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Anonymous10/06/25, 05:32No.34383156
do guys on here actually hate overweight girls that bad? i try to tell people pretty quickly that i am because i don't wanna lead anyone on ever, but i actually found a neat person and they just stopped putting in any effort the moment i told them im not skinny. it actually feels terrible. im not against losing weight by any means but at this current moment i'm overweight.
i thought that people on here wouldn't be so judgmental about something like that. what's your take?
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Anon10/06/25, 05:41No.34383173
This board has a whole thread dedicated to guys who want overweight girls.
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Anon10/06/25, 05:42No.34383176
I think you'd be lucky if you come across someone who has a fat fetish
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Anon10/06/25, 05:57No.34383213
Personally I wouldn't care if we're getting along online. The only time where Id be put off is if we get to a point where there's a chance to meet up or to have something IRL and it turns out you're so obese that youre immobile.
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Anon10/06/25, 05:58No.34383214
A lot of us are fine with overweight girls. But you girls are ridiculously picky and only want the chads who tend to be pickier, you don't settle for the undesirable incels who would accept you the way you are. You want the chad, you gotta pass the chad standards :)
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Anon10/06/25, 06:03No.34383225
i like chubby women up to a certain point (morbidly obese/ham planet etc)
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Anon10/06/25, 06:08No.34383236
i like extremely fat women well beyond a certain point (morbidly obese/ham planet etc)
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Anon10/06/25, 06:11No.34383244
i understand u lol im fat and i was talking to this guy from tinder for about a month (he lives 4 hrs away) and he ended up cancelling on me a day before we were supposed to meet up :/ he knew what i looked like/knew i was fat and he told me i was his first fat girl, so i'm assuming he cancelled bc he didnt wanna go thru with meeting a fat bitch lmfao
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Anon10/06/25, 06:17No.34383273
We have a problem with overweight girls who do nothing to better themselves, blame others for their problems and are SUPER picky when it comes to partners. They are the problems we have.
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Anon10/06/25, 06:27No.34383316
well theres way more ppl who get w fat chicks than there are who get w fat dudes.
idk if its genuine, w more men finding the fat body on the opposite sex attractive in comparison to vice versa or if its jst cause its taught that women are the prize & therefore some men think simply getting with a woman = a win, even if shes fat. either or, no matter how fat u are op, you can easily find a guy for you.
damn do i wish things were opposite though, the only fat dudes that arent too crippled with insecurity to accept someone being attracted to them are gay fat dudes or gooners.how big are you anyways? height and weight?
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Anon10/06/25, 07:20No.34383505
I like overweight girls because my kink is to make girls lose weight through healthy diet and exercise.
I guess you could argue that means I don't like overweight girls but
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Anon10/06/25, 07:37No.34383532
I don't mind either way. I'd prefer an ugly fat girl with that's fun to be around over the most beautiful bimbo NPC.
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Anon10/06/25, 07:38No.34383534
1. define overweight and post pictures. overweight is a wide range that includes morbid obesity.
2. stop seeking attention and validation online.
3. find a fat guy, or a normal guy with a fat fetish.
4. be someone who is admirable despite fatness.
you have so many options
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Anon10/06/25, 07:47No.34383561
>do guys on here actually hate overweight girls that bad?
Yes and not only here. Men are in general don't like fat girls
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Anon10/06/25, 07:49No.34383563
I don't mind along they can walk and wipe there own ass then your not to fat
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Anon10/06/25, 09:07No.34383737
>do you actually hate overweight girls that badHate is too strong of a word, I don't hate them for it. But I don't find it attractive and would never date them, no. That being said, being overweight is reversible with exercise and diet, so in that regard I consider it less bad than having tattoos. Unfortunately, being overweight and having tattoos seems to go hand in hand.BLUF, overweight is NOT attractive and I will never date an overweight girl, but I don't hate you for it. For your own health, you'll be better off in the long term if you lose weight; you'll live longer and feel better about yourself.
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Anon10/06/25, 09:20No.34383770
Thread is all full of projection, so let me add my own.
OP would you lose interest if a guy revealed he was shorter than you?
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Anon10/06/25, 09:27No.34383784
Post or seek someone into the chubbt/bbw thread. People there will love to chat with you!
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Anon10/06/25, 10:26No.34383887
Post your cord, overweight is awesome
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Anon10/06/25, 10:32No.34383896
I want a chubby gf I can take to the gym with me and mold into a deadlifting goddess
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Anon10/06/25, 11:22No.34384007
nothing more gross than a fat person regardless of gender. shows they don't know anything about diet and just continue to shovel animal products into their arteries, fueling the disgusting meat/dairy industry without a second thought. your body is literally composed of the dying screams of thousands of chickens and other animals you gross stupid bitch.
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Anon10/06/25, 11:42No.34384054
I like chubby women but not OVERLY chubby to the point of obesity but saying that makes women think they automatically fit into that group
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Anon10/06/25, 16:38No.34384570
>what's your take?
Just eat vegetables instead of carbs: no hunger, more taste and nutrients, clear mind.
Fatties miss the point of food and just eat whatever is served them as soon as the urge hits as long as it isn't proper food.
Lazy stupid cunt, sober up from that chronic insulin inflammation!
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Anon10/07/25, 02:26No.34386004
>posts retarded question
>refuses to elaborate
people still fall for this
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Anon10/07/25, 04:59No.34386312
i dont like fat but my gf is 5'3 and she has big boobs so it doesn't bother me. i think she's 250 pounds? maybe 220? she's got pcos so i guess that fucks with your insulin and makes you genetically diabetic so i feel bad for her. even if was just laziness i'd still love her.just try to lose some weight by eating less. excercise does nothing. like literally don't eat dessert ever not even exceptions. if you aren't hungry don't eat even if food is given to you. wait an hour until you are noticably hungry before eating a meal. dont eat before bed when you can just sleep instead and eat breakfast in the morning. oh and eat smaller servings - don't load the plate full up with more than you can eat. you will be satisfied after finishing even a small meal and no longer hungry, but not stuffed. i did all this and went from 200 to 170 pounds in like 6 months or so.
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Anon10/07/25, 15:48No.34387267
Hello chickn
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Anon10/07/25, 18:44No.34387692
It's not how you want to be forever right? It takes a minute but it's just something that's always available for you to do something about, where you want to end up and look like is up to you.
It just reduces the size of the pool you fish in but ultimately your honest desired appearance should be top priority.
At the end of the day more men will always prefer things closer to normal or ideal and shouldn't they be more interested in the best you rather than the you that's given up?
I get that some people see it as a litmus test or filter but for reasons stated above and then some it doesn't quite work, if someone is fine with anything he's not really into it for you either, if you were honest with yourself do you wanna bang a korean model or some overweight 4chan neckbeard.
Good luck, you can always just bruteforce it and find someone anyway but you gotta have thick skin for all of the people who're gonna pass.
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Anon10/08/25, 08:53No.34389588
unfortunately I'm an example of this, i really find it unattractive, but nothings is really wrong with you, many people are overweight and many people loose the weight everyday, you'll be ok just put some effort in and btw you'll find people who can still be attracted to your body without being creeps or having a fetish they are just more rare, having said that hope you don't feel unlovable or something like that because of this
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Anon10/08/25, 18:09No.34390647
Yes.
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Anon10/08/25, 18:18No.34390675
Women of course are too pedestrian to follow the protocols of the sóma.
Infact those of pure souls must continue to be, fasting for weeks long and conquering one’s own body and hand tremors is something for men and only men.
Though to be fair I do find most overweight women to be results of modernity…
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Anon10/09/25, 05:24No.34392304
Yes. Chubby with somecredeeming quality like nice face or good fat distribution at most. The moment I see girl is fat I lose interest. And I don't even feel bad for it after how many times I've been rejected for petty reasons or even without any reason given.
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Anon10/09/25, 13:44No.34393435
For me, it's less about your weight/fat content and more about other associated things like how the fat is distributed throughout your body, whether or not you have loose skin from weight loss, dark spots from friction and poor air exposure (mostly occurs between legs, ass cheeks), double chin, fatty brow, bed sores, cellulite, etc., etc.,If you are chubby or even straight up a fat bitch, but the fat rolls are smooth and healthy looking and your pussy and ass areas look plump and soft and fuckable, then your fat is a PLUS. Fat bitches with healthy-looking fat who maintain the general curvature of a woman and not that of a pile of sand bags are wonderful - especially if they're willing to give deep head often. I've always wanted to have a fat bitch choke on my cock while I hold my hands on her face and feel her soft, chubby cheeks while she looks into my eyes with a look of complete relaxed submission and contentment. I'd treat her right and make sure she keeps the weight ON.
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Anon10/09/25, 14:12No.34393495
depends of how fat are talking about, if it's a little chubby i don't really care
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Anon10/09/25, 19:04No.34394159
do women really hate guys who are poor, short, and have no personality? "it depends", no shit, and its all a matter of options and standards. women use their vagina to shop around for a guy all the goddamned time, then when you get one you keep shopping around for upgrades and backups anyway. men know that you do this shit, and literally every woman has what you are offering. so if you are just another fat chick then a guy has to deal with the health issues caused by the obesity too, and not only is that a line too far to be appealing anymore but there are literally endless fat chicks to talk to if we ever change our mind.EVERYONE has choices and options, be a hot chick who wants a poor fat short greasy neckbeard if you want to upset the status quo
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Anon10/10/25, 01:48No.34395121
It really depends on your definition of overweight. Having just a little chub or not being a stick isn't bad, but if you are 300+ pounds and can't walk 5 steps without getting winded it's a problem. That distinction aside, the bigger issue is attitude. You'll get a few heavier girls who know they are heavy and actively want to make a change or better themselves in some way, then you get a lot (the majority unfortunately) who are just complete slobs and DEMAND you accept them as they are or no deal.
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Anon10/11/25, 07:26No.34398673
i personally think they're cute!!!
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Anon10/12/25, 05:26No.34401324
your solution would be to lose weight so you can keep a guy interested
not ask us to validate your world view
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Anon10/14/25, 03:05No.34406781
As a bigger woman (I've gotten to 210 before but I'm currently at 160) I've never had a problem finding men who are attracted to me/willing to sleep with me.
About 80%-90% of the guys I talk to on here don't care. Most other ones will be polite and say you're not their type.
My tips are don't add people if their bio has something saying "no fatties/overweight/chubby". I can comfortably fit in a medium shirt, and I don't even feel like I should try. Also if you're going to dating threads, I'd bring it up/ try to show pictures as soon as possible to not waste time
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Anon10/14/25, 03:36No.34406828
Plenty of us are fine with overweight girls but you only want tall muscular hypermasculine dominant confident extroverted charismatic neurotypical fun interesting intelligent wealthy men and refuse to lower your goddamn standards and settle for the men who would accept you for who you are. Your standards are fuckig bullshit.
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Anon10/14/25, 22:51No.34409050
i love fat bitches
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Anon10/15/25, 07:35No.34410133
oh so foids can be chad only but we can't ask to not get a fucking landwhale
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Anon10/17/25, 14:35No.34416814
if a man finds something he likes about your body, even if it's something seemingly minor like your feet or your hair, and he finds you pleasant to be around, he will be able to ignore all your "negative" physical attributes and consider you attractive/fuckable (within reason; if you're morbidly obese or something YMMV). that said, if you don't lead with your weight, accentuate your good features, and present a really fun/friendly/caring personality, guys will be more likely to stay with you even if you're fat. When I met my wife she was well outside what I considered my fat tolerance and she's not even that fat for an American, but she has 9/10 tits and an amazing personality and I quickly stopped caring about her flabby arms and belly rolls.
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Anon10/17/25, 21:03No.34417550
overweight women are the same as trannies. it's only fine if you're attractive and pull it off
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Anon10/17/25, 21:57No.34417671
sometimes when im stoned i wish i knew a fat girl who had a bunch of food i could eat id be like her tapeworm but no i dont really like fat girls
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Anon10/18/25, 00:34No.34418002
Depends how fat. I like chubby girls. Under 25 BMI with big tits, that's my ideal gf.
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Anon10/18/25, 02:18No.34418250
Many guys don't like dating overweight girls. Thin men put some effort into their appearance by keeping a diet, why would they want a woman who doesn't do the same?
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Anon10/18/25, 07:16No.34418944
Just don't lie about your weight right off the bat. If you do that it's GG once it inevitably comes out you're a whale.
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Anon10/18/25, 08:38No.34419121
If you are cute but slightly fat I don't care. If you're a landwhale I do.