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Anonymous09/18/26, 05:46No.2715141DL stories and advice thread
Unpopular opinion, but I actually want to be a DL gay man who cheats on his gf. I used to hookup with guys like this and the sex was wayyy better, so I figure ill continue the tradition. I want to gaslight the shit out of a dumb foid. Any advice for how to do it well?

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Anon09/18/26, 06:13No.2715142
>Any advice for how to do it well?
have money
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Anon09/18/26, 06:54No.2715149
I’m a dumb girl you can use
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Anon09/22/26, 17:19No.2715409
I got with my now-wife shortly after realizing I'm into cock. For a while in the beginning I stayed loyal but after a while I gave in and now I've cheated on her with 8 guys I think, some of them repeatedly.I'm bi really, and I like having sex with her once in a while but she has a very low sex drive due to a medical condition. The other thing is we *could* divorce and I could totally go crazy with guys, but once a certain family member of hers dies she's set to inherit a couple million so there's that.
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Anon09/22/26, 23:26No.2715427
I’m a DL fag who’s been married for a decade. I sucked my first cock just before we got together but I’ve played with my ass and watched gay porn my whole life. But I never really did anything beyond that. I hike we were dating I bottomed for a guy I met and loved it. Since then I’ve fucked and been fucked by a bunch of dudes.First thing. You need to be super careful. STD’s are a thing and gay men spread them with reckless abandon. Be picky and patient. Find a shy dude online. Someone super paranoid and nervous to hook up. Preferably another married dude.
Once you find one, do whatever you need to break the ice and get him comfortable hooking up. I’ve dressed up in lingerie, fucked in the dark, worn masks etc. Once you start hooking up, stick with one dude or maybe two if you’re lucky. Less risky and if he’s into it, you’ll start fucking a lot more in time. You will more than likely find a few false starts. Dudes who will hook up and delete their accounts afterwards, or stop after a few hookups. Eventually you’ll find someone similar.The one I’m currently fucking I had to dress up for. He’d come over and fuck me ass up, never look me in the eye. After a while he started sucking my dick, then flip fucking. Now we hook up all the time. I’m pretty much his booty call and we just do whatever. We only fuck each other and I trust he’s not fucking other dudes so we started going bareback without worry. Can’t tell you how many nuts that man’s shot in my butt before I came home from work.I like the secrecy, the taboo and the rush I get from it all. There’s nothing like chillin with the boys, or hanging with the wife with a slippery asshole full of cum. It’s hot being a closeted faggot.
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Anon09/23/26, 03:20No.2715433
I live in a semi rural area where being openly gay isn't culturally acceptable, it's kind of still a wild west region with heaps of cattle grazing and agriculture. It's sooo common that men have wives and families but have frequent sex with other men. I think it's probably always been that way through time. The raw sexuality of men needs expression and in my experience it's best done with other men. You do have to be careful of STDs though, that's getting worse. Especially with third world immigration bringing syphilis back into our white country when it was all but eradicated. HIV is no longer a problem thanks to Truvada.
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Anon09/24/26, 00:44No.2715456
It's funny that a lot of rural guys seem to sort of live the way I think most men would live, if they didn't have fear of being called gay (or if the term didn't exist, like society previously was).The gays that fought for rights also turned around and screamed that "if you fuck guys, that means you're gay and want to be with men," and I bet so many of these rural guys just do it because it's really easy sex (any man that has sex with another man honestly). An easy mouth, an easy ass, and then you move on.It's too bad some hysterical fag has to run in and be like "no, cause I'M GOD and I decide who people are and what the activities they do means!!11!!"Anyway, DL guys, if you live in the US Mistr is free and provides pRep and Doxy-PEP. And condom's still exist too.If we're gonna blame immigrants for STD's, why they fuck are you moron's fucking anyone who isn't white? It's always like that, it's always someone else fault. Have some self control man!
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Anon09/24/26, 01:06No.2715460
ITT: self-hating fags who spread STIs like wildfire and commit hate crimes once someone finds out they're closeted
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Anon09/24/26, 17:25No.2715498
I hate it but this is my biggest fetish. Nothing turns me on more than a DL married man. Or a guy with a girlfriend.The idea of a group of guys who are all providers, traditional masculine men, all with wives and kids. Then once a month, when the wives are all out shopping or whatever, they meet in the man cave and have wild man sex. Their wives think they’re just “watching the game”, but their husbands are all breeding each other.I could never pull off such a life, it’s very NPC-coded behavior, but I’m sure guys like this exist.

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Anon09/26/26, 00:08No.2715585
I was that guy. I knew I was bi, leaning towards gay, but society told me to marry a woman. I did, had kids, enjoyed sex with my wife. Wanted to have sex with a guy but didn't until she stopped having sex. Started hooking up with guys. For me it was easy because we both worked, she worked retail so that meant nights and weekends, I handled the money in the house and she was not technically literate. I had older kids at my house so had to meet elsewhere, sometimes at other married guys' houses.
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Anon09/27/26, 02:28No.2715706
Met best friend in 2nd grade, around 7th grade he was over at my house every weekend up until 12th grade or so and even then was over often until age 28 or so. Got curious with eachother alot, turns out he really likes to suck dick and take it in the ass, we didn't figure that out instantly this was over a few years but lasted for many years. I guess that makes us Bi but I really dont have any interest in meeting random men. he got a steady GF at 21 but we continued on for years after.
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Anon09/28/26, 02:21No.2715755
I cheat and take cock behind her back. I've always been bisexual, but didn't finally act on it until about a year ago. The deceiving part doesn't really excite me, but it's the reality.It's also a challenge because I'm into pretty sketchy sex, but I take PrEp, have vaccinations, get tested regularly after any bout of activity. I take enough precautions to feel I'm limiting risk while still doing what I enjoy.
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Anon09/29/26, 12:09No.2715870
DL married guys are hot, in a sense that they will grab any opoportunity they can to hook up with you. I've had sex with guys in the trash room of their apartment building while their wife was upstairs, in their car while on a trip to Home Depot, hiking, in the basement of their office building.Occasionally in their home, in their bedroom, on the bed their wife sleeps. Even better wearing his wife's clothes while he fucks me.
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Anon09/30/26, 01:51No.2715921
any married guys have success on mistr with a prep product? where do you get it mailed? my wife is a retail pharmacist, so i hear it from her all the time about how common stds are
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Anon09/30/26, 04:27No.2715926
Does anyone have any advice to find a DL married guy? I live in downtown Chicago, 27 M, pretty fit, kinda short but cute and handsome.Im not a full blown Chad, which makes me think it might be hard.I've already had two married guys reach out to me on Sniffies before, but I didn't go through with it.
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Anon09/30/26, 22:38No.2715986
for any non-closeted guys on here who is also disgusted by closet cases.out them, out all the down-low vermin. make sure that it's all documented so that homophobic right wing groups kill their own closet cases first. Make sure there is no closet remaining. They don't get to hide in there while taking advantage of all the liberty that we had to suffer for and earn. They don't get to have it both ways. They either come out of the closet and help voluntarily, or they get outted so that their safety is just as at-risk as ours is. They don't like that? Maybe they should have had the courage to stand with us in the first place, instead of playing Pick Me from behind the sock drawer.It's like a gay version of the 4B bullshit that korean women are doing.No more closets. For anyone. And the massive spike in Grindr use during Republic conventions is proof that this should have been done all along.
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Anon10/02/26, 16:44No.2716110
I had a wet dream last night about sucking cock, is this is a sign that I should try it
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Anon10/06/26, 14:33No.2716427
I really love my wife and we have great sex, but I still fantasize about having a DL fuckbuddy quite often.
I'm kind of a twink and would love to have some frustrated "bear" type to worship.
Never had any sexual encounters except with my wife though, I don't think I'll actually seek the fantasy out, but I still like to imagine and jerk off. Bought a dildo to suck off a while ago but threw it away after a while because I thought my wife would find it...
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Anon10/13/26, 19:54No.2717085
That's not for me. I can tell you from experience I passed on otherwise very hot guys who were married or just "committed". I actually do think of the children.
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Anon10/16/26, 14:53No.2717257
I matched and chatted with another bi dude in my area who was open about his fantasies with his gf. He honestly was a perfect match because we both were looking for a regular and reliable hookup without having to be scared or awkward.
I ultimately didn't go through with it and deleted Grindr because I didn't want to cheat on my wife.
For whatever reason I think it would feel less wrong if both parties cheat on their wives, as to having a shared secret and mutually assured destruction.
I haven't looked for a unicorn like that since though
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Anon10/17/26, 04:36No.2717290
how do you even get boy toys? It seems impossible outside of online spaces.. :/
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Anon10/19/26, 00:17No.2717454
>me 24, bisexual more twunk than twink.
>met guy online
>he was mid 40s, average build, dad bod and a bit hairy, is in a sexless marriage
>long story short his wife just stopped caring as their marriage went on
>guy was lucky to get head twice a month and even then she is lazy, doesn't swallow, complains if he takes longer than a minute
>don't even ask about the last time he got pussy
>exchange pics, like what we see, meet at my place
>get him a beer then get to work
>pull his cock out of his pants, semi soft
>he's not huge but just right for deep throat
>put his entire soft dick in my mouth and use my tongue to get him hard
>he swells in my mouth until I can't handle it anymore
>proceed to suck him dry multiple times, gently rubbing and kissing his cock/sucking hus balls in between cumshots to get him hard again
>swallow every time
>on his 3rd and final shot he forces himself down my throat fully and holds me there while he twitches and squeezes my head with his thighs
>he makes me jerk myself off then lick my fingers cleanWe've done this twice and I think he's finally ready to fuck me. I've been fucking my hole with a dildo for the last few days refusing to touch myself other than my nipples. To say I need him inside me is an understatement. There's something so hot knowing im giving him what his wife never could.
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Anon10/22/26, 11:32No.2717656
>23 at the time, openly gay, live with boyfriend
>visit my father in elderly apartment complex, bring him groceries, etc...
>one day a friend of his is visiting. say hi and chat
>guy is older, married, retired but his wife still works
>when I'm leaving he says he'll walk out with me
>when we're alone he comes right out and asks if I'd mind sucking his cock
>no sex with his wife and could really use some help
>feel bad even considering it. he's married, I have a BF but he's practically begging me
>agree and go to his place
>guy is eager, pants down as soon as we walk in
>nice average cut cock. even though he's older, it's rock hard
>he has a belly and it's tough to really get to his cock so I had him stretch out on his bed
>go to town and a few minutes later he unloads in my mouth
>he's really grateful. says he hasn't gotten anything in 10+ years
>asks if I can see him again
>hate myself for saying yes
>start hooking up with him on the regular
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Anon10/23/26, 15:01No.2717735
I have had my gf now for about 4 years and living with her for 2. Been cheating on her for 3. Since we have been together I have fucked at least 20 twinks on the side. It is super easy to cheat and not get caught, especially if you have a job that requires some sort of travel. The hardest part is staying clear of STDs. I usually stick to young guys, 18-25, they typically haven't been with as many guys yet and have a lower chance of having something. And I will not breed them unless they can prove they are on Prep, otherwise I use condoms. I will probably marry my gf, and want kids with her. I do not intend on stopping seeing guys on the side though. Yes, me gf and I do still have a decent sex life, we will usually fuck 2-4 times a month.