My wife and I haven’t had sex in over 6 months. This year we only did it 3 times, and none of those times she had the patience to wait for me to orgasm, we stopped after 10 mins because she "was tired". I have a very high sex drive and dream of doing kinky things with my wife, but she has zero interest. For the past 5 years, she hasn’t even wanted traditional sex anymore.
What destroys me inside is that with her ex, they had sex on average more than once a day. On top of that, they had threesomes more than 10 times; 8 of those times, he just said she "felt like it" and she went and found a girl. They had sex in public places, played kinky games with friends, and she used to send him lots of nudes. With me, none of that ever happened, and she says she doesn’t want it. It hurts me deeply. I’m very jealous of him.