Anon03/14/26, 12:31No.34339521
If you find another gay person you should ask them to introduce you to their other gay friends (with hopefully more experience) and they can go to clubs with you if you’re uncomfortable alone. They might also give tips to find out if someone is gay.I will tell you what works for me in case it’s helpful. When I see an attractive woman at the club, I start a conversation, usually by complimenting her. Then depending on how the conversation goes, I try to steer it towards the question whether she has a boyfriend. If she doesn’t, I ask if she’s gay. If she is, jackpot. If not, just be friends and dance anyway. It is probably much more difficult for men because men insulted by that question.