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Anonymous03/12/26, 06:25No.34332283Unhinged ex friend
I bullied one of my friends pretty badly in high school and he won’t stop leaving threatening messages and generally sends really angry messages and then blocks me.
I hit him more than once but it was over eight years ago now and the messages don’t stop coming in.
How do I handle this? He goes away for months and then it randomly happens again and again. He even apologizes and then months pass and he’s sending his address and dares me to show up to fight him.
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Anon03/12/26, 06:42No.34332310
I would say contact the police but if you assaulted him more than once that will probably complicate things. Is there evidence of your own behaviour? If not you can probably get him charged for criminal harassment and end the behaviour for good.
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Anon03/12/26, 06:45No.34332317
Not fun being picked on is it. Now you know a small taste of what you inflicted. Apologize for what you did it seems like you haven’t even considered doing that.
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Anon03/12/26, 07:06No.34332372
Honestly just man up and apologize dude. You should try to do it face to face and actually talk to him. I’m pretty sure he’s waiting to hear something from your side, and if you don’t talk to him properly it’s only going to make things worse and keep haunting you. It’s better to clear the air now than to let it get bigger.
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Anon03/12/26, 07:34No.34332440
>I bullied one of my friends pretty badly in high school
Why would you do that?
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Anon03/12/26, 11:44No.34332761
So you were and continue to be an asshole, and now you get treated like an asshole.What exactly is your complaint?
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Anon03/12/26, 17:34No.34333646
You should cut off the tip of your pinky and mail it to your friend along with a recording as way of apology for how you treated him.
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Anon03/13/26, 13:39No.34336455
You deserve it Anon. Apologize for your past behavior and he will leave you alone. Remember you're the one who bullied him.
The fact you have the audacity to complain about him bothering you shows a double standard: It was fine for you to follow him & slap him but it's not ok when he harasses you back. You are a massive hypocrite. Apologize to him now.
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Anon03/13/26, 13:54No.34336483
>and he’s sending his address and dares me to show up to fight him.
You know what you have to do. Go, fight him.
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Anon03/13/26, 15:11No.34336673
Try going back in time and being less of a cunt.
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Anon03/13/26, 15:53No.34336758
Can't you just block him?
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Anon03/13/26, 16:00No.34336772
Buy a gun and concealed carry permit
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Anon03/13/26, 16:49No.34336874
Gather evidence and file police report.
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Anon03/13/26, 20:57No.34337622
sounds like his hate's gonna boil over into doming or beating you into a pulp someday and i genuinely hope something of the sort comes to you, its the only way you people ever learn and it was almost always the only way i could ever stop people messing with me in my experience
you reap what you sow
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Anon03/13/26, 21:35No.34337721
i hope he fucks you up badly
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Anon03/13/26, 21:41No.34337740
It might help to understand why he's leaving these messages. You might need to have a proper conversation where you reconcile and bury the hatchet.If you can't reasonably make him stop then at some point you might need to block him. What you did back then wasn't right but that doesn't give him a free pass to harass you indefinately. If it's not a bad idea and you're getting close to that point you can respectfully warn him before hand, that if he doesn't stop you'll need to block or unfriend him.
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Anon03/14/26, 10:59No.34339381
Have you at any time ever considered apologising to him?