Anon06/23/25, 24:04No.24488700
Aquinas is addressing the question of whether a husband must divorce and excommunicate his wife for the sin of adultery. Not whether that punishment goes too far, but whether mercy is even allowed. Aquinas comes down on the side of mercy. He says that if she repents, that's the end of the story. If repentance is the result of words, that's wonderful. If words do not break through to her hardened heart, repentance may be the result of blows. That's still mercy, because if she insists on staying on that road and separating from her husband in medieval France, there's a good chance that she either starves or has to become a prostitute, and dies in her sin. If you aren't putting this hypothetical woman's eternal spiritual wellbeing over her temporary physical wellbeing, you aren't actually putting her interests first and are acting as her enemy.Corporal punishment is not intrinsically wrong. And as the head of the household, it is not intrinsically wrong for a husband to administer it either to wife or to children. Those are countercultural ideas, but you cannot legitimately dispute them from within Catholicism. However, just because something is not intrinsically wrong does not mean anyone today has recourse to it. The death penalty is the most salient example. If the Church commands inaction even in a situation where action would not be intrinsically wrong, then you stay your hand. And if the secular authorities have banned an action, the action is not permissible except when it violates a divine command to act.So striking one's wife to dissuade her from adultery is not wrong just because it could be misused by a man with an anger problem, nor because of a tautology that striking a wife is wrong. It's wrong because divorce is no longer effectively a death penalty to the wife, because the secular authorities have outlawed it, and because the Church has judged that violence and civil disobedience are generally not to be used to prevent others' sin.