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Anonymous03/09/26, 16:25No.34324364Am I reading too much into this?
>Be me, back in middle school (13–14)
>Meet a girl because our parents are friends (both doctors)
>Covid happens
>Lose contact with her
>2024 arrives
>Get into med school
>Turns out she's there too
>We end up in the same class
>Start talking again, become friends
>Even ride the bus with her at night almost always
>Occasionally go to the cinema together
>New wild semester appears.jpg
>Classes get reshuffled, she ends up in a different group
>Both busy with school so we stop going out for a while
>School is too much for her and drops out
>Vacations arrive
>Take the chance to go out with her (cinema, parks, restaurants)
>School starts again
>Still see each other sometimes
>Went to the cinema last weekend
Is this a good setup to get a girlfriend?
I really don't want to ruin the friendship by misunderstanding things, but I feel like there might be something there.
Any advice, anons?
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Anon03/09/26, 18:09No.34324666
Just ask her bro
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Anon03/09/26, 18:19No.34324687
well, does she herself show you any interest?
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Anon03/09/26, 19:21No.34324845
>School is too much for her and drops out
woman moment
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Anon03/10/26, 19:14No.34327618
it was a good setup like 6 months ago. she's probably moved on, but you still night have a chance. remember women move fast, they have a time clock.
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Anon03/10/26, 19:42No.34327716
>friendship with a girl
You shouldn't put a high value on that. Try pushing it into something more than that and don't worry about losing her as a friend. That's gay anyway.
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Anon03/10/26, 19:47No.34327726
Binge friends-to-lovers anime and ask her out
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Anon03/10/26, 20:43No.34327857
If you haven't gotten intimate with her yet, then you got friend zoned.
If you wanna break outbof it, set up a romantic date where you plan on getting intimate and initiate. If she rejects you, too late.
Cut contact, she isn't interested.
If she contacts you afterwards, you ask her out on dates only with the goal of intimacy and make that clear to her. In the meantime, look elsewhere.
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Anon03/11/26, 01:04No.34328532
I’d just ask her. If you don’t, then she’ll get in a relationship and you’ll always regret what could’ve been.
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Anon03/11/26, 01:35No.34328621
You need to finally grow the fuck up and understand men and women can’t be friends.
You already have feelings for her, so strike one right there. Then in the future, you have to contend with the fact that she’ll get with other dudes if you remain “friends.” If she dates a guy with an ounce of self respect he’ll start making moves towards cutting you out of her life. Her relationship with her man will always color her relationship with you as well; I’ve had female friends I had completely honest platonic intentions with, only for them to use me for male attention when they were fighting with their boyfriends and then ghost me when they patched things up.
You need to shit or get off the pot. If you really want to keep her as a friend, find another girl who will suck your crush on your friend out through your dick.
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Anon03/11/26, 02:34No.34328795
Didn't threaten. Obviously there will only ever be us. No other
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Anon03/11/26, 17:57No.34330654
I've gotten a gf after taking her to cinema once. It depends on your rizz and how assertive you are towards your goal (getting a gf).You are overthinking it, ppl your age naturally date like it's nothing, and since both of you have known each other for so long that means she definitely thinks about you too.Minimum you should do now is to discuss the concept of dating with her. Thats it.
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Anon03/13/26, 11:20No.34336156
men and women can't be platonic friends, you aren't afraid of losing her as a friend, you're afraid of her saying you can't stick it inside her pussy.