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Anonymous11/30/25, 11:27No.16860037
Hi, I am a first time college student, I have lost my way, mostly because of my lack of concentration and slow thinking ability. Do you guys have any solutions?
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Anon11/30/25, 11:31No.16860039
Yes. Find your way.
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Anon11/30/25, 11:37No.16860041
I mean my head is like a fucking jukebox, I can't focus on anything at all, man. I can't even think when that fucking music keeps playing in my head.I don't know what's wrong with me, it's affecting me so much. Please help me.
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Anon11/30/25, 13:02No.16860059
Care to elaborate? Nobody can give you good advice without sufficient data, please try to explain everything relatable to your problem.
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Anon11/30/25, 13:35No.16860067
You probably have not enough social pressure and not a huge interest in the subject you are studying. For your brain there are just more important things, that's why your brain always shifts the focus and causes you to do other things instead. You need to find a way to make studying important for your brain, not sure how you can do it, maybe ask someone to murder you if you fail.
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Anon11/30/25, 17:21No.16860234
Reassess your goals and be open to the possibility that college may not be right for you. If you decide to persist, be prepared to bust ass picking your grades up and keeping up with new material, if not, be prepared to bust ass finding non-degree work and work your way up with an employer.
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Anon11/30/25, 17:26No.16860245
Your lack of concentration and slow thinking ability probably came from being chronically online. You need to remove instagram, tik tok, and the like and you need to get bored. Also find activities/hobbies that are actually engaging and you will make friends. If you are a freshman, there are so many events colleges create specifically for you to meet people, so you should attend even if it sounds like a waste of time. Also, try sitting with randoms at the dining hall- just go up and say "hey my name is anon and I am a freshman trying to make friends, do you mind if I sit with you?" I made a few friends that way. I would just avoid sitting with a group of sports girls because they are hostile to anyone not in their group. I've sat with hot bitches one on one and it was fun, but once I sat with the women's club swim team and they all got up and left after I went to grab my food lol.