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Anonymous11/28/25, 23:11No.33989835I am attracted to bullies/cruelty
Watching men be incredibly mean spirited/rude for the sake of being rude turns me on in a way I can't describe. It's poisoned my taste in guys and I think I'm fucked in the head now.
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Anon11/28/25, 23:14No.33989842
Not uncommon, anon.It sucks too, because you could meet a decent dude who pretends to be a bully in the bedroom, but it wouldn't scratch the itch. You need an authentically awful dude to get you off.I don't think there's a cure. I guess you'll grow old and lose your libido eventually.
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Anon11/28/25, 23:34No.33989908
you get to enjoy real moids? lucky you.
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Anon11/29/25, 00:32No.33990065
You probably have better orgasms than women who like nice guys though
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Anon11/29/25, 04:51No.33990712
I fucking hate you. I won't ever tell it to your face, because I am kind... But I can't wait to be clean of you and your kind who are attracted to nothing but the dregs of society
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Anon11/29/25, 07:11No.33990910
When I was little and my interest in men barely began sparking, I would imagine a demon as my partner (nothing sexual at that point yet)
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Anon11/29/25, 07:36No.33990941
This is /adv/ and I don't see you asking for any advice.
You are a trash woman who seeks men as awful as you are. There are plenty of them out there, so at least you won't have a problem finding dates/hookups.
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Anon11/29/25, 07:40No.33990946
I have a similar issue but not related to sex, I am attracted to bullies but I am equally mean spirited, it's just that people assume from my appearance that I am kind-hearted and loving at all times. I think this is some sort of craving of finding polarity. I look for a guy that lets me be my worst all the while I try to make him his best. They are disguised as 'alphas' but I know they are the most broken and damaged men, soft kind and moral men make better relationships but they have no spine which makes you feel like you have to be the dom, some women love that, but even they crave to feel vulnerable.
It's not that a toxic asshole is what I find attractive, it's the fact that he would say what he truly thinks and doesn't shy away to make decisions. More so often, it is the men with either very low or extremely high intelligence who will treat you as worthless, but it says more about them than you and they often sabotage their own relationships, long term there is no happiness for them, and if you stay with such a guy be prepared for a ride.
How can you fix this? Stay educated, have friends and hobbies. This goes for both men and women who find themselves repeatedly stuck with toxic partners. I know this all comes from trauma, because we could easily walk away from these people, you can confuse love with attachment and attachment is primarily a familiarity to a situation we experienced before,
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Anon11/29/25, 09:46No.33991062
Wow sounds pretty insane,maybe consider therapy?
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Anon11/29/25, 10:26No.33991121
How much porn do you consume? It's not even porn, plenty of shows are just barely disguised porn nowadays. Just like men who end up masturbating to femboys women end up craving abusive men from porn/erotica consumption.
Stop consuming porn and spicy shows for a month and journal your feelings during and after the porn drought. Look at the men who turned you on for being men and see if it still holds the same power over your libido.
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Anon11/29/25, 11:55No.33991250
Your taste for toxic men is an addiction, no different from being additected to unhealthy fast food. Try making the tiniest tolerable upgrade: trade the outright dangerous ones for the emotionally unavailable, low-effort, gray-area dudes. It’s the romantic version of swapping Big Macs for Panda Express, still not health food, but your body (and soul) takes less damage, and you can go from there.
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Anon11/29/25, 12:00No.33991254
Thanks for contributing to this because if I’m honest having men in my life being rude to me sucks ass and I’m a guy. And you can’t do anything about it because they won’t side with you, like a woman might. This world is bullshit
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Anon11/29/25, 13:09No.33991317
Can you imagine yourself doing this for the rest of your life?
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Anon11/29/25, 13:38No.33991349
What a lost cause you are. The few people I've known that are like this have lost their entire friend circles and are both too stupid and too "proud" to actually take anyone's advise on how to fix themselves. You're not here for help. You're here for a potential circlejerk.
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Anon11/29/25, 13:51No.33991372
>it’s in my blood
no it’s not. you can stop this potentially destructive behaviour.
but i think the truth is that you don’t want to.
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Anon11/29/25, 16:12No.33991618
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Anon11/29/25, 16:13No.33991621
How absolutely disgusting this behavior is, all of you are literal scum.
May God have mercy on your Souls.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKjxFJfcrcA
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Anon11/29/25, 16:16No.33991627
King among men
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Anon11/29/25, 17:49No.33991927
i was randomly kinda mean to another guy and seeing it spike the attraction of the hot women in the classroom was a strange experience
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Anon11/30/25, 01:50No.33993619
There's actually nothing that's going to help because you don't have the harsh incentive to improve your life like a guy does. If you really really wanted to fix it, you could do it, but let's be real here, you'd rather just get abused cause that's what you're used to.
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Anon11/30/25, 16:39No.33995568
Kill yourself whore i swear to god
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Anon11/30/25, 21:27No.33996608
>It's another "sufemacist derails the thread" episode
We already have a stupid bitch to laugh at in this thread
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Anon11/30/25, 21:51No.33996726
>Doesn't ask for advice
This is an incel ragebait thread and you're probably a man.
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Anon11/30/25, 21:56No.33996743
girls like OP are never fat but always need to lose weight. Thats the essence of their entire being, the reason why the way they are.
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Anon12/01/25, 01:45No.33997802
you better not be the faggot who reposted my post
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Anon12/01/25, 01:54No.33997844
suferacist </3
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Anon12/01/25, 02:26No.33998008
Women are genetically wired to chase chad who abuses them and tosses them aside.
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Anon12/01/25, 03:06No.33998177
Good bait, lots of (you)s.
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Anon12/01/25, 03:07No.33998179
Cool, I'm into women who are mean to me as well.
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Anon12/01/25, 04:28No.33998526
>literally the most common trait in women
>"Wow I must be crazy"
To be fair, thinking you're some special kind of crazy for having traits that most women have is like the second most common trait in women.
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Anon12/01/25, 23:20No.34001609
Be honest OP, is cheating sex hot?
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Anon12/02/25, 01:30No.34002100
>I just hope at the end of the world you worthless foids are forced to confront reality in your post nut clarity, I hope for once in human existence you look around you and recognize what you've done
Never going to happen, they lack self awareness.
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Anon12/02/25, 02:37No.34002316
I've been both on the receiving end and giving end of sadism in that regard. But as someone who's not a sociopath I feel I hurt myself more after I do that. I lash out at guys at the gym sometimes. And random people sometimes if they piss me off. And yea I've even bullied some gfs sometimes. But usually this ends up as screaming matches or fist fights pending on what it is as an adult. Women are wired to enjoy violence and displays of dominance. It vexes me when they reward dweebs with attention.
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Anon12/02/25, 04:01No.34002662
Has sufemacist met an equivalent retard? Power couple!
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Anon12/02/25, 10:50No.34003944
You and every other foid
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Anon12/02/25, 11:07No.34003975
That’s what they want you to think. Do not breed with strong men who may have offspring that destroy the system.
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Anon12/02/25, 11:13No.34003988
Your fate awaits you OP, kwab.
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Anon12/02/25, 23:45No.34005801
Everything about this thread is the worst thing to happen on this board. Is anyone else seeing this shit? I feel my IQ dropping by the second.