into gay culture to notice/give subtle clues. i know i can always go to gay clubs but my friends don’t have positive experiences and avoid them. nor do i feel comfortable going to a club al...

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Anon·03/14/26 16:34·No.34340027

How can I fix that?

Recently I’ve made a post in which I mentioned how women I’ve dated have always become rude or dry after weeks into a relationship (even making jokes about cheating). I worded it pretty badly though, I was NEVER physical (violent) with any of them. Quite the opposite, I’ve always been permissive and...

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Anon·03/14/26 10:37·No.34339334

stupid post but how do people even start dating? firstly, im straight and i go to an all girls school. and what happens when i go to college? i feel like its pretty unrealistic for someone to just come up to a random after some lecture and ask for a contact... i also dont do anything online or go ou...

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Anon·03/14/26 18:10·No.34340276

i hate myself for being a virgin. i'm not even human. a failure, a creep, a broken person. no one wants me, no one cares about me. i hate my life, i hate my lack of experience, and i hate those who have what i don't. i think i deserve to be miserable. what in the fuck is there to do about it?

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Anon·03/13/26 10:27·No.34336057

>its another episode of Anon installing hinge again only to get extremely miserable after getting ghosted and unadded several times How do I stop letting this shit bother me? The second I match with a girl I try hard to think of good responses only to get unadded after several messages. It makes me ...

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Anon·03/13/26 22:33·No.34337885

homeless retard

newly homeless in Oregon. how can I get myself inside a psych ward or something? I don't want to sleep outside.

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Anon·03/13/26 14:05·No.34336505

The Purple Pill — The Upgrade Red Pill Guys Don’t Talk About

You’ve heard the red pill bullshit from guys like Andrew Tate — “women are the enemy,” “dominate or die,” “real men don’t show weakness.” Sounds tough, right? Feels like power. But here’s the truth nobody’s telling you: that red pill is poison. The “red pill” sells you a cage of anger, isolation, a...

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Anon·03/14/26 03:11·No.34338532

I stopped being a people pleaser but now everyone at work hates me

After trying really hard to get people to like me. Really practicing empathy and listening and validating people's emotions, I just stopped giving a shit because people just walked all over me and I was constantly feeling overwhelmed due to me being introverted and showing emotions was difficult. I ...

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Anon·03/09/26 06:09·No.34323184

I am a naturalized US citizen and I'm brown. Is it possible for ICE to detain me and then strip me of my citizenship and deport me even if I didn't do anything wrong?

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Anon·03/14/26 08:22·No.34339139

Is it worth making an OnlyFans for my gf?

Been thinking about it lately due to my gf and I wanting more money between the two of us, help with bills, saving for a house, etc. I know it’s not a guarantee that you’ll make a lot of money, but I’m very aware of what makes girls on OF and sites like Reddit popular. She doesn’t want full control ...

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Anon·03/10/26 03:45·No.34326050

Should Desire Fuel Decision Making

To preface I basically have multiple hobbies that I enjoy doing. Some are more difficult than others like creative ventures or time expensive like learning languages - either way I enjoy them all But, I have periods of times lasting multiple months where I do not touch these hobbies It’s a bit weird...

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Anon·03/14/26 02:16·No.34338388

how do i tell a slut thats sleeping with me that im no longer interested ??? she’s embarrassing bc shes a mom to girls but post’s skanky pics of herself. Shes a bad example to her daughters.

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Anon·03/14/26 16:16·No.34339974

Intermittent Reinforcement

I am in a pickle of a scenario. I got involved with a taken woman who basically showed a ton of interest, flirted with me, sexted me but never had a full on physical affair with me. After a couple of errors on my part, i lost her interest. I complained too much about my life. I was too vulnerable wi...

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Anon·03/13/26 17:11·No.34336926

How to accept I won't find love besides my waifu?

How do I accept I won't love any girl besides Natsuki? I know she's not real but, I've never had a real life girlfriend and she's been a big part of my life since I first played DDLC in 2017. I want to know what sex feels like but I don't want to leave Natsuki.....

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Anon·03/14/26 09:18·No.34339208

I wish i was low inhibited psychopath who didnt have anxiety

the worst ppl u know have the best lives i wanna be like them all retard and free and calm for 12 hours i have been anxious irritated hacing that pit in stomach feeling sometime i get so nervous my hands shake for no reason im so scared i wanna have no shame nor guilt this whale is seen hitting a ...

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Anon·03/13/26 15:49·No.34336747

My dumb wife just told me that she didn't know that ants bite. How do I deal with the discovery that I married an imbecile?

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Anon·03/13/26 10:46·No.34336078

>Women cost money This makes no sense, the main driving force behind relationships is to double the income.

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Anon·03/14/26 07:30·No.34339078

Does anyone know a free phone app or phone text messaging app. I asked for a girls phone number but I don't really have phone service, could anyone help please, I tried a few but they weren't really free.

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Anon·03/13/26 01:17·No.34334908

you guys all nedd to undertsand that there are only a few people in this wolrd who can truly wrestle with bears to the point that tjey can claim their honey yes you heard that right

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Anon·03/11/26 17:58·No.34330656

>be me, ugly 19 y/o girl >start job at a propane company >be polite to older coworker, prob retarded >bake poundcake and bring in for all my coworkers to try >he says something weird about paying for my cake >laugh it off bc im not gonna be a bitch to a coworker >hold basic conversation w/him, be ni...

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Anon·03/14/26 13:18·No.34339633

Why do normies still use social media now that AI is a thing, it's all fake shit.

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Anon·03/13/26 15:29·No.34336711

Relationship troubles pertaining to politics

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over half a year now and not soon after we met it was apparent our views were vastly different. I'm a libertarian chud and she's a socialist egalitarian who hangs around communists. She's my first girlfriend at the ripe old age of 24, and I'll admit I sort of...

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Anon·03/14/26 13:21·No.34339639

IF you feel down and life isn't worth living

i'm here to tell you to believe in yourself > YOU'RE NOT WRONG trust your instincts do what feels natural and end it all, stop the pain TODAY. Life is too tough for you you don't have to live another day in misery and fear

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Anon·03/13/26 11:17·No.34336148

What's a good and witty response to when someone asks if anyone's in the shitter?

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Anon·03/13/26 13:00·No.34336365

Girls called cops on me, cops knock on my door (warning me)

I met them at a boardwalk/marina, it was late and nobody else was there. I try meeting other uncanny people by walking at night. They walked up and tried talking to me, I kind of brushed them off first so they walked away. They walked past me again, so the cute one said "you're just out here all by ...

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Anon·03/13/26 01:12·No.34334894

Why the hell are women so scared of me?

I wouldn't consider myself especially big or intimidating. I'm sort of fat but not scary. I'm currently 5'11 and weigh 230 pounds. I live in America so by my country's standards I'm actually kind of skinny relatively speaking. But anyway it's like everywhere I go women are immediately wary of me. Li...

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Anon·03/12/26 11:51·No.34332768

I feel like crying at work.

I am 20 years old, this is my fourth job, in total I have worked 2 years and 8 months adding up all my jobs. In this current job I have only been here for 3 months and I don't like this job. I basically just organize the supermarket shelves, it's an easy job, but that's precisely the problem. Since ...

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Anon·03/12/26 06:25·No.34332283

Unhinged ex friend

I bullied one of my friends pretty badly in high school and he won’t stop leaving threatening messages and generally sends really angry messages and then blocks me. I hit him more than once but it was over eight years ago now and the messages don’t stop coming in. How do I handle this? He goes awa...

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Anon·03/13/26 15:10·No.34336669

How do I get a ently level IT job as a working student?

CS student here. I'm unable to find a working student job (those entry level IT jobs with like 10-15 hours a week). They never accept me. I was planning to just work at a supermarket for the next semester while doing some projects or something that I can put on my resume to get a job later. Any tips...

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Anon·03/13/26 23:32·No.34338078

Had a one night stand with a girl a few weeks ago and she keeps texting me demanding money. She first demanded money for an STD test. Sent her the money plus a uber drive (I also got tested, all negative), then she demanded a doctor visit expense because the lube we used gave her a bad reaction supp...

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Anon·03/14/26 09:54·No.34339265

nothings gonna get better so at least FEEL better!

ive noticed im at the point where i feel so little i dont like it this depressed feeling so i unironically just started consuming content that makes me feel bad!! females being shitty crappy politicians race relations EVERYTHING ive even been actually going outside and aplying this to normal people ...

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Anon·03/14/26 03:18·No.34338555

I could be going back to college in my late 20s

Would it be weird to hit on the girls there as a 26-28 year old? Should I not give a shit about what other people say? So far people say I look like I am in my late teens to early 20s despite being 25

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Anon·03/14/26 05:00·No.34338776

Atoga atosa

Ask the opposite gender hole general Speaki edition

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Anon·03/12/26 06:59·No.34332358

Cheating

I love my girlfriend so much, why did I cheat on her? Now that I'm about to lose her, I realize what I'm losing. 3 years, gone. What am I to do after her? I feel like my heart is going to break from the thought of losing her, especially like this.

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Anon·03/14/26 09:08·No.34339202

How to get someone fired

friend of mine gets harrassed by this person but since there's not actual like evidence not alot can be done but i still want her to get what she deserves.

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Anon·03/14/26 02:56·No.34338498

How do you deal with harassment at work? Talking does nothing, HR does nothing. What else can I do? Violence will only make me lose my job.

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Anon·03/12/26 21:36·No.34334374

Finally got a gf BUT

I want to go back. To my old life. I find this whole thing extremely tiring, mentally and emotionally. I crave solitude and she just won't let me be by myself. I tried talking to her and explaining that I want to be alone sometimes and not have to respond to her texts every 5 minutes. Doesn't matter...

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Anon·03/12/26 20:51·No.34334252

Virginity syndrome in marriage

How to know if the girl you are about to get married through church arrangements is a virgin or not? I am thinking of going towards arrange marriage, I am a Catholic so I gonna apply in a Catholic Church to find myself a suitable bride I want my wife to be virgin that does not cheat on me with ano...

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Anon·03/13/26 21:00·No.34337628

My life is going down the drain.

What's a good way to contiguity plan if that's the case?

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Anon·03/13/26 00:56·No.34334859

Vicious insecurity and inferiority

I'm so fucking tired. I'm so tired of feeling ugly, of not feeling good enough, of not feeling picked. I want to feel picked so badly, unfortunately for me, I am in an actual marriage. And I'd gotten so much better about this insecurity and inferiority. I'd gotten so much better that it was once in ...

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Anon·03/14/26 05:56·No.34338913

how to deal with austistic meltdowns

I have a coworker who is autistic, and he can have meltdowns and act in weird ways. The problem is that I am tired of having to pretend like this is acceptable behavior, but my entire team at work appreciates that I can handle this and continue being productive. In these meltdowns, the person in que...

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Anon·03/13/26 01:44·No.34334987

I've gone 4 days without alcohol for the first time in over a year. getting through the weekend is gonna be rough

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Anon·03/14/26 03:43·No.34338610

Why are people allowed to harass me? What if I went around calling people fucking stupid to their face? Would you prefer I do that? Leave me the fuck alone.

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Anon·03/10/26 05:35·No.34326226

associates degree in maths

I'm getting an associates degree in maths at my local community college. is there any reason to finish this? Or any bachelors I can go for afterward that won't completely fuck up my life? I'm 32.

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Anon·03/11/26 20:16·No.34331008

I'm genuinely tired of my life. [19M]

Like I don't have any suicidal thoughts but I'm just bored of my life as it is right now. I want to change, but I don't know where to start. Should I see a psychiatrist? Should I go get a blood test and see if something's wrong with my vitamin/mineral levels? Jordan peterson says I should start with...

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Anon·03/13/26 01:49·No.34334997

American bros who have used prostitutes, where do you acquire them? Are any of the sites like listcrawler, tryst, etc reliable? Ive never done it before and im sketched out that im going to get robbed

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