Anon01/06/26, 11:39No.11451389
Consentacle is 100% the way tentacle sex would realistically go, especially with seedbeds.Rough enough to mindbreak or drug use would endanger the mom and/or child, and with the usually stationary nature of tentacle monsters they absolutely cannot afford that.Also proper care and good morale lead to better pregnancies with less complications, so it's in their best interest to maintain proper relationships with their seedbeds.Even from a cold practical standpoint the tentacles would definitively evolve away from rape, at least to prevent seedbed casualties/infertility and pregnancy complications (also, basing it on consent means there will probably be less adventurers trying to slay the evil rape monster and free the women). From there on it would only be a matter of time until they evolve genuine warmth and love for their wives.
Hell, if the tentacles cannot move and have faithful enough wives, the wives can probably be allowed to go to a town to trade and talk about how well they're treated, hopefully converting other women. Voluntary seedbed might even become some sort of prostitution, instead of being paid the women would have all their needs taken care of until the child is born.
