Anon01/28/26, 04:15No.34204541
2/2Back to my male regular. He's very nice, has some common interests, same age group, and decently good-looking (I'm not attracted to him, but I'm far from put off). I have considered several times before if I would be open to letting him go down on me (provided he wanted that too) and I think the answer could be yes, but I would have to get to know him better. Best case scenario, for me, I think is that it happens and we're both on board with a FWB-type relationship that, while recognizing my physical and emotional limitations as a romantic/sexual partner, is affectionate nonetheless until one of us moves on.Sorry for rambling so much. Basically what I'm asking is should I start responding more positively to him putting out the feelers for a date and let one happen, or keep to myself politely like I've been doing?I think if we did go on a date, and we both had a good time, I would then try to be candid and tell him what I am looking for like I said here, and leave the ball in his court to decide if he wants to proceed or not. But then there's the issue of having to look him in the eye at work afterwards if he isn't interested. "Don't shit where you eat," ya know.... Anyway, hopefully some outside perspectives will help me think more clearly. Thanks everyone.