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Anonymous10/20/26, 22:35No.35023259Ugly female
What to do? I feel like any hopes I had have been crushed by simply being ugly and that tainting most of my life. Vain as it may be, my biggest aspiration genuinely was just to be pretty and feel pretty.
Not saying that men don't suffer with this too but women are judged way more for looks and men are more open with their disgust.
So many doors seem closed, I can't pretend to socialise because I know they'll be looking at my face and probably looking down at me, I can't care about looks because I don't want to be a pig in lipstick or to be laughed at for trying to look nice when I'm ugly, I will never feel pure or innocent and as I'm turning 22 I am ageing and will have had a wasted invisible youth where nobody paid even a slither of attention except to mock me.
I don't know what to do. I'm so angry and hateful and any hope I attain will be ruined the second someone questions why that ugly bitch thinks she is entitled to be seen as anything other than a joke and a ugly freak.
I can get a BF (any woman can) but I would feel so ugly there's no point. He wouldn't be satisfied and I would feel so disgusting. I can't see a future for myself where I have confidence and can be a real human being taken seriously and viewed as someone sweet and delicate for once. I thought I would accept living as a repulsive outcast and come to embrace it out of spite if nothing else but it hurts more as I grow. I am not entitled to being a female or a human. If I wasn't close with my parents I would troon out.
And no I'm not fat. I've always been anorexic. I walk for 30-45 minutes most days, have a good diet and I do skincare. Can't afford surgery and I would feel like a cheat. My face is just really bad (also British and autistic with FAS features if that helps put it in perspective).
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Anon10/20/26, 22:38No.35023267
Just date an ugly guy who is your looksmatch. I know tons of ugly guys who have absolutely great character but no luck dating and are subtly depressed because of it.
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Anon10/20/26, 22:48No.35023303
Are you the girl with the eyes who has posted this 15 times in the last few weeks?
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Anon10/20/26, 23:05No.35023363
Date a guy in his 40s or 50s he'll probably be attracted to your youth even though you are a pig.
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Anon10/20/26, 23:23No.35023413
>I've always been anorexic
>have a good diet
lol which is it?
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Anon10/21/26, 00:20No.35023534
>a future for myself where I have confidence and can be a real human being taken seriously and viewed as someone sweet and delicate for once
beauty doesn't give any of that on its own. if you want it, just develop your character traits and be modest (dressing, behaviour, talk). women can be good looking and be disgusting and rude, ugly women can be very cute, delicate, sweet, pleasant to be aroundmodesty will also lead you to find a husband that values you instead of your body alone
https://youtu.be/ZppGy-2dvN4?t=1159lots of beautiful women get treated like a public toilet and aren't listened to at all because they themselves don't have any self-respect, which leads them to worse and worse situations as they seek validation in the wrong places and wrong people
https://youtube.com/watch?v=bQ6NxFAA7Sk
https://youtu.be/srWkQd1vVyo?t=535>My face is just really bad (also British and autistic with FAS features if that helps put it in perspective)
on the physical side, watch every video from dr mike mew and start following his advice, and start eating more animal foods to support your facial development, like at least 6 eggs and 400 grams of meat a day, and cut the seed oils at least, ideally go full carnivore to get a perfect skin thanks to the niacin in the diet and the lack of glycation from the carbohydrates (harry serpanos is a good source of information on this)but the most important part is the spiritual aspect. I've seen plenty of beautiful people have miserable lives and be single, and ugly people with beautiful spouses and happy lives.
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Anon10/22/26, 01:24No.35024057
I used to be ugly. I never cared because I knew that I was going to get plastic surgery in my 20s. Everyone gave me a hard time because of how I looked, even my own mother. Then they'd harass me harder time the few times I'd tell anyone of my plans to buy plastic surgery with my own money.
My own mother kept trying to drill into me that plastic surgery is wrong and wouldn't fix my problems, wouldn't look natural, my kids would be ugly etc. She's famously wrong about literally everything. Everyone else in our family stopped trying talk with her.
I ended up getting plastic surgery. Beautiful people get looked at differently. I have a kid. People say he's cute. I also say that every other kid is cute. The only difference is that everyone who hasn't seen his father assumes my kid looks like him. No, he looks like a mini me.
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Anon10/22/26, 08:54No.35024960
Hello Kouva, you've been making this thread for like 5 years, what's the point even? Are you collecting pity points or what.Just like it's been pointed out many times before you're not even remotely ugly at all. Even if you've been a model you would've still thought of yourself as an uggo with your mentality.
People are mocking you because you're an outcast that's distancing herself from people on purpose, not because you're "ugly"
I think you're not delusional and you know that you're above average in looks and are probably coping.I honestly don't know what your actual issue is, it's pretty hard to decipher since I don't know if you're being 100% honest. If you are - then you are delusional for sure and you're in a self-imposed prison, no matter how people praise you - you'll think they're not being genuine, it seems impossible to convince you of the obvious.Aside from the self hating you're a pretty cool and talented person that seems to be fun to be around. Someone just needs to physically drag you out of your shell since you're doing everything to not escape it. I've seen many such cases.
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Anon10/22/26, 10:38No.35025072
>HTF fan
That's automatically a green flag for me. Let's cuddle under the blanket and binge watch the show together <3
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Anon10/22/26, 10:42No.35025074
>If I wasn't close with my parents I would troon out.
That's the ticket.
I don't like "egg culture" but in my experience everyone who says shit like this troons out eventually. You'll be 25, 30, 40, 50 or something and you'll start roiding. Sigh.
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Anon10/22/26, 19:13No.35025921
At least you don't get a bunch of unwanted attention
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Anon10/23/26, 04:35No.35027282
>I don't think I can be happy as an ugly person
im 26 and same. but my advice to you is 100% to do makeup. i understand the lipstick on a pig feeling all too well but start out very minimal and basic to get used to the feel and look. trust me, you will get treated better just for having some on as long as you dont look like a clown. sometimes having a signifier of effort is enough.
otherwise i dont have any advice. i am 100% getting some body and face procedures as soon as i can. i realized that the concept of "body neutrality" is something i can actually work towards, but its something that i will achieve through surgery instead of accepting myself as i am. i got 1 small surgery the improvement was enough to placate my thoughts about that specific area.
after going from bmi 27 to 19 wirh glp1s i finally feel okay enough to attempt sexual and romantic connection, which i heavily shyed away from due to how insecure and uncomfortable i was with myself. through that i realized that i will only ever be able to accept myself if i actually physically change. kinda blackpilling i guess but it is what it is. i know what i need to do
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Anon10/23/26, 12:21No.35028101
There's more to life than what you see in the mirror dumbfuck. Achieve something, become a mother, do something less retarded than trooning out because you don't like your reflection. If you're going to troon you may as well just kill yourself. You're already pathetic as a woman you'd make for and even more contemptible and worthless man.
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Anon10/23/26, 12:38No.35028129
Just looksmaxx. You've mentioned you aren't fat, so you meet the standards of probably 40-60% of men already.
Most men can't tell when you're a dog out of makeup anyway. Just fake it like everyone else.
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Anon10/23/26, 21:40No.35028912
>I can get a BF (any woman can)
That was the point when you gave yourself away as a man larping as female.
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Anon10/24/26, 05:19No.35030359
OP there are other aspects to being a woman besides beauty, like warmth. Realize this and it might help you with valuing your looks less. But this doesn't mean that looks aren't important, halo effect is a real thing, so from what I read the problem is your face, so look some makeup tutorials, since you don't have cash for surgery, but be honest with future partners. Another thing is maybe try to improve you fashion, there are some clothes that fit different bodies better.
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Anon10/24/26, 06:41No.35030452
>simply being ugly
>biggest aspiration genuinely was just to be pretty and feel pretty
Welcome to 'Shit out of luck 3', enjoy your stay !
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Anon10/24/26, 07:33No.35030500
No man will ever love you fucking ugly bitch, kys immediately.
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Anon10/25/26, 06:57No.35033006
Yeah I think she's not here anymore