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Anonymous09/09/26, 04:57No.34905692What do you think?
Throwing this here in hopes i can find a better prespective.
I have decided to never date/marry or interact with any woman unless there is a necessity, i can not find a single logical reason to be with a woman, i have been falsely accused twice, i survived but i am still traumatized by these experiences, but other than the false accusations my experiences with women were good.
AND THAT'S THE ISSUE, i have had lots of good experiences and lots of fun with women throughout my life, by all metrics i should be more open to relationships, but these two bad experiences occupy my mind despite surviving them, but its not just the false accusations, the idea of marriage also scares me, the family courts and divorce laws are very biased against men especially in my country, it makes the idea of marriage sound suicidal or dumb at best to me.
I thought of being a fuck boy and just fucking and dumping one after another but this gives me no fulfillment, and it still remains dangerous to some extent. I see that abstaining from relationships may be the best option for me as i value my survival and well being, but i am afraid that i might be wrong so i am here to see what you guys think. Are relationships really worth it? I think i can live a happy fulfilling life just making money/art and doing sports, but i am afraid that there might be something i am not seeing.
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Anon09/09/26, 05:04No.34905708
>unless there is a necessity
There never will be one
>Are relationships really worth it?
No
> I think i can live a happy fulfilling life just making money/art and doing sports
Correct
>but i am afraid that there might be something i am not seeing.
You'd have to want a relationship with a woman despite the risk. That's true for all things that you'll want to have. It happens that being with another person is the riskiest investment.
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Anon09/09/26, 06:38No.34905876
don't do anything until a better idea or solution presents itself. in the meantime, prepare yourself for it.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ&ra=m
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Anon09/09/26, 06:44No.34905883
Whatever happens to you doesn't affect me, and you don't sound like you're willing to change.You've heard enough all there is to say about this, and the reason you made the thread for is reassurance. If you have issues about people, talk with a therapist.