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Anonymous05/14/26, 20:19No.34532338
I went home with a guy who seemed nice from work, we had been flirting back and forth for a while, but when we got to his place it was a wreck. There was a bad smell in the air, he had thrown away boxes for food everywhere. A lot of them had old bits of food covered in mold. There were dirty napkins shoved into and under the couch enough that you could see them sticking out. The couch was discolored, and the cushions felt crunchy.
We went to his room and his pillows didn't have any pillow cases and the pillows themselves were yellow. There was a pile of clothes on the floor, covered in what looked like throw-up.
He hadn't done anything to make me feel unsafe up to that point, but suddenly I felt like asking to leave wouldn't be smart. He pushed me onto his bed, and something crusty stuck to my hand from off the bed and I screamed out of startle. He bolted up and was like "what's wrong" and I had to run. I got outside and I kept running until I was sure he wasn't behind me and I got an Uber home.
I didn't see him at work the next couple days, but I was too embarrassed about everything to mention it to anyone at work. He came back today though, and he asked if I'd come back to his place again since he'd cleaned up after I left.
I froze like a deer in headlights and I couldn't speak, and after a minute he said sorry and left me alone.
Our boss saw him trying to talk to me a lot at work and me freezing up whenever he did and told him to stop. He ended up quitting that afternoon, and called me that evening crying to ask why I won't give him another chance. Something about it really scared me and I told him I didn't feel safe around him and that I had to go.
I don't know for certain, but I think he's been following me a few times since then. I feel bad about how I've handled things, because he didn't do anything threatening to make me feel scared but I can't help being scared.
I don't know for sure that he's following me. It just seems like it. What should I do?
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Anon05/14/26, 20:30No.34532363
he could have been a serial killer anon, don't know what to say...
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Anon05/14/26, 20:31No.34532367
>I told him I didn't feel safe around him and that I had to go
Dumbass foid. You literally told us the issue: his hygiene habits. But you refuse to just tell him this for whatever reason. Choosing instead to "freeze up" or literally just run away instead of USING YOUR WORDS.Poor guy has no idea what he did wrong and is probably still trying to speak to you to find out or apologize. Just message him and tell him that his house being in such a nasty state disgusted you too much and you were freaked out by some crusty shit from his bed. Say you didn't know how to bring it up, that's why you froze. Tell him you don't see you guys working out because of lifestyle differences and that you want someone who's able to consistently take care of their personal and house hygiene to a high standard. Easy.
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Anon05/15/26, 00:05No.34532939
What color is he?
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Anon05/15/26, 01:02No.34533125
> What should I do?
Nothing.
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Anon05/15/26, 01:08No.34533153
this is why men tell other men to not shit where you eat
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Anon05/15/26, 01:14No.34533182
>Something about it really scared me
As it should, that guy is really not alright mentally...>I don't know for certain, but I think he's been following me a few times since then
Creepy>I feel bad about how I've handled things,
You shouldn't, you handled very well, if anything, you should have left way before he threw you in the bed.>because he didn't do anything threatening to make me feel scared
I felt scared just by reading the story. You're clearly an autist and can't perceive danger, but even most autists looking from an outside perspective would feel the situation weird.>What should I do?
You should make sure to stay away from that dude, and watch out when you go outside. He might do something weird.
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Anon05/15/26, 01:18No.34533207
What is crazier is the fact his house was in this state and he found "alright" to bring you there, and he thought he could have a quick fuck in a house in that state. I think that's what messed OP's head the most and what's literally sending me warnings right now.
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Anon05/15/26, 01:28No.34533242
>Our boss saw him trying to talk to me a lot at work and me freezing up whenever he did and told him to stop
>I think he's been following me a few times since thenIt seems you didn't read the thread.
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Anon05/15/26, 10:03No.34534491
Call somebody to do like a welfare check on this guy because he's definitely fucked up in some kind of extreme way to live like that