htgwg how to get women general 365 - /adv/

Anonymous09/07/26, 21:21No.34901671/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #365

What is /htgwg/? How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro. >What is /htgwg/ not? These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM! >How to ask for advice Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question. >Resources and Books https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach) https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612 https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGG https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/ https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101) https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world. Previous: >>34883224 [/adv/thread/34883224#p34883224]

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Anon09/07/26, 22:20No.34901850

thoughts on female classmates hitting (You) up about classwork? feels like they're only talking to you for guidance and answers while they fuck chad. that's why i say no when asked if i've done the work

Anon09/07/26, 22:32No.34901884

Which is better after a convo goes well with a woman, asking for her number, Instagram, or asking her if she wants to go out with me?

Anon09/07/26, 22:54No.34901934

Number is always the best. It may not even be worth getting an IG until after you go out with her (and after you have her number). Don’t ask a girl to ‘go out’. It sounds very serious and she doesn’t want that most likely. Get her number, you can tell her we should hangout or something in person then hit her up after for the logistics. Unless your social media is ‘good’ then it can really backfire if a woman sees yours. Yours is good if those same pictures are getting you some matches on dating apps. It’s best to use it so a girl remembers you after you’ve gone out with her, but if yours is really good it can be used to DM girls you haven’t even met yet.I’m working on texting girls better. Trying to come off as cool. I have a tendency to text like I’m a loser sometimes and girls will ignore my messages if I slip up. Trying to get the vibe right of I’m a busy guy with a lot going on.

Anon09/07/26, 23:35No.34902012

Going from Zero to Hero The process of going from no girls to getting girls feels rough because it requires energy and focus that you need to muster up even though your life sucks. Anyone that says have a good life without girls is coping. If you want women and have none, especially if it’s been an ongoing struggle then you won’t feel good it’s that simple. If you can feel good without girls then you probably wouldn’t have a hard time getting one in the first place. I focus on my attitude and mindset. Even if it feels hopeless I decide that I do have the power to change this. I will change this. That willpower and firmness is attractive in and of itself funnily enough. You have to really believe you already can get girls. You have to truly feel like you are already getting girls. You have an abundance of women. Anything less than that exudes desperation and even an ugly women will run. Radiate that energy of I get women. Then when you interact with women give off the vibe that you don’t need her to like you. You already have girls so why would you need her? You are just interacting with her for fun. It takes the pressure off you and more importantly her. I already have girls so I’m not going to start simping or being too agreeable because I need this to go well. I already have girls so when I ask for contact info I don’t sound desperate for a yes. I already have girls so meeting up with a girl is not a big deal, it’s not something very extremely important. Dating is normal for me so why wouldn’t it go well when we meet up? I already know how to vibe and lead her, why would I assume it would go bad.

Anon09/07/26, 23:37No.34902018

If you want a girlfriend she has to be compassionate about you not bitter.

Anon09/08/26, 01:33No.34902293

ive noticed girls that seem to be attracted to me are about 5-6s on average which due to hypergamy means i must be a 6-7 in looks/valuewhat to do with this info?

Anon09/08/26, 03:30No.34902520

I live in the US bordering Mexico. I genuinely cannot believe how every woman after 26 turns into a wall. Where can I meet women in my weight class???? I really dont like bars but other than that I have no idea where they are.

Anon09/08/26, 03:52No.34902577

As somewhat of a gymcel (my social skills are ok in professional settings but I may have some form of tism) how to go about finding a qt shy gf? I feel very paternal and protective towards quiet insecure girls, but I live in a very extroverted party area so to speak, lots of bars not a lot of bookstores. Pic rel is me, so I think I might come on too strong for those types of girls. I’m very forward and upfront with women generally. I hate dating apps and will not use them again.

Anon09/08/26, 04:25No.34902636

What if I want no commitment lowstakes sexual chats with random chicks.

Anon09/08/26, 09:58No.34903034

Why would you want a woman in these conditions in the first place? You have to destroy the misandry first otherwise it's pointless.

Anon09/08/26, 11:35No.34903139

>girl shows interest in me >i fail to pick up on it and make a move >now she hates me is there a comeback from this?

Anon09/08/26, 14:07No.34903430

Additional videos to watch and reflect.Good starter videos >Why We Shouldn't Leave Incels Behind https://youtu.be/xHmDJyVT3g0?si=GEUm2HAZ-I6QpLgY >How To Get A Girlfriend https://youtu.be/05tG47pv1vM?si=x6Ngo0hvj7M9L1wn >Dr. K Breaks Down The Science of Flirting https://www.youtube.com/live/0k3YUL3iQds?si=OvrpJ6ZNK0je7Ybq>How To ACTUALLY Find The Right Person For You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSfuHwENzXM >Why Your Tinder Match Isn't Going To Date You https://youtu.be/KJX-8C7OHmw?si=5HcbRpJbUa7PE-gOMore for Men >Why You Should NEVER Confess Your Love https://youtu.be/xHkcIRZa6lo?si=zGxmCIXyHEAbsXdQ>Can Men & Women Be Friends? https://youtu.be/OafdDpFjOIg?si=O4SIMEOF5EzBFKN7 >The Interesting Truth About What Women Need Today & How To Get What YOU Want! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f2mD6_g3xpk >5 Harsh Realities About Women | Every Man MUST Face Alone! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkhLybpZKzIMore for women >10 Brutal Dating Tips for Women That Women Need to Hear | And Men Need to Share! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCMKgpl7HW4 >Why You're The Least Valuable Friend https://youtu.be/ql5sWIEAcFw?si=lYx6LPTx8xaaS7OM >Why Women Can't Find A Soulmate https://youtu.be/58kdlgKvEU0?si=ZskCXZLFY1iMmbpF >A Perspective on Female Loneliness https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbGZaGzWdfsExtras >How Your Brain Perceives Love When You Have Autism https://youtu.be/KlSsI2CKYaQ?si=1XYAjx97G9oeNeS_ >Men Are Getting This Totally Wrong About Being A Simp or Nice Guy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bn-U2Sx4spo >The Addiction Women Can't Talk About https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mDv-bX7Pegg >Your Standards Are Way Higher Than They Should Be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diIc5e2RLKI >"Why Women Deserve Less": Myron Gaines Loves Projection & Bad Math https://youtu.be/u6QcjXub8fo?si=6TaYexKVRHBncmOm >Why 40% Of Young Men Need Erectile Retraining https://youtu.be/2MwTDoT8q_A?si=C-7aytPOjXwgOuIX

Anon09/08/26, 14:14No.34903449

How do you feel about having a type?I make 75k a year, I have really good benefits, I have a house, a dog, I am in really good physical shape and work out / run 5 days a week. I have hobbies and creative talents between instruments, crafting, gardening, etc. my life is pretty awesome and full.All that being said I really want a woman who takes care of herself. I think it’s super hot when girls like to exercise in some way shape or form. Doesn’t have to be gym. But like someone who values being in shape and eating good food. And like who is responsible and shit.Is this superficial?I feel like all of the girls who are serious about relationships and also value their health have super high standards and only want to date like a certain kind of guy.I have somewhat of a high body count from my past, and I also drive a beater because I don’t want to buy a new car and I’d rather save money. I feel like women will see these things and be super turned off when it comes to a real relationship.

Anon09/08/26, 14:20No.34903469

Is there any way to salvage a girl matching with you but not replying to your initial message? The message wasn't just "hi" btw. >just give up I don't want to, besides, no one else is matching with me.

Anon09/08/26, 14:35No.34903508

[/adv/thread/34883224#p34900964] I got my first serious gf at 23. Don't lose hope, anon. Plus the looking young thing, I was in the same boat, and now that I'm older, I have all the young girls who wouldn't have looked at me before drool over me. You'll grow into it, is my point.

Anon09/08/26, 14:39No.34903527

Haven't heard back from her, is this actually a rejection? Very weird because she was super positive about going on the date. I'm going to send one more message on this just to test the waters.

Anon09/08/26, 15:33No.34903630

I wish I was in a relationship but I don't even know where to go I sit at home because I have no reason to leave it, and no destination I absolutely detest dating apps what should I do to meet women?

Anon09/08/26, 17:00No.34903922

>first time I meet this girl >lose my proverbial shit and dump on her stuff I don't even tell my family about >she doesn't flinch >second time I meet her >start liking her >suddenly I can't talk to her with the same confidence, can't open up anymore >she looks sad as shit when we part ways >I kick myself thinking she's disgusted and completely uninterested >days later she posts some awareness video about a dude smiling but keeping all of it inside til he offs himself I'm overthinking this, right?

Anon09/08/26, 17:22No.34903998

Does anyone else watch AlphaMaleStrategies? I've been listening to this guy on and off since 2019 and I wonder if he's right or if his "game" mostly applies to (usually more confrontational and masculine) black women as opposed to white women (not that they aren't masculine a lot of the time too) because he alluded to not dating white women very much if at all. Which is interesting eI'm just wondering how much I'm screwing myself over listening to only his advice.

Anon09/08/26, 20:00No.34904553

Just got broken up with last week. Not that I’m in any position to get back right away but what’s the current meta for meeting someone again?

Anon09/08/26, 21:27No.34904753

You know what? How about instead of trying to fish for the right words or actions we instead make the most out of what we have when we interact with people. Hell what if we only know 25 words of the English language? Let's make the most out of it and stay focused in the interaction.

Anon09/09/26, 09:25No.34906057

Men are checking out of society at an alarming rate.