is no one made to receive intense love anymore

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Anon10/22/26, 19:53No.35026009

Why are you pretending to be a woman on 4chan when you should be off dying in a war somewhere, brother?

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Anon10/22/26, 20:03No.35026029

I volunteer as tribute

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Anon10/22/26, 20:13No.35026051

I had a gf like you. The problem was that she would start going insane whenever I left to take care of any business or even take a couple hours to hit the gym. That's what actually destroyed the relationship. If she didn't have that BPD impatience, or if ther was some feminine wisdom to resteain it, I could very well have dealt with the intensity and enjoyed it, and we could've had our happily ever after perhaps

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Anon10/22/26, 20:17No.35026057

There are things that sound great on paper until you're actually there and you start seeing the downsides. Like, owning a Ferrari sounds fantastic on paper, until you realize how much it costs to maintain the car, plus in reality you're a brand ambassador so if you do something they don't like they'll cut you off from replacement parts which makes your car practically unusable.When a guy agrees to "I want to be adored 24/7" it's more likely that the guy simply doesn't understand what it means until it happens, rather than he understands and accepts the deal. Having a 24/7 gf means 0 privacy, and dudes sometimes just wanna hang out alone.My advice: try to somehow filter guys that truly understand what being adored 24/7 means and are willing to give up their privacy.

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Anon10/22/26, 20:21No.35026065

Funny, with me it was the opposite, the 3 relationships I had didnt give two shits about me and I was the one in your position. Guess its a trauma response thing, instead of searching someone right we search someone to replicate the eay out caregivers treated us, since my caregivers were neglectful I search for that in a partner without noticing

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Anon10/22/26, 20:36No.35026086

I'm scared of a woman's love because it always seems to come with intense caveats that make it so if I do anything slightly wrong she will turn that "love" into hate. You sound like my dream woman but I just fear there's a catch and a woman like you will become my greatest enemy for a random reason I can't possibly prepare for.

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Anon10/22/26, 22:35No.35026302

So you have not had true love. True love has what you describe. Best of luck finding it

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Anon10/23/26, 01:24No.35026722

>ctrl + f "yandere" Let's pretend this isn't a creative writing exercise, there is an entire archetype for this and an army of men who would be happy to have you if you can find one (and you should learn how to cyberstalk if you want the title, lol).

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Anon10/23/26, 05:37No.35027493

I despise women like you >Over bearing >Zero chill, if you don't subject your victim to 24/7 coddling your life is over >Immature as a teenager even though 30 >"Let me worship you M'sir" >Simps fall for it subtly indicating interest and availability like desperate losers >1 month with this wench and you'll empathize with previous abuser bf You should kys, you're a fucking psycho, just shut up and learn how to adult retard. I bet you were diddled as a kid hence why you feel the need to obsessively love vomit on a potential partner because it reminds you of your fathers diddling warm embrace. I hope you see this and gain some introspection and reflect on this insufferable insistence, go for a long psych ward admission where you fucking belong

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Anon10/23/26, 06:05No.35027536

>spending my life trying to make theirs better. >look at them constantly, tell them ten times a day how much I love them, spend as much time with them as possible, have sex as much as they can stand toNone of this shit makes their life better. Unless they have self esteem issues or something.>I'd love every part of them if they'd share it, including their fears and deepest regrets.So you'd love the parts of them that diddled kids or abused animals or murdered innocents xDLoving means doing stuff for others that actually helps their lives but all ur doing is being burdensome. If you actually know everything about someone else you should know what's actually good for them instead of trying to force larp some hollow fairytale that serves no purpose in their lives other than gratifying ur egotistical wish to live some Disney fantasy instead of reality. What do you actually do for them in their lives other than smothering them with inane hollow unwanted praise

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Anon10/23/26, 06:46No.35027611

>I'm a girl, and since I was a kid, I've experienced love as an obsession. I want to know everything about the person, look at them constantly, tell them ten times a day how much I love them, spend as much time with them as possible, have sex as much as they can stand to, and generally worship them. Not putting them above God, but spending my life trying to make theirs better. Thinking of them from morning to night. Making my entire existence about them. It’s not that men don’t like this inherently BUT 9/10 times a woman is like this, she’s a BPDemon. So men are a bit afraid to say the least

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Anon10/23/26, 09:41No.35027896

You and me both sister. I've always had this romantic idea of love and marriage, and always told myself I'd never want to end up in the kind of marriages and relationships around me where they're are clearly unions of convenience. I'm starting to come to the realisation that maybe the chance of two people both happening to be passionately in love with eachother at the same time is maybe near 0. Maybe life is just about finding someone who fancies you and then settling with them.Maybe I'll just never marry or have love after all. I think the only other option is to find a niave young girl of legal age and raise her myseld to be an approxamation of the kind of wife I want.

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Anon10/23/26, 10:15No.35027940

>I'm attractive, affectionate, sexually eager No real woman would ever describe herself in those terms.

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Anon10/23/26, 10:18No.35027945

>I've experienced love as an obsession. I want to know everything about the person, look at them constantly, tell them ten times a day how much I love them, spend as much time with them as possible, have sex as much as they can stand to, and generally worship them. Now, I'm not being unkind (well, I am, but I'm not being gratuitously unkind): do you understand that this is incredibly selfish and self-centred?

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Anon10/23/26, 10:20No.35027949

Jeez this type of bitch makes me run away too. Thinking about it, I think its because in the past I had a girlfriend who started off as really caring for me and near obsessive about everything I do, up to the point where she 180'd and went super cold. She was one of them avoidant women and would change from 0 to 100 very fast.

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Anon10/23/26, 12:07No.35028079

Oh wait the tripfag is the same... Is that an attempt to hide samefag or not? Lel

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Anon10/23/26, 18:56No.35028689

When I was single for a VERY long time, I would bemoan how all I wanted was a girl like that, but every woman I meet is superficial and can't show actual affection. And I obviously didn't work on improving myself because I lurk on image boards, duh. Then by some miracle I got a girlfriend like you, and I feel awful. I am stressed constantly, I feel so inadequate and unworthy of her love. I'm too broken and not mentally well enough to appreciate this girl. I've expressed this to her, she says she still loves me and will be patient, but it still gnaws at me. But I don't want to break up with her because I don't think I'll ever find someone who looks at me the way she does.I'd be willing to bet some or all your bfs felt like this, where they like the adoration, but lacked the self-confidence to accept it. Men as a whole are not in a good headspace right now. Shocker, I know. Best I can say is be patient, slow down a little bit, help him work through his issues. Because that is what she is doing for me.

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Anon10/23/26, 19:52No.35028768

I mean shit you sound perfect. I've had experience with obsessive women so I know what I'm signing myself up for. If you're still around add my disc and we can see if there's a match.Bant221

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Anon10/24/26, 02:09No.35029721

Me and my gf have had the puppy dog love for ten plus years because when you have something in totality attraction fades. I know how to keep things fresh she should never totally have you. There is always a surplus of meaning. Vagueness is what keeps a relationship alive vagueness flirting and continuing to date she should always know ur capable of getting another bitch that's why u need to stay looking good af the tension being unresolved is how u keep that shit gojng

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Anon10/24/26, 03:20No.35029994

I do not need all the worries. I love her and will do what is needed for us. I put her first. Our love

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Anon10/24/26, 03:26No.35030019

The reality is that you're just not normal. I don't say that to sound cruel but it's true. Most people LOVE the sound of the kind of love that you have to give but in all honesty most people can't keep up with that kind of intensity for long. They burn out. They don't dislike it or love you any less but they get tired and drained. Unfortunately, that's your reality. You're condemned to being the light that shines so bright it burns up all those who come to admire you.Give it time though. You'll mellow out and you'll meet someone with the patience and fortitude to handle that level of intensity.

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Anon10/24/26, 03:39No.35030066

Meh, it's ok if you're a woman. If you're a man who thinks this way then you're totally fucked because women are hardwired to think that it's creepy.

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Anon10/24/26, 04:46No.35030254

OP obviously has BPD

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Anon10/24/26, 07:22No.35030487

https://youtu.be/vPu9NAjSxDIMen have declared spiritual jihad on women and it shows as they slowly begin to lose it. This is it anons, the real gender war has begun, not the fake one with countless pronouns that is being shilled everywhere in the media, but the real war between man and woman. Women are about to learn a harsh lesson.Don't talk to women, don't help them, don't ask them out, don't have dating apps, don't interact with them. If a woman approaches you be nice and respectful but do not flirt or overtly joke, treat them as an equal man and then leave after the reason for the conversation is over. If a girl comes up to you and flirts kindly turn her down, if she asks you out suddenly say no thank you, don't make up a reason she only has agency because of some external reason not because she likes you. Be vague when talking about your life or weekend plans, anything you do or do with them like hooking up will be picked apart and analyzed by her and her online friends. You are a traitor and not helping anyone if you fall for their tricks. If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.

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Anon10/24/26, 16:03No.35031053

BPD detected

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