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Anonymous09/08/26, 00:10No.34902106Family Arranged Relationship
so I come from a wealthy backround and my relatives set up a single woman for me to date not but a few weeks ago. She is from a neighboring nation, so initially we were only talking via Instagram DMs because of the distance of locations. It seemed innocuous at first- she showed interest to me and had been polite via DMs where we got to know each other before we met up face-to-face. But some red flags started appearing for me. She started literally COMBING through my IG. She would find other potential female suitors or my other ex-dates from the past that I had befriended and would demand I would delete them. She would get irritated if I didn't solely focus on her when we haven't even met or dated. It got to the point where I almost just blocked her out of my own irritation.
>on my recent work vacation I flew over to her country to meet up with her
we went on a couple dates and she was courteous all the while. But after three dates, I thought she would finally relent and come over for a night at my place of staying. She did not and that disappointed me greatly. All the women I have ever been with, we couldn't wait to rip each other's clothes off- the attraction was that great.
>vacation ended and I am now back in my usual employment
the DMs had turned sour and its just more of her squabbling about how there's this girl or that on my Instagram. It seems her jealousy is outrageous and nothing seems to appease her. To me this was a red-flag and you would figure a girl who wanted to see you again would be more flirty or friendly over DMs as you left her. I didn't even get to do anything with her, just dates- maybe some kisses and touches, but nothing more- and she is acting like we've been together for years. I feel this red flag is enough for me to reject her, despite my familial relationships and wishes from that party. I have been with more beautiful, friendly and feminine women in the past to be dealing with this quarrelsome woman. What do you think?
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