Anon10/15/25, 14:26No.41357883
any straight ftms with a cis straight gf ? I am a little over 6 months into my first real relationship post-transition. I've been on t for almost 5 years, top surgery 3 years ago, no bottom surgery, stealth. I met this girl while stealth and we were friends for a long time before I told her I was trans, but she knew a long time before we started dating. She's a very normie cis girl who has only ever had experiences with cis guys before, and doesn't even consider herself bicurious. In some ways the relationship has been very "gender affirming" - we take on pretty traditional gender roles, and I know she sees me as a man / we look like your avg straight couple when we walk around (i'm 5'9, she's 5'3). But sex has brought up lots of bottom dysphoria I havent dealt with in years. Typically I use a strap / touch her / eat her out, and for a long time whenever i wanted to cum i would just use a vibrator while touching her or w/e. She felt bad about that though and wanted to learn how to make me cum, and has gotten good enough at oral that I can cum from it reliably. obviously it feels good, but something about it is really unsettling. I have been looking into phallo a lot more recently, but IDK how she would feel about it. Anyone with any experiences like this or T4C relationship that's lasted several years?