Anon10/19/25, 05:01No.41393330
Years of being the gay best friend listening to circles of women complaining about self inflicted problems with zero insight. Really? You really had no idea that guy who is known for cheating and abusing his ex was going to cheat on you and get violent? No red flags? Meanwhile, watching decent, less attractive 'good guy' straight men get friendzoned and become increasingly bitter being the life preserver these girls turn to between relationships. And of course, the dumb jealous boyfriends that think I'm faking to sneak in on their girlfriends (I'm not bad looking nor excessively camp), or say insensitive comments because they think I want to bone them (I'm not even a bottom but your dick's not that big, dude, your girlfriend shares that shit with the class).I was lucky enough to have a few great girl friends that lost touch after moves. The rest, and the terminally online ones, started going insane after the Trump election with nc and the few that survived that went insane during the pandemic and kept pushing plans off until I gave up. I'd be willing to meet up with a couple of friends from ancient times, but as for new hetero female friendships, I'm just not that invested in the concept.Funnily enough, I've always wanted some normal true lesbian friends, but they aren't interested, and I don't blame them since I don't have anything to offer them that a straight guy or female friend would. Being a lesbian means you can choose not to put up with the problem of men outside of work, so I get it.