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Anonymous01/28/26, 14:26No.34205691/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #336
>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.
>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!
>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.
>Resources and Books
https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)
https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html
https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam
https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/
https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (Leykis 101)
https://dokumen.pub/why-women-deserve-less-firstnbsped-1467978302-r-1917433.html
https://www.fantasticanachronism.com/p/how-to-be-good-at-dating
(new suggestions with working links are welcome)
REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.
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Anon01/28/26, 14:47No.34205721
Should I even? Just how did men's standards get so low?
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Anon01/28/26, 20:41No.34206186
These generals are dying because they’ve turned into 50% people whining about getting ghosted or dumped, 40% namefags and tripfags giving shitty advice, and 10% miscellaneous retards asking the same questions and theorizing but never actually talking to women because they’re scared.
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Anon01/28/26, 21:41No.34206277
I don't date often, so I could use some perspective.I went out for coffee with this girl yesterday. We chatted for 3 hours. It got awkward here and there, I would run out of things to say, etc. I assume that's normal? She showed me a lot of the cringy DMs she receives on a daily basis, which I wasn't sure how to interpret.Anyway, we wound up closing the place down and getting scooted out with a few other customers. I didn't go in for a hug or anything. I just didn't get that vibe.Now it's the following day and neither of us has hit up the other, and I'm wondering what to do? I'd love to see her again, but I'm also not sure if her silence is sending a message. I kinda feel like girls are usually the ones to drop hints if they're interested.
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Anon01/29/26, 00:44No.34206841
>last girl I was interested in turned out to be an anti-natalist who doesn't want children
Dodged a bullet there, huh?
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Anon01/29/26, 00:48No.34206848
What does it mean when a girl says that you act like a kid sometimes, but smiles at you while saying it? She herself is my age, mid twenties.
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Anon01/29/26, 02:12No.34207153
1: what kind of pictures are good on a dating profile. Is it too tryhard if I wear dress shirts and pants in the pictures.2: when messaging a girl on dating apps when should you try and ask to go out. Is it better to ask right away or try and chat a bit.3: i used to get called innocent looking by girls in middle school and high school. I look a bit different now but not too different. Is being innocent looking a good thing or a bad thing?