Anon12/03/25, 06:33No.34007235
>attractive
That's 8 times you used that word. Idk how your mind got to this place, what our culture taught you about romance, but the truth of the matter is, if she has a similar personality and education level, similar race and culture, similar class and upbringing, it shouldn't be too hard to make a relationship work. But I can sense a bit of narcissism here honestly - you're attracted to this idealized image you have of magic, power, and fantasy. But this exists in yourself. You have to learn to love another person for what makes her unique. You have to learn to love her, not how well she measures up to your standards or personality. Shakespeare says the course of true love never did run smooth (at least a young woman character of his says this), even if the above were similar for two lovers. And back in the day, marriages were more about money than a "deep connection" or friendship.Just put yourself out there and meet a woman at a public gathering of something you're interested in in town, pluck up the courage it takes to ask her out after you see her a few times over 3 weeks, see where it goes.It will be hard to find the courage, but you have to do it. And once you've done it, you will realize how insane it was to be so afraid of asking. The fear of rejection can be paralyzing. So she says no, who cares? Try again.