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Anonymous10/18/25, 17:50No.41387760
how long have you been on hrt before you came out to your family?
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Anon10/18/25, 18:07No.41387897
-2yrs hrt?
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Anon10/18/25, 18:31No.41388096
i had to come out to my parents and they told some relatives and made me wait 4 years to start hrt lmao i need to die
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Anon10/18/25, 18:40No.41388172
apparently they knew without a word but after 1 year and 7 months my grandma busted my doors house saying i must act like a man and im satan or something
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Anon10/18/25, 18:49No.41388242
2 and a half years
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Anon10/18/25, 18:53No.41388276
-2 or -3 years hrt
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Anon10/18/25, 18:54No.41388283
came out at 12 and didnt get on hormones until 16 so -4
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Anon10/18/25, 18:54No.41388285
Anyone else just leave the nest at 17-18 and never spoke to their family again? My family was just toxic to begin with and I knew they wouldn't accept me. Why would you be stupid enough to have a relationship with your family?If you're young my advice if you think your parents won't accept you
>go to uni, get FAFSA
>get several part time jobs
>study hard in school
>Don't need it up too much by being lazy and going on discord or gaming all day, stay focused on being a tranny and getting the right to exist as a tranny, nothing more
>graduate with a good job and have enough money from the get goIf you didn't do well in HS, go to community college and you might still get enough FAFSA to live in an apartment. Back in the day I was getting like 5-8k per quarter or semester or whatever in school. It was absolutely more than enough to pay my rent. My friends from europe were shocked how much money they give you. In my state, CC was also kind of free or heavily subsidized. At uni, there's a lot of grants which are free money. You might also get scholarships if you're bright, I recommend looking into it.People say it is expensive and not worth it but they willingly chose not to look into the options. I was able to pay off my undergrad loans fast as an adult. After, get a master's and keep upskilling in your field.If your parents give you any slight discomfort just be a sociopath and never speak to them again.I don't love my family, they all have no way of contacting me.Ask me any advice. I known it's hard because most trannies have autism and ADHD combined, but you have to survive and not just mope around in your parent's house getting emotionally abused.
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Anon10/18/25, 19:16No.41388456
I haven’t, my dad doesn’t need to know his son is disgusting like that he doesn’t deserve that. If there at some point find out on their own, it’s on them, but I’m gonna at least give them plausible deniability
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Anon10/18/25, 19:20No.41388510
my mom found out i was trans for certain the same day i started spiro because she opened the package before me and i had to rip it out of her hands. so, negative 20 minutes
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Anon10/18/25, 19:58No.41388811
i started diy hrt when i was 14 (6 years ago) but even though i changed my name and everything i still boymode to my parents when i visit them (they hate trannies and want them to be genocided)
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Anon10/18/25, 20:13No.41388941
the nhs wont give me hrt so i just drink myself to death and stare at my yellowing eyes and beard and 6'2 frame in the mirror with distain
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Anon10/18/25, 20:24No.41389027
-1 year
Wanted them on board before starting hrt to get srs funds up and running asap
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Anon10/18/25, 20:27No.41389056
-10 years hrt?
and again at 3 months?
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Anon10/18/25, 21:23No.41389561
not long reallyi came out to my lesbian aunt like 3 months into hrt, she was chill and still is, she could instantly tell something was up when she first saw me before i told her anything. boymoder glow is real ... ... .then at like 5? months i was heavily pushed into coming out to my mum by my friends and doctor (RLE is needed for legal transition), and i really regretted yielding, because she didn't take it well at all and tried everything to make me detransition, many slurs, threats of ruining my life ...
eventually she gave up and at least supports my studies (sends me 300€ monthly), but is still kinda passive aggressive and misgenders me sometimes, wonder how much she misgenders me behind my back ..she instantly told my sister, who sent me a nice supportive message, and i haven't talked to her much since then, i wanna see her sometime .. she's a few years shy of twice my age and has three kids ..i came out to my dad at 10 months i think? he was surprisingly chill compared to my mum, he used to beat me so i expected him to cut contact, but instead he's been really nice, helped me move, gives me stuff and alimony money more often now .. still misgenders me sometimes, but not on purpose unlike my mum, he's kinda just slowmy cousins and aunt found out through my instagram and they're chill afaik, didn't really talk to cousins yet, but aunt offered to give me her unused clothes <3came out to my homophobic grandma recently (hates my lesbian aunt), and her initial reaction was surprisingly not awful, idk how it'll be in the future thought. 21 yr old eu girlmoder
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Anon10/18/25, 23:16No.41390599
No HRT when I came out.
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Anon10/18/25, 23:18No.41390627
i havent told my dad yet. he can't pick me out of a crowd
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Anon10/19/25, 00:24No.41391242
i waited a year after medically transitioning to come out to my family
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Anon10/19/25, 01:37No.41391869
To my parents like -7 months. I haven't talked to anyone else in my family since then so like 5 years. I come from a shitty city in a third world country and they are mostly hood people, I don't think explaining it to them it's worth my time and emotional effort.They also have no way of contacting me nor do I think they ever cared enough to do it. It's just my parents and I.
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Anon10/19/25, 01:43No.41391936
like 2 years
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Anon10/19/25, 01:51No.41392006
-1.5 years
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Anon10/19/25, 05:04No.41393343
2.25 years and I still haven't
t. boymoder